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ifyalways: ^Does it matter?They both enjoyed the good times so its fair enough.lol

of course - it matters.
he took advantage of the babe's vulnerability and the babe readily succumbed
because of her condition.

[quote author=Mr_TA]Baba just showing that he's human. We've all moaned about Berbatov in the past but freezing him out of the squad was never required. There are several matches this season where he would have been great for us alas we dont have he to call upon. Wouldnt mind seeing Michael Owen at this rate.[/quote]26 Dec 2011
Dimitar Berbatov scores hat-trick as Manchester United humble Wigan

ifyalways: Help the lady(the son indirectly) as much as you can but please erase the thoughts of "making the boy yours' off ya head.You cannot adopt him either.People with GFs without baggages spend for weave,clothes,shoes etc so you can as well see whatever you spend on the boy as money for his moms upkeep.

If you cant,you have the option of opting out.she would meet someone else . . .same for you

opt out after sampling her for several months?
how are we sure this wasn't his plan from the word go?

davidylan: find another woman, you're too young to carry another man's burdens. That child will never be yours regardless of any papers you sign.

don't mind that dude. he wants to sign papers as if that guarantees anything.
if the father does not come for the boy later, the boy would go to him.
every individual seeks the truth after a while and it wouldn't matter if you had
spent $5 billion on the child.

you should have put all these things into consideration before jumping into the
relationship.

agabaI23: May be but you have to agree that his selections recently have been as effective as an erect c0ck in an oiled arsehole and it will remain like that until a tear occurs

he takes risks - i'll give him that but he won't last the distance.
week 34 to week 36 is a bit tricky.
it would be a test of his managerial nous. i am confident he would be found
wanting then.

on the other hand, the chasing packs must stay as close as possible to the top
to take advantage of ibime's slip.
my bet is on him to finish 3rd/4th.

agabaI23: You have done really well for yourself. It takes one bad game week to crash!

the competition is stiff. expect ibime to return back to his natural position(4th)
by gameweek 36.

andromida: i have a close friend who is breaking my heart, i do not know the particular type of drug he abuses but it seems to be some kind of pills.It is affecting him and he can not function properly.

he has been to a rehab home before came out and was able to function for 3yrs only recently he has started hallucinating and becoming very aggressive. It seems all he thinks about is how to get high. I think he should go back to rehab but how can he be completely weaned off this bad habit.

we have to know what he abuses before knowing how to help. . . .

Goldieluks: The woman is WRONG because,

1. she did it without her husband's consent.
2. she even hid it from her husband,allowing him to find out by himself.
3. she actually drew it in her most private body parts. Gosh!!
4. she disregarded her husband's view and dislike for tattoos,and still went ahead to surprise him with it.

I think she is a ho(sorry OP). No married woman in her right state of mind would go ahead to
disrespect her husband by doing what her husband detest most, now ladies don't give me that
21st century bull.shit, if you cannot respect your spouse, then don't even think of getting married
in the first place.

the woman is a trifling ho - the husband should drive her back to her father's house.
she must not come back until she peels the tattoo off her skin.

krech: i do not understand all the other poster's are writing here but i support you on your worries and fears as regards the boy. If she is calling you bad for your suggestion please let her be because ladies like that are not realistic they believe so much in the make believe word that if you love them you must sacrifice your all for them, but know this when it comes to them i'm not sure they will do the same for you. So keep your ground if she doesnt agree to your reasons then let her go.

it peeves me when grown ups spew the nonsense you just spewed above.

the poster told us the girl never lied about her baby. she was honest about her baggage from the word go.
for feck's sake, the poster should have known the issue of paternity, dealing with a baby father and the
baggage that come with it, etc were always going to be imminent till the end of time.

yet, he still pressed ahead cos no woman has made him feel the way he feels with the girl.
now he's neck deep in the relationship and he suddenly wants out or giving the girl some
idiotic conditions about the welfare of the baby. if all step fathers think like him, the world
would be a shittier place than it is presently.

