₦airaland Forum

Shafiiimran99:
Prevention is beta than cure...now tel me what is the best way to avoid rapin?

The best way to avoid raping is for parents to train their boys. Let them understand that when a girl says No that's just what it means..'No'. A complete sentence on its own that requires no additional information.

Over the years, society has led us to believe that our girls need to be saved when in fact it is our boys that need to be saved. Saved from thinking they ever have any right to hurt a girl..whether a Virgin or a LovePeddler.

And when our boys have been saved, then our girls will be safe.
......................Amitabh Bachan (Pink)

chairman010:
every body just turned to a saint here
anyways the marriage couldn't have lasted because if the girl cannot forgive this, she is a wicked person or she doesn't love him enough to agree to marry him in the first place

You must be running mad..

The man no even sabi. ..no skills at all...forcing ur wife to gree for you...haba! ! Shame!!!

But wait first...
All these argument..
Do you all realise that 21 years is not 21 days?
And a woman born and bred in Nigeria, knowing all the ramifications still ran away from the marriage?
Think am for a minute...who does that? A happy well taken care of wife? Or a serially abused wife who finally received the beating and humiliation that broke the camel''s back. He beat and disgraced her in public?
Let's think about that for a minute..beating a matured at least 40 year old woman in public? Beating her at all..does that seem right at all? Does that picture in ur mind look good? Acceptable?

What does marriage mean to an average Nigerian woman? You have no right to a successful life without your husband's approval? She got a job...so what? Financial needs were not being met and she decided to help out....Kill her and crucify her...she has disobeyed her husband. As a good Nigerian wife, she should have quietly folded her hands and watched herself and her children lack. That is what a good wife does.
So when is she going to be a good mother? Who here has ever felt the pain of your child needing or asking for something you are unable to provide?

We all need to be careful in this country..in our stance, our comments, the things we support and condone. You might take a stance because you are a man today but always remember that you ll have daughters, grand daughters , great grand daughters....and you won't always be in the world to help or protect them.

The least any decent and reasonable man can do is to leave a decent society behind that ll keep both his male and female children in good health and well being.

quentin06:
Ghen ghen!!

@your dp....more like a mad woman will accept that. Or a living dead woman.

uzoclinton:
If you were a good wife your hubby wouldn't have gone outside.

Getaway my friend..

Well...OUCH!!!

Well...OUCH!@!@

Benignasweety:
No post partum depression will ever make you want to kill your own child... when the euphoria of new born baby never even fade sef.... I wouldnt have cried and wished myself death when my son died 5days after birth. Would have aswell taken it as post partum depression.

My sister ...u have no idea what you are saying. I know of a woman who prayed for a child for good 8 years and finally conceived. Towards the end of the pregnancy she developed high bp and had severe eclampsia. She had the baby.

Na so she started feeling like killing her baby, according to her, she kept wanting to suffocate him( note that this is a baby she prayed for 8yrs to get).

What saved her was that she was in the US and they noticed the symptoms and took d baby away from her before she could harm it.

Ask around and check the internet...post partum depression is very real..

So sorry about d loss of ur baby...its one of the most painful things in the world. Imagine if the woman had succeeded in killing her baby...wouldnt she just kill herself when she came back to her senses?
Post partum depression is not a permanent state thats why i called it a temporary madness...wanting to hurt a baby you suffered to deliver..

Anybody heard of Post partum depression?
It's a temporary madness that attacks a woman that has just given birth..making her want to kill her new born.

We need better health care and medical awareness in this country.

But hmm eleyi gidi gan oo..

Mehnn..dis guy just put his driver in trouble..


Akoba Adaba...

So a whole doctor has just wasted his whole life , all his years of study, money spent, parents stress and suffering. He throws it all away for a bloody girlfriend

Infact, let me just walk away.

Boss13:
No! It is equally wrong to hit your kids. However what women do these days is to cry foul when they cannot manage their issues or their husbands. They leave the underlying issue which they are the initiator and start extracting sympathy because their husbands lost it and decided to assault them. Even if it was the first time, they run to social media to show the world - why, because they want to hide from their sins. The main reason they were beaten. Kids who grow up abroad do this too. When their parents discipline them, they call the cops but fail to tell the cops what they actually did to get the spanking.

You hear wives insulting their mother in-law, insulting the siblings of their husbands, disclosing personal secrets to the world in the name of argument, belittling their husbands in public and even confronting their husbands with their hands in fist mood ready for combat. When you engage them - social media will not rest. They show their legs, squeeze their face and threaten law suits. They will never tell social media how they told their husbands that they are ready to fight.

What's this one saying?

Boss13:
No you cannot say that because you don't know if the story is true or the reason for their quarrel. What if the husband told you that she squandered their life savings without his knowledge and she wasn't remorseful. If this story is true, what I see is a man who mistakenly hits his wife, went to the gym to pick the wife up so they can resolve their differences and some nosy guys decided to take laws into their hands and finally, destroy the marriage.

No pray say your children end up with person wey go dey 'mistakenly' beat them. YOU don't know what you are saying.

This is why if something is bad, you condemn it unequivocally from day one. It started with the rape of women, society justified it and stigmatised the victims, blaming them for dressing badly to being at irresponsible places.

Then they started raping teenagers and society blamed their mothers for not watching them or dressing them well.

