Politics › Re: Shekarau Will Decide On Defection This Week –spokesperson by Coolgent(m): 1:46pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
HIGHESTPOPORI: Kwankwanso that will sweep North west votes with NNPP. Kwankwaso will not win any state in the northwest except kano that's if 2019 doesn't repeat itself. Note that Kwankwaso is indirectly working with APC at the presidential level, BAT is one of NNPP SPONSORS |
Politics › Re: Bello Matawalle Launches Anti-Thurggery Patrol Team (Pictures) by Coolgent(m): 10:55am On Aug 17, 2022 |
This man is a habitual lie much morethan lie Muhammad |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage: This Is The Most Beautiful Female Singer In Nigeria (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 10:53am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Islandlady: TIWA SAVAGE
She is the most beautiful Nigerian singer, with makeup or without makeup! Even as she is over 40yrs she still looks more beautiful everyday! I love her height and skin colour! She represent true African beauty!
I love her songs too!
Abeg, this is my opinion and analysis... you might disagree or not! How can i contact her |
Family › Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Coolgent(m): 10:49am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. Let sleeping dog lie for now but let her know that if she associate with him again in any form you will do the needful. Warn him again to stay clear from your wife, if he call her again... Im in Kaduna too i will advice u on what to do. NB: DNA to ensure you are the father of her child |
Crime › Re: South African Man Stabs His 23-Year-Old Girlfriend To Death (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 10:30am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Avoid fornication at all cost! |
Politics › Re: NNS Kada Offloads Weapons And Equipment For Nigerian Troops In Guinea Bissau by Coolgent(m): 10:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
43Ronin: I am confused, pls I would like some clarification. If we have enough troops to export, what is the army of Niger Republic doing in South east? Nigerian army in South East? Are you sure? Pls provide me with a with on that regard |
Education › Re: We’ve No Business With Parents, They Should Beg FG – ASUU by Coolgent(m): 9:36pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Greedy fellows. Mya pmb never grant your wishes |
Politics › Re: Niger Sent Donkeys, Equipment To Help Nigeria Crush Biafra - Nigerien Minister by Coolgent(m): 9:08pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Oga Minister Zamfara state has no boader with Niger Republic. |
Politics › Re: Soludo: Unknown Gunmen Are Igbos Who Kill For Human Organs by Coolgent(m): 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Spare part dealers! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Salman Rushdie On Ventilator, Liver Damaged, Likely To Lose One Eye by Coolgent(m): 8:14pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Donkenny511: Islam is the religion of Peace, anyone who is not peaceful is not a Muslim.
Hadith one stated that: You are not a Muslim until you wish for your neighbor what you wish for yourself
Should we say Christianity is a religion of fraud because some pastors are scamming people?
Or should we say all Man of God didn't hear from God because some of them give false prophesy?
I am a Muslim and I have never hurt anyone before because you didn't share the same religious beliefs with me.
Unknown Gunmen are not Muslim, the killing in the East are not done by Muslim.
Crime is crime no matter who is involved Hypocrite will not like this comment |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: NDLEA Logo Design Contest 2022. How To Participate by Coolgent(m): 7:37pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Funny enough a druggie may win this constest |
Politics › Re: International Youth Day: I Take Very Strong Exception To The ASSU Strike - Atiku by Coolgent(m): 9:42am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Incoming president |
Politics › Re: North Central APC Protests Against Muslim-Muslim Ticket, Rejects Lalong (Pics) by Coolgent(m): 12:20pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
No need to protest just do the right thing by voting PDP! |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Denies Demanding N50bn Monthly From Former Lagos Gov, Ambode by Coolgent(m): 10:09pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Drugs lord you will be shame in 2023 |
Politics › Re: Ogwu Mozambique: Unknown Gunmen Capture Ebubeagu Commander Of Imo (Pics, Video) by Coolgent(m): 1:51pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Backward people |
Politics › Re: Will Northern Politicians Do To Tinubu What They Did To Wike? by Coolgent(m): 1:44pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
KingKO22: Jagaban is generally nd widely love across the Northern part of Nigeria.
You saw what the Northern governors did during the Primary election. As they stood their ground in order to make sure that Asiwaju emerged victorious
All in all, Jagaban and Atiku election would be decided by Middlebelt/Northcentral The only reason why Northerners back BAT is to show him pepper in 2023. Quote me on 29 may 2023 |
Politics › Re: INEC Backtracks, Recognises Lawan, Akpabio As Senatorial Candidates by Coolgent(m): 6:54am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Inec officials are most corrupt set of peoples than any government officials |
Politics › Re: Wike Received APC Senator Aliyu Magatakarda Wammako Today In Rivers State by Coolgent(m): 6:38am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Wamakko upon all good northern Politicians? Wike isn't thinking straight. |
Romance › Re: This 35 Year Old Virgin Is My Role Model (photo) by Coolgent(m): 10:09am On Aug 09, 2022 |
dammywapes: most of this virgin don collect for other hole , Anus ? Mouth ? In between their breast , in between their axxx without coming in. I dey talk from experience. I believe you, cos when i was in one asian country... My friend told me that 99% of girls only offer the other hole to avoid suspicion after marriage cos arabs value virginity. I can't enter it o! |
Politics › Re: Rivers APC, Wike’s Loyalists Differ On Governor’s Overtures To Tinubu by Coolgent(m): 10:01am On Aug 09, 2022 |
PDP shouldn't trust this drunkard |
Romance › Re: This 35 Year Old Virgin Is My Role Model (photo) by Coolgent(m): 7:16am On Aug 09, 2022 |
dammywapes: Hmm virgin , I know a girl my guy dated back then she was a virgin she won’t allow my guy in but she takes it through the anus. Serious? |
Romance › Re: This 35 Year Old Virgin Is My Role Model (photo) by Coolgent(m): 7:14am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Virgin indeed |
Politics › Re: “Bye Bye For Obidients” – Senator Nnamani Asks Supporters To Dump Peter Obi by Coolgent(m): 6:51am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Good one |
Family › Re: How can I stop my wife from divorcing me? by Coolgent(m): 6:47am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Antihypocrite: I have been married for 3 years now, I have known my wife for 5 years altogether. She was and is still the best thing that ever happened to me.
