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@op

This is not a good way to get a serious guy. If I was a guy I would play it serious to be get into your pants. Even if its 6 months and when I am through, I change my nos.

It doesn't matter if you start from being friends to being lovers or you don't visit the guy bla bla. What you would have just done was to make friends here generally, if people like you they will add you up and make the 1st move from then you can play your game.

Thank God I am not a guy sha, it would have been easy locating your thong cos I know what u r looking for already even if I have to quote the entire bible. Too predictable babes.

@chukie

Yeah it goes to paris for real but wetin concern u with that. Just do ur medicals and don't have any medical issues. U like to worry O. Just relax, it is well. Yaba said no space till next month so y bother. But u can book at Yaba as well.

@Epicwin

Na becos u dey go for medicals dts y u get time to dey monitor my username and pix. The couple in my pix are harmless and clothed. They are licensed too because they r probably married or something. I don't think that part of the medicals was necessary or at least be done by a same sex. I was so embarrassed.

As for being a doc, anything is possible when u r in Canada. Just take ur studies seriously.

@op

I thot u said that looks don't matter to you. I have seen 3 threads you said something like that. So why not bother about unattractive men.

@dammytex

Didn't know you were related to D'banj oh. We would have just used you as a stunt double for our drama. Wait abi you are d'banj without the glasses. OMG I have been conversing with Kanye's artist. I need an autograph asap. Ur pix only showed ur head though.

^lolz everyone was examined O. I just didn't know what they were going in there for. But a nurse was there sha, lolz. which one be nairaland handle abi u r the doc?

I did my medicals today. Thank God. I have also submitted my international passport & medicals instruction form & that other letter they attached back to CDHC.

I didn't know the medicals involved them touching your body parts, hiss. It was a male doctor that did that. This Canada sef and their procedures.

Anyways all those looking for dates are not pro-active. Me sef was just smart to get my medicals done today. Go to that VI place and you would be fine. Just claim that you had called earlier and booked and appeal to them that you traveled down. That VI is very flexible so they would attend to you. Peeps were not much today sef. You can get there before 8am so that they attend to you before the people who booked come. But if you want to call and book an appointment, the available dates are from August 16th. Best of luck. When u get there, ask for Aina that way she would know you truly called

I am going back to my prayer mode. Don't want to get tensed by the post here. Will be back if anything comes up. Best of luck every1.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=728474.msg8865552#msg8865552 date=1312595698]I love BABE! but she is cheating on me so I think I am going to take my love back and give someone else[/quote]Just change ur strategy and she would notice u. Study her for a while so u know what method she would like. She has not openly ruled u out so that's a good sign

@claremont sorry i meant nazist as in nazism

^ I see you have really gotten into your character. Good work!! Trey songz is so cute

Whether men or Nland peeps like it or not, there is still real love out there & when it is said, some people actually mean it. Even if 2 people in the whole world mean it then thats fair enough. At least I have witnessed true love before & I still see it once in a while. Most guys dt brag here are the ones dt have eaten veg & cat fish outside and wash their babes undies they come here & start flexing muscles. So u guys should keep being in denial.

@claremont, if I love u for a week, u will be a new born. My cuddles alone would bring back childhood memories before u joined your nazist movement. I will just be doing u muah muah

This kind topic get as e be abeg. Everything is just not ok. The family, The guy, The girl & The op are all not matured. There some things that can be solved as a unit and not on NL.

Only when you can't identify the cause & solution that is when you seek people's opinion. This is a simple case.

The guy should cement the relationship between the babe and his family. He should also explain to his family that he loves her & she is even ready to start from the scratch with him. Any family would be happy to embrace a babe that is not a gold digger as there is no gold sef.

Secondly the guy has to put his babe in order. No guy would want to marry a snobbish babe dt does not regard elders so this part is not clear but anyways The corper is a man so he should manage the situation. He should start by spending time with both his family and chick in the parlour watching movies or playing ludo or something.

The guy should be bothered about getting a job or going into business and not this. To me its not a big deal and can be resolved. He should also ensure the babe get industrious. Everything would be fine.

And you op, try and solidify the relationship between all of them. Its as if u sef don't want them together abi na u oracle & family choose for the guy. I expected u to have handled the situation by playing peace maker. As a babe u should be able to advice his chick, except u sef get motives.

^ The worst are some caterers. Chei does ones munch & taste everything they cook for the day. By the end of the mass cooking, they would have eaten a 3 course meal that was meant to be served to 10 guests.

If you have the tendencies of gaining weight just stay off that occupation, become a nutritionist instead.

Joblessness & Idleness & Unemployed (but if you don't have the tendencies of gaining weight then u r good to go with being a housewife)

I always sound into everyone's ears. Its safe to be a working class wife than a housewife just in case you have the tendencies of adding weight. But if you are super trim no matter what, then you can be a housewife.