4llerbuntu: and bo y do u people complain much!!!!!

haha, see whining. abeg make una wake up jo. 5 pts clear, on would think u just went 5 behind

we are man utd - we don't accept mediocrity/failure like you gaynners!
5 pts clear is not the point. the manner by which the points were lost is the main issue.
i would accept defeat @ wigan if half of the squad were injured or down with stroke. . .

but to piss away 3 points with scholes/rafael/berbatov and other stalwarts fit is unforgivable!

meetmeonline: Just when I needed a friend, I requested for one in a public medium, a good number of girls responded but one of them won; she bluntly revealed that she had a baby out of wedlock. I got interested in this girl that could be so open and bold in telling the truth from day one because I felt if she could do this then I must be in for a transparent relationship.

We made arrangements and met each other after a while of phone romance. Her appearance and style was a little away from what I wanted but by this time, the connection was already done and she was already living in me. This time, I discovered that this girl (of early twenties) was still a nursing mother and had her breast still milking but I was strong in my heart to love her no matter the sight, I was learning to marry for-better-for-worse and could still fire the relationship.

I pretend not to hear her friends say “babe how you manage catch this one!” when she introduced them to me and this made me press her hard to my chest and sometimes kiss her to make her proud and make them die of envy.

Do not see me as an “anything-goes” kind of guy because “T” (not to call her name here) is truly a nice girl and have handled me the way no woman has and for a good time, makes me enjoy being in a relationship. I have done every investigation and trailing to catch her cheating on me but have found her innocent. She takes her time whenever she serves my meal and cheers me up me when I am depressed. One would say she did this for her status but I tell you she was still young and sound enough to be resold even if taken to the show glass (sorry for this statement).

She got pregnant for a guy and got seriously battered by guilt, regret and heartbreak when this young man (living in the same town) never showed up or took her calls from early pregnancy and till date. His reason for doing this was that he wanted an abortion which she refused.

Our relationship has lasted a while now and we have gotten so close to each other that I do not see any other girl. My love for her has made me see this infant as my own son and think of his welfare even while at the office. She calls to tell me when she had just fed him and reports every slight fever he develops to me first before anyone else. Whenever she is to return to campus, she leaves him at her home but if she was with him, I play the role of the father (away from town).

I am not ashamed to go out with a girl of this mishap because the peace I find in “running her package” (sorry for this language) is just one I have yearned for all my life. When you have a girl that calls in to say “good morning”, realizes when you are tired and needed to rest by just phone conversation and would reject taking a drink for herself at a bar but to share yours, then you overlook every other thing that colors her black.

Now, this is the real matter:
This boy is now schooling and this has suddenly gotten her broke. She now gets so desperate when it is time to pay his fees and I no longer find this funny. I once spent a whole bedtime thinking if I should opt into taking over his fees and making him my son but this will take a good percentage of my income and there are also some other strong reasons that has held me back ever since
1. I must not fall into an illusion that this is my son, he was not adopted by us, he has his father only hanging around the corner.
2. The fact that her ex-man demanded an abortion passes a message to me that he acknowledged this is his seed.
3. There is no court in the world where I will win a case later if he came back for his boy.
4. The family of this guy have also remained mute and pretend they do not know about the matter but since they live not far from this girls home, I suspect they have quietly marked his birth and are monitoring.

I fear for all the above reasons because I am well aware that anything can happen tomorrow and this same boy everyone rejects today may become the bone of contention at that time. Please forgive me if I say I do not want to have him partly but all of him or none.

I have come to like this baby boy so much and ready to sacrifice for him but common! I cannot sit and watch another guy (whom I may even be more fertile than) stand to my face and call me a thief over his son.

She is still mad at the neglect she gets from this family and vows to cater for him till university even without them. This pressure on her is beginning to destroy the shattered heart I fought to restore, the gladness I succeeded in putting in her lips and beauty all her friends thanked me for.

