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bros over sense de worry this your post..this is a fact that every guy needs to adhere to. thanks@op

bro if am in your shoes seriously i wouldn't give a hitch about the first gal...its a simple matter, xplain it to her..that since she told you that she could never date you that just last week that you proposed to the friend and she accepted...its not in any way your fault or that of her friend so for me I'll advice you to continue with her friend!

Pritheeann: quhd 4u..

thanks dear...u can come join ma world...its a free place!

single and flirting and happy!

thank you all for your contributions...she have heard all you said and she have made her decision, she is very grateful to you all! thanks..

its too bad...for me i think she should just go ahead and say the truth to the guy though i don't think the guy would still forge ahead with the marriage plans cos even if he decides to continue with the marriage plans the gal definitely will suffer in the future..its natural and she can't even help it so my advice to her is just to say the truth to the guy and forge ahead with her life, i believe she have learn t good lesson's from her adventure so let her turn a new leaf so she might end up with the next guy that would come her way...good luck to her!

A friend came to me and voiced out her problem(below is a copy of what she told me)....i gave her my opinion but it was really a hard one for me so please let me have your kind opinion on this issue. but please take your time to go through it...thanks!

Dere is dis guy i met at ph,he is a graudate nd working....He askd me out nd i accpetd...we started dating,at a tym i was tired of d relationship cos he is too quiet 4 my liking,he is nt open minded. Weneva i visit hm,he wont talk 2 me,even if i stay upto 3hrs wit hm alone,he wont talk 2 me,if i try my bst 2 brk d silence by asking hm questions,he wil jst summarize his reply wit one word. Wen i ask hm y,he wil tel me am nt d talking type. Though i rily lvd him bt i couldnt condone his behaviour anymore....Last mth wen i went 2 my local govt 2 collect my LG origin certificate,i met a guy dat helpd me out 2 get it,we xchanged numbz,d guy was so caring 2 me dat a day wont pass by witout him kaling me more dan 5 tyms. Due to d way he alwyz made me hppy we started 2 date. It reachd 2 an xtent d@ he invited me 2 his haus,his mum nd siblings wlcmd me nd likd me. His mum do call me on fone. D prob is dat d 1st guy i met is a cousin to dis guy nw. Cos d dy d 1st guy came home 4 a wkend,he was showing d 2nd guy my pix dat am his babe.dat he was going 2 marry me...He told hm evrytin abt me nd d 2nd guy kald me 2 confirm so i told hm wat hapnd. D prob is like tryin 2 cause a prob btw d two brodas. Cos d 1st guy is beging d 2nd guy 2 leave me dat he 1st met me nd d 2nd guy said he cant. Am totally confuse on hw 2 handle d issue.

temple gate is a private polytechnic in aba you can make complaints about the txt due to the fact that you never applied...buh its no scammm, they are for real!

i vote yes for him!!

noooooooooooooo.....i wont!!

sometimes i just wonder why things happen this way.....the good guys always meeting the badt gals and the good gals in turn always meet with the badt guys...its a pity..i really feel for your sister, that is why it is not always good for a lady to totally show a guy that she is into him! but let her forge ahead with her life...i believe she have learn't from the experience!!

am really impressed with this topic...am still an undergraduate but i have started making plans of starting up something of my own once i graduate by next year....i have actually thought about opening a company that would solicit and undertake projects, i know how challenging this might be but i love challenges and am ready to make this a reality...i actually have discussed this with some friends but majority of them are dream killers but i don't believe that any person can discourage me....all i need is inspiration and God's favor and i believe that soonest this dream would come to actualization!

