₦airaland Forum

Mindlog:
Every kid do not need their father in their lives when they have been toxic. I work with adolescents living in care and majority of them specifically instructed their social workers not to include their fathers in the lists of persons that can contact them (adolescents)
physically or over the phone.

Many seek out the parent that was not in picture, for some form of closure

Because their mother told them that their father is irresponsible.

So Osun state has sinked so low that paying workers their salaries is now an achievement, will he not pay them before, Adeleke should think of how to change the outlook of the state and stop beating about the bush.

There has been this feeling of superiority between the nations security forces,as we all know,the police has always been underrated by the navy,air force and army, they look at them as under dogs.The army, expecially felt they are much more important among the lot.
What i see here is lack of good sensitization among them,they all complement one another as they have their important functions and duties

Lovelydaisies:
What then is oppression?

And then, at what point do you stand up against an action that threatens your peaceful existence or cool, without moving out being the only option?

what do you mean by peaceful existence,how do you react to this, when the laws of the land doesn't support you,If you are not careful,you will unknowingly infringe on the rights of people,Be careful,the only thing a man cannot endure is the threat to his life.even at that, You have to recede and not to attack.

SenatePresdo:
Tinubu doesn't stand a chance, and should step down for Obi, as Atiku has conquered the core North.

Atiku has also lost Southern Nigeria, he won't win a single State in Southern Nigeria, not even Delta state of Okowa.


Vote ObiDatti for president, abi Tribalism and suffer never tire you?

If ATIKU has conquered the core north, which is significant among the entire votes in the country, what's your permutation that Peter Obi can fly.

comrChris:
This is just it
I came in late but still I'm making over 150k every month from my two stands
I have added barbecue, book production to it. Hopefully man go stand well very soon

Thumbs up for you, keep the flag flying

FREDCLSSICO7:
na him type dey nack him palace maid

Yes o,all these chief's of nowadays,a high chief for that matter.

duro4chang:
At the same time you cannot belong to God and still expect your life to remain the same. The bible says old things are passed away. You can't continue to fornicate, lying, stealing etc and still claim to be in Christ. No justification for sin.

There's no justification for sin,but, unless the grace of God covers you, your flesh will cave in,sin is a spiritual warfare,that you can only be overcome, through the grace and power of God,and not through your (flesh) power, wisdom and connections .

duro4chang:
You should not justify yourself for commiting sin anyway.

Man was not created perfect by God,our creator,God knows this,hence,his grace was made available for man.It takes his grace to live above sin.

Okowa brought S.M.A.R T agenda for Deltans,but he failed woefully.he wasn't smart enough to govern the state.Imagine,with the billions of naira received every month as federal allocations,the state still lack motorable roads, drinkable water, electricity and,industries,what deceit is more than this, imagine from PTI through to Abraka and Agbor are death traps.Deltans don't want M O.R.E,they want C H A.N.G.E

Most People started late out of pride and lack of vision,expecially the youths, their psyche is already configured towards high paying non existent jobs,this frustrated them and rendered most of them comatose.
POS business can comfortably pay your bills and the smart Aleks cashed out big time before, the slow thinkers came in.They've flooded every nook and cranny in the country now,but you can still cash out if you're honest and sincere and you're in a good location.

MarketDispatch:
Used to date a lady that moaned loudly back in the days. During sex she will be moaning loudly and I will be shouting shh shh shh shhhh.

I had to stop saying shhhh shhhh shh when she asked me during one of her moans if I was owing the Landlord.

Women that moans during sex are fake,i repeat,FAKE!, They usually do it to please the man's ego.A woman can fake orgasm in a lifetime.

Islandlady:
it's easy to say because it is not you....My neighbors do not consider my well-being, cos if they do, they will lower their tune.

What if I got kids or I got elderly visitors? Do you know how embarrassing it will be?

I have encountered more nauseating experience than you do.I lived with a neighbor that snores,when he snores at night,the whole building is almost crashing ,those that went to confront him about it, were stoned and lambasted, saying was a mockery.In life, you must be tolerant about something's.Although,i have left that house,but anytime we run into each other,we still relate very well.Be careful, don't think you are smarter than those that kept quiet.

Very informative.

Islandlady:
Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!

It's very awkward and annoying...

Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!

Mind your business or be prepared to make avoidable enemies.Your neighbors are your first family,you must be wisely tolerant in order to live cordially with your neighbor.MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

A church is like a training ground to improve the imperfection of man,no one is righteous,no not one.But the public always expect christians including pastors and evangelist to be infallible,but it's not so, because they're human.Its just a platform to build your faith from continually hearing the word of God.

MichaelSokoto:
pesin wey survive this period till exit of Buhari 4rm office go do serious thanksgiving!

Who told you that the next government will be better.

annayawchee:
Honestly..

Life has never been this hard.
Inflation is just high,
Standard of living is just high,
Landlord choose this period to increase their rents.

Nothing is cheap, not even food..

Xmas is just 3 weeks away.

I've reduced my expenses to be barest but e still choke ...

How una dey cope??

There's no way you will reduce your expenses,that the current inflation in the country will not catch up with you.Things that were sold for 100 naira at the beginning of the year are now 200 naira,it means the increase in prices is above 100%,but the government said the inflation is just18.6%.
What this translate to is that,for you to survive in this recession period,your income have to be doubled,not to mention the rate of inferior and sub standard products churn out by industries in order to remain in business ,so, Nigerians are not even getting value for the money anymore .
Many firms and Industries has downsized their work force, thereby flooding the already saturated job market.Nigerians are now literally feeding from the bin as people are now malnourished for lack of enough nutrients in their meal.

