₦airaland Forum

erico2k2:
hey lets be reasonable here, yes ofcos a 55 years old man can marry a younger 35 years old woman, and when you say my young daughter, I never meant young in that sense, not 20s, why would a 55 years ol be looking for a girl of 20s, Him wan die young be that.I asked a simple question the ladies all went Numb as if they never saw it, i will ask again,
WHO HERE IS ABOVE 35 AND NOT MARRIED
No one will answer but we all know there are above 35s here supporting the left.

Why do you ask? I mean to be reasonable here. Do u want to find spouses for them? Or feel superior as a man who supposedly has more time? Are you yourself married? You do sound like a kid and obviously have not seen life.

Just a little advice, don't wait too long to marry. Male infertility, low sperm count and erectile dysfunction comes with old age and is more or less the male version of menopause.

Try ur best not to mock people u believe u are better than cuz Karma is such a mother-f..ing b..t.ch.

erico2k2:
see even after the guy turns 55 when he finds out he has the option of looking for another 30 year old virgin
do women have such lux at 55??

Oga calm down before you drown yourself in your own hype. Do u know d options open to a 55 yr old man? Better still, will u marry ur young daughter to such? Just cool down oo no be by like dat

Nori:
Is it by force to accept advances from a man?? Is it not better to be single than marry a man you don't love? What your saying doesn't make sense at all, and what makes u think the person u married is even better, because she is more beautiful. Maybe she was just more desperate.

God to will give the girl a more handsome and richer guy who is better than you

You go school abeg..your papa no waste money for your education.

Op needs payoneer

@ Op
All these will not stop a lady from having a man. In fact they are just things that make a man to have to work harder for a girl. Most men are too lazy and uncreative. No swagger at all. They just want women to come to them out of fear of menopause and not LOVE or CRAZY NEED. Only a real man can make any woman feel those things.

Points to note though: If Maheeda can be a happily married woman and Cossy Ojiaku can be preparing for her wedding then I tell you solemnly child of God, any woman can get a man.

ogawisdom:
Y u dey fear, u did ur job. But wait ooo is there no way d both of u would ve settled d cash of 1m without involving management n causing his termination.

Ur action leading to his termination was quite harsh, u ve killed dt guy.

Well go and report to a police station ie threat to live and police will invite him to sign undertaking dt if anything happens to ur life he will held responsible, he will b d one protecting u thereafter. Use d text msg as evidence.

Thoughts like this is the problem with Nigeria. Someone STOLE almost N1m from innocent customers in a bank that should be the most respected and secured place to keep your money.

He was caught and rightly thrown out before he steals N1bn and sinks d bank causing job losses and suffering of innocent families.

Instead of outright condemnation of this action and commending the manager, you are concerned about d economic suffering of a thief who should have been thrown in jail.

Some people sef.

There is something quite sad in those 19 years old eyes..

Drew0:
Na wa o then still dey rape olosho? :O

Before?? Na their papa property? She no gree she no gree. ...na her body and d man no be her husband. So which kind question u dey ask?

Loooll...If na woman bring this kind complaint to him, they will tell her to go and fast and pray for her husband to change and leave outside women for her. But see now, the pastor could not fast and pray for his wife to leave outside man and stay home.

This is an unfortunate outcome of premarital sexual freedom, ur wife will always have someone to compare u with n if u fall short...hmm...beginning of nairaland stories.

Same thing for husbands comparing wives with ex girlfriends or side chics.

You can never be wiser than God.

Olukat:
A man that learnt about his sons demise on the pages of news paper was not a responsible father.
He probably didnt care about the young man's up keeps and never in any form of relationship with him
What you never wanted alive shouldn't be of much concern in death
Free the woman, she may had acted that way in response to your lack of care towards your son

Thank you. I was waiting for someone to think deeply and say this clear fact.

babyfaceafrica:
he is still her father and traditions still remains

That is if he paid her bride price complete unless na Oyo oo. The world is parking tradition in one corner these days..

