₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
No matter how loving a relationship is or how cared for you think you have been, the fact of life is you will also have had to endure heartaches, sometimes betrayal in those very same relationships you hold to. That is why in every human relationship such things as patience, forgiveness, endurance, are prescribed for success. The reason simply being humans are fallible and hence untrustworthy and so you are expected to plan for and to accept many of the failures to come.

You are on Point.

Yusufisraelj:
Lols, it will mean you've not experience a very loving relationship or have people take bullets for you, either on love relationships, platonic grounds or work related.

Trust itself has a science to it. I wan sleep I'll break it down tomorrow if you care.

We are talking about flesh and blood here, the same person that showed you love and took bullets for your sake will tomorrow push you into the ocean , that's why,the day you stop trusting human, that's the day you start living right.

AbuAeesha:
when will FG do something about this thrash trending now.
even animals don't behave like this

there was a legislative ban on it during good luck Jonathan's regime,that was why Barrack Obama withdrew all aids to Nigeria at that time. Another problem why the law is weak is because t
Most of those at the top are practioners.It,s going to fizzle away with time, this is not an African culture, it's un african

That's the fun,if a child visits father Christmas without crying,the fun is gone, crying babies is the fun.

That's why you should always clean your house at least every three months,sweep under the bed, wardrobe, kitchen cabinet,stores,infact,take everything in the house outside,dust and clean,anything in your house that you do not use in six months should be disposed,it is useless.

Odebayo4010:
If you see me hustle here and there without Gucci shoes and dresses,, this is exactly what I want to avoid

If you like flex out the life in you when you are young..
If you like spend all you gather for women and clothes...
If you like don't invest now you are still strong and save for the future...

Don't forget this,,old age will surely come when you can't work... Don't soly put your trust and hope on your kids because they may fail most especially when you didn't give them good foundation to stand.

Na person wey stand dey carry another person.

The outcome of life is not how you plan or predict it to be.Most people you see as failures at their Old age, didn't plan for it, they hustle quite well and were doing well before the uncertainty of life hits them.So, wheather you wear Gucci or you hustle barefooted,it doesn't matter,it all depends on the benevolent spirit that help break your kannel.life is a mystery,nobody knows it better.

Blessedmercy8:
Says who? it is genetic, so why can't' they give birth to albino?

when they lack the pigment responsible for color, what will they now give to their offsprings to make them dark? They can't give birth to color children. No way! Even the guy knows that's why he said it's the reason they are coming together, so no chances of having dark babies.

My neighbor are both Albinos, but they've gotten 3 kids now,all blacks.
Albinism is a gene,,even black carry the gene more than Albinos.If both couples that carries the gene (wheather blacks or albinos) have babies it only has a 1 in 4 chance of having albinism,if only one couple is a carrier,then their children will have close to a zero chance for albinism.To be an albino,the child need to inherit it from both parents.Being an albino does not necessarily mean they must posses the gene, infact, blacks are more carriers than Albinos.

Albinos doesn't give birth to albino,

Money can buy a bed but can't buy sleep,
Money can build a house but can't build a home
Money can buy books but can't buy wisdom.
Money can buy drugs but can't buy good health and long life.
Money can marry many wives,but can't buy children.

Aderemi001:
What category have you spent the most on this year?�

1. Food and grocery
2. Utilities
3. Transportation

Food consumes 70% of an average income earners in Nigeria.

nakaman:
no be like say him no go give anything, him go still give something

Why are they shouting "no Shishi",You can't win election in Nigeria with that slogan

Antimarraige:
Obi wins or not, he will go back to his wealthy lifestyle and beautiful family. Let whoever wants to sell their votes sell their votes, we are not compelling anyone to vote for Obi again. Vote who you like, na all of us go gather buy petrol for 2k if PDAPC enter, no cap

If labour party is really sincere and ready to wrestle power from the other parties, they should give the electorate what their opponents are giving,you don't swim against the tide,if you want ants, You have to provide sugar and not salt.

No politician in Nigeria can bodly come out and tell Nigerians that he won that election to that seat with free and fair election.Even MKO Abiola who won the election that was adjudge as the most free and fairest election in Nigeria was filled with vote buying and selling.
I am so concerned because,LP said they are not giving "Shishir",how are
they going to compete for vote with those that are buying votes, especially, given the current rate of poverty in the country,I know many Nigerians are ready to sell their vote to get the Next meal.So, how's labour party going to make it.

The answer is 35

In the 2023 elections,there will be voters apathy in the east,and this will be a big minus fo Peter Obi.

It's common, because Most houses in mushin doesn't have toilets.This is very common in yoruba settlements.

GreaterFuture:
Sorry I couldn't post this in travel section, I've been banned there till next year
All of us want to japa, right, but lets talk about another angle...

