₦airaland Forum

I don't think I need that ambulance

@Free
Am still waiting for your response

No no no don't call ambulance - If you don that, my condiion would go from bad to worse.
All is want is that you just come and stay close to me and then maybe; just manbe I might get better.

@kellorah
Well seeing they say is believing and I strongly believe that proverb. The work of the media is to enlighten the general public on what's going on in the society. So if your media tells you something about the way you go in public why remain stubborn? Why not change?


@$$Rhino
You will do what? don't make me get angry with you this morning o!

@Free
So you're leaving me after all I've done for you.
You wan kill me abi?


Acidrop stand by abeg

I wish you good luck also


@Free
So what next?

kellorah:
Nah. Putting on skimpy clothes does not guarantee sex-attack. 'Decently' dressed girls DO get attacked as well. How many sex-attack issues have been 'because she was indecently dressed'?

98% of girls who get raped apart from the under aged ones; their attack came as a result of the way they portrayed themselves to the public. And I will argue that to the last because I read a lot of newspapers, I listen t news and also read magazines so I know what am saying.

@Acidrop
Free has given me a serious headache is that the price I have to pay simply because I wanted to make her happy tell me is it?   

Sorry that wasn't what I meant ok? don't mind free she's loves being Stubborn

You people seem not to understand where am getting at. A guy who wears singlet is totally different from a girl who dresses indecently.

A girl who dresses indecently can get herself into different kinds or trouble such as rape, arrested and others. Last month the police released the highest crime rate in the country and it wasn’t robbery that had the highest percentage, it was rape. Go through all the evening papers and tell me if you won’t find any story about rape.
Now if you know that putting on a particular kind of cloth would make you a victim of rapist then why would you deliberately remain stubborn all in the name of you look comfortable in it?

Ignorance would only get you into trouble and the sooner you realize that, the better it is for you.

@Adicrop
Feel free to interrupt maybe free might get jealous and give me the required attention I need

@wifeypenth
I wish you the same

Didn't you hear the story, he disguised like a woman and escaped form London. But was later arrested by policemen in Nigeria.

What am simply saying is that a female should put on something that looks decent to her.
Something that’s worth presenting in the public.
Your mode of dressing tells the kind of person you are.

Assume you take a walk and come across a girl who’s dressed indecently, the first thing that comes across your mind at that moment would be that – that girl is a sloth. I know that no one has the right to judge another person, but in order to have a good moral, I strongly believe it’s right to put on decent clothes.

And concerning what you said about plucking out one’s eye, I would advise you to lead by example because I strongly believe you are not righteous, neither are you a saint.

I wish free knew that dinner's ready.

@$$Rhino

Let me enlighten you a little if you don’t know.
Any dressing that has effect towards the opposite sex is regarded is indecent dressing.
Suppose you go to a church and a girl who wears a skimpy skirt or a girl who puts on something very attractive sits close to you – you can’t tell me that you would be able to concentrate on the sermon you came to hear. You would find yourself throwing glances at her form time to time.

The female body is like an emotional machine and it has to be properly covered or else it might affect the opposite sex. When girls begin to walk about the streets half naked what else do you expect the community to call them if not prostitutes.

Don't you know that The biggest and greatest treasure a woman has is her body and if she misuses it, it affects her reputation not only in the society; it also makes people have a bad impression about her

I wish to know why?

That's the former governor of bayelsa state he got impeached because he emblazed too much money.

I wish you would believe me for once

Hmm

I wish you knew I don't lie.

I wish you knew am waiting for you so we could go to bed together.

I wish you knew it is good news

From my own perspective I think it’s indiscipline. I don’t see why a parent would look at the way their daughter is dressed and won’t caution her; instead they would allow her leave the house in that kind of cloth. Today in our world, immorality has taken over the minds of a lot of young people unfortunately most of them are females.

Just last week, the Nigerian police raided Ikeja and its environs and arrested a lots of girls who were dressed so indecently. They paraded them as prostitutes. You can’t blame them for doing that I mean after seeing how those girls were dresses, it would be hard to convince anyone that they aren’t prostitutes.

Now the question one would ask is that why would someone put on a skirt that is so short or put on jeans trousers so as to expose their back to men?
The most painful thing is that most of them see that dressing as normal and would argue with you to any extent just to justify themselves.

I wish you knew that wish just came to pass

Na wah o!

Anyway back to the game.

I wish you would be happy

Then who can make you happy, or what can make you happy?

Now she's getting angry despite all my efforts to make her happy

Bluelights:
Are any ladies in really confusing or difficult relationships with their men? Please share, especially if you'd like a male point of view.

'
Why don't you share yours first and then maybe they might share theirs after listening to yours.