Nairadays:
Am sorry, but stella didn't act right on this.

The boys father deserves every right to whatsoever he is asking for, except if they granted legal custody to the mother.

But what do i know; RIP Maxwell.

Mehnnn una just dey talk. Your pikin don die before? Do u know d mental state of his mother right now? Whether she dey pschya or her family are trying to control her nervous breakdown? Everybody just dey talk.

Okay let me ask now...After how many days of d boy's death, which kind of father has no track of his grown up son that d boy will be dead for days and he won't know.? No phone calls? No relationship with his siblings? Or friends?

Abeg make we no make judgement on what we don't know. However...should it be that she purposely hid such info, then she must have a fundamentally evil heart.

But we just don't know..

rapistomenka:
Shameless and retired agbo seller

She should be focused on getting pregnant immediately before sliding into menopause

Imagine getting married at 40 and still talking rubbish instead of collecting SPAM every hour

U don born? I pity u if not. Why pour hot coals into your destiny? You are mocking someone who doesn't have a child when you don't know what your future has in store for you. When it starts happening...remember the words you threw out and sowed and reap them quietly.

Poorly raised child with no home training.

@op..
When last did u see ur parents or siblings? Oya tell him you are travelling this weekend to see them and need to lock up the house. You also don't know when u ll return. It's an emergency.

If he is a truly good friend..He might offer to go with you. But I doubt it...Once he hears emergency..He ll want to stay far away from any inconvenience or trouble. It's called Fairweather character.

Good luck!!

Talk2Bella:
I am done for, my boyfriend just told me this morning its over that his mother doesn’t want him to marry me, I think he’s mad, he must be after several abortions in fact he’s very stupid, what should I do? I’d rather kill myself or kill us both.


Its five years and he just realizes he doesn’t want to marry me, how can people be this callous, whenever I got pregnant he would cajole me to abort it, saying it wasn’t the right time and things were not great for him financially, I just did another abortion two months ago now he doesn’t want to marry me anymore, I feel used and suicidal, I won’t go silently.



Talk2Bella.


My dear, you need to calm down and take it easy, don’t get worked up over nothing, not all relationships will lead to marriage, although he might have suggested the abortion you willingly went under the knife so don’t apportion blame to him alone.


Don’t kill yourself and don’t kill your boyfriend, it will help no one, what you should do for now is take time off, go somewhere, leave him be, start over, yes its hard and painful and might seem almost impossible but you will look back to this day and find out he never deserved you.


Just let him go, he’s not worth death or jail time.


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/08/after-several-abortions-he-wants-to.html

My dear girl it is you who has been very stupid.

falconey:
while for the men it is a thing of what?

It is a thing of hide..

Dats why they don't wear their wedding rings.

Seahawk:
whats wrong with that picture? So ladies can't live a normal life again because of kiss and tell fools? At least anyone who has sense will view the people who post those kinds of pictures as the ediots that they are instead of seeing it as a dent on the lady's image.

No matter the progression of modernization, the nature of a woman remains the same. A wife whose ex-boyfriend or ex-boyfriends posts pictures of them grabbing her breast or putting their hands in her skirt has far worse humiliation than if the husband's ex shows him doing the same.

But like u said...This one no too bad. I'm talking generally. A naked man in public and a naked woman in public is not the same as you know.
Case in point: Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton..

Alexgeneration:
. How does staying with one's in-law connotes "involve into their private affairs? From the OP's complain,the guy is not interfering in their private life.Rather, all I can deduce from her is that she wants to turn the guy to a househelp just because he is "eating her food" and "staying in her house".Will she make such complains if the guy is from her side of the family?

Guy I'm beginning to suspect you. It's like you are a freeloader..eating another person's work as if ur father provided the money. You better change and stop supporting nonsense. If someone is accommodating you, it is expected as a well brought up child with good home training that you show gratitude and appreciation by pulling ur weight and adding value to that family.

Not crossing leg and relaxing like a governor without a constituency.