Something occurred to me that I wanted to share, do you know any immediate close family members, blood relatives or friends that have been living in the UK for over 25 years, the eldest, a 90+ old woman, living there for over 65 years and they have no achievements?
Like no house there, no Sure Jobs, only one has a Child, the remaining are unmarried with no children
Except the old woman of course, whose children are the ones we are talking of
The youngest, a 35yr old man, has nothing, lived there since he was 2, 3 years

No Money, living from paycheck to paycheck, odd jobs. No investment, property, House or whatever, nothing nothing in Nigeria either...

All these people have British Passports o, all of them

These are pure capitalist economy, you work your arse off to enjoy the good things of life,the day you stop working, you are finished,at retirement, you must relocate back home to enjoy your retirement, that's if you're the type that built a house and invest back.home.

AntiTerrorist:
https://nigeriansdecide.com/who-should-be-the-president-of-nigeria-in-2023/

Dear Nigerians,

Here is a poll for us all...

You can only decide with your PVC, how many Nigerians who wish to vote for Peter Obi has PVC.This is the onus of it all.you will be surprise that those that have easy access to collect their PVC's (Northerners) will vote for their own.

Most powerful woman,an economist, works with world banks and other worlds renown intitutions, including world trade organization,yet, your impact is.not felt at home.you turned other countries economic fortune around yet where you came from is dead economically,keep receiving award abroad without nothing to boast of at home.Repair Your leaking roof before that of outsiders.

JoeNL22:
Is this true?

Yes.

Mr Ramon Mustapha, the driver attached to one of the vehicles on the convoy of the governor of Oyo state,Seyi Makinde lost his life in a crash on Tuesday.
Three others in the convoy were also injured when the governor was returning to Ibadan from Saki,where he had gone to attend a town hall meeting with members of the people's Democratic party (PDP) ahead of his re election bid.
It was gathered that the driver died on the spot after he was flung,when his vehicle eventually landed after tumbling several times.
A source who was part of the convoy said,the situation could have saved had the driver used his seat belt.
It was learnt that the crashed vehicle with code name"Zebra 4",somersaulted,throwing off some individuals on the trip.
The remains of the driver,was later buried at his Amuloko Ibadan residence on Wednesday according to Islamic rites.

ahnie:
Believe it or not....there re witches in villages..
I rather enjoy my festives at the comfort of my home healthy and happy,than in the village poisoned.

Agreed,are there no bad people in the cities.even in our streets and the compound we live.Visitng our home town with our families this yuletide period is very good,it exposes the children to many good things at home.

Pardubice:
There is no place like home! I concur with everything thing u said.
I still don't understand why some people
Think that there are no witches in the city. It's the duty of every parents to make sure that their children visit home especially during the festive period.
Even ur neighbor in the market do u know the kingdom he operates from?
In the office nko? That ur boss at work, do u think u know him enough? It's only
The blood of Jesus can protect us.

You said it all, there's a saying that,"the sheep is afraid ot the wolves,but it was the shepherd that later killed and ate it". Danger is everywhere,we should visit our homes, there's nothing to fear.

This is what former governor of Delta state DR.Emmanuel Uduaghan introduced in Delta state,and Governor IFEANYI OKOWA continued with it till date, without creating decent jobs for the teeming youths of the state.Keke riding is the only sustainable job in Delta state, despite the huge allocation she receives monthly.To make matters worse,they are still asking for the electorate to vote for them.
Deltans want change, not M.O.R.E suffering.

These are among the role models of our youths ,they are called to anchor youths reality shows and they even serves as ambassadors to big brands.So,who are we to trust in the country,
It's not only our leaders that are corrupt after all, some critics are holy because they've not gotten the opportunity to loot.

DREAMHOMES6970:
So many times I hear pastors in different churches tell their members to quit any job that would not give them time to attend church services, expecially Sunday service. I know it's very good for brethren to always come together to worship, but judging from how the economy is right now and how demanding most employers are who would want you to put in extra hours and some organization like restaurants and malls whom Sundays are one of their important days, I feel it will be difficult for some of the employees to attend weekly service and for some the compulsory Sunday service. And my question is should they quit their jobs as demanded by their pastors and devote their time to church since their job doesn't give them time for church programs. Because if that is the case, in so many of these mega churches in Nigeria, I see casual workers like the janitors and security men working on Sundays in the churches. And am like shouldn't this people also be in church listening to the word of God or is salvation segregated?

Please what's ur take?

God's salary and remuneration never goes dry.

There's this wrong notion that witches and wizards lives only in villages,this has dettered many people from visiting their (roots) hometown and villages, they believe that the old Mama's,uncle's and aunties residing there may harm them if they dare visit.
This has lead many people astray,as they don't even know where they came from, they're now lost in the wilderness; their parents never took them home and they,in turn never took their children there either.
It is instructive to note that witches(bad people)are found everywhere,even in the cities where you live in,even if you live abroad, they can still come after you,unless God is on your side.
It is very important to visit your root(village) that's where you belong, you need to associate with your kiths and kins over there, because wheather you like it or not, you must go there one day, either dead or alive,so,why running away from what you cannot avoid.
Christmas is even more enjoyable in the villages than in cities,there a lot of fun and attractions, you relates directly with your tradition,relics,artefacts,flora and fauna's and many important monuments.

