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Not all women are the same, we have some who still prefer undivided attention from their husband than money

13 signs that suggest a lady would soon lose her virginity

Dosu Gideon



Virginity is a thing of joy and glory, especially for men that they met their wife as a virgin. Although we are the days where people do not actually celebrate it but I want you to know that there is dignity in it and we still have people that held it in high esteem.

All men prefer and even pray to marry a virgin. Even “play-boys” disdain prostitutes for wives. They all want to marry “saints”. Hence keep yourself. Virginity is still fashionable. Even if it is not, prefer to be old -fashioned.

The essence of this article is to help ladies that really wants to keep their virginity but are treading the paths that may cause them to a victim can quickly retrace their steps.



Here are 13 signs that suggest a lady would soon lose her virginity

1.When you don’t define your relationship and don’t have a boundary: Some ladies do say they don’t want illicit sex but they will only satisfy their partners with kissing, pecking e.t.c. Please note that kissing and pecking are not for sexual satisfaction but for sexual stimulation. The man you think you are satisfied with kissing; pecking and hugging will become aggressive after you might have allowed him to handle you because he is highly stimulated and not satisfied. He can kill you to have his way. Hence DO NOT START WHAT YOU CAN NOT FINISH. Run away from kissing, pecking and handling until you are married.

2. Addicted to pornography or sex films: If all you do is to be watching porn either from your TV or you have already downloaded it on your phone you are writing a letter to this menace without notice.

A virgin who prides herself in seeing romantic movies may be making her subconscious think of sex in a wild way. Moreover, having a romantic partner who is touchy and expressive may hasten the process and make her want to have sex. Keeping wrong company: If all your friends are people that do not regard virginity, they talk less about it there is tendency you end up like them.

3. Less emphasis: If you grow up in an environment where sex before marriage is preached daily, the thoughts of having sex may be pushed back each time they surface. Just like the previous points, when you are not hearing more about the importance of virginity, not seeing people that got rewards by keeping theirs, Just the way it was stated in this book “Pure Gold” that there are about 10 people that will greet you if you marry as a virgin. e..g Your husband, your children may ask you about it in the future, etc.

4. You Don’t mind what you will lose – Those who persist in pre-marital sex usually experience abnormal changes in their bodies at certain times in their lives, which do affect their beauty. That is why many of them can not go out without make-ups and expensive cosmetics to cover up their deteriorating beauty. At 16, such girls look like old women. Among what you may lose is your vision, your joy, health, and self-esteem.

5. You are not modest about your Dressing– All those dresses that expose parts of your laps, breasts, back, e.t.c. are not good for you. ALL THOSE “SEE – THROUGH” WILL ONLY BLOCK YOUR BREAKTHROUGH. If you put on those erotic wears that show your figures, you are inviting boys to come and defile you

6. When visiting a guy at wrong time: Some ladies do visit their male friends at wrong time, apart from been dangerous, it’s not healthy for the relationship

7. When visiting male friends at wrong places: Places really matter, they are some places you meet a male friend that can insinuate wrong moves. for example a lady was asking question in a program I attended that her fiancé normally asked her to meet him in the hotel for prayers and she was told it was very wrong not only it could lead to sin but it will not speak well of you in the presence of people that knows you.

8. Boundary Breaker: It does not speak well of you when you go to a guys house or your fiancé places and go straight to his room, some girls that are not discipline will even lie down on the bed. It is not a sign that you are discipline

9. Lack of managing your emotion: When you are a lady that can’t manage her emotion. Little things do arouse your anger you may fall victim in the hand of a man that can take it an advantage .against you.

10. When you want to please your guy at all cost: Many ladies in the name of keeping their relationship may decide to use everything they have to ensure their relationship work out. So even the guy ask for sex they are ready to give him.

11. You make guys you confidant: A guy should not be your closest friend. but many ladies indulge in this act because they believe guys normally keep secrets than ladies, Guys does not keep secrets but because the information did not come back to you does not mean your secrets is not in the town

12. When you visit clubs and dancing halls: When it is your habit to visit clubs and dancing halls you may fall victim of being raped and eventually lost your virginity.

13. Interest in contraceptives: Contraceptives is common with people who have sex regularly without the intention of getting pregnant. When ladies who claim to be virgins start talking to doctors or pharmacists about pills and their effectiveness, they are probably about doing it. Why would you want to learn about contraceptive methods when you are not carrying out a research work on them

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Trust me when I say there is nothing wrong with having a particular tribe in mind that you want to marry but you must be prepared for what you are likely to get from them.

Ijebu ladies are wonderful but you will have to be patient to enjoy them because just like any other tribe they have their own good and bad sides

Here are 13 things you must know before you marry an Ijebu girl

1. They Are Enlightened
Ijebu girls are very enlightened and they are exposed. Don’t mess with them thinking they don’t know anything.

2. They like Ikokore
Ikokore is the food of the Ijebu people and so you might be eating it morning, afternoon and night. The truth is you cannot do without eating ikokore in a week. So, if you want to enjoy your wife, you must like ikokore

3. You will attend plenty parties
Ijebu ladies naturally love parties; it is something in their blood that cannot be flushed out. Whether they are related to the person or not, once there is a party, they just have to attend. Be ready to either attend the party with her or allow her to freely go for as many parties as she wants to attend

3. Garri Ijebu is a must take
Everybody loves garri Ijebu and garri Ijebu is talked about by almost everybody. Ijebu girls are also so delighted to have their garri either soaked or eaten as swallow “eba”

4.Be prepared to buy many aso-ebi
You must be prepared to buy as many aso-ebi as possible because if there is one thing Ijebu lady cannot do without, it is aso-ebi. They must buy for every party

5. OJUDE-OBA is a must attend
It is better you get used to it or love things she loves because OJUDE-OBA is one event Ijebu people cannot do without. It is a yearly carnival-like event which means you must prepare for it with her every year because it is like her home town’s celebration so she needs your support

6. They spend wisely
This is one plus to Ijebu ladies, they know how to manage resources. They don’t spend extravagantly. They may not be considerate when it comes to buying aso-ebi, but for other things, be sure to have them help you save your money

7. Ijebu ladies can be stingy
You heard well, they can be stingy. Though here they will say they are just being prudent but there is a thin line between their prudence and stinginess. Have this in mind, the only place they spend is at parties.

8. They are business minded
Ijebu ladies are a good entrepreneur, they are so business minded. You can see this from the way they sell things ranging from their Kokoro to Coco and even sugarcane.

9. You are likely to enjoy pounded yam too
Though not as it will be with an Ijesha lady but Ijebu ladies too are likely to give you pounded yam because pounded yam is regarded as a food of the high and mighty

10. Prepare for an elaborate wedding
If you want to marry Ijebu lady, be ready for a big society wedding. In their case, there is nothing like I don’t want to shout about my wedding. Even, shouting is their way of life. Everybody must hear and you must have this in mind, this is the only thing that makes them to really spend.

11. They love Eba
Their love for this swallow is out of this world and it can be eaten at any time

12. Even if they have travelled out of the country for years, you cannot take away their Ijebu intonation from them

13. They have highly extended family connection
Be ready to accommodate extended families, not only their parents and siblings but the generation they don’t even know when they were born.




Also read: http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-things-you-need-to-know-if-you-want-to-marry-an-ekiti-man/


Also read: http://www.dailyfamily.ng/11-serious-facts-must-know-marry-igbo-girl/


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29 WAYS TO SHOW YOUR WIFE YOU LOVE HER WITHOUT SPENDING A DIME

Bisi Adewale

1) SUPPORT HER IN THE HOUSE
Help her around the house,she will like it,what better way to so love?

2) APPRECIATE HER
Appreciate her,commend her food, motherhood, wisdom etc

3) COMMEND HER GOOD LOOK
Women are emotionally attached to their outlook. Make it a point of duty to commend your wife stature, dress sense etc

4) PLAY WITH HER

Be playful, be her playmate

5) GIVE HER ATTENTION
Give her your attention. Off the radio,shut down the Television,close the newspaper,off the phone,just for her.

6) COOK FOR HER
Let her sleep and rest when you do the cooking,she will enjoy the food and feel loved

7) MAKE HER FEEL IMPORTANT
Treat her as a very important person. Recognize her in the public,praise her before the Children.

MASSAGE HER
Women do enjoy body Massage,but they hardly get it,give her a regular body Massage,you don’t need to be a masseur a massage therapist or open a massage Parlor to do this.

9) SCRATCH HER BACK
Help her scratch her back regularly,women enjoy this,give it to your wife.

10) PRAY WITH HER
Always pray with her,this make women more secure and comfortable.

11) WASH HER CLOTH
Help wash her cloth or that of Children when she is too busy to do this

12) PRAY FOR HER
Lay your hands on her regularly and pray for her,she will feel loved and honored if you do this.



13) GIVE HER WEEKEND REST
Pick a weekend for her every quater when she will not do any house work,call it “weekend off” do all she suppose to do at home as she has her rest.


14) BE FAITHFUL TO HER
Be totally faithful to her and let her know you do. Nothing makes a woman happier than the presence of a faithful man.

