Travel › Re: Wasted: How Billions Spent On ‘Nigeria Air’ Went Down The Drain by Curious345: 3:34pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
Arrest buhari now |
Romance › Re: Help!! My Fiance Always Makes Me Do Things In Bed That I Don't Enjoy. by Curious345: 7:38pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Nigerian girls are useless |
Romance › Re: Help!! My Fiance Always Makes Me Do Things In Bed That I Don't Enjoy. by Curious345: 7:37pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
You're a bloddy full DaisyMellow: Hi guys. I usually don't bring relationship issues to Nairaland, but this one is very serious as it concerns the man I am engaged to and scheduled to marry before the end of the year.
I have known him for a year and few months and we are in love. When we started having sex, it was all vanilla and although he was a bit rough; as in throwing me around and putting me in different positions, I was okay with it, and honestly, it was kinda exciting because some of those styles were new to me
However recently things have gotten really weird whenever we are having sex. He requests me to do certain stuff that honestly creeps me out. Sometimes he would tie my hands behind my back so tight and stuff the pillowcase in my mouth, then have his way with me. Sometimes he would blindfold me with my scarf and ask me to beg him to free me, while choking me with his two hands. There was even a time he got a knife and pretended to want to stab me and asked me to play along and act scared. Sometimes he would ask me to forge tears so he would watch me cry while we had sex.
It's gotten real bad that a week ago, I almost passed out when he was doing one of his weird choking sex-plays. In the past I have talked to him about how I didn't enjoy some of these things and how we should do it sparingly or not at all. He sounded like he understood, but after a