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cococandy:
If you can't see the relationship,
no need for this discussion.

By the way no one is saying patriarchy is the fault of men. Women take part in establishing it and of course abusing it too. So by admitting that, I think we've at (least some of us) taken responsibility.

MizMyColi:
Stop rhyming, this is not rap section

Wait, what if the tables were turned?
What if the same qualities apply and this time Emeka isn't just 3, 4, 5 years older, but 15!

What'd be your take?

Stillfire:
Patriarchy made women to think of themselves as passive, weak and that is why they fear to go against culture even if it's not rewarding to them. In fact it is akin to the slave mentality affecting black people today.
The passive trait is just for the patriarchal society not to see them as the rebellious, non-virtuous woman.
So Patriarchy is still to blame for every damn thing wrong in Africa today, lol. Bite me.

cococandy:
Don't mind coogar.
He knows.

Stillfire:
Even Jay Z also took up Beyonce's last name...
There are men and there are men. Jay Z is the man.

Shymm3x:
Coogz, I've got a perfect tune for ya wedding - the video just came out today.

I've never seen Usher sing to something that looks like a live band - greatness!

Stillfire:
Where are the guys that often feign ignorance when we talk about culture disrespecting the place of a wife and women being accomplices and enablers of these kind of degrading institutions? As in this case, it's the women that are bitching and still want to practice this in the 21st century.

How did the chic even have the mouth to tell someone older than her to call her Aunty? At least fear will catch me small.

Mbkite:
Cynthia has almost all that Emeka wants in a woman. She(cynthia) scored 9 on a scale of 10 based on the qualities he(Emeka) has outlined for a future wife. She is educated, caring, decent, religious, hardworking, supportive and respectful. The only challenge Emeka is having is Cynthia's age, she is 33 while he is 29. He is just afraid of the unknown and the possible consequences of this age factor. Emeka really wants to settle down with Cynthia.
Matured advice please.

2CatWoman:
Baby, there was nothing ignorant or foolish about my post. People who hate the west that much should have the courage of their convictions to return home and preserve their heritage.

mrsmith11:
There is a friend of mine who is in his Mid thirties,he lives
and work in the northern part but originally from
the south. His fiancee is 29,lives in the south,she is in 400level doing a 5yrs course. During xmas holiday in 2013 when my friend went home his fiancee took in before he went back to the north so they both agree to keep the baby. She gave birth almost end of last year so my friend took her away from school hostel and got her an apartment.

My friend said his salary is about 90k per month so he do send them 50k at end of the month for the upkeep of the fiancee and baby while spend a minimum of 30k for his housing,transport and feeding.

Now the problem is the family of the girl are talking seriously about marriage (paying of bride price). He is confuse that how long can he save 10k a month to a reasonable amount of money to go and do the necessary thing

He want suggestions or advice

AdeLaNa1:
Hwfar wit ur Bundesliga TOTS player hunt?? Me i've been unlucky so far.

AdeLaNa1:
La Liga TOTS

KevinDein:
Francistony kinda guys.... lol

aka real men mugus lmfao

danbrowndmf:
ok.tnx.....
This is word play "I come 1st on every track u can call me usan bolt/jesus mode i'm working on the walter i'm not Using boat/Usan bolt"

if the above using boat and usan bolt is word play then please gv me an example of entendre.

elampiro:

And you think I am just getting to know this?

There is no confusion. You are the confusion.

I think you should take my advise I have given you over time that you should be consistent with your source of Assist data (whether OPTA or EPL/EUFA) and stick with it throughout the length of an argument, and even if you were to switch from opta to another, you should make it very clear that you have switched.

It doesn't make sense after having used opta for several pages, then I say 'PLAYER A' has 12 Assists, you will come to say'player B,C,D,E' have 18 Assists each without stating the fact that you have switched from opta to grandnut and kuilikuili data.

danbrowndmf:
What the difference between double entender and Word play please give me with examples(though i understand wordplay perfectly,buh d entender is confussing)
help me out Darkrebel666 and coogar

American actress Zoe Saldana has responded to criticism following her husband's decision to adopt her surname after marriage. It's usually women who take their partner's name - but are things changing?

Kimoni:
What she earns or does with it is a non-issue and nobody's business but hers, as long as she is fulfilling her wifely duties at home

His wife's pay has nothing to do with his headship. His pay and ability to provide is what makes him the head.

Kimoni:
It didn't disappear, he is taking care of his wife, other half, his family.

And guess what, he won't lose weight, she will be doing all the cooking for him

Definitely! he is the head Coogar, always remember that.

Kimoni:
. ....l know
He won't go and ask for the reminder - that would be demeaning

He would go as far as he can go with his 370k, if she is not satisfied with the standard of what his 370k can afford, she would then support in her personal capacity. Surely, there can't be a more supportive wife than this naa

Kimoni:
Now you are talking. God bless you brother!

Kimoni:
I still don't agree with this part...

he should be responsible for the total upkeep, but of course as far as his salary can go.

If the standard is not up to what she desires(most likely it won't), she is then free to make any adjustments from her personal pay.

Kimoni:
She encouraged him cuz she liked him(no crime in that) but it doesn't absolve him of his responsibilities.

Kimoni:

Coogar, my money is my money; his money is our money. That's the recipe for a good marriage.

If you must marry the boss, you must be ready to maintain the boss

Kimoni:


She must have feminist tendencies to agree to this, this is not a traditional setting

Woged2005:
not really- they both worked on several projects together which brought them in close contact with each other to notice and admire salient qualities. the close collaboration led to "hi, how are you?" friendship, to having happy hours after work, to real friendship, to exchange of visits, to cautious secret dating, now to romantic relationship. Also bear in mind that the guy is older and even though he is lower in office position and education he exudes confidence, charisma and usually takes charge. This is a quality most 'strong' women fall for- a man that takes charge of situations. Honestly if you yank off the power skirt suits from any professional woman, there is a 'little girl' that yearns for attention, love, protection, and pampering. One thing this man does to my friend is he is not in competition with her at all and never feel insecure/intimidated around her. Outside office he takes charge as a man and the 'little girl' in her comes out. You can see that when they are together.

And he doesn't brag to his colleagues about what he does to her in privacy to feel big-----for us ladies that sucks

cococandy:
Exactly

crackhaus:
You sure about that?

SailorXY:
lol... I don't think Varane is the 'leader' we need tho

Iceskidd:
i know but they fought during the UW high stakes annihilation event. And john has been wanting a battle

Iceskidd:
can't wait for hollow to roast him though

SailorXY:
was the "adidas cheque" considered before we got tagged the most valuable club? I think we should wrap up deals quickly, no player will wait for us

SailorXY:
Schneiderlin camp says there has been no contact from Manchester United concerning the player!

*wow*
so these rumors na just walkabout!