She is beginning to see me as heartless (forgetting I am only innocent) all because I have stood grounds on my decision on this boy’s welfare.
I have given her an option to take the boy to his paternal grandparents and present him to them and upon denying him, I draw an agreement to have the baby’s father and his parents sign that the baby has been adopted by my me irreversibly and this agreement cannot be revoked by any court or law and when this is done, he automatically becomes my first son as I sign to cater for him till adulthood. But she has called me “bad” by thinking like this, saying that she is sure they will not sign it.

I want you all to tell me how I have faulted in this matter and give me a direction on how to go from here. Kindly “read only” and do not make any comments if you have any playful or negative feedbacks as I hope to obey what the majority go for.

Professionals in Law, Medicine and even Relationship, please comment
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you cannot eat your cake and have it, bro!
since you have accepted to marry this girl, her baggage becomes yours. even if she has had 10 children, you
are now their father and you must take responsibility for their life bills. don't whine about the possibility
of the father coming back after 30 years. you should have factored that before going ahead with the relationship
in the first place!

slimyem: sneaky stuff-most exciting!

more [i]o[/i]rgasmic!
i would never pass up the opportunity to nail any chic on her father's bed.
heavens would be angry at me if i don't oblige such requests.

montelik: Didn't watch the game, but I totally expected that result either tonight or on Sunday after we went 8 points ahead. Since 2001 United teams have developed the habit off starting the season slowly, then coming to form in the middle of the season, before moving away at the top of the league toward the end of the season. But there is usually a period right at the back end of the season (last 4-8 games left), when after chasing, overhauling and building a decent gap. Almost like it was programmed in our typical "never do it the easy way" approach, we give a few lifeless performances dropping points and making the ending more nervous than needed. Every season we've done it when ahead in the final quarter, in 09/10 season it cost us dearly.

my problem with fergie is why did scholes/rafael not travel?
at least stick them on the bench in case something goes wrong.
the defensive quartet doing the business at the back have been constant for some games now.
he changed it tonight and we lost. it's not like we are involved in the fa cup or in europe.

[quote author=Mr_TA]I'll always respect Giggs and Scholes as players but really, they need to retire this summer. Permanently. PLEASE.

Giggs in particular.[/quote]giggs cost us the game. it was like only carrick playing in the central midfield.
united's creativity(especially when scholes is not playing) is from the flanks.
the plan is to get most of the passes directed to the flanks isolating valencia with a full back
or isolating young with the other full back.

i did not see valencia one v one with a full back throughout the game.
and this is because giggs who's the creative midfielder did nothing from the centre.
and when united had the best chance in the first half, giggs attempted a senseless flick
instead of controlling the ball in the box and playing a proper pass.

his possession stats stink to the high heavens, he contributed nothing offensively
and defensively. a pathetic 77% pass completion compared to carrick's 93%
carrick contributed 19 passes out of 20 attempted in the final third whilst giggs
completed a woeful 11 passes of the 21 he attempted in the final third.

abeg, giggs must retire. he had no shot on target, no shot off target.

united never make things easy and that's fergie's fault.
he didn't have rafael n scholes on the bench to change things.
the team selection cost us again. and after 1-0, with giggs covered up in shyte, fergie left
him on the pitch.

we were chasing a goal, he took rooney off n left giggs on the pitch.
the most ridiculous decision ever!!!
i cannot think of a title chase that united haven't lost a game cheaply.
i hope ryan giggs retire after tonight.

ogbeche77: Dat was a clean goal from Moses... Whats all this nonsense officiating of late?

david de gea was impeded!
goalies get no protection when obstructed.
if it was a full-back that stood in the way of a winger knocking the ball past him, it would be a foul.
why would a player who's not interested in heading the ball stand in front of a goalie?


we conceded a cheap goal!
giggs has been piss-poor, so has evra, rooney, etc.
the referee gave wigan a corner that shouldn't have been.
i won't complain - these decisions even out!

what a miss by dortmund.
that woulda been the icing on the cake.

full-time, bayern munich sodomized by dortmund(again)!!!

dayokanu: Penaltyy

Robben misses

overrated piece of shyte.
misses a penalty in the biggest game in the bundesliga so far. . .where's his cojones?
arjen robben can never ever be a world class player. too inconsistent!


and he misses a sitter from 2 yards again.

bayern pulverised - finally!

dortmund would murder bayern.
damn - see counter attacking football. . . .ronaldo would roast these players
in the next champions league tie.

dayokanu: Ohhh. I should mention Chelsea who is even below those I mentioned? What next i should mention Blackburn too?

