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Trex4:
Forget guys, relationships are a losing game for men. Imagine spending weeks and months to convince a girl to be yours. Doing all sorts of stuff, buying her things and trying to impress her.

When she finally agrees what do you gain? A burden that forces you to pay for her stuff, give her upkeep, try to maintain that image and frame. But what do you get in return? Just sex that both of you enjoy and some other useless crap. If you look hard enough it's just a societal matrix that pushes men to get into relationships when there's no gain at all.

This might sound weird but I really don't want to be attracted to women anymore. (Also I don't want to be Gay). Just want to be on my own. Women these days have very little to offer and I'm not saying that due to misogyny. Next year is going to be a fire year cause I've outlined a lot of stuff I need to do to improve my spiritual and physical well-being.

Although trying to stop being attracted to women will be hard due to the natural effects of hormones and some other biochemical crap but I believe it's possible. Your thoughts?

Whenever I find myself catching feelings, I simply go over to MGTOW teachings. Especially when that pussy was fire

It's not me they'll use sweet sex to tie

Meanwhile, Godwin on Top Radio FM just said a coach has been appointed. He'll be in Cameroon but he won't be on the bench. He said we should take that to the bank.

TheGoodJoe:

Let us not pretend like this is close to my preferred choices. That is why I said do it right, not just throw names.

Sabotaging a process does not mean the process failed. It means those that sabotaged it are scared of its success.

Like I said earlier bro, no hassels. It's the same script all over again. I've watched this happen numerous times, in many sectors of this nation. No one ever listens, they feel like they know it all.
Nowadays I just sit and watch shit blow up. It's all I can do.

TheGoodJoe:

Can you tell me what made Rhor the light age?

Lol. Bro, Rohr is out. No need for long talks.
Now let's see what our local tactical geniuses are capable of

CaveAdullam:
On a norms, I know this post doesn't worth my reply because it reeks of emotional vituperations, ad hominems and low pragmatism. However, I will for the sake of readers and followers to know how to observe and try their best possible to determine the various ways an order/phenomenon can occur rather than, stick to a particular narrative and run amok with it without considering other underlying sheets. No man is an Island of knowledge, we know and share in parts. OK?

In the post you quoted, I mentioned "we don't know the whole narratives", meaning that apart from the two claims that you're making: (a) that he caught his bride cheating and (b) forced marriage, which of course you've not proven to be true beyond reasonable doubt and in addendum to my former post, there might be other narratives which are:

1. Perhaps, the whole scenario was a prank.

2. Perhaps, it might be a movie show.

3. Perhaps, the family of the groom are against the marriage and in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

4. Perhaps, the family of the bride are against the marriage, so in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

5. Perhaps, the groom is against the marriage, hence he needed to act that way to forestall the progress of the union.

6. Perhaps, the bride is against the marriage and poisoned the drink/food of the groom so that she can prove a point.

7. Perhaps, the groom is suffering from a psychological problem. Etc.

There might be other narratives we still don't know, hence, we must thread carefully before hastily coming into any conclusion. And not in only this matter but other matters as well.

Are you gonna consider the above too or continue to cry me a river?

Have a nice day too.

Thanks.

LMFAO. Dude, is shaming your only form of rebuttal? First you call the man a tantrum throwing child, then you go ahead to call me emotional. Do you really think calling me emotional would put me down? Oh my God

I also noticed that you edited your initial comment after I had already replied you. Why did you do that?

But you're right though? I AM EMOTIONAL and I have zero shame about that. ZERO!!! Emotions make me human.

I am emotional when I see men in pain
I am emotional when I see men in agony
I am emotional when I see men shaming men for being emotional
I am emotional when men don't stand up for men
I am emotional when men are shamed for not living up to unreasonable standards that were put in place to keep men mute and sacrificial.

But then again I'm also lazy when it comes to writing (I've said this many times here) so let's leave it here cos I won't reply further.

But remember, you don't need to be in someone's position to understand his pain. Women support women all day every day even when they're wrong. It won't take you or anyone for that matter anything to support your fellow man, especially when there's a reasonable possibility/explanation.

Peace

Isaacmacdon:
Pretty impressive opinion..

Women are masters of deception.

They'll say, "A real man will walk away".

Let's the fair, it's not easy to do that under such circumstance.
Like, the many years of investment, care, love, etc.


Nonetheless, he didn't hit the woman. That's the point.