Then they started raping children..7 yrs old. ..3 yrs old..2 yrs old. And society finally kept quiet as they had run out of excuses for rapists.

But the cancer has already settled in and is now spreading everywhere uncontrollably. Now...men are being raped by fellow men, teenage boys are being raped and now little boys are getting raped.

If only society had cut off the cancer when it started. We would not have reached such a sorry pass.

The word 'No' is a complete sentence and needs no further clarification.

When a lady ( or a man) says NO.
. THAT'S IT!!! Anything you do after that is rape.

Any lady with common sense. .listen to me today. Don't date a man for anything more than 1 year without knowing where u are going.
Having a boyfriend is like renting a house for lease. NO matter the number of years you stay there, it is not your own and one day u ll give it up.

Stop letting men waste ur time. In seven years ur eldest child would have been entering primary school.

And someone just came here and called 7 years anyhow without respect, without knowing all the value lost by being with such a man.

I no wan talk...

Please ladies..u need to be bullish
Let him commit within a year or get the f*** out of ur life.

No time for slime..

[quote author=goingape1 post=52812078][/quote]Lollllllll....e pain am.

goingape1:
I have never seen a creature more stvpid than naija women!

You said your mother is from where?Naija?

hedonistic:
You must be a very naive boy/man.

How many normal Nigerian men would ignore everything outside and stick to only their wives?

In any case, the more faithful a man is, the more likely it is that his wife would be unfaithful. I've noticed this countless times, if you like, you can doubt it. The mumu 'good' guys often have straying wives, while the straying men often have homely, long-suffering wives. It's either one or the other. Nature abhors a vacuum.

I honestly hope you realise that you are talking bunkum...

Married for one year with 7 month old twins?

Waited to make money before getting married to take care of a family...

Nigerian bloggers i hail oo..

A REAL MAN WILL NEVER KISS AND TELL.!!!

Ask the Godfather!!


That ex is a weak maggot. There ain't no 'ho' in this world who wasn't made so by a man. You created a ho ...you ll live with a ho. IT'S Karma baby. Nothing can save you. EVEN if you marry a Virgin ...she ll become a ho and f..u..k your friends, neighbours and family.

It's what you gave the world..it must come and live with you..

I repeat..there is nothing you can do about it.

I bet the groom got horn..y seeing that pix. If I were him, I ll take my bride home and get me some. All the ex has is the pictures while I have the real deal. Les affaires. . .

evansjeff:
And so? All I see is an Olosho breeding a potential Olosho

My God. Who did this to you? Where are your parents? They have questions to answer. An 8 yr old girl? Potential olosho? No this is not normal. Surely you are a victim of emotional, psychological and intellectual child abuse.

May this year end all the horrible bitterness of your heart..Amen..

So tragic..

AfonjaStinks:



With the fake appearance (heavy make up)

Fake hair (weave)

Fake nails

Fake height (high heels)

Fake everything

No girl deserves a good man and no girl should have an opinion/suggestions on men

And no girl should call a guy ugly because girls are the ugliest creature on earth

Including your daughter if or when you have one. Moomoo..

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What a headline..

Pennywise:
Emeka Ugwuonye may be a lawyer but in this write up, he plays the role of an amateur fictionist.

I don't know him from Adam but it is regrettable he had to resort to desperate measures to clean up a discredited, morally fetid and repugnant client (he is clearly playing the role of her lawyer, whether he has her brief or not).

He has blackmailed Zenith bank into unjustly sacking an employee who may yet be innocent at the end of the day. Whose only crime apparently now is marrying the wrong woman.

Emeka Ugwuonye with the DPA in tow is free to upgrade the charges to murder if it suits them. But they still have to prove their case in court.

The evidence in public domain reveals that Ivie and John still carried on as man and wife even while living apart. Ivie while still married to John carried on with an amorous affair while confessing she had changed.

Thankfully no life was lost in the face of this extreme provocation of a helpless man. It would seem his motive for being present at the scene was to tell Ivie that I have caught u again in spite of your numerous assurances of change.

The violence that ensued in the presence of the equally morally depraved lover becomes a footnote.

If John was actually responsible for her injury and wanted her dead, he would aim for her head and not her leg. The incident there for could not have been more than a mere accident caused by a perpetually adulterous wife and a thief.

The public will expect any reasonable Judge to understand this.

John has simply suffered enough. He is the true victim here.
Ivie is every prospective husband's nightmare. She wrecks everything she touch. From her job in airtel, to starcomm to STANBIC IBTC. They all check out. Her business? Double check. Her marriages? check. Matthews marriage? Check.

Ivie makes a very bad case for use as a domestic abuse victim.

There are many truly innocent ones suffering silently.

Em you em you...

veekid:
Show me evidence you've never sample any woman in your life before?

No viable way of showing any evidence. But even if I've sampled 100 women, I won't come out to a public forum to validate it as something good.

It's just like telling lies which we know is wrong but because we do it and most people do it, should we now come out in public and claim that telling lies is good?

Lots of young impressionable boys and girls in this forum. Pass on wisdom to them not sins..

veekid:
If you can buy a car without test driving it; then you can go ahead and marry her without sampling her...

You do realise that you are talking about a human being and not a promo product? To be sampled with no commitment to buy?

My brother na so boys go dey sample your daughter before deciding to marry her?
If you can go ahead to ask for sex, then you can go ahead to marry her.

This is Africa not America..