When I've said Bill Gates is richer than Dangote and you still expect me to say Bill gates is richer than Wizkid?

Oh Lord that distributes common sense, Do not forget coogar?

but the same chelsea(who is even below those you mentioned) are a tie away from playing in the european final.
how shitty must the league be for a 5th placed chelsea team rubbing minds with table-toppers of the big european leagues?
as you can see, common sense has evaded you once again.

did you really think i mentioned chelsea just because they have a pleasant name? you obnoxious w@nker!

dayokanu: 8 points clear of who? Hopeless Man city, Assnal, Spuds or who?

8 points clear of fellow useless clubs

why didn't you mention chelsea?
scared to mention them? selective amnesia?

[quote author=tpia@]and when they get pregnant out of wedlock, or have abortions/stds etc before marriage, who heaps all the shame, guilt and malice on them?[/quote]the same mothers who fail to train them properly. why not tell them the truth?
babe - don't have indiscriminate sex. . . .if you must do, use condoms.
criminalizing it is the reason young females get pregnant anyhow. young people are often attracted to forbidden things.

the same johnbulls who walk around randomly looking for silly girls who will answer their 419 questions.

so who am i supposed to ask questions? an educated man would always be attracted to a girl who looks educated.
it's not illegal to ask harmless questions. don't write your own constitution.

is there any street which has only young girls walking on it? Why must the girls be the ones responding to armed robbers and boko haramists looking for directions? There's nobody else there who can answer questions?

why mustn't they? aren't they part of the society at large?
do you want us males to consider women as animals?

okwubanego580: A very good friend of mine where we had gone to do drinks, all of a sudden raised a question, asking: would you sleep with your gf in her fathers house? When i asked him why the question, he said his gf whenever he visits her and there's no one around, would grab his asss for intimacy. At first, he condemned the idea, explaining to the babe that it is not a good thing to have her laid in her father's house. But the babe had always told him it doesn't matter. My guy is battling with his conscience over this issue and would want a genuine advice. Please NL guys, do you think this does not really matter and would you do it assuming your gal insists?

your guy is a spineless wimp!
if her father is not around, i would do it on her father's bed.
the adrenaline rush i get from doing something that daring is what cranks up the excitement factor.

991: I have noticed this incorrect social behaviour of young women towards men. When you stop a girl to ask her maybe the name of a street or the house No. you are looking for, she would first look at you from head to toe then walk away snobbishly, and some of them wouldn’t even give you attention. Just yesterday I was lost in a strange location and I tried asking passers-by to give me direction to my destination, I got the worst snub of my life-time just for asking for help.
The first person I saw was a girl in her late 20s I said ‘hello excuse me’ she just glanced at me and walked away, so embarrassing and I wonder why they have this rude behaviour towards men?

blame the culture/system. naija babes are easily the most poorly-trained female adolescents in the world.
they have been trained to run from men as a man's touch is enough to get them pregnant. so what do you
expect these babes to do when approached by men? it's their way of life. the only time a naija babe would
readily give you audience is when you appear "rich" and there's something to be taken from you.

dayokanu: Getting your groove back in a lame league? Even hopeless Assanal and Chelski got their groove back

yes, and arsenal/chelsea are on top of the table, aren't they?

dayokanu: How many years ago was that? 4 freaking years To win their biggest prize ever, They had to drop Torres to the bench, even in qualifiers they rooted him to the bench, With Villa injured the talk is about playing with Soldado, Llriente and others

he played for them during the world cup, didn't he? was that 4 yrs ago?
any player can be dropped for the national team - that's no biggie. . .

The ones he slipped, were those not examples of chances served to him which he wasted? the open nets he wasted are those not services?

that's not laying it on the plate. laying it on the plate was the kinda goal cisse scored against bolton.
ameobi's cross, cisse's finish from 2 yards. if a player has to run 50 miles to score a goal - it's not on the plate.