Tascocent: My girl friend, where ever u are may God punish ur present Boyfriend..............(Amen)

same here bro, any where my girl friend is may God punish her and her present Boyfriend....Amen!

as for me...there is no love! i define majority of women now as devil in disguise.....let him let her be, i believe that what ever that goes around must surely come around...nature is so mindful of this so let him concentrate on making out the best out of him self.

true talk my brother....and i'v been a victim of that...jst realized my self this monthy!!

brightmon: Dont call, email or go to any shop for any form. Were are here to assist you apply on your own for free. If you use an Agent to apply you are on our own. They MUST request for money to apply for you and if you win, it will be request stage two, sometimes they request for as high as 800,000 b4 they release your result. Stage three request will be that you must carry/marry ther person and if you do the Embassy MUST catch YOU!
Its as easy as posting a comment on Nairaland.
Dont be fooled, do it yourself.

please is it proper for a whole family to apply? or is it just strictly for one person from the family to apply?? and as an undergraduate, which certificate is feasible...SSCE??

please is it proper for a whole family to apply? or is it just strictly for one person from the family to apply?? and as an undergraduate, which certificate is feasible...SSCE??

This is a true story of a family travelling on one
of our highways when
they saw a pregnant
woman crying for help.
She was supposedly in
labour pains. The
husband never wanted
to stop as he was not
fully convinced but the
wife being a woman that
had gone through such
pains before, pleaded
with the husband to stop
and help the pregnant
woman.
They stopped and came
out of their car, little did
they know that was
going to be the beginning
of a drama of pain for
them, As they reached
out to help the woman,
SOME HOODLUMS just
came out from the
nearby bush and held
them at gunpoint and
made a painful offer to
them. They either give up
one of their children or
they would all be killed.
The parents, taking the
gunmen to be a gang of
kidnappers agreed to give
them one of their children
(a Boy) believing they
would later ask for
ransom but never knew
they had just offered
their own son for
RITUAL, They were
ordered to go and they
zoomed off, just few
minutes from the scene
of this horror, they met
some policemen and
narrated their ordeal to
them, the police decided
to go back to the scene
ONLY TO DISCOVER THE
HEADLESS BODY OF THE
BOY, with no trace of the
evil people, Dear Friends,
permit me to ask, Will
this mother ever forgive
herself for urging her
husband to stop and help
a ''pregnant'' woman? Will
this family ever be the
same again? Let this
story be sent to every
one of our compatriots
to alert them of the
dangers inherent in our
dear country. I got this
on one of my BBM
contacts and decide to
share it here. The evil
that men do nowadays
surprises the devil
itself and it lives after them.
I Love you all.

@op...some times am baffled..ow we let some ppl to deceive us in the name of serving God...did the scriptures not say that he that finds a wife finds a good thing? or was it later reversed to he that allows his pastor to find the wife finds a good thing? don't get deceived bro...though the deed has been done...all u would have done would have been to pray to God and ask 4 his guidance..u where appy with ha b4 the revelation....wat if Grace collied with the pastor jst to get @ u? u neva kan tell...many things appen thez days..bt i must tell u the fact, u really hurt that soul...my advice is that you should visit her unawares...mayb in a public eatery...buy ha gifts...then explain issues to ha...i blv she would feeel beeter...goodluck!

really nice and fun to be here...am new here 2!

thumbs up gal...more grease to your elbow!

and the poor masses are suffering....yet they spend this much on a 9t they kall ghala.....God is watching!!!

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool......roooolllling!

good one by GEJ..xpecially making the local governments an autonomy of them selves...i think is a very wise move...cos most of the masses that are seeking for dividends of democracy are mostly from the grass root and can only be reached through the local governments but the states government have refused them this benefits and most at times use the care taker commitee to embezzle funds...i think the idea of the state creation should come to aba...cos they gat all the desired qualities to stand as a state!

good work Fashola....ride on boss!

some men jst like to bring problems and complications to their life! when he already had kids, he would have just proceeded with marrying the SSCE girl according to the narration of the post...u said he now understand love, do u think that certificate is a measure for love? 4gt how long u talk with ur virgin girl on phone....u are jst been driven by fleshy desires...so my advice is for you not to complicate and bring trouble to your life nd the future of your children, u better cut of your virgin relationship and get married to you SSCE girl...learn to love ha...if certificate is your problem, then send ha to school that is if u really want to have a fullfilled future!