Dear Jenjul,

please help me out with this one please . the car is in cotonou now. thanks.

1HGCD555XSA088346

Dear Sly,

my brother is in cotonou now and has just paid for a car with this VIN

1HGCD555XSA088346

kindly help out asap.

hugs and kisses for the good work!

obama shouldn't accept Hilary as a V.P cos she'll always have an eye on that SEAT. she can be the sly, the hypocrite amongst, she can be insect to eat Obama up finally just to get in.

their battle (primaries) was just too deep to build a healthy working relationship. moreover, she's a very powerful woman too and one with a great ego. she'll only stoop to conquer.

OBAMA SHINE YOUR EYE FOR HILARY. women are deep ooooo!!!

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same 4 me. i wish with a magic wand.

how about the new trend of "partnership"?

@ Mcdreamy thanks dearie.

isn't it surprising how very little people know about the welfare of one of the most important professions in the world?

the NMA should call for a round table discussions on this. we need the doctors around and happy for a nation to be truly healthy.

@ Prince 84.

in the name of God, do not lead hopefulls into the shadows of evil. if you need help financially, pls come back home instead of luring poor Nigerians into a life of total mess and destruction.

my dear fiends, pls don't be deceived by his sweet words. Ukraine is a very difficult place to live. racism there is next to non, even to us bi-racials.
apart from the "skinned heads" who walk about with knives and guns looking for who to kill, you see young children and grown up men drunk and sleeping by the road side on weekdays.

i went visiting my grand parents 3 years ago and vowed never to go back there as my siblings and i were treated like animals. i remember once on a major shopping street near "globus" a man poured beer on my sister and called her a monkey. this is even when our mother is a Ukrainian.

think well my dear friends and consider countries like southafrica, UK and the states instead.

Dear Bloggers,

My brother is a medical doctor and presently doing his NYSC. He is really concerned about getting a job that amount to :

Hard Work + Good Pay = Satisfaction.

i'd appreciate your kind opinions on name of hospitals, parastatals, corporations and their take home packages.

thank you.

@ dis guy, my husband owns his own business.

pls pls pls readers, the scenario i painted is not for pity sake. its just to share one sad moment.

@igbonla, do you have children? have you ever lived, day after day, calculating on tight budget? a budget that even a kobo spent else where is fatal. my husband and i had 4 cars but have sold 3. the one left is what we use to run around school, market, offices etc. its cheaper maintaining a stress free car in Abuja than using a taxi.

I'll do as some advice, take the Lagos job (i'm resuming on the 2nd of next month) and be on the look out for any job in Abuja since my work place has got no branch in abuja. I'm sure it will be much easier getting a job in Mobil or total after working in Chevron.

thanks again to everyone. love you all.

@ seun. thanks for your view, read pls,

on my way home last week, i stopped at grand square for a loaf of bread. "mummy, pls buy ice cream for me" my oldest son said. "and me too" cried my second son. i checked my wallet for more money as i had just 300 naira at hand and the loaf costs 220. i found a 10 naira note and two 5 naira notes. 100 naira in all. i told my boys I'll buy ice cream the next time we visit grand square.

"oh no mummy, that's all you ever say. next time, tomorrow, later, you never fulfill your promises" i went cold inside as it is true, I've made this promise continuously for 4 months, but still put up a face that showed i was in control. OK, i said, lets go to the ice cream corner.

the corner as usual was full of people waiting on queues. when it was my turn, i leaned forward to the sales girl and in a whisper-like voice asked her if she could sell a 100 naira worth of ice cream to me. "no, madam, our smallest cone goes for 200 naira .sorry, next please".
i briskly walked out and my sons hurried behind me. i avoided their faces and couldn't say a word because i was swallowing hard the tears that were building up out of the disappointment, the shame of another broken promise, the anger of failing my kids. we drove home quietly, silently, i could see their sad faces on the rear-view mirror, that silence was just on the outside because in my heart and mind was a loud war of thoughts.

This, seun, is just one of the many moments I've failed my kids this year. it might just be a tale of ice cream but its a test of faithfulness from a mother to her child. you said i should be there for them. yes, i want to be more than anything. but i want to be there to put smile on their faces, clothes on their body, food on their table and books in their school bag's want to be a mother my children would be proud of, and i know the love I've shown all these years and now will make them see me in a good light.