What working does is this, it exposes you to what is happening in the real world. By the time you see married ogas or business associates flaunting little girls then you would be at alert. Secondly, you wont want to be left out when all your colleagues with 8 kids look young & trim. Even if your family are too embarrassed to tell you that you are loosing shape, definitely someone in your office would at least say it jokingly. Finally, when you are pregnant and you climb stairs, walk from one office to the other, make photocopies, type etc and you are given maternity leave just few weeks or days before delivering you have beaten unnecessary accumulation or fats during pregnancy. When you return to the hustle and bustle of work stress after pregnancy, you have beaten post pregnancy weight gain.

If you have the tendencies of gaining weight and you become a housewife, best of luck with the kitchen & fridge right beside you. Another trick is Eko & vegetables after pregnancy, you would beat the weight gain. Women think when you consume all manner of food after delivery, it makes the baby strong. But vegetable and healthy food is meant to what, Go figure.

I come across grandmothers at the salon who are fit & good looking. Guess what some of them are still working or just retired. Its better to be around people a lot so you can know how to keep in shape.

Some women say house chores is also enough exercise. When you burn all that calorie sweeping, moping & all. Then you top it up with a mountain hill of Eba and 6  pieces of meat & coke. You have gained times 2 of what you burnt. So who are you fooling. In your office, shame sef would grip you to consume such as u trust people's mouth. Fake life but at least its not fat life.

Its not necessary about hitting the gym. Cure is stressful, just prevent it by keeping busy. But if you have good genes then u r fine even with 50 pieces of meat.

^hmmm better said jor. How r u? Any new scripts? How is work? Me I am having crazy tummy ache

^ I just googled it. Yes it does work but how do I get it. I'm sure in advance countries, they would redefine it and all. I can't go around with excrete cos I want to grow my hair.

^time can still change, lolz

@op, thanks for making my night. I will sleep well to day. Have a fab night with sky watching over u right? even the moon is smiling bright. You would be alright.

dammytex:
That was sweet. Who is xynerise's wife?
What a story at 12:40 am of a new day. Today promises to be a beautiful day. Thanks.

Uw. Skydeep, its on the letter he wrote. So romantic and sexy. Will soon go to bed with smiles and night dreaming.

@dammytex

Hope u r learning. During our time, I want state of the art declaration, Its either u beat his record or we do parlor wedding.

@op,

Have u seen the movie Woo by Jada Pinkett Smith

^ thats not possible & u r here. she is probably sleeping or resting.

190:
[size=28pt]i will destroy that wedding   [/size]

Liar. Just ur way of showing ur excitement. I have get another tissue, this is so romantic, where is goldie?

dammytex:
And who cares whether they left or not. Someone important is watching and rehearsing with me and I'm smiling to that. Can't you see my mood is lifted.

Ok my own mood got lifted by this:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-728026.99999.html#bot

@sexykillz and claremont, please everything must not revolve around you two all the time. This is their moment please lets respect it. Take your counter terrorism else where. This is not about faceless tantrums this is reality love & commitment. He is ur fellow guy, ejo please respect him and his wife to be.

^ Awwww. So romantic. I am so happy for you and her.

I hope we get to see pictures of the blessed day.

You might be a nominee for romantic dude but for this letter and proclamation of love to her, you are indeed the most romantic man on here.

May God bless your union and give you both peace & happiness. It is true that love can be found here, you are a testimony of love in this zones.

As for mini xynesky, I pray it brings joy and happiness to your life. He/she has romantic sexy parents, he/she will be feeling cool at school cos he/she has cool parents.

Congrats & no bachelor eve stunts.

^I am carrying my natchy hair now. Need to grow the front with Indian hemp cream and spirit.

@op

You just have not met that girl that would take you there. Often times, we all use that phrase that I don't think I can fall in love again but you will. Its a matter of time. Don't go looking for it, it would just find you and you would know she is the one. It would come naturally & mutually. But first of all, forget the past where it belongs-the past and live for today because no one knows tomorrow.

I don't judge you for having flings, it takes 2 to tango, you obviously did not use a knife to get them to spread. The girls knew what they were doing and probably have moved on so its no biggy. For a man, there would be several options, choices & picks, its up to all of them to battle it out and the most intelligent one wins. So let the best lady win your heart. One must surely end up as the No 1. Let them play their games tight to occupy that vacuum.

Love does not have to happen in one day, its built. Infact I am a sucker for peace of mind & happiness then the love would grow. Realistically most happy marriages were not based on love but friendship, compatibility, interest, compromise, communication, trust, companionship & fondness. When you have all that, it keeps your interest alive. Only God has sincere love for man. So don't rush. Take your time.

ok good. nland peeps r all going to canada. me love it like that. congrats dear

dammytex:
Oh, we are supposed to be on set for a filming.
So, where are we?

How did I even get carried away sef? C-----s, take your time o.
oya director cuddlemii, sorry sexlikkz, where are we? Act1, Scene 1: Action----

Lolz everyone has left the stage. U r all alone rehearsing.