15) DEFEND HER
Stand for her,defend her,protect her,be on her side when our family fights her,be there for her when everyone turn against her

16) TREAT HER LIKE A FRIEND
Be her friend,not just her husband,be friendly

17) PROTECT HER
Protect her,be her defense,be her shield,you must never allow her to be attack by any one,be her champion.

18) HUGG HER
Give her Hugh regularly,hug is free,if you give one,you receive one,why not give it regularly.

19) KISS HER
Yes,enjoy kissing her,it’s the best for your marriage.

20) PLAY WITH THE CHILDREN
Play with your Children,let your presence be felt by all

21) CHANGE THE BABY DIAPER
Be a Nursing father,bath the baby,change the diaper,that make you a great Dad.

22) INCREASE PDA
Increase PDA in your Marriage,(PDA simply means,Public display of affection)
Don’t be shy to hold her hands in the public,let the world know that you love her.



23) INCREASE SDA
Also increase SDA in your Marriage(SDA means Secret Display of affection)
Don’t just display affection in the public to show off,do it when you are alone,show affection.

24) PRAISE HER IN THE PUBLIC
Praise your wife regularly in the public,talk about her support,intelligence and wisdom in her presence,you will aKede her day.

25) HELP THE CHILDREN WITH THEIR HOME WORK:
Let your wife rest when you help the Children with their home work


26) CELEBRATE HER
Celebrate your wife every where,let her know you celebrate her.

27) TELL HER “I LOVE YOU”
Say “I love you” often,it doesn’t cost anything but it makes great impact in the life of your wife.

28) HONOR HER PARENTS
Always honor the parents of your wife,give them high regard and respect,it gives a woman great joy and rest.

29) SPEND THE WHOLE DAY WITH HER
Create a day every month you will just be together,just the two of you,every woman out there do want to spend time with their husband,your wife will love it too.

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6 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY WARM THIS COLD AND RAINY SEASON

The cold and rainy period is one time of the year filled with lots of water, snow and coldness all around. It is that period of the year that your craving will almost be to remain indoor always while the cold season last. Incredibly, it is also that period of the year that farmers tend to also celebrate the most. They need water so as to enjoy a good harvest. But you can also be glad because you can celebrate this period well with your family only if you care to know what to do to keep yourself and family warm all through the days.

Like you will always have each time you alight here, here are 6 ways you can keep your family warm and dry this rainy season.

1 ALWAYS HAVE YOUR UMBRELLA WITH YOU
You should at least make sure there are enough umbrellas in your home. Umbrellas help you to go anywhere even when it seems to be raining cat and dog. It gives you that canopied effect away rain. While getting an umbrella, ensure you go for the one with firm support, that which will never get shaky or be destroyed in no time. You should also keep several umbrellas in your car. It is one of the easiest ways to be ready when stepping out with your family into the rain.

2 GET A WARM WATER FLASK ALMOST EVERYWHERE YOU GO
Listen, friends! You’ve got to remain cool and warm even when the temperature is getting too cold than you least expected. Having a warm water flask will help keep your body temperature from dropping extremely down to that point when you start shivering.

3 GO SHOPPING FOR THE RIGHT CLOTHING
The period preceding the rainy season is the best time to shop for clothing suitable for a weather condition as this. Having the right clothing will warm you up and create that soothing effect of lukewarmness that you have always wanted. Get sweater, rain coat, muffler and socks. Thermal clothings are also good to help you remain warm and dry this period.

4 NEVER MAKE THE MISTAKE OF LEAVING YOUR WINDOW OPEN ALWAYS
It is so much certain you have always wanted to remain warm and dry, but in the event when your children had fun and threw the windows open, you soon start feeling cold. It is another easy access for a rainy breeze to penetrate into your household. So ensure your Windows are locked or better still kept partly ajar with a mesh net preventing heavy poor of rain or drops of snow penetrating into your home.

5 YOU NEED A FIREPLACE
Come on, we’re not talking of your bonfire at a camping event. Of course, it is good as well. But come to think of it, why not have a ‘bonfire’ indoor too. When cold get so intense, you will surely need to have a fireplace. Having a fireplace well serviced keeps your entire family warm with lukewarm effect while the season last. Having a fireplace mechanically operated or the electric type is enough to keep you less anxious about the cold weather.

6 YOU NEED TEA
Apart from keeping warm in a cold season, drinking the right blend of tea nourishes your body than you think any can. Tea serves you well during cold rainy weather. Having some blend of coffee will do your body some good or probably go for some green tea, the bottom-line is just that, you keep yourself warm against the cold or drizzling weather.

When you keep warm during chilly cold weather you have just kept yourself from being numb with cold and probably save yourself from another trip to the hospital. Wearing thermal socks is one other good way to keep your legs warm from numbness. Ensuring all of the items above will surely never leave you helpless even in the face of a cold night.

6 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY WARM THIS COLD AND RAINY SEASON

Our family is necessary and important. We can’t do without our families, as they are the source of our joy and excitement. Our lives revolve around our families. Their joy or otherwise affects us, as we feel when bad things happen to them or joyful and excited when good things happen. Our career, like our family, is equally important. Through our careers, we get money to sustain our families and live a good life.

Most times, our career comes in conflict with family life and intimacy in marriage. In fact, most of the time, career contributes greatly to the destruction of many marriages and families.

If we want to enjoy our life and destinies, if we want to have deep intimacy in our marriages we need to

learn how to handle our families and career wisely.

Here are examples of jobs that pose as risks to marital intimacy.

All Jobs That Involve Constant Transfer. Jobs that involve moving from one station to another can endanger marriage and family life. It can work against love life of the parent and adversely affect the children’s social and academic life. You need to count the cost, discuss openly and frankly with your spouse and seek ways of dealing with problems that may likely emanate from such a job before accepting the job offer. People in the Military, Police, Paramilitary, Pastors in denominational churches among others all fall into this category. Wisdom should be applied lest constant transfer destabilizes your family life.

All Jobs That Involve Shift. Jobs that involve working shift too can affect intimacy in marriage. Doctors, Nurses, some factory workers, journalists in electronic media, caregivers, fire-brigade, etc fall into this category. Working on shift can hurt the family, most especially if it is not wisely handled. A shift that put you in opposite direction to your spouse is dangerous. Taking a job whereby as you are coming home; your spouse is going out or as you are going out, your spouse is coming in; leaves little or no time to spend together, talk, pray, play and make love as you would have loved. Be wise when faced with a job offer in this regards but if you are already in this kind of job, you need to discuss with your spouse and agree on what to do about it. You can also prayerfully discuss with your manager and see what can be done before it destroys your marriage.

Jobs That Involve Permanent Night Shift. There is something about the night in every family. This is the period all members of the family should be together. Children are back from school; daddy and mummy should be available too. Any job that involves working night duties only is dangerous for your family. Please don’t take up such a job as it will hurt the life of your children, love life, marriage and ultimately, your sex life. It even gives room for infidelity. Can you imagine a woman who is on permanent night duty with a grown up housemaid at home to take care of the children and a sexually unsatisfied husband? What do you think will happen? When the husband is at work, the woman is not at home. When the man returns home, he only returns to the warm embrace of the housemaid; who is now the deputy wife. You know what is likely going to happen. Don’t ever go for a job that put you on a permanent night shift, no matter the amount of money involved.

Jobs That Takes Your Weekend and Public Holidays without Any Compensation for It. Some jobs involve weekend duties and give no room for public holidays. Journalists, workers in aviation industries, people working in an essential services organization like electricity, fire service, Water Corporation, health care providers, security services, etc all fall into this category but there should be ‘compensation for weekend services. Nobody should be made to work seven days a week; it is not good for the worker’s health, his or her moral and family life. Every worker that works on the weekend should have “off days” during the week at least a day and should also be compensated financially for it. If you work in any place, where you work seven days a week; you are not working; you are in a slave camp. You need to do something about it before the job destroys you, your health and your family life.

Jobs That Give No Room for Rest. Experts say everybody should rest daily, weekly and yearly. Daily, in the night, weekly, at weekends, yearly, during annual leave. Any job you are doing that does not give you room for these resting times is not a good job. Every employer should give room for annual leave. You should not allow your employer to pay you in lieu of your leave. Holiday period and weekend is the right period to connect and reconnect with your family. Look forward to it, fight for it, and make good use of it. Don’t ever take up a job that does not give room for vacation. If you are already in a job like this; talk to your manager with wisdom. Your vacation is your right; ask for it, be wise!

Jobs That Takes You Away From God. Any job that takes you away from God Almighty will definitely affect your marriage. Jobs that involves telling lies, stealing, committing crimes for your companies, tax evasion, bribery, corrupt practices, prostitution and sexual gratification for contract opportunities or banker that must sleep with customers to win accounts, etc. You can’t stay in these kinds of jobs and think it will not affect your home. A lady was working with an events and tourism organization as an usher and protocol officer and one of her duties was to sleep with guests if they so desire it. They didn’t inform her prior to her appointment and she had to resign once she discovered this. Another wonderful lady resigned from a lucrative banking job when she was asked to sleep with a “big customer” to get an account.
Don’t stay in a job that can take you away from your God, destroy your intimacy with the Almighty and eventually destroy your marriage and family life. You need God more than anybody, you need God more than that job, you need God now and you will need Him tomorrow. Don’t destroy your life and your family life because of a morsel of bread.