If you can't take shit, don't go near marriage,It's an institution where you pretend,accept,and please your partner,if you want it to work, especially,the man,he must turn a blind eye to many shortcomings of his wife,that's why if you observe very well, you will see that in Many homes,the wife looks more plumpy and fresh than the man.its a shit swallowing institution.LOl.

Revolva:
Bloddy hoax come the shanty areas of lag and see plenty urhobo and other areas of delta hustling in hotel lol

It may be hard to detect them sha ..lol abeg forget o

Not Urhobo women,i speak with data and figures and not hearsay.I am proudly urhobo,i will be celebrating my 35 years marriage anniversary this December,there will be giveaways here in the forum.

Stesa:
I actually invested it a a scheme that crashed. It's an overdraft and not a loan, I don't borrow, perhaps if I knew the investment was a scam I wouldn't have taken the offered overdraft.

And secondly I intend to pay back, from my first picture you can see that I intent to pay 10k weekly to combat the overdraft, but the bank is not giving me listening ears.

Perhaps if you hate it when people don't pay loans you could assist me pay one week. I'll drop the kuda account.

Thanks in anticipation sir.

You took loan to invest in a Ponzi scheme,you deserves the embarrassment, because you are a lazy,get rich quick cretin,If you had use that money to open a POS stands,i think you would have added more value to your life.people like you learn through the hard way.carry the sticks you gathered on your head.

Connected1:
I would have believed you if I am not here in Delta State.

Go and deceive others, I won't argue much.

Your eye's See's what your mind accepts

Thereisstillhop:
Lol
I no dey try make people like you feel depressed but you can if wish ..... Places wey girl go dey look my hands to confirm its car key or see me trying to pack. If you dey try carry yourself comot you for understand

Driving a Car is not a sign of oppulence or wealth, it's even a huge liability.I know billionaires that drives low cost cars,also note that majority of those that drives big cars bought them on loans and hire purchase,so,the experience and wise gal's knows that driving cars does not mean you have a lot of money in your pocket

Human being reacts to things they see physically than that of the spiritual,hence they worship the creation (man) than their Creator.that's why they tagged some pastors as God of men, rather than Men of God .

Connected1:
Yen yen yen

Do they stay in marriages?
Are they good wives?

Don't come online to deceive people by marketing your tribe, I rather marry an ugep woman that's a known cannibalist than an Urhobo woman.

Even if it's a free wife and the family didn't request any items, you will still spend above 100k, Urhobo women don't stay in marriages, their men don't even marry them, they are just good for babymamaism because they are very unreliable.

On the contrary,an urhobo woman is very patient and tolerant and they're among the few left that respects tradition,that's why 90% of their men go after them.You can hardly find an urhobo woman in a brothel or found involving in any act of sexual rascality.An Urhobo woman,no matter what happens, always stays in her husband's house to take care of her children.

babaolofin:
Obasanjo as old man is supposed to have retired. The entire Osugbos in Yoruba land and the highest hierarchy of all the Ogboni Councils supposed to have meeting on him.

The second time Tinubu traveled to Europe. Wike and his governors traveled two days later to have meeting with Tinubu. Uninvited and without any prior arrangement, Obasanjo, Peter Obi and At ik u hurriedly traveled to Europe to having meeting with Wike and his governors.

It is very disappointing that Obasanjo in his 80s that is supposed to be in his house for people to be consulting him is now running after Wike and the Governors to Europe . IBB, Abdulsalam Abubakar and Buhari out of office will never do that. Obasanjo run after Wike to Europe to scuttle Wike and the G5 meeting with the main man. Obasanjo was followed by other aspirants. That was the end of such meeting between Tinubu and Wike group.

The Osugbos should tell him to go and rest.

That's the difference between the Hausa/Fulani and the Yorubas,the latter retire gracefully while directing the youths while the former dine and wine with the youth's he's supposed to show the right paths

Parachoko:
You kids talk rubbish a lot

If you are matured,then prove me wrong, with your facts and figures.

Aiel123:
His daughter, Marilyn is just a step away from the house of assembly seat...
APC's Sebastian Okoh is left with only Umunede to rival the six wards of OWA kingdom.
For VP e no clear

All the former governors of Delta state always want to install their child(ren) into political positions.Iboris daughter after three tenures in the state house of assembly, she's now gunning for the house of representatives, ditto,uduaghans and Okowa.

KanuSE:
What does obj need his polling unit votes for?

It shows his credibility, acceptability and popularity.

Obasanjo is no longer relevant in Nigeria politics,he has been used and dumped by his Hausa/Fulani lords, even his kinsmen do no believe in him anymore, hence he lost his ward in the last election.

Poten111:
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wisdom is profitable to direct.

Since the governor of Delta state Dr IFEANYI OKOWA became the running mate to Atiku,he no longer stays in Asaba and concentrate on governance and deliver the fruit of democracy to Deltans.Deltans should be wise this time around,we don't want a continuation of this disaster because the PDP governorship flag bearer said his agenda for Deltans is tagged "M.O.R.E".I want to ask,is it more suffering lack, retrogression,bad roads, unemployment.No,Deltans don't want more,they want "CHANGE".