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Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.

K

Did he kill himself or the wife killed him and made it look as if he committed suicide.

Exactly

timecapsule:
THE TIMECAPSULE NEWS REPORTING......................

Nigeria as a giant of Africa with a population of about 185 million, which has about 75% (about 140 millions) of masses living in abject poverty.
The federal Government has commence to subsidize for 1 millions life of Nigerians with a monthly payment of #5000 each from different selected state in Nigeria, whereas the remaining 139 million peoples need to carry their own cross by their self.

..............NIGERIANS are good in putting the square peg in a round hole.
..............NIGERIANS don't need this kind of subsidys
..............NIGERIANS need our ECONOMY to be fixed.
..............NIGERIANS needs young bloods in our GOVERNMENT, We are tried of all these out dated brains that has retried from civil servant offices and dump their selves in the affairs of this country.

Please if i may asked do we have age bracket for civil servant offices in Nigeria, what a happen to our GOVERNMENT.........?? In the 80s they said we are the future leaders, till now they are still in the affair of this country.
.................My question is, when is our future to lead this country is going to start, instead we YOUTHS will be here in NAIRALAND hailing them for their mistakes.
........... IF i may ask our YOUTHS, Pls flash back to get the right answer, what is the age bracket of our LEADERS from 1960 to 1990..........?

God bless you. But It's easy to talk online and nothing will happen. There must be something we can do to salvage this mess Nigeria is into.
My thought is if we can be gather many people and form a movement. Things will happen! I might not be good in public speaking or motivating a crowd so we need someone who can. It's high time we got out of this mess our leaders keep putting us into.

Beamborla:
If you ask me, going after a lady because you find her sexually appealing is not even love in the first place. That's lust.

When people talk about being loved for real, they are referring to the ability of the person to see all their imperfections and accept it. They are referring to the ability of the person to see beyond their physical appearance and be aware of other treasures embedded in them.

Truth is, you'd always come across people who posses that which you find attractive in your partner and even more. You'd meet people better than your partner, people who meet your standards, who have qualites you never knew you'd find attractive. If it's all about your submission, what should one do when that happens?

I understand what the op is saying very well. I strongly affirm that nobody loves another person for no reason. A guy is able to look beyond his girl imperfections because there is something else he sees in her that is more valuable to him than all the imperfections. I hope you got my point

sweettease:
as in ehn... Smh

Tho the post may look stupid but I can feel the ops pain. I have a girl whose also a virgin and I don't want to touch her till we get married. But I keep praying nothing makes her loose her virginity before then cos It will really be painful if she does.

I could have smashed his head on the wall behind him if I were taking this picture

I hate when people refer to this real men do this or do that bullshit. 4c.k the real men and nobody should expect me to fit into his/her real men ideology. Though im not for or against kneeling down to propose.. Its a free world! Choose to do what you want but you should have reasonable reasons for doing so.

He didn't dump you because you are a virgin. he let you go because you are not one of the girls he can chop and clean mouth with.

seunlly:
I'm sure the contract is award to a Yoruba engineer

I'm a yoruba engineer and we never cut corners....but we know the tribe that does anything to get quick money. God help us to quickly separate from you.

Atiku2019:
Well I Stand With Atiku2019...

Recycling the same set of thieves again. You Nigerians are annoyingly gullible

I love my mum

Lordave:
Nairaland should b locked down for constantly promoting animal cruelty.

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Mtchewwww

Laveda:
Expecting the usual comments.

Lmao... C for cucum what?

damilola8775:
c'mon man u've taken dis stuff a bit personal,if they decide to hv it lyk dat jez allow dem...moreover da issue of da prophet marrying a twelve yrs old girl,try to get da fact pls,u dnt nid to speak rubbish looking intelligent,read wide nd u will understand arabs mature faster nd their menstrual cycle begins earlier which spurs dem to venture into marriage earlier..hre in Nigeria also,we've seen and heard of girls nt more than 8 or 9 getting pregnant,so that is done in order to curb any kind of fornication dat might surface due to da sexual urge...read wide nd u will understand tins!