Jobs That Cannot Pay Your Bills. If you are working, you should at least be able to meet the basic needs of life. If your take home pack cannot ‘take you home’, I think you need another job. Money is needed to take good care of the home. In fact, there cannot be ROMANCE without FINANCE. If you want your wife to call your HONEY, give her MONEY, lest she sees you as MONKEY. Don’t rest on your oars, paddle on, improve yourself, and increase your capability to make money. Go back to school if your present certificate makes your employer pay you peanuts. Develop and improve yourself, be a better person. Don’t just say, God will do it, do something; do it now, feed your family and keep your marriage.

Jobs That Separate You from Your Spouse for More Than 75 Days a Year. Experts classified any job that separate couples for more than 75 days a year as ‘Non-family friendly job’ (NFFJ), jobs that separate couples for more than 100 days a year are seen as “Family Enemy Jobs (FEJ), jobs that separate couples for more than 150 days a year is known as “Family Cancer Jobs” (FCJ). Your family, your marriage becomes endanger as soon as your family enters a ‘NFFJ’ level where you spend more than 75 days away from your spouse yearly. It gives room for suspicion, negative thinking, lack of trust, temptation, sexual immoralities, lust, bad marriage, and divorce. It is better to stay in a job that pays less but gives you room to nurture your marriage and your children than to go for a job that makes you an Electronic Couples (Couples that operate only through electronic means like phones, pager, fax, e-mails, etc). It is dangerous for you and your home as it exposes you to constant travels, keeping of two homes, alone raising children, etc. You need to count the cost before you venture into this kind of job.

Jobs That Destroys Intimacy. For a couple to become intimate, they must have high ‘couples time’ or intimate talking time (ITT). The lesser the romantic hours; the higher the susceptibility to marriage destruction. In a city like Lagos, many couples are having less than 30 hours a year for romantic hours. That explains why marriages are difficult for many, especially in cities. Please note that romantic hours or intimate talking time is not the period you spend together watching television or even making love. It is the period you spend together playing or talking intimately. Any job that does not give room for that is not a family-friendly job. Some people leave home by 5 am only to get back home around midnight every day of the week. No marriage can grow in that kind of situation. That is why I normally discourage a situation where both the husband and wife work in the banking sector at the same time or do any job that makes both of them leave home before dawn only to come back few minute before midnight.

Any Job You Do Without Wisdom. Every job is demanding and time-consuming. In fact, what your employer is paying for is your skill, expertise and your time. You are the one who needs to sit down with your spouse and talk it through. Must both of you engage in white collar jobs? Must you work overtime? Must you get a ‘better’ job that will take you away from your family? How about taking a casual leave once in a while just to be with your spouse, to talk, connect and reconnect? Must you be the one travelling every time? Must you always be on the road? You need to apply wisdom to make your marriage the best.

Any Job That Affects Your Sex Life. Experts say every couple should make love at least 45 times a year. Any couple who make love less than 20 times a year is said to be in a ‘sexless marriage’.

One of the major things that affect sex in marriage is the kind of job the couple is involved in. Any job that makes you sleep with your spouse less than 45 times a year for any reason is not a family-friendly job.

If you don’t do something fast about it, it will destroy your marriage.



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Here are some secrets that your wife will never tell you.

1. Do not talk about the past love
The boyfriends you had before falling in love with your husband should be a secret, especially if you keep in touch with some of them as friends, for example through social networks. The point is that if your husband is jealous, he will do his best to see your profile on social networks or search your cell phone. This is a way to promote conflict when it should not exist.

If your intention is to show your husband that you had thousands of choices before you choose him, you are making a mistake because the only thing he will understand is that you have been an insecure and unconscious person.

2. Not feeling able to achieve anything
One issue that must be kept silent is their insecurity. Marital life is full of new challenges and experiences, so be prepared to face whatever comes. Work on your confidence and security, do not be afraid to make decisions and express your feelings and emotions.

Most men fall in love with confident women who are not afraid of overcoming obstacles, reaching their goals, and fulfilling their purposes.7-secrets-that-no-woman-should-ever-reveal-to-her-husband

3. Problems of intimacy
For some women, it is taboo to talk about any problems that may arise in intimate relationships with your husband, and prefer to be quiet with the intention not to hurt the partner’s feelings or for fear of creating a conflict. However, intimate problems should not be hidden, on the contrary, it is necessary to talk about them to find solutions.

Now, when it comes to keeping your intimate fantasies, desires, and dreams secret, you are within your rights, it depends on each couple and yourself.

4. When you gain weight
Most women keep a secret of getting a little fat, even if in some situations your husband noticed and did not mention anything so as not to make her sad. It is something that can not be avoided and we prefer to leave it a secret. Getting to talk about it means demanding more of yourself and what you can achieve.

5. Other men
All women are attracted to other men, even if they do not express it or are obvious when they see them, but that does not mean that they will be unfaithful. It is advisable not to talk about it.


6. Make extra money
Some women prefer to keep a secret when they make money they were not expecting, and often use that money to take care of themselves or buy something they feel like. After all, it is an income that does not harm the well-being of the family.

7. A link or message from an ex
Many women are unforgettable. Although they are already married and have children, sometimes the ex-boyfriend continues to follow his every move. Of course, you just like him as a friend, or maybe not even that! But to avoid an attack of jealousy of your husband or a monumental anger, you prefer to keep secret. It was he who sought it, not you!

There are situations in which it is best to keep to yourself rather than creating confusion and misunderstanding, otherwise, you may have serious problems that will irreparably damage the relationship.


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15 Qualities that Men like in Women. Ladies do you have them?


Men like and value women with common characteristics, but when you are always hunting or putting more value on the body more than attitudes; this is bad.

Men are not interested only in fun, they seek women to be companions, well resolved, responsible and know how to deal with the crisis in a balanced way. This does not mean that you should forget appearances, no, none of that.

On the contrary, you must follow our advice to be irresistible to a man and invest in the things that men like.

1) Trust
It is already common knowledge that confident people are attractive. Women who are sure of themselves, of their choices and attitudes, and of their body, call attention to wherever they are: everyone wants to know the secret of such confidence!

2) Have attitude
As much as we have that entrenched archaic concept that man must take the initiative, the woman can also take the reins of a relationship. If you are ready to leave, do not be ashamed and invite him. This is just one more way to demonstrate your confidence and, rest assured, men like it!

3) Understanding
A woman who understands others and always has kind words to say will certainly earn more points when it comes to relationships. In a world where we live connected, attention and affection are rare and, possessing them, you will have a beautiful differential.

4) Good behavior
Knowing how to behave in different situations is essential not only for a good relationship but for a lifetime. It is important to know the right moments to quiet down or expose your opinions.

5) Humility
Being next to someone who knows how to thank is inspirational, men like it. Gratitude, though necessary, is increasingly forgotten. Thank the people who helped you achieve your goals and know that you are not better than anyone make you even more attractive.

6) Sense of humor
Nothing more fun than a company that makes you laugh. Funny people are already captivating in the first conversation and we always want to have them around. No one likes having rude partners who only know how to complain about life. We always strive for healthy, happy relationships that, above anything, can bring a little happiness to our heart.

7) Intelligence
We all like to relate to smart people, who know what and when to talk. It’s wonderful to be on the side of anyone who has a subject and does not let a conversation fall on the ice. Men like to show friends and family their smart partner. So, be smart today for him and yourself.

Mystery
Women who keep a mysterious air and master the art of exchanging looks makes any man crazy! However, in trying to be mysterious, don't do something very nasty or out of the line.

9) Hobby
Hobbies say a lot about people. If you like to read, walk or meet new places, you will certainly seek to relate to people of similar taste. After all, nothing more fun than doing what you enjoy next to a good company.

10) Determination
People who do not strive to get what they want and actually run after their dreams, leaving all their laziness (and insecurity) aside, attract glances. Relating to dreamy and determined people is almost like taking a dose of motivation: they become your mirrors and you also feel ready to face any challenge!


11) Take care of your well-being
You do not have to have a sculptural body or kill yourself to fit into an aesthetic pattern, but take care. Maintaining a healthy diet and exercising will give you a good image, and it will bring you numerous benefits. You must be familiar with this saying that a sound body is a sound mind.

12) Smile
The simplest tip of all: smile. The smile is the main weapon to get attention. It is as if smiling you unlock a simpler path for a future conversation. Men like the smiling women and good about life.

13) More love, please
To be loved, be kind. Start distributing love wherever you go. Often people will not give up for fear of not getting anything in return, so do not be afraid to say “I love you” or send lovely messages. Make love real and definite.

14) Personality
To be who you are, without deceit. That tip that everyone has heard or read some day is super important: one day the masks will fall, so never pretend to be someone that you are not. Act naturally and only then will you find your true love the one who will accept your faults and love you the way you are.

15) Do not store hurt feelings
Relationships come and go and it’s not up to you to blame yourself for ending them. Do your best to make it work, but if you do not, let it go. Keeping sorrows will only make you more and sadder and with a busy heart, there is no room for a new love.