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a big thank you to everyone who has contributed an advice. I'm tuning my mind day and night to welcoming Lagos. my eldest boy is 8 and youngest is 1yr and 2 months.
to those who advised relocating to Lagos, thanks for the thought but, my dream has being to live in the sane, peaceful Abuja and my husband can't stand the rough Lagos life.
i know it would be difficult, closing from work with no one waiting for your return, completing a meal with no kid wanting a piece of meat before dinner is served. at least, I'll put my all into my job.
thanks everyone and wish me endless luck and i pray God will bless you all.

@wales7479, thanks for being so positive. I'll see that my discussion with my hubby clears most fears he's got. its a wonderful feeling knowing someone somewhere hopes and has faith in me. thank you.

hello dear, i never thought i would be in such a dilemma, finding myself between the devil and the deep blue sea.

here is my plight and i would appreciate any honest advice.

I'm married to a loving husband and have 3 wonderful sons. life has being OK for us until recently when we developed some financial problems. my husband and i know and believe that soon, everything will turn out right and would not have to worry about living.

I'm a lawyer but have not worked a day in my life and suddenly i got this great job as a legal counsel in an oil company in Lagos.
this should be a very happy moment in my life but I'm sad and torn.

you see, i live in Abuja with my family and taking this job offer means moving to Lagos. my husband is happy about the job but has got concerns with the office being in Lagos. I'm to resume early next month and its causing me sleepless nights even though i know I'll be shuttling Abuja every weekend.

i love my family more than my life and it makes me cry thinking that my kids will feel i choose my job over them, all i want is to sacrifice my happiness to provide a better life and future for them. what do i do?

thanks all 4 ur candid thots and views on my post. we r all entitled to figure OUR OWN SIN. as 4 me, i'd pitch my tent on budx side. a kiss lies on the depth of passion involved. i know it may offend my husband but actually and honestly speaking, we girls enjoy a harmless flirt once in a while cos it kinda makes us feel hot. i'm a sagitterian and love living life to the fullest. i would never let any man ENTER me but i can kiss if i like.

my husband enjoys MTV Base and channel O at late nights, and i make fun of him enjoying all them bum shakin. i also made a promise to give him a treat on our next visit to the states. The Treat: inviting a bootilicious bombshell to our hotel just 4 him.

anyways, to some i may sound crazy but thats how my hubby and i are. we live with fun and have 2 sons.
kissing while married, as a means of cheating, is relative.

i enjoy my vibrator and i don't think its cheating. do u?

my dear, if sexual thots sums cheating, then we r all guilty!

all u men judges above. as u write, do u know how many girls have had abortions 4 u without ur knowledge 4 sakes of keeping d relationship. maybe an ex has given birth self, he he eh, , some surprise awaits u in d future. watch desperste house wife, a hooker had a one night stand with lynette's husabnd and bingo, she became pregnant and he knew 7 yrs later. wao!

it took me a long while to fart b4 my boyfriend. but now we r married and i sometimes insist he stays in the toilet with me when i poopoo.

is cheating d whole penetration thingy or is a simply kiss as bad?

what rubbish? go back 2 who? would he take u back if u cheated on him?
i don't know what u think of marriage but i know it is sacred and he has made nonsense of it.
he probably wants u cos the lady dumped his sorry ass or he misses the glorified house help in u.
women should place more value in themselves. i would never go back. living with him, under the same roof would be a lie on my life, each kiss, touch, and love making would be a torture as a constant reminder of how he touched the other woman.
and finally, he'll still cheat on u. as Oprah rightly said "when people show u who they r the 1st time, believe them, so u won't be surprised again"

@anifel20, why do want 2 go 2 sao tome? Their office is in abuja.

thanks 4 Ur response. getting into sao tome is very difficult cos one hardly hears of any vacancies. u need an insider who will fill u on periodic vacant positions. for every vacancy is a struggle of which citizen's to occupy - Nigeria or sao tome. anyways, heard the available space is for a chartered accountant, can't go with me cos I'm on the legal side. application there is by serious connection my dear, lol.

hi world, does anyone know how much is being paid to a graduate trainee in sao tome and principi. also whats their emplotment procedure like. i'll appreciate precise replies. thanks

reason 4 my killing child as well, his mum would not succeed in the dreams of having my childrens inheritance shared.

kill the child and kill the man

any gist about the upcoming exams 4 lng? whats the pay like for fresh grad :os[color=#000099][/color]