As a lady, you just have to be careful the kind of pictures you take when young and carefree.

rokiatu:
How can you know the difference between a tight punny and a loose one when you have a toothpick Di...Ck

Chei!!!

rokiatu:
How can you know the difference between a tight punny and a loose one when you have a toothpick Di...Ck

Chei!!! Nigerians sha. ..

I love stories like this. Hope it encourages our abused and battered sisters whether physically or emotionally that there are millions of men out there and you don't have to lose your life in marriage because of one man.

NB: Still submit to your husbands as to the Lord o and pray for your home and marriage.

If that one no work...There is still hope out there.

Organs:
COOLVIV: You call am ordinary story, ee be like say you no sabi how powerful media dey. The story na im make police freeze the account sotay dem no carry am go Atlanta on time. Now you take sabi say if she reach ATlanta on time maybe she for neva die, although by my faith, when time reach no medicine again, but at least you go try your best possible still and Linda prevented that from happening from her allegation of fraud, so my friend add am come multiply am togeda, you go see say Linda prevented the timely evacuation to ATL and by extension the death.

Gbam!!! Correct!!! Sergeant Itoro. This also quickened the spread of the cancer thereby leading to death kwo? Very good..

Organs:
DONBENIE: Not true, at best what you can say is we do not know...cos she never got the treatment. There are people on their last legs of cancer that live much much longer due to improved healthcare, google it you will see lots and lots of proof, more specifically the research results with names are in cancer treatment centres in most states in the us, so try cancer treatment center of chicago, LA etc...... what you said is not true cos she did not get the desired treatment partly to the fact that Linda Ikeji called the story "fake" and that brought about all the media frenzy and the police halted the visa process and started their endless investigation so you cannot exonerate Linda Ikeji and I and you need to learn to "verify" and be sensitive to the things we say, do, or publish else we might end up having blood on our hands like Linda currently does whether you accept it or not.

Hmmm...Inspector Kpafu. So ordinary story from Linda Ikeji made someone die from cancer? Na u bikooo...Na dis type of analysis National Assembly dey use assess our economy.

lonelydora:
What shall it profit Linda Ikeji if she acquires the whole mansions/office and still lives as a single woman?

The beauty of a woman is her husband. Linda, please go and marry.

#nothating


Oya nah, make una begin quote me.

The ugliness of a woman is also in her husband.
Linda look well before you marry oo..no go marry Bash Ali or Teebillz dem....abeg ooo...

Fine girl...It is well with you.

Motherfucker2:
Stop bugging me with the news of this washed up fool.
She killed Mayowa Ahmed.

She ought to put about 50 air refresher in that office to quench the smell of her rotten fish

May God deliver some Nigerians from beef in Jesus Name - Amen!

STFUareyouG0d:
Ok, be looking for Husband material while your mates keep getting married every weekend


I wish you all the best

No be your mates her mates dey marry? Old man go and marry and settle down, your mate's children are in primary school.

dpete1:
see dumb ass mumu.its only an advice...in africa, marriage is important..if she is not an african,there wouldnt have been problem buh she is AFRICAN!!

Getaway from here. Who send you...African champion!! Spokesperson for Africa...Don't go and face ya own problems..

This is why when something is bad ..everyone should rise up unanimously and condemn it in totality. In Nigeria, if they say a woman was raped...people start giving reasons and excuses for the man...she was his girlfriend, she didn't dress well, why was she at d party or his house. ...

Now men are raping 5 yr old girls and we are looking for d devil that caused it. Our society is d devil that has caused this entitlement to fukk any female that some men have acquired by refusing to give stiffer punishments to a rape crime.

RIP young girl. .. you never got to be a mother , a wife or a professional ...someday maybe your death and the death of countless daughters of d country will change things.. One day...Maybe..

Wow!! Ipob and Afonjas unite?

Tor....
One Nigeria!!!

NonFarmPayrol:
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ZENITH BANK UYO AKA RD

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Taa!!! Which zenith bank? That Effizy bank that is always on point. You can just enter there to be looking at fine fine girls...and GQ guys.