Well, as a woman it may not be easy to exhibit all these beautiful qualities at once, but as the saying goes, Rome was not built in a day. Build yours gradually, and start TODAY!!


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10 things a man does only when he’s really in love

Finding a nice guy with whom to share life is a desire of many women, but how to know if he is really in love with you?

If you are going through the dilemma of not knowing if he’s really interested you should check out our list of 10 things a man only does when he’s in love.

1. His friends and family know who you are
Only a passionate man talks about a woman he’s hanging out with friends and family, but understand that we’re not talking about merely knowing his name and his existence.

When you fall in love, you tend to insert the beloved in the context of your social life in ways that tell you about your profession, your hobbies, and even what you usually do when you leave.

Start paying attention if you comment on having talked about yourself to the people in your social circle.

2. Respond as quickly as possible to your messages
For a man in love it is urgent to respond to the messages of the beloved, however, it is important to understand that this does not mean stop work or leave the family.

Observe if in the free moments he responds instantly to you, that is, when he is resting, he spends his time talking to you.

Men in general, when they see each other in love, try to surround the beloved of attention even if they do it unconsciously.

3. He cares about you
The main demonstration that a man can give of being in love is to worry about the other person.

If when you say that you have the flu, even if it is not serious, or even when you are feeling stressed because of work, for everything you are doing to give you attention and offers help even in small details, it is a sign that Care.

When we like someone a lot we care about that person’s well-being automatically.

4. You go out with him and his friends
In the phase of passion people want to stay as close as possible, and thus it is normal that invitations are made to go out with the beloved and his friends.

If he prefers going out alone or never introduces his friends, he may not be so interested. Remember who is in love seeks to spend as much time together and has no reason not to include the loved one in their social programs.

5. He likes your appearance
It is natural for humans to try to improve their appearance to the fullest when they are in love.

Ever since you met, did you get more attention to the visuals both with regard to clothes and aesthetic care? This is a powerful sign that he is in love with you.

You can even do a test, praise a shirt the day they go out and see if they wear it more often.

6. He looks for you when you fight
Every couple has some moment of relative stress in the relationship, it may be a word said at the wrong time or just the fact that one of the two has woken up more grumpy.

Either way, when a man is in love he goes over his pride and pulls the subject even if it’s something unrelated to the reason for the fight.


If even after you have discussed or been shaken he invented something to talk on social networks, it is a very positive sign.

7. He helps you even in the little things
Some people joke that they know the relationship got serious when a man starts to carry his girlfriend’s purse without complaining.

The small favors of everyday life are manifestations of affection he may have toward you.

Does he seek your order in the mall food court? Do you carry your purse or books? Fix your computer when it malfunctions? Are you going to get an order for you on a hard day at work?

All these little favors are signs that he really is in love with you.

8. Listen to your problems with attention
Having someone who listens to our problems with attention is really special because there is nothing more powerful than a sincere outburst.

Most men do not have much patience to listen to long stories about something that did not go well.

But if he has held out firmly and strongly the hours when you have told him how difficult the job is, it is a sign that he is very fond of you.

Paying attention and trying to help with problems is a way to show affection.

9. His free time is his
Being the person you love is the best thing in the world for those who are in love, so if you have ever realized that he is always inventing programs and opportunities for you to see, it is because you are involved.

After some time out with someone, it is already possible to know the free time of the person’s routine. A good part of that time is dedicated to you? So you’re in luck.

10. The Kiss
No other affection will be more sincere about how much he likes you than the kiss. Scientific studies have shown that men in love tend to kiss their partners more.

In addition to quantity should also be taken into account the quality, that is, how much it seeks to be affectionate with you while you kiss. Kiss, even more than sex, means involvement, only engages those who are in love.


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It’s always a good idea to be totally open to your wife. Let her know your plans, movements, visions and thinking. This will help her to connect well with you and get along with you as your wife and Mother of the house.

Despite the facts that you should be totally open to your wife, there are 9 secrets that you should never reveal to your Wife. Let me open your eyes to them here:

1) BAD THINGS YOUR MOTHER SAID ABOUT HER:

Maybe before you married her or after your wedding, your Parents might have told you some things they don’t like about your wife for one reason or the other.

You have to be careful the way you talk to her about what they said. You may correct her without telling her who said what or say it in such a way that she will not get hurt by their words.

If you say it the way they said it, you may create eternal enmity between them.11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife


2) BAD THINGS YOUR FAMILY SAID ABOUT HER:

Like your Parents, your siblings, Uncles, Aunties etc might have said some negative things about your wife in the past, handle this with care, lest you create a battle that may outlive you between them.

3) YOUR TERRIFYING DREAMS:

It is very easy for a woman to wake her husband up to tell him about her nightmares and terrible dreams. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife


It’s not bad for a woman to say this to her husband, but it is not always good for a man to share terrible dreams with his wife that may not allow her to sleep.

You can tell her to pray or pray together concerning the dreams but avoid giving her the graphic details, lest you scare her. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife

4) HOW YOUR FRIENDS REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER:

You friends might say unkind words about her.If you relay it the way they presented it; your house may become a no-go area for such friend.

5) YOUR DIRTY FEELINGS ABOUT HER:

Avoid speaking out your negative thought about her when you fight If you utter all that is in your mind in time of conflict, you will hurt your wife greatly and destroy your home


6) GIRLS THAT ARE EYEING YOU:

Once in a while, you may notice some ladies who are really after you and see you as their source of “crush” despite the fact that you are married. You don’t just go ahead to tell your wife about this, for a lady to show interest in you may not necessarily means she is after you.So, be careful. If you tell your wife about it, she may not handle It rightly and can begin to suspect you and fight the innocent lady.

7) HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIS MUM:

Her Mum may not be behaving very well by your standard, but that is how she’s been behaving and raised the damsel that you married. So, it will be bad to tell your Wife that her Mother or Father are not well behaved.

HOW WHAT PEOPLE SAID REALLY HURTS YOU:

Some people will say something that will hurt you greatly. Please, avoid saying how it hurts shedding tears in the process. If you end up forgiven the person your wife may never forgive somebody that makes her husband cries.

9) HOW WHAT PEOPLE DID GREATLY Hurt YOU:

Just like the case above, people will do something that hurts you, but must avoid sensationalizing it to your wife. Please, always downplay your hurt so as to make it easy for your wife to forgive people.

10) NAMES OF GIRLS YOU HAD SLEPT WITH:

It will be totally wrong to show her the list of those you slept with before you met your wife. She doesn’t need that information, they are your Ex, please move on

11) PAST SEXUAL ENJOYMENT:

Likewise, you need not tell her what you enjoy in other ladies to motivate her to perform better in the bedroom, that will be very wrong.


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Ojo Oluwasegun

There are things that are so fragile in nature & anyone who wants to handle them must do so with every carefulness and tenderness. I saw a truck loaded with cartons of Indomie Noddles. Two guys were asked to move the cartons of Indomie from the truck into a shop. You need to see the throwing and catching prowess of these two guys. One was in the truck throwing the cartons to the one at the entrance of the shop and he was throwing it into the shop. The one in the truck can throw about 3 cartons at a time and the one in the shop will catch it so well. They can do it like that because the Indomie in the cartons is not fragile. They can’t handle crates of egg like that when loading from a truck into a shop. It takes extra care and tenderness if not, it will break and that will amount to huge debt and wastage.

Friends, there are things we also must carry and handle with extra- care because these things are fragile and once broken, it is not easy to put back together and once some of this things get broken, they can lead to huge damage and destiny wastage.
Let me mention 9 of these things you must carry /handle with care as if you are carrying a crate of eggs.

1. Your Name: Your name is very important and fragile. There are names that stink in the ears of people simply because, those who bear those names spoilt the name. The way to handle your name with care is to be careful of your doings. Your actions can rubbish your name. A good name can open doors for you, your children and generations after you. When your name is mentioned anywhere, like in your office, at home, on social media like Facebook, Twitter, IG, etc. what comes to people’s mind? Carry your name with carefulness. It is a huge asset. Read one of the quotes written by Shakespeare. ‘Who steals my purse steals trash; ‘tis something, nothing;
‘Twas mine, ’tis his, and has been slave to thousands;
But he that filches from me my good name
Robs me of that which not enriches him,
And makes me poor indeed’.

2: Your heart: Many hearts are broken, shattered, wounded and bitter today. Run away from people, and things that are bent on breaking your heart. Carry your heart like a crate of eggs. You need a whole heart before you can be said to be fully whole!

3. Your Wife: When you put too much pressure on your wife, you will break her. Handle your wife with care and tenderness. Let tenderness flow in your manliness. Don’t be wicked to your wife. Carry her like a Queen. She’s strong. Powerful and wise, yet, she needs to be protected, cared for and handle like a crate of eggs.

4. Your husband: Your husband needs your total submission as a wife. Always remember that you are his helpmate.

5. Your Purpose: Your purpose is your destiny. If you don’t handle it with utmost care, it can slip off your hands and gaze and get broken. So many things can come like pressure on this crate of eggs of purpose. Discouragement, lack of fund, delayed Breakthrough, etc. These are things that may want to come like pressure on your purpose to break it. Don’t allow it! Carry it with care.