Restraint is a hoax. We're humans with emotions and animalistic tendencies.

It takes someone with grit and hard-work to just walkaway if he found out she was cheating on him same day he wanted to get married to her.


Others would've beaten her to pulp, which is well deserved in my opinion.

He simped; everyone has at some point in time.

He's forgjven. There's enough room to accommodate a new intake into the redpill family.

I hope he gets liberation.

He'll find peace.

Exactly my point. He didn't hit the woman. He transferred his aggression instead to objects. Take a look at the woman's face; that's a look of guilt. She knows what she did.

It's one thing for simps and feminists to shame him, but it's another thing for a redpill advocate to tow that same path. You should be able to understand his pain and forget all that talk about being manly and responsible.

The only way for that guy to get peace of mind would be to get a divorce but you know how Arab families (I assume cos of the background music) are. They rarely get divorced. They have very controlling parents.

The guy might even end up hurting himself in the future. That's my fear.

daveP:
This kinda gamble should never be happening in a WCQ year atall.

Now all of a sudden, chasing shadows is an nig option already cos Afcon might be an experiment and WCQ may never be in the bag either, which would further glorify Rohr if any one of such two scenarios happen.

Smh

We never learn as a people. I am tired. God knows I am.

daveP:
My fear be say make Orubebe version 3 no come get Football version o.

Rohr-Gej

New Coach-Buhari...


E go pain.


This fear is legit cos not only Crazy Things ate happening, but This is Nigeria!!

That's exactly what's gonna happen. Believe that.

So we're back to the dark ages I see.
Hmmm, interesting :

CaveAdullam:
Whatever he is called, he deserves it! Even if he's not considered as an adult in his single life, at least going into the marriage institution already portrays him as one. Since he's old enough to get married, therefore, it means that he should be old enough to make quality decisions that will not jeopardize his life in the long run. From the video, we can't really decipher the whole narratives, however, from the short clip, the man is at the wrong side.

He knows already that this holy matrimony has its foundation on a desecrated ground but yet choose to go in. Why? We don't know! But it is better he had shunned it---the marriage union, and stand on his ground rather than start behaving like a convulsing toddler in an occasion that has the presence of people that respects and hold him in high esteem.

This reaction from my Gee is a no no.

Thanks.

It's funny how you go from 'we don't know the whole narratives' to you judging the guy just because he displayed his aggressive side.
What's the difference between you and those thirsty ass simps on the streets who rush after a man who's quarrelling with his spouse. No one tries to hold the woman who's running her mouth like a water faucet or is even trading blows with him.

Women are allowed to be as rude and aggressive as they want but when a guy finally snaps after possibly years of restraint, he gets ridiculed. He gets shamed by men like you whose only concern is what a man should and shouldn't do. Paying allegiance to a bar set by society to extort and manipulate the very builders of that same society. What does that make you?

You shame his level of maturity because he threw the wine bottle on a rug covered floor and tried to tip over the cake stand. He didn't even beat the lady but you shame him anyway. What's the difference between you and other simps who are experts in shaming men for likes and online validation?

Have you thought of the possibility that he probably found out on the wedding day that the girl cheated, he then told his parents who despite all evidence, adamantly said he would get married anyway? Listen to the music in the background. That indicates they're probably an Arab family. We all know how they are about arranged marriages.



You talk about the sanctity of marriage and respecting his guests. Do you really think women give a horse's ass about any of that? Jesus Christ, dude. Stop being a puppet . Open your eyes man.

Once a woman knows you hold something in high regard, SHE WILL use that against you. Don't tell me you're one of those guys who stand moping when their wives/girlfriends are busy decorating their faces with slaps. Even with their long fingernails scratching your face and your expensive shirt looking all rumpled from the incessant dragging, you keep quiet anyway because you don't want to be seen as unmanly.

You'd rather have your dignity wash away before your very own eyes. You allow your illusions of manliness keep you subservient to the female narrative. Guys like you are easy to manipulate because they know you'll never do anything to tarnish your values.



You're a man (at least I think you are) and I respect your opinions on this thread. A LOT.
But shaming a man just because he goes against your illusions of marriage and because he's offending who you think he shouldn't be offending is a no no for me. You should know better(as you're a man).

Have a nice Monday. Peace.

If a woman is aggressive, she was triggered.
If a man is aggressive, he's a violent, misogynistic, piece of shit.