The 2 chances he slipped on Saturday, they were served in a cup?

see above!

2006 is how many years ago? In case you dont know Cannavaro, Zidane, Ronaldinho were the hottest players in 2006

scholes, giggs, rooney, puyol, xavi, casillas, etc were top players then and they are still top players now.
so it renders your argument useless.

Name how many 34yr old still strike for TOP teams. Drogba is too old to be a reliable striker
Despite Drogbas age, He has profited from the same assist from Mata

he's scored from set-pieces too. you cannot rule that out.
apart from adding to the goals tally, it also boosts confidence.
are you too daft to process that? scoring from 12 yards when a striker is having a drought is a confidence booster.
lampard's last 3 goals were from the penalty spot.

How has a 34yr old Drogba been able to score 9 goals in 30 hours while FernaDUD has only copped 7 goals from 45hrs of play
Both getting supplies from the same midfielders

how has berbatov(31 yrs of age) being able to score 7 goals from 5 starts and aguero(23 yrs of age) has 17 goals in 25 starts?
you epitomise daftness!

dayokanu: Now you are blaming brainless Sturridge, kalou, Ramirez and Lampard, This was the same striker who failed with Xavi, Iniesta, Fabregas Busquets the best midfieders in the game

he didn't fail them when his only goal won it for spain against #cough cough# germany!

We have analysed why his shots per games are low and as evidence from the last games He is culpable cos he gets those chances and manages somehow to NOT convert them to shots.

he doesn't get the chances! chelsea's midfielders simply don't pass to torres.
i have told you the number of crosses sturridge has copped all season in comparison to the other wingers.

Torres too had two good chances laid on a plate for him vs Wigan, If that was Cisse it ould have been at least 2 shots possibly 2 goals BUT with Torres the stats read "2 SLIPS from 2 passes"

chances laid on a plate? torres?
it's impossible. chelsea don't lay them on a plate.

Why should Torres be taking them when he doesnt have the skill to take them nor have the guts to take them.

a cursory glance at youtube would tell you torres took penalties for spain(world cup 2006) and in athletico madrid.
did he suddenly lose the ability to score from 12 yards or your brain-fart trigger is on rampage again?

Drogba is old. How many top teams have a 34yr old (African) striker in their books. In a normal club Drogba should be mentoring younger players not still playing but since Torres failed Chelsea had to look to Drogba for goals

di natale is still ruling the roost in spain. drogba is not old.
don't be surprised if the same drogba scores 25 league goals next season.
was he old in 2008/9 when he scored 5 league goals in 24 apps for chelsea?
are you a simpleton?

Chelsea bought Juan mata who has 11 assists already, Why is Torres not profiting from Matas numerous assists? while other players are?
34yr old Drogba has scored a couple of goals from Matas assist yet Fernandud keeps complaining there are no wingers ?
Juan Mata that has 11 assists plays for which club?

this is why arguing with you is tedious? you are too obtuse to reason properly.
mata is a chief set-piece taker. . . .and if drogba/torres have only scored 8 goals combined then it goes to show
80% of mata's assists did not go to the strikers.

mata takes a corner, terry heads it in(mata gets the assist)- mata's shot from outside the box hits the post n ramirez scores on a rebound(mata gets the assist).
look at the heatmap. torres even plays deeper than mata/sturridge n lampard. after being starved of quality delivery,
he roams deep to go look for the ball.

this is why torres has made 22 key passes n sturridge(winger) has made only 18 key passes. who should have more?
surprise surprise, sturridge has copped 1885 league mins to torres' 1523 league mins
valencia has 40 key passes(1659 mins), downing-51 key passes, young - 24 key passes. can you see clearly now?

this is why i compared valencia with sturridge(none of them is a set piece taker) and yet valencia floors sturridge.
it's not surprising welbeck, rooney have scored as many goals as they have recorded - the supporting cast is selfless.
unlike in chelsea where lampard n co are brainless.