6. Your health: You have only this body as a vehicle that will carry you through your journey of destiny in this life. Handle your health with carefulness. No matter how big your vision is, once you are dead, nobody can really run the vision like you! Fight for your health. Avoid things that can destroy your health. Wealth is useless when your health becomes useless.

7. Your Marriage. So many people handle their marriage like a carton of Indomie Noddle. Let me remind you sir/ma. Your marriage is fragile. Handle it like a crate of eggs. It must not break! A broken marriage is not easily put back together, because, when a marriage breaks, many things get broken with it. Husband and wife, please, carry your marriage like an egg. It must not break!

8. Your words: Your worth is attached to your words. Be careful with words. Once spoken, you can’t gather it up again. Many people are careless with their words. They speak violently. They make empty promises and break it. Some say things they later wish they never said. Guard your words. Be careful with it.

9. Your eternity: Those who are running up and down to fulfill destiny here on Earth without thinking of their eternity are not wise! Friends, the matter of eternity is not something you should handle with levity. Think about where you will spend eternity. You will die one day. I will also die one day. All that we are and have in this world are vanity upon vanity. Take the matter of your end very serious. Stop living carelessly as if you have an extra life. Think about eternity. Don’t live for the pleasure of this present moment alone. If you miss heaven, you will cry!

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It is not the same child you sent to boarding school you will get back. i will never make the mistake of sending my children to boarding school. Thanks for this article that is why i love visiting www.dailyfamily.ng.

Social Media like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Google Plus etc are very good, they connect, and they are entertaining.
Using social media is a great way to get along with people worldwide. But as good as it is we must be very careful about what we post on it. Many people have hurt themselves and their families by posting wrongly on the social media. A man posted that he and his family will be traveling abroad for three weeks, his house was burgled two days after he traveled, when the thieves were eventually caught they confessed to knowing that nobody is at home through social media.

Here I will show you 41 Things You Should Not Share on Social Media:

1) Full names of all Your Children
2) Issues you are having with your spouse(some Celebrity do this foolishly)
3) Names and addresses of your place of Work
4) Names and addresses of your Spouse’s place of work
5) Names and addresses of your Children School
6) Amount of Your salary or wages
7) That you are having a party.. you might get more guests than you counted on
Your Phone numbers
9) Your bedroom pictures with your spouse
10) Bathroom pictures
11) Labour room pictures
12)House address
13) That you are having an affair
14) After Sex Pictures
15) That you are thinking of having an affair
16) Complaints about your boss
17) That you hate your job and want to leave.
18) you might get your wish.. involuntarily
19) Don’t share photos or an event that reveals that you were not sick that day at work
20) Pictures of your spouse that may make people mock him
21) Nude pictures: The Internet will never forget, you will regret it later
22) Nude pictures of friends or ex: It is the highest level of betrayal of trust
23) Issues with your parents
24) Passwords.. unless you have more money than brains
25) Hints about passwords like dogs names
26) Images and videos of your children
27) Revealing your thoughts about a court case… when on jury duty
28) Don’t link personal sites to professional business sites like LinkedIn.. don’t mix business with pleasure
29) Financial information such as how much money you do or don’t have in your bank account
30) Personal Information
31) You are leaving on a holiday
32) The dates you are away on your holiday
33) Your daily schedule.. burglars have been known to use these little hints to their advantage
34) Showing you are doing something stupid .. not good for personal branding
Your bodily functions
35) Revealing extreme views on Race, Religion or Politics
36) What you had for breakfast
36) Anti-Government statement: Your Lawyer will be happy when you are in trouble
37) Lies and unconfirmed stories: It can be a criminal case
38) Secrets your friends kept with you
39) Secrets Your spouse kept with you
40) Government secrets you are privileged to know by your office
41) Finally, If you are not comfortable about it … don’t share it

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-By Oba Samuel

A boarding house is no doubt has been a stop gap between busy parents and their Children. Children were raised by teachers who acts as housemasters while parents concentrate on their job, career or ministry.



Good as this may sound but there are lots of evils that boarding house does in the lives of Children unknown to many parents which is what this piece is set to reveal:



It Breaks The Family Bond: When a Child is sent to boarding school, the family bond between the Child and the parents is broken as the day-to-day experience that would have built a tie and create a fond memory in the mind of the Child is eliminated. Such a child will never be closely knitted with the Mum or Dad. This aid their strong ties with their peers than their parents.

Low self-esteem: Boarding house can also cause low self-esteem in a Child especially if the Child is bitter for being sent to a boarding school by the parents. This sadness may make such a Child hate everything in the school system which may develop into low self-esteem.


Threat To Sound Health: The unhygienic conditions of most boarding school environments posed a threat to the good living condition required for every Child.
Lots of boarding school have bad drainage system, rut toilet, broken soakaway, dirty water, bed bug infested mattresses and mosquitoes laden environments. This is one major reason, the sick bay is often busy and the number of hospitalised Children is always higher every term.



Leaving Home Too Early: Allowing your Children to leave home during their formative years is too early. Taking your child to boarding school at age 5,6,7,8,9,10-14 is like giving your baby to a nanny. Such a Child will miss all the family values and other home training that would have to distinguish the Child from his peers. When they leave too early, they cease to be your Child and they become societal Children because that is where they will get their training from.


Getting Independent Too Early: Parental dependency is what normally help parents to shape their children as they like but boarding school don’t give room for that. Which is the major reason negative influence easily prevail on them
Boarding school often expose the children to early maturity and independent which make them fall into a lot of mistakes in life. Growth is a process but boarding house often breaks this process.



Negative Influence: Boarding school is the easy ground for negative influences over innocent Children.
As a product of a boarding school, I have realised that there are many Children with bad habits in boarding schools who often infect the innocent ones with negative habits. Lots of wayward children from home always introduce their peers to stealing (which we referred to as jacking of lockers in our time), smoking, alcoholism and gangsterism. Most times, when you take a well-behaved child to a boarding school, you will get a wayward Child in return.



Sexual Abuse: Lots of Children in boarding school were sexually abused by the house masters, teachers and the senior class students which they will not be able to tell the parents during vacation. Most of this sexual acts take place during social nights, preps and midterm breaks when some students were left behind in the hostel.


Rape: Another evil very close to sexual abuse in boarding school is rape. Cases of rape are more pronounced among the students without reporting to school authority because of shame and stigma.


Sexually Active: Early exposure to sex made many of them to be sexually active among their peers to the point of committing abortions. Unfortunately, this fact is unknown to many parents. To them, their child is still a virgin.


Initiation: To many parents who think they are smart by sending their boys to boys only school and the girls to girls only school in order to avoid sexual abuse. This has not solved your problem because many of them were sexually abused by their teachers and the most common one is they get initiated into the act of lesbianism and homosexualism. This will later affect them mentally and psychologically in future.


Victims Of Bullying: The seniors and the notorious among them often go about bullying the weak and younger ones in the hostel which will make the victims fearful, cause low self-esteem and psychological and mentally trauma.


Hardened Heart: Having been away from the parents for most parts of their lives and exposure to bullying and vices like smoking, alcohol and rape normally hardened their mind and become tough thereby becoming easier for them to engage in many criminal acts like armed robbery or join cultism in higher institution. At this point, they cease to miss their parents while they feel more at home with their peers. That is why they still want to spend their holiday at their friends’ house.




Poor Medical Attention And Poor Feeding: The medical attention given to a sick student in the boarding school is usually poor unprofessional because no test is being carried out before administering drugs. Many of these schools lack medical laboratories and this has caused a lot of complications to these innocent children.


Unhealthy and unbalanced diet is the order of eating in a boarding school that is why Children from boarding house always look skinny during the school session.

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10 HOT REASONS TO ATTEND LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE

Hey Friends, are you planning to attend this year, LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE? You can’t afford to miss it, the following are Ten hot reasons to attend this extraordinary Program:
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1) Lagos couples’ conference will involve Intimate talking time(ITT) You’ve not seen it before? Then don’t miss Lagos couples’ conference.
2) Lagos couples’ conference will involve romance time, Waoh, you can’t afford not to be part of this.
3) Lucky you, You will have time to “globally” dedicate your Children, Don’t forget to come with their pictures
4) It will involve Couples’ dancing competition, you and your spouse can win the star prize, start practicing now and don’t forget your dancing shoes at home.
5) The program involves Two-diet seminar you’ve never seen before.
6) It will also involve QUEEN DRESSER; want to know what that means then join us at Lagos couples’ Conference.
7) Have you heard about SOUL GAZE before now? whoosh, you are missing, okay it will take place during LAGOS COUPLES CONFERENCE, don’t miss it.
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Praise-Connect will also take place, you will be glad you are part of it.
9) MELTING POINT will also take place, I know this is strange to you, don’t worry you will enjoy it when you come to Lagos Couples Conference.
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10) There will also be TEXT-A- L session at LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE, huuuuuun, you want to know what that means, come along with your spouse you will enjoy it and start new HONEYMOON after.