I don't know where to start from, I can't come to terms with the fact that my wife is leaving.
Guys, I think the problem started last year after some hoodlums stole my bike. That was my major source of livelihood apart from some home lessons that I used to do, but stopped due to health reasons.
It's been difficult financially and I honestly don't know what else to do.
Shortly after my bike was stolen, I got a loan from lapo and added with my little savings to enter palm oil business. I wish I had not done so as I ended up losing about 80k because the guy I worked with cheated me whole heartedly.
My wife had to get a job as a teacher in a private primary school. I told her it was just temporary as I was working to raise money for her start a poultry.
In order to clear the lapo loan, I had to do odd jobs and take loan from loan apps. My wife's little salary of 20k became the major source of feeding while I battled to clear the loan.
Sometimes I would borrow from friends to pay the loan app to be able to borrow a higher amount from the loan apps again. This was a mistake and a trap cos now I am so much indebted to these loan apps. I am even owing some friends and right now I am unable to pay back.
I have been in debt for over 8 months now to these loan apps. They have tarnished my Image to all my contacts.
I even stopped going to church because most of my church members who received messages from these loan apps did not even care to hear me out. They believed the loan apps that I am a fraudster on the run.
My wife started feeling ashamed of me. She stopped associating with me in public spaces. I know she has tried. Nobody deserves to pass through what she is passing through.
This afternoon when she came back from work, she told me that she would be going back to her parents house
She said that it is best she goes back to her people until I am able to sort my self out.
Guys I have tried to be strong for so long. Right now I don't think I can hold on anymore. I have always believed that things would turn out well, but right now I am in a low place. I don't know how long I can hold on again.
Last month I tried to even get a security job that pays 25k monthly. But I feel so discouraged to do the job. How long will I work to clear a loan of 320k that keeps adding interest daily.
Thoughts of suicide have been crossing my mind today. I really need help
What can I do? I don't even have the energy to pray. Has anyone ever been in my shoes? If yes how did you come out? Killing yourself because of a mere 320k? Two of my friends were owing about 400 millions to bank (agric loan) . Those loan apps are destiny spoilers stay away from them. Allow your wife to go if she insist but ensure that you discharge your duty as a man even though she isn't in your house. Hustle more and refund the money then buy food stuffs and bring back your wife |
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Properties › Re: Should I Sign This Tenancy Agreement? by Coolgent(m): 8:02pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Softhands: Most Yoruba landlords hate anything ibo...not because the tribe is bad, but most ibos who live in Lagos have a reckless way of handling other people's property. And the moment such landlord questions their recklessness, they always result in nasty fights...so most Lagos landlords avoid anything ibo. You are very correct. My sister had an issue with her igbo tenant.... The money he paid for 3 years can't repair the damages he caused to the property. Worst part of it was he is drug dealer |
Politics › Re: PDP Crisis: Atiku, Wike Agree On 14-Member Panel by Coolgent(m): 1:17pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
PDP is truly a Democratic party |
Romance › Re: Observation About A Friend Wife Comment During Sex by Coolgent(m): 1:13pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Coinwarrior: Hello Nairalanders!!
There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today. I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned. This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this. My brother. Ignore all her comments and what have you, concentrate on building a stronger future that's if your wife is an obedient one. |
Politics › Re: IPOB Attacks Hausa Community In Imo, Kills 7 Members by Coolgent(m): 12:10am On Aug 07, 2022 |
Kano people over to you. If it's the other way round Nyamiri will cry foul |
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Leads Election Observation Mission To Kenyan Elections by Coolgent(m): 8:58pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Buhari House boy |
Autos › Re: 90 deg 02 Sensor Spacer (Solutn to Stolen, below threshold, ineficient Catalyst) by Coolgent(m): 9:28am On Aug 05, 2022 |
viazi: Available 07055529276 I need 2 pieces |
Autos › Re: Brand New Bulletproof Mercedes Benz Sprinter - 600million by Coolgent(m): 9:21am On Aug 05, 2022 |
yyba: That was exactly the car my LGA chairman bought for all councillors in the LGA Chai Oga come down abeg |