The labour party house of assembly candidate for okigwe,Imo state,Mr.Iruono Chukwunonye is dead.
Iruono slumped on Monday evening and was confirmed dead in the early hours of Tuesday.
The late politician,who was also a member of the Obi-Yusuf Datti presidential campaign council was billed to anchor Peter Obi's presidential rally in Owerri today, Tuesday.
He was the senior special Assistant to the Imo Governor on entertainment.He was also the pioneer chairman of the Imo state Entertainment and carnival commission.

LoveUdie:
Secret unhappiness can gradually wreck a relationship; it’s important to be observant of when your partner is secretly unhappy, as it’s best to resolve issues when it first arises.
If you are observant, there are so many signs your partner lets out when he / she is secretly unhappy.
1. GIVES PHONE MORE ATTENTION
When your partner spends more time on his / her phone and gives it more attention than you, it’s a sign that your partner is secretly unhappy with you and is using the phone as a short-term replacement for you.
2. BECOMES QUIETER
This is another possible sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. People let out this sign when they are secretly unhappy or when are up to something. If your partner cuts communication with you drastically and become quieter, then it’s a sign your partner is secretly unhappy.
3. GIVES SHORT ONE-WORD RESPONSES
This is more like a defence mechanism people use to avoid talking about a subject or to show disinterest. When your partner starts giving short one-word responses then it’s a sign your partner is secretly unhappy.stale
4. SEX BECOMES STALE
Sex can also be an indicator for secret unhappiness. When your partner becomes unresponsive to sex or avoids sex totally then this is an obvious sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. Sex needs a huge amount of connection to be enjoyed, but when there is no sexual connection, it could be as a result of your partner being secretly unhappy.
5. CUTS OFF COMMUNICATION
A couple in harmony communicates well; however, when communication gets cut off immediately, it’s a sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. Communication can rarely go hand in hand with unhappiness.
6. BECOMES LESS AFFECTIONATE
When your usually romantic partner becomes less caring, less affectionate and less loving, it’s a huge indicator that something is terribly wrong, and your partner is secretly unhappy.
7. SUDDEN CHANGE IN BODY LANGUAGE
Body language can also show everything. If you are observant enough, you would notice a change in your partner’s body language. Change in body language could be shown in the reaction and communication of your partner, facial expressions expression and overall general behaviour. A change in body language from positive to negative could be a sign that your partner is holding some grudges in mind.
8. BECOMES DISRESPECTFUL
This is also another probable sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. When your partner becomes rude and disrespectful to you all of a sudden, it could be as a result of a grudge or a secret unhappiness that’s troubling his / her mind.
9. KEEPS THINGS FROM YOU
When partners are comfortable and happy with each other, they would tell each other things and rarely keep secrets; but the same cannot be said when one partner becomes unhappy secretly — this could make your partner withdraw and keep things away.
10. IS DISTRACTED
When your partner becomes distracted and pays less attention to you; rather than spend time with you, such a partner would spend time doing less important things. Distraction could be as a result of budding unhappiness in the relationship.
These signs show that your partner is secretly unhappy, and it’s best to solve this little crisis at this beginning stage, before it escalates and harm your relationship or... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com

You just summed up the problems associated with courtships and marriages.

press9jatv:
THE LEGISLATIVE HEAD AND THE EXECUTIVE HEAD ARE RUMINATING ON HOW TO MOVE OSUN STATE FORWARD, SINCE THE ROTTEN HEAD HAD BEEN SWEPT AWAY WITH HIS OWN BROOM.

YES, TWO GOOD HEADS ARE BETTER THAN BAD ONE.

The legislative head still holds the BROOM,so, Adeleke should be guided.An umbrella cannot withstand a wild storm.

Was Adeleke hullicinating when he was sworn into office as the governor of Osun state, instead of using reconcilation and reconstruction as his first tool to counter the opposition,he went to town pulling down political and traditional structures in the state.Even when he knew,the state house of assembly has only 2 members of his party (PDP).
He's learning the ropes gradually,as they've drag his ear as a warning sign, should he put up with any further recalcitrant and anti people attitude.He has no option than to drop his pride and work with the legislative arm of the state,so as to move Osun state forward.

Clashhh1:
The name Aghedo is mostly from Edo people.
maybe you search in Edo state probably starting from The NIMC office. With small amount they'll check all the Monday Aghedo and help with address but....... after investigating you and your reasons. you'll probably involve the police for help idk. just saying

The search should be narrowed down to Edo state,there are many Aghedos there,i think there will be some positive results from there.