Woah, there are lots to gain in this year Lagos couples’ conference, it will be an unusual program, full of surprises, it will be romantically romantic, am expecting you there with your spouse, invite other couples and be a blessing to them.
Date: 29th, May 2017, By 10am.
Theme: Fight For That Marriage.
Venue: THE REAL PLACE, NO 9, AFISMAN DRIVE ANIFOWOSHE, (NEAR IKEJA LOCAL GOVERNMENT) IKEJA.


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Astute Marriage counselor and Publisher Of dailyfamily.ng (The premier family newspaper in Nigeria), Pastor Bisi Adewale, has identified faulty foundation and materialism as the major reason why the marital union of individuals are often short-lived and end in divorce.WHY CELEBRITIES MARRIAGE ARE CRASHING- BISI ADEWALE SPEAKS TO THE SUN NEWSPAPER

Pastor Adewale, who spoke with Sunday Sun against the background of the storm buffeting the marriage of Mercy Aigbe and her husband, blamed the easy recourse of celebrity couples to take to social media platforms to display every little problem that they encounter in their marriage. WHY CELEBRITIES MARRIAGE ARE CRASHING
– BISI ADEWALE SPEAKS TO THE SUN NEWSPAPER

His words: “The first thing I would like to state is that people going to the social media at the slightest problem in their marriage should stop doing so because I see this as very childish and wrong. However, one of the reasons celebrity marriages crash is because a lot of people when going into marriage set up a faulty foundation. One simple example is where a lady knows that someone is already married but she still goes ahead to get pregnant for that person. You should know that what he did to the other woman he left for you, is the same he is going to do to you.”

He added: “Some of these people base their marriages on beauty, glamour while some focus on money. That is why you see that majority of them always marry billionaires. They marry rich persons and most of the time they don’t have authentic love, they have romantic love and this kind of love can’t build marriages because romantic love is like a flame of fire, which burns out after a while. But authentic love is like a coal of fire that can sustain a long lasting relationship and marriage. So, faulty foundation, fake love and pleasing their fans are responsible for the high rate of failed marriages among celebrities. Also, many of them don’t get their priorities right. But when your career comes first then your marriage will be in trouble.”

Also read this: 8 signs that your wife is annoyed with you but does not want to talk
Asked if marrying late could be attributed for the failed marriages, he said that the delay should rather be an added advantage and explained: “I think that should be a plus because they are more mature at this age. Pressures from people shouldn’t even come in because as soon as you are matured enough, you should be responsible for your choices. We can’t blame anybody for their failed marriages because you will find out that in most of these marriages, the parents were against the union but because of money, beauty, glamour and things they can gain from it, they won’t listen to anyone.

“Another thing is that many of these celebrities can‘t tell the difference between realities and make-believe life. They think the glamour should extend to the home but they should know that when you get home you are a wife and not a celebrity. If you want to be a celebrity then forget marriage; if you want people to worship you like your fans then there will be a clash in the home. Even if you are a male or female celebrity when you are at home put aside your celebrity status and be a lover boy or girl.”

Adewale disagrees with the widely held belief that celebrities are more prone to wrong choices in marital matters because they are more exposed to the world than an ordinary person, arguing that “making choices is not about a person’s celebrity status but it is more about values. If you have right values you won’t go wrong with your choices.”

He counseled that celebrities going into marriage shouldn’t marry for money. He said: “They should open their eyes and marry people who genuinely love them. They should not marry for money. Also, they should be able to differentiate between a make believe life and real life.”
Interestingly, a recent research study showed that an average couple has a 32 percent chance of divorce within their lifetime. Celebrities, however, have a 38 percent chance of divorce within 10 years.

Another research showed that in their domestic lives these people experience even more pain and suffering than ordinary people. They create a false impression and so they are subjected to even greater pressures when things go wrong. To an extent, this research looks true because the divorce rates are high and heartbreaking amongst famous people in Nigeria.

Moreover, famous people get the rest of the society all dazzled with expensive weddings, state of the art wedding cakes, limousines for the brides and grooms and expensive wedding dresses. But all too often these fairy tale weddings are followed in quick succession by a bitter and psychologically tortuous divorce.
In Nigeria, the list is endless, Tonto Dikeh and Oladunni Churchill, Mercy Aigbe and Lanre Gentry, Muma Gee and Prince Eke, Ubi Franklin and Lilian Esoro, Toyin Aimakhu and Adeniyi Johnson, Toke Makinwa and Maje Ayida, all these marital unions broke up recently. All the marriages were under five years, except Mercy Aigbe’s marriage. All these marriages made the gossip mill active and social media platforms were practically set on fire as these marriages crashed and became rubble as it were.


Domestic violence was involved in some of the celebrity marriages. For this reason, Adewale advised that people caught up in domestic violence should seek counsel.

“I will not say you should sit down there and do nothing because I can’t tell you to move out. Everyone in a violent marriage knows when best to make such decisions but they should both seek counsel. In an abusive marriage, nobody is right but the abuser takes the bulk of the blame. I know there are men who are abused too but immediately an abuser raises his/her hand to hit the other person the person will become his victim. That is why we tell men to remain gentlemen in marriage and not ruffians.”

The question remains, is love still very much alive among celebrities? The answer is in the womb of time.


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-By Bisi Oludare (Yeye Lujesha 1)

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If you are planning to get married and you have been searching your whole life without success, then search no more as you have the best lover in Ijesha girl. If there is any tribe you must strive to marry from as a guy, then a lady from the Ijesha speaking part of Nigeria will suit you well. They have loads of wonderful attributes that make them pass for an unbeatable wife material, an excellent mother and a great daughter-in-law.

You can read below some of those great attributes they possess.


They Are Respectful
If you are looking for a lady that will honour and reverence you, then Ijesha lady is your sure bet. Because of the way they were brought up, they naturally show respect to people and they don’t take their husbands and husband’s family members for granted. You can be sure to have your food served with respect, just as the King that you are.


They Are Hard With Money
You cannot owe them; money is one thing Ijesha lady will not joke with. Though, your money as the husband maybe for the whole family as ‘our’ money, but her money is ‘my’ money. You cannot owe her, so, if you want your relationship to flow well and you want to continue enjoying peace, whenever you borrow money from her, pay back as at when due.



Pounded Yam Becomes Your Favourite Food

You will eat pounded yam as often as you want to, it is a common belief that pounded yam is the food for the noble and people with class. She gets to serve you pounded yam not poundo yam or machine-made pounded yam but the real yam pounded with a mortar and pestle. Pounded yam is a food she grew up with, ate it morning, afternoon and night, and so pounding for you whenever you want it will not be a problem.



They Are Not Extravagant
Marrying Ijesha lady will make you achieve much in a short period of time what took your mates years to get. She is naturally prudent and can help you manage your little resources to achieve great things.



They Don’t Joke With Their Family
Just as she respects you and your family members, she expects you to reciprocate that act of kindness. She doesn’t joke with her family and as much as you respect them, she values you.



They Hate Polygamy

If you want to enjoy Ijesha lady to the fullest, don’t play with marrying another wife. Don’t even dare to joke about it. They hate sharing their husband with another woman



They Hate Divorce

Ijesha ladies are faithful and dependable wives so they don’t want to hear about divorce at all. One of the reasons you see them carry out their responsibilities well



They Are Stubborn

Ijesha ladies are stubborn and you cannot win them in an argument. They will not allow you to finish before giving it to you. It will not be wrong to say there is no tribe that is as stubborn as Ijesha ladies.



They Are Hardworking

Looking for a lady that will fully support you and won’t allow you to cater for the family alone, then Ijesha lady will pass for this. They are very hardworking and hate idleness.

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15 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR -Part 1


-By Kemi Samuel

Every lady has a dream of getting married someday to her prince charming who will fit into her expectations and who she will live happily ever after with but before you go ahead into that marriage if your prince charming is a pastor you really need to get yourself to the under listed points. Happy reading.

(1 ) GET TO KNOW HIS AREA OF CALLING:

You need to ask questions from him which aspect of the ministry he is called into, is it deliverance, faith, healing etc Where is he suppose to function in the body of Christ. You need to understand his calling very well and get prepared for the task ahead.

(2 ) GOD IS HIS EMPLOYER NOT THE CHURCH:
Do not expect that because he is in charge of a large congregation then you will not have financial challenges, many have the notion that Pastors have free access to Church money and always get disappointed after marrying him. Note that the Pastor is not the sole signatory to Church account, the church is not an ATM.You had better prepared to spend your personal money on God’s work. If your reason for wanting to marry that Pastor is money induced, please, cancel your wedding.

(3 ) PREPARE FOR A CHANGE
When you get married to a pastor, it will obstruct your plans, change your directions and divert your focus.Dear, there are values that you will have to uphold, actions you will not be able to take, sacrifices you will have to make, your life directions will be significantly affected.How flexible are you?

(4 ) PARTNER IN SERVICE
1 peter 4: 10, John 13: 13-17, Please, know that you are his partner in service to bless and meet people’s needs in the Name of Jesus, you are to serve alongside him, do not go with the mindset that people are to serve you.You must embrace his ministry, learn under him and give him the total support.

(5 ) LADIES PASTOR
He will not only be the pastor of men but of ladies too and some of them will be extremely attractive. So, if you are a jealous type, you had better marry someone else and quit your relationship with the Pastor.