This is the stupid logic these whiteknights, feminists and monkey ass simps want to feed us. Watch the video of the wedding in the link below. Very few people could sense that it was probably a case of an arranged marriage or that he possibly just found out that she cheated. These are reasonable explanations for his reaction (for anyone with a working brain).

Virtually everyone took the side of the woman and called the guy despicable names. Read the comments.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOmAcFYVNC8

Smartb0y:
Yeah, I mostly just admire the ones I encounter really.
Unless we got something in common eg we find ourselves in a common ground, I don't engage.
That's just my kinda person bro.
I can't be an extrovert in 5 secs just because I find a pussy attractive
But I get what you mean

No Green Light, No Approach

Astrid4:
Listen arrdee flowers too

I love that song

heartofcity12:
Someone is so happy to be finally getting divorced. If they had introduced him to the redpill and warned him against certain decisions before he got married, he could have rebuked them and cast them out for hating on him and his lovely wife(now ex/foe). That’s what the bluepill does to the mindset. Every man will learn either by hook or by crook. Congratulations to him. #trp

Just look at that smile on his face. I bet he hasn't smiled that well in a long time.

There's nothing like freedom, my brothers.

You should always believe in yourself.

Junnior:
I can relate with this. It seemed like I was the one talking. . Having Elder sisters was really a blessing as I got to learn female nature from a very young age. I'm naturally a very observant guy, so I would sit back and observe how my sisters manipulated grown-ass men.
We always quarelled because when they try their nonsense on me, it doesn't work.
They always tried to manipulate me into doing things/work by shaming my masculinity, but I never gave a fvck. I did only what I deemed necessary.
I hardly gave compliments or told them sweet things. They called me cold and all that. Any day I reluctantly give a lil compliment to any one of them, she would be overjoyed and tell the others.
They would often say that it is guys like me that end up being a total m0ron to one girl. They used to tell me that one day I will meet a girl that will have "my password". .
We all grown up now and I still haven't seen such girl born of a human

I believe All men are born redpilled. The issue is that from their time of birth, the bluepill conditioning begins (from their immediate home to the society). Some are strong-willed enough to stay the way they are naturally, while most succumb to the conditioning and become simps.

LMAO. So we plenty for this boat

A THOUSAND pages of redpill wisdom. Many more to come. Cheers

jpmoriarti:
I don't know how we managed to lose Messi and Grezimann, only to replace them with no one. Memphis have been overplayed. No single replacement.

Griezmann should have never been allowed to go.

heartofcity12:
It’s always a game to them.

We're nothing but disposable tools in their eyes. It is what it is.

No one is THE ONE. Y'all are making this game too easy for women

Now all a bitch has to do is dress decently, trash her makeup kits, hide her wigs, be traditional, act submissive and in no time she'll have you dropping everything you've learnt about the redpill like hot potato .

Guys, AWALT. It's all a game to them.

abeeee:
Yeah cave shouldn't have quoted any f monicker
Big Bleep up and he should learn from what followed

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I believe he has. No one is perfect sha

Junnior:
Omo, I totally forgot about him. I was really enjoying his story.

HeartOfCity should please continue with his memes. There are many times I come to this thread and see too many unnecessary arguments. I just skim through the whole thing and stop only when I see those screenshots. They add a certain new flavour to the thread.

Though I get Zabiboy's drift. I agree with most of it except the finance part. People should go to the business and investment sections for that.
What I particularly agree with is that we need PRACTICALS in this thread. But we need to be mature and tolerant for it to see the light of day. Most people wouldn't want to share their experiences because unfortunately they would be criticized and shamed by "morality crew", emotional guys or judgemental guys. This was the case with herbswork.

Well, all I can say is I hope more and more guys are not deterred but encouraged to share their experiences (previous and present).

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Hopefully. We can't undermine the amount of knowledge that can be gained from people's experiences. We need the dirty details. The undiluted truth. That's the best way to learn.

Martinez39s:
Herbsworks was doing a good job unveiling the reality that he has been involved in, but moral champions made an issue out of nothing and made all sorts of silly and irrational assumptions. Some simply yielded to their feelings while a few saw it as an opportunity to score cheap moral and decency points to elevate themselves and feel good about themselves; all this ignorance and facetious activities on an amoral terrain. SMH. Even those who clamoured for practical experiences in the past joined in to condemn Herbsworks. I just SMH.

Zabiboy suggestion is not bad, and he made it clear that he had no hard feelings towards anyone. Heartofcity12 and anyone can continue whatever they wish.

