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fyzaila:
Men! Men! Men! How many times did i call you? You guys should always appreciate any submissive good woman you call your wife or girlfriend. Call them sweet names and pamper them.

My colleague has been very moody this days. I had to ask him if he cares to share what's bothering him. He told me his wife asked for a divorce from him but he declined. They've been having issues upon issues quite alright but he never knew she could go this far of wanting a divorce. She said she don't have any feelings for him and the love has fade away. She has gone to court and asked for marriage annulment. They court have given them date for hearing.

He told me he really hasn't been fair to his wife in terms of pampering her. He has never called her any romantic name since they got married. Their marriage is going to 7 years now. Sometimes he calls her madam or he says hey i am talking to u. No any form of romance from him. The S£x aspect is even worse. She complains of pain and he will always tell her she's lying. He married her a virgin so she is new to all this sexual stuffs. He still doesn't care only satisfys himself that's all. He doesn't assist in any domestic work. His wife had their 2 kids through cs still does everything her self from washing cloth to cleaning the house to cooking, Bathing and taking care of the kids. He said he thought she is strong enough to do them since she doesn't complain or ask for assistance.

Now that the reality has set in, he is now forming lovey-dovey to her. But she isn't having any of it. I don't even know where to start advising him from. He said her parents are siblings can do little or nothing to change her mind. Because initially her dad wasn't in support of the marriage but he reluctantly agreed after pressure from my colleague wife and other family members.

There's Hell in "HELLO" and GOOD in Goodbye.

Maynman:
god of love seems like a deity that specialises in love.
In greek religion, Eros is the god of love.

Love of gods is self explanatory.

Almighty God has many attributes,not just that of love.Greeks are idle worshipers .

RenaissanceGuy:
If you fear Him, would you use His name as a moniker?

Is it wrong for you to bear your father's name.

Maynman:
Love and fear won’t mix.

Is God of love and Love of God possible.

falcon01:
Wouldn't it make more sense to Love God? Fear doesn't last, but Love is forever.

Yes, they are intertwined,you may be afraid to break the laws and rules of whom you fear, ditto, You hardly offends whom you love., you show this love by keeping to his commandments,the fear came in because,there are implications and punishment attached.Its only the fear of man that doesn't last, because he's a mortal being

God1000:
Our world is a total mess because there's no fear of God again

You're absolutely correct, God's wreath is now on many people and nations because of their continuous evil practices

God is our judge,God is our lawgiver,God is our king.He will save us.(ISAIAH 33 V 22)
The bible chapter above tells us about the supreme power of God, he's the legislature, judiciary and Executive,we all know the implications of this,that's why in human government,the three arms of government are separated to avoid abuse by human because of his fleshy nature.
God never make mistakes,he never abuse his power,but he show us love,he always give sinner's time to repent.
Whenever God want to judge,he doesn't consult anyone, because he's the lawgiver,the judge and the king.Christians should fear God

PJtech:
someone should show me love this xmas

This thread is for shout-out and best wishes and not for begging,The only sure way to be happy in life is to work, work, work and work, there's dignity and fulfilment in it.This coming year,try and look at that direction.

My shout-out also goes to @kobojunke, he's doing really great in the religious section, great compliment!!!

ekammaita:
who will be writing the ones withdrawn at the ATM

They write it down before loading the ATM machine.

feranmi143:
Yo fish, serial number or no serial number, money that is ment to be stolen will be stolen, 80% of cbn workers are big SCAMMERS

How,do they print money.

Zee0007:
My shoutout goes to you coputa for your great comments on this platform but some of your comments day vex me sha. Compliment of the season. Let love keep leading!

@Zee007 good things will pursue and arrest you this season ,i promise to sieve my comments next year.thanks.

adeoyekay:
compliment of the season

Same to you @adeoyekay

The year is gradually winding up, with the Christmas just a few weeks away.This is a season of exchanging greetings and pleasantries among comrades and i think members of this great forum would not be left out,we should give a Christmas shout-out to a Nairalander and exchange pleasantries,in the spirit and mood of the season.
My shout-out and compliments goes to all well meaning NAIRALANDERS.

Hopeba:
A legend is gone..God you can't leave your office empty.. you have called him home.. pls use me to fill his office.. amen.. rest in peace boss Sammie

To fill his office,do you know what you are saying,are you a man of God, don't you know that everyone has his own grace and callings.Pray for your own office.

This is not the issue of Bank job. Right now, Nigerians are stressed up due to the calamitous state of the economy brought about by successive regimes.This rudderless administration of mohammadu Buhari was the last nail in the coffin,cost of living is astronomical high,and this is having a toll on Nigerians,stress kills faster than any other ailments.

gambojimeta:
Like play like play. Tinubu is going to become the President

The Jagaban of the Universe

How would a man largely hated becomes a president of the most populous black nation.A BAT,with all his fake identity and health issues,not to mention the bad reputation of his party and his Muslim/Muslim ticket.