(6 ) BIG HEART
It is not only a big hat that makes a pastor’s wife but a big heart growing in the Lord and towards the Lord Jesus. You must have a large heart to accommodate and manage different classes of people with varying characters.

(7 ) NO DEPENDENCY ON PEOPLE FOR AFFIRMATION
Before you marry a pastor you must erase your dependency on people for affirmation and increase your dependency on God for approval.

(8 ) RIGHT SPIRIT
A positive and caring spirit to serve others will be helpful, you must do away with self-centeredness and solo life because a pastor is a man of the people.

(9 ) SLEEPING ALONE
The demand of the ministry might require him to travel for ministerial assignments, meetings, and retreats which may take him away from you at night.

(10 ) OPPOSE EXTRAVAGANT LIFESTYLE
If you must marry a Pastor, you must do away with extravagance lifestyle and be humane. You must not be materialistic lest the church members detest you

(11 ) ACT OF HOSPITALITY
Before you marry a pastor, how hospitable are you? A lot of People will come for counseling in your house and most of them may not be financially strong but you must be hospitable towards them even if they appreciate what you are doing.

(12 ) PREPARE TO BE A GLOBETROTTER
The work of a pastor involves a lot of transfer from city to city and nation to nation. At times, he may not spend up to three months in a location before he gets another letter of transfer. If you don’t like moving from one place to another, quit your relationship with the pastor now

(13 ) HE HAS A BOSS
He has a Boss –GOD. Do not expect him to put you ahead of his Boss. Help him to serve and obey God in all things.Please, don’t push him against God.

(14 ) MAN OF GOD
Before you marry a pastor, please always remember that he is a man. So, do not assume that been a man of God he does not have sexual urge and temptations like other men, he does. Maintaining your good looks and shape is very important for you to be able to keep him from falling into temptations.

(15 ) GOD’S REPRESENTATIVE
Before you marry that pastor, know that he is not just a man but God’s mouthpiece and His representative and you must respect and treat him as such, will you be able to?


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THE BENEFITS OF EARLY MORNING SEX FOR THE MARRIED COUPLES

They say having sex first thing in the morning not only improves your love life, it is also beneficial to your health. Early morning sex puts a smile on your face, boosts your health, looks and relationship.

Scientists say people who start their days by having sex are all-around healthier and happier than those who don’t.

According to Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good, having sex in the morning makes you stronger and more beautiful.

She said: “Having sex in the morning releases the feel-good chemical oxytocin, which makes couples feel loving and bonded all day long and climaxing releases chemicals that boost levels of estrogen, which improves the tone and texture of your skin and hair.

Some other benefits of morning sex include:

1. Apart from the fact that regular morning sex makes you feel upbeat for the rest of the day, it also helps in building a stronger immune system.

2. Believe it or not, it makes you less susceptible to catching a cold or flu and can also improve the quality of your hair, skin, and nails.

3. Having morning sex three times a week lessens the risk of a heart attack or stroke.

4. You aren’t bothered by the responsibilities of the day yet and your mind is clearer.

5. You’ve just been sleeping and are hopefully well-rested and can devote more energy to sex.

6. Sex is relaxing and can help manage stress.

7. You start the day more in sync when you’ve pleasured one another both physically and emotionally.

Also read this: 5 phrases that destroy a person with depression
8. You show your spouse that he/she is a priority, and so is your sex life.

9. Sex is exercise. It’s a great way to work up an early morning appetite as breakfast is the most important meal of the day.

10. Early morning sex can be a great incentive to wake-up and put you in a more positive mood. Wake-up sex will help you feel happier and healthier throughout the day.

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DR. BEN, NWABUEZE; CEO- HFC


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MAN BEG HIS MANAGER TO MARRY HIS WIFE

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A Ghanaian rap star, popularly known as Okyeame Kwame, has shown gratitude to his manager in an amazing way, Earl Ankrah, describing him as one of the best people he knew.

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Kwame made the remark when he wished Ankrah well on the occasion of the latter’s birthday on Sunday, April 9. He said:
“My boss, my best friend, my brother, my advisor and manager and one of the kindest men I know,” Okyeame wrote in a Facebook post.

He also urged Ankrah to marry his wife and father his children when he (Okyeame) dies one day, saying: “One day when I’m gone, pls marry my wife and father my kids….super happy birthday Papa Earl Ankrah. God bless you always,” the rapper wrote.

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The former Edo state governor, Adams Oshiomole, turned 65 years old yesterday April 4th. Himself and his beautiful wife, Iara Oshiomole, hosted his friends and political associates to a get together at his Abuja home yesterday evening.



Among the dignitaries present at the party were Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Dr. Ibe Kachikwu and business mogul, Ayiri Emami were among those spotted at the event.

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1.Patience Ozokwor was born on 25th March 1958

2.Her Stage name-Mama G means Mother General

3.She hails from Amaobo Village, Ngwo, Enugu state

4.She attended Abimbola Gibson Memorial School in Lagos

5.She also attended Women Training College

6.She was a teacher for four years.

7.She got married at age 19.

8.She was a newscaster and radio announcer

9.She won the Best Supporting Actress award at the 10th Africa Movie Academy Awards

10.She was among the 100 Nigerians honoured by the government to celebrate the amalgamation of the Northern and Southern Protectorates in 1914

11.Her husband is late

12.Mama G has three biological children and five adopted children

She started acting in school with a role in Hamlet -a Shakespeare’s classic drama, Hamlet in an all girl’s school. Hamlet was received so well, Patience started traveling with the show.

14.Having been a success in her career in radio drama she decided to give back to others. She opened a school to help young female school dropouts. She taught the girls hair and skin care. She was able to help these young ladies open their own businesses.

15, Her civic involvement led to a political appointment. She was the Assistant to the wife of the Mayor of the local government. She served in this political post for four years.

After the death of her husband, Patience concentrated on her family while returning to school to learn graphic arts and mass communication for the next few years. In order to earn money, she baked cakes and took on odd jobs.

17.Her first movie was in 1998

18.Patience role in the movie- Authority in 1999 shot her into the limelight.


19. She has played the role of a mother to almost every prominent actor except Olu Jacobs and Pete Edochie


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5 Things You Should Not Do To A Newborn
The baby is a new member of the family and now, he/she is seeing the environment as strange. A lot of persons are coming to commensurate with the family on the lovely arrival of the new baby. Are there some things you should do and not do?

1. Don’t allow anyone kiss the baby
Yes, kissing can affect the baby. At this point, there a lot of bacteria’s and a virus that can be given to your child from other kissing him/her. Their immune system is quite low or weak, and so, it may be very difficult to make sure they are well taken out of sickness.

Also, when others visit, makes sure that they do not carry the baby with their dirty hands, a good sanitizer will suffice in order to make them healthy and clean from germs.

2. Don’t change things
Because the baby is just coming does not mean that activities should change. Allow the same flow of activities take place. Never say that others should stop using the TV, or read books, or be chatting or be talking at home in order to reduce the silence. No, it will not help the baby. This will just increase the level at which the makeup of the body is destroyed.

The baby notices the environment, and then adapts to it the best way he/she can. Don’t worry if he has noisy little siblings; the sooner your new baby gets used to the noise of the day, the better he will sleep, no matter the time.

3. Don’t leave the diaper dirty for too long
Diaper rash is a something common to babies. For the first six months, they will begin to get used to the strange element you use to clean up the baby. So when a diaper is wet or has excreted there, their prompt action should be taken to fix it up immediately. This leaves the baby clean and healthy.


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How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal

Let me start by saying that I doff my cap for all men of God who have been standing in the Lord’s Vineyard preaching the gospel without blemish and the same time; I also salute men of God who have found themselves in the murky water of scandal; though wounded but not buried as you are coming out stronger and better with lots of lessons for others to learn. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal

The work of a pastor is not an easy one; it comes with its own hazards as well. A man of God must have been full of great works with massive impacts for over thirty years which may endear a lot of people to him but he can lose everything within few minutes when his scandal hit the headlines of print, electronics, and social media. This clearly explains the scandal of Apostle Suleman and Stephanie Otobo. This is one story too many as it evolves from different angles daily for past one week. Whether he is innocent or guilty is not what we are talking about but how to prevent the recurring of such among the men of God.