Exactly. We need the contributions of those who have experienced female nature in its' undiluted form. Not the facade they love to show us.
Whether we think their stories are fictitious or not, matters very little. I'm sure we can still learn some things from there.

Concerning morals, women don't give a fvck about morals. Neither do they do about God but they'll use them as tools of manipulation e.g the girl in leetylee's story.

I understand where Zabiboy is coming from. I just hate it that most guys are yet to understand how deep this shiit is.

Zabiboy:
@heartofcity
No HF bro. ( just incase you think my post was pointed directly at you)
But yeah, i think we can maybe switch things up, some mental and physical improvement posts once in a while..
Like i said tho, i'm not trying to control what you post, it's just an opinion.

Heartofcity is actually doing a very good job. His regular screenshots add something different to this thread. I think he should continue.

With regards to advice on practical applications, I'm in total support but do not forget that there are people on this thread who'll come out to discredit your efforts. Just look at how they treated Herbsworks when he talked about married women.

This just shows how weak we are as men. The faster we accept this, the better. We also want female attention. Maybe not as much as women want ours but we want it anyway. It's crazy.

Accepting a flaw is the first step that needs to be taken in correcting that flaw. That's why this community exists; to help men recognize the truths and become better. But how do we become stronger when we don't even know our weaknesses.

I remember Saga of BBN6. This guy was one of the chief orchestrators of the famous 'let us prank the girls by not greeting any of them when they come into the house' prank but this guy ended up being one of the biggest simps I've ever seen in my life. Even worse than Ozo. He was literally Nini's slave.

We need to figure out ways to identify when these vagina people are trying to prey on our weakness and then do our best to avoid them.

Guys, fight for yourselves. It's obvious there's no such thing as male unity. I wanted to type an epistle to lambaste Cave but being the lazy motherfvcker I am, I decided to let it pass.

Like, how hard is it to ignore? The fact that people even sit down to read the comments from female monikers befuddles me. I only do that by mistake. This is why I find it hard to criticize those who think we're one Mouth Gig away from going back to the plantation because it's fvcking true.

Yes no one is perfect, but don't you think we're making it too easy for these cankerworms? Look at how easy it is for them to sow seeds of discord on an online forum. Now imagine how easy it is for them in real life.

This is becoming borderline demonic.

Astrid4:
Stay woke

It's also the most painful

posty56:
DR dre ex wife wants to finish him shebi they give her about $1 million monthly, this stupid bitch say one million no go do am, wetin you they spend monthly way $1m no go do you, tufiakwa.

She wants him dead. There's no other explanation for this.

Mujtahida:
Great points. But on a side note. What happened to Rohr? Was it not this same Rohr that qualified us out of the group of death during the WCQ for Russia 2018 with one game to spare? Look at how we annihilated Algeria, outclassed Cameroun and silenced Zambia. And we played good. What happened to this man?

I keep asking myself this same question.

TFLASHOGEE:
yinka self use style laugh when he Said it and dey just had to massage his ego with sweet words base on him owning the show but you see does one wey udeze brings on his show are the real comedians people like dukudi and co

Lol, I think say na only me notice am. Some of these ex internationals are just something else. They make you feel like they won the World Cup in the past and Rohr has come to scatter everything they built. They are annoying and fun to listen to at the same time.

I remember an interview where one of them was told to give his opinion on Benjamin Mendy's case and the guy said Mendy was just so unlucky as he didn't know the girls he carried were underage(which I think is true) but what made me laugh was when he said : Thank God say them no catch us when we dey do our own

TFLASHOGEE:
nice knowing this bro I am waiting for that time because he also said he will win what any other coach hasn't won

I sensed sarcasm in Anthony's voice when he said : that's obviously the WC or Olympics; but he just tried to keep it professional .

I also burst into laughter but had to stop when I reminded myself that there's nothing impossible in life.

TFLASHOGEE:
God bless you for this oliseh even coached a Netherland side and amokachi coached in the local league and also a Finnish side and still dreams of taking the national team job but he said it isn't yet the right time on his show with brila FM but still taking courses and improving his manegerial intellect , I do laugh when udeze bring on some of the so called ex international's and they think they can take up the national team job even with one cap for the national team and without credible coaching experiences making it feel like it part of their birth right

I remember that interview. Amokachi was so sure that he would become the Super Eagles Coach one day.