Being unemployed is a self made decision,if you pocket your ego, there're
a lot of jobs out there that you can do to keep body and soul together.The lazy and the proud always complain that there's no job.

Maynman:
Because he didn’t exist!

Who?

Igholize:
Okowa , you are a mad man.. We deltans despite being oil rich producing state, surfer full delta... No road, no light , no security, no jobs , u dey owe pensioners their pensions for a very long time and u are here saying, Nigerians will rejoice again wey e be say, we deltans no get joy because you b wicked man. The most painful among ur wicked deeds is , you had six months to leave office and that's wen you borrowed # 225 billion naira with our state .. No project is on going after u borrowed d money. We all know ur plans , na you dey fund Atiku Presidential ambition. No worry , u don fail already. Delta state sure for Obi

You've spoken the mind of all those who which Delta well.

kolaaderin:
Which Obadanjo conceived what, that bridge has been on political pictures since the 70s. OBJ military regime you mean. This lies will definitely choke you people. Buhari has done well and accept it. If you think otherwise please don’t use that bridge not to attack curse on yourself. This minions are seriously annoying .

The big loaf of bread was 300 naira when Buhari came in,it's now selling for one thousand two hundred naira,a bag of rice was 7000 naira,it's now 45,000 naira, companies has relocated from the country because of lack of infrastructures and security,If you are sane,i do not think you would dance naked in public for this administration

Nazgul:
This is the only major project this administration did in the entire South East and I heard that there would be tolls would be collected on the bridge. This means that technically, the South Easterners are paying for that bridge. So what's all the noise about?

Buhari constructed rail system to Niger. When the entire South East doesn't have a single rail line linking any state, despite how business oriented they are.

This is one of the things that's fueling this agitation of Biafra. If you can't recognize us as Nigerians, let us go it's that simple.

The way the Hausa/Fulani detest the Igbos is second to none,and i am surprised that the top Igbo elite presented themselves to be used to achieve this,that's why this BIAFRA agitation is never taken serious.

Villa12:
Chinedu

At least you know APC will win the coming election

I'm glad you know that

Never,APCshit will never smell Aso rock again,all 0dds are working against them,no thanks to the deplorable state of the economy, brought about by the incompetency of APCSHIT government.
Having said that,the candidate they presented for the 2023 presidential election will be worse, because BAT belongs to 2 specie's,which is abnormal and Nigerians wouldn't want to take that risk a second time.For your information,all Nigerians are OBEDIENT.

Sweetvie:
My dear, money can now buy children

Are adopted children your biological children,Dem be another man pikin.

Sweetvie:
@op
Bruh I get you n understand you but...
Money is everything

Money is not everything, money can marry a beautiful woman,is it the money that will fut*k her for you, money can get a good doctor,but can't buy good health etc

Sweetvie:
My dear, money can now buy children

How, Please explain.

Villa12:
At least you know Tinubu is your next president

I said a win for Tinubu is a Shettima presidency, can't you comprehend,

Yusufisraelj:
I read you correctly, people can betray trust you put in them I understand that, but to live without trusting is what kobojunkie is stressing, I find that hard to accept.

My brother I know what betrayal looks like from money issues to relationship, but I'll never stop trusting bkos of some few fuvk ups.

let's use the word "entrusting" here , because trusting a human means you have completely lower your guard,which is dangerous, because the human mind is subject to temptations and manipulations,but by entrusting something to someone , you can hold on to your plan B if it turn out sour, but trust doesn't go with plan B

Most of you people here don't understand northern political permutation,A win for Tinubu is an automatic president for Shettima.

Yusufisraelj:
Interesting, when one lives on suspense in his/her interactions with people, that person will hardly find genuine friend's.

I find it hard to believe your submission. Yes humans are fallible but to live without trusting anyone means that said person is not a sincere person.

You are getting it wrong, yes,humans can fake loyalty and sincerity in order to get what they want from you,but it doesn't last, because of the flesh, someone you know today can change to something else tomorrow, you have to be weary of humans,i don't know how old you are, but as you grow older you will understand how humans changes like chameleon

Western countries
really want to wreck Nigeria economy, Doctors are leaving,tech expert are leaving,it's now the turn of teachers,if you want to destroy Africa, start with Nigeria

Many christians sects are sceptical about the day Jesus Christ was born,it has brought a lot of argument,to the extent that some of them do not even celebrate Christmas.What was the actual day he was given birth to.