1.Have rule and stick To It– There is always a rule guiding every successful life. If you are living your life as a pastor without a strict rule; you will soon be over rule in ministry. Some of the rule you must have is not to allow anyone take away your personal time with God in constant prayers and study of the Bible. Solid relationship with the Holy Spirit will not give room to the flesh to express itself. Another rule you must stick to is never to counsel a woman alone in a closed office. Also don’t employ a female secretary. Many great men of God have soil their garments with unholy affairs they never planned for. Some due to ignorance of this facts and others through Pentecostal pride saying ‘’nothing will happen’’. Breaking this rule has swallowed many great men of God in history, don’t permit your name in its log book. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal


2.Avoid Living Separately From Your Wife– If you must be scandal free, avoid living separately. No reason is good enough for a Pastor to be living alone in a 3 bedroom flat of a duplex. Unfortunately, there are lots of Pastors today living in different towns and country away from their wives. Such Men may have reasons like ‘I want to grow this new branch while my wife Pastors our mother Church’. This system has left a vacuum which may be filled by any church member; be it single or married. Any of your domestic staff can also seduce you. Even if there is nothing of such, but your neighbours can start the rumour which may get to the media. Don’t permit expansion in ministry to bring suspension to your wife in your life. Stay together



3.Don’t Break Ministerial Ethics: There are ministerial ethics you must not break if you don’t want your image to be tainted. It’s unethical for pastors to be hugging a female member, going to a female’s room to pray alone or holding a vigil with her. It is wrong for a Pastor to hang out in an eatery or go on vacation with a female member. It’s also wrong for a Pastor to hold a counseling session in a hotel room with a female. If you are a guest Minister as a Pastor, always avoid a female in your entourage whenever your wife is not there. Breaking these ministerial ethics will easily lead to your downfall.



4.Be Sincere with Yourself About Your Weak-points: Somebody once said, your weak points as an unbeliever is what will become your point trap as Christian. Many at times, we all know our weak points but not owning up to the fact that it is the major problem. Never ignore your weak point. If women and sex are your weakness, shield yourself away from its danger zones. Be sincere to yourself.



5.Have A Solid Relationship With Your Wife-One of the major antidotes to a scandal is to have a solid relationship with your wife. Build intimacy with your wife and let everyone know that you are in love with your wife. Don’t just love her secretly, show it. Make her your confidant. Tell her if you struggling with lust towards any opposite sex and pray together on it. Living a cat and mouse lifestyle with your wife will expose you quickly to the evil wind of sexual scandal. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal


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Love or hate him, he has come be part of our life and History, so let celebrate the Man that ruled Nigeria between 1976-1979 and 1999-2007.
Here at www.dailyfamily.ng we gathered Eighty things you may not know about Olusegun Obasanjo to Celebrate his 80th birthday.

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1. Olusegun Obasanjo was Born on March 5th 1937
2. He was born in Owu Abeokuta, Ogun State Nigeria.
3. He is a Yoruba from-Owu, Abeokuta, Southwest, Nigeria
4. His full names are Olusegun Matthew Aremu Okikiola
5. Names of his father-Amos Adigun Bankole Obasanjo
6. Names of his Mother-Ashabi Obasanjo
7. He is a Christian, his Denomination-Baptist Church
8. What he does for living formerly a Soldier, presently-Farming
9. Name of the primary School attended-Baptist Boys Primary School, Abeokuta
10. Secondary School Attended-Baptist Boys High School, Abeokuta
11. Name of his farm-Obasanjo Farms Nigeria
12. Name of his first son-Gbenga Obasanjo
13. Name of his first born-Senator Iyabo Obasanjo
14. His traditional Titles in Abeokuta-Balogun of Owu kingdom, Ekerin of Egba
15. State of Origin-Ogun State
16. Name of his son currently in Nigerian Army-Colonel Adeboye Obasanjo

17. He became head of state when General Murtala Mohammed was killed in a Military coup led by Dimka in 1976

He became the head of state from13 February 1976 – 30 September 1979
19. His Vice as head of state was Major General Shehu Musah Yar’Adua
20. He handed over to: Alhaji Shehu Shagari
21. He handed over October 1st 1979
22. He was elected as a Civilian President on May 29th 1999- 29th May 2007
23. His Vice president was-Alhaji Atiku Abubakar
24. General Abdulsalam Abubakar, a military head of state handed over to him
25. He contested for the office of Secretary General Of United Nations and he lost
26. His tenure as a civilian president brought Mobile telecommunications into the country
27. Books authored By Obasanjo: The animal called Man, My Watch, Call to duty, Speeches, Not my Will, A new Dawn, No compromise with Apartheid, The Challenges of Agricultural production and Food Security in Africa, Towards Civil rule, Africa in Perspective, A March of Progress, Guides to effective Prayer, My Command: An Account of Nigerian Civil War, I see Hope
28. His son, Dare Obasanjo, is a Principal Program Manager for Microsoft
29. His Wives- Bola, Esther Oluremi (Ex-Wife), Lynda (deceased), Stella Abebe (deceased), Mojisola Adekunle (deceased)
30. His Village: Ibogun, Ifo local Govt. Ogun State.
31. He joined The Nigerian Army at the age of 21
32. He attended the 6-month Short Service Commission training at Mons Officer Cadet School in Aldershot in,England and was thereafter commissioned as an officer in the Nigerian Army
33. He trained also in India at the Defence Services Staff College,Wellington
34.Trained at the Indian Army School of Engineering
35. Number of his Children-20
36. On 23 October 2005, As a ruling President, he lost his wife-Stella Obasanjo, The First Lady of Nigeria the day after she had an abdominoplasty in Spain
37. The Doctor who did the operation on his wife was sentenced to one year in jail for negligence in 2009 and ordered to pay restitution to her son of about $176,000
38. His Nickname-Baba, Baba Africa, OBJ, Uncle Sege
39. He served at 1 Area Command in Kaduna. Promoted to Chief Army Engineer, he was made commander of 2 Area Command from July 1967, which was redesignated 2 Division Rear
40. He also served at the then Ibadan Garrison Organisation.
41. He was the Commander, the Army’s Marine Commando Division that took Owerri, effectively bringing an end to the civil war.
42. He was a Minister of Petroleum during his tenure as a President from 1999-2007
43. He was trained as an Engineer
44. Obasanjo was the Chairperson of The African Union From July 2004 to January 2006
45. Olusegun Obasanjo is a member of the Africa Progress Panel (APP), a group of ten distinguished individuals who advocate at the highest levels for equitable and sustainable development in Africa.
46. As a Soldier, he fought in the Nigerian civil War from 6th July 1967 – 15 January 1970 and Congo Crisis From 5th July 1960-25th November 1965
47. His Children are: Iyabo,Busola,Segun,Gbenga,Deboye,Bola,Kofo,Biyi,Seun,Bisoye,Olu,Dare,Funke,Damilola,Jonwo,Dayo, Funso, Toyosi, Bukola and Kunle (His Adopted nephew).
48. He is known to be a Choleric, though can be very Humorous.
49. From 1974-1975-, He was the Federal Commissioner for Works and Housing
50. From 29 July 1975-13 February 1976, He was the Chief Of Staff Supreme Headquarters
51. Obasanjo defeated Muhammadu Buhari in 2003 election by more than 11 million votes
52. In 1999 election, Obasanjo won with 62.6% of the vote to defeat Olu Falae
52. During his regime as a Civillian President,Nigeria’s GDP Growth rate doubled to 6percent
53. As a civilian President, Nigeria’s foreign reserves skyrocketed from $2billion in 1999 to $43billion in 2007 when he left office
54. His Second Wife-Lynda was killed by armed robber after failing to move out of her car quickly as ordered by the robbers.
55. Obasanjo once served as a teacher before joining The Army
56. His close friends are: Akin Mabogunje, Joe Irukwu, Ahmed Joda, Christopher Kolade, Alex Okoro, Adamu Ciroma, Obafemi Olopade, Onaolapo Soleye.
57. Obasanjo survived many Impeachment moves during his tenure as the president
58. He became a Executive President of Nigeria on the platform of PDP
59. Obasanjo established The Bells Group of School,Ota
60. Obasanjo Founded The Bells University-Ota
61. His Daughter Dr. Iyabo Obasanjo-Bello was a former Commissioner in Ogun state and Senator of Nigeria.
63. It was alleged that the former Obi of Onitsha, Igwe Okwudili Onyejekwe is his true father because of the resemblance
64. Obasanjo’s favourite clothes is Adire(Egbas’ indigenous clothes)
65. Obasanjo’s shoe is size 42
66. Obasanjo once ordered for Made-in Aba Shoes
67. He went back to school in 2009 for his PhD to Study Theology in Nigerian Open University.
68. Obasanjo attended the same School with Late MKO Abiola(Baptist Boys High School,Abeokuta)
69. He was one of the founding Fathers of People Democratic Party(PDP)
70. He was the one that brought world bank trained Okonjo Iweala into the Nigerian economic scene
71. He established the anti-graft body-EFCC which was first headed by Mallam Nuhu-Ribadu
72. He appointed Mallam Nasir El-Rufai as the Minister for Federal Capital Territory in his tenure as the President
73. Obasanjo was once accused by his son-Gbenga that he was having sexual intercourse with his wife
74. He established a presidential library at his Hill-top home in Abeokuta
75. He was accused of sending soldiers to wipe a community known as Odi
76. Obasanjo sent the military to burn Fela’s Kalakuta
77. Obasanjo’s soldier raid of Kalakuta led to the death of Mrs Funmilayo Ransome Kuti(Fela’s mother)
78. Obasnanjo was imprisoned by The Abacha government for Coup Plot and latter freed by General Abdulsalam Abubakar
79. Bola Obasanjo is the current wife living with Obasanjo
80. Obasanjo’s favourite sport is the traditional Yoruba game known as ‘’AYO”

All of us at www.dailyfamily.ng join other Nigerians to celebrate Chief Olusegun Obasanjo at 80.



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