Wih u keep quiet. Oro jati jati woh lo n so jadey lenu u. 8 or 9 getting pregnant and someone marrying them to curb fornication.

I dislike hearing things like respect a lady. So what should we do to men. Disrespect them abi? It's OK to say "respect others" because if respect goes by gender a good number of ladies in our society today don't deserve any respect.

Ighoga898:
and yet dey will keep on deceiving themselves dat dey like dark dudes.. black is beautiful yet almost everyone at one point in time has bought skin lightening cream.

Excluding me. I hate the thought of changing my skin colour

It sounds odd but I just suspect the wife has a hand in her being kidnapped.

The sad thing is people reading this are blinded by casting of blames on either Jonathan or Buhari. They won't open their eyes and see that regardless of which party is involved, the political class hasn't stopped lavishing the nations resources. Hey people lets drop this "zombies" and "wailers" syndrome and lets address this wasteful spending of resources by the politicians before everything totally crumbles.

They waste the country's resources hereby causing this recession and guess what- they don't feel any pain or hardship. It is you and I that keep arguing and casting blames that are been robbed and left to suffer.

habsydiamond:
Some men with childish behaviours. U know u can't afford to cater for another child after already having five. Why then do you have to impregnate your wife. Why not use condom and avoid all this embarrassment u are putting ur family through. I just pity the children.

From what I read up there. I think the man knows that that baby his wife is carrying is not his own. Maybe he had made himself sterile after fathering his children in the past.

Thoughty2:
I like people who challenge popular beliefs. But what I don't like is challenging popular beliefs without gathering enough facts or thinking deep. The bible says Jesus rose from the dead so you don't expect to see the remains of someone who is still alive. Moreover, even if Abraham's and other biblical patriarchs' remains were well preserved we won't be able to recognize him facially. Who knows, that could be Joesph's remains seen up there in the picture op showed

The most sensible contribution so far

Is either your bro just watched too much horror movies or is simply inspired by some spooky and creepy being.

Eyah, the look on her face kinda tells that she going through tough times financially. May be she couldn't just bear it any longer and decided to do the what she did. Only if we could do the same to politicians embezzling public funds. Although, I'm not in any way supporting what this woman did but I dey feel for am sha

chiefolododo:
Shame on her, she cannot endure

If endurance to you is what is there in marriage. I advice you better not go into it. People like you are just so unbeliveable. Haba!

First, it's either this story isnt true or the girl is a first class mumu. How in the world do u think that a man who doesn't want to have kids with u and keeps damaging ur womb will later marry u.

Just try to attempt the attempt and watch your lives go up in flames

Some sleep for less than 4 hours a day. I think may be such people are aliens on a vacation from pluto or they are just normal people who simply do not plan their time well. To me, having a good amount of sleep (which ranges from about 5-7 hours) doesn't mean you are lazy. It only shows that you are sincere enough to know you are human and your body needs enough time to refresh itself so it can be alert and productive the next day. It's just a thought I feel like chipping in.

I sleep time ranges from 4-7 hours.

Simple ladies like Mrs osinbajo make me go head over heels

talktonase:
6months to appoint ministers,budget has not been signed after a year pmb emerged victorious at the pools.If he does not increase this accomodation allowance for his cabinet members he may likely not achieve anything for the next two quaters because these ministers may claim that their inability to secure conducive accomodation is what will frustrate implementation of the change agender.

If you don't like a person, there is nothing he would do that will seem correct in your eyes. At times granting people their request could be good but in this case are you advocating that these looters be given 20 million naira for accomodation in a country where the common man is struggling to find one square meal in a day? In a country where there is untold hardship among its citizens. If they like they shudnt perform and they surely will be kicked out. There are many people eyeing for their position.

ifyan:
Welcome to change that Nigerians ask for

It will get better soon under this administration and y'all gonna eat back your words

either from offering in church or from pick pocketing around. If Its church offering, it does speak well. With the amount of money they recieve per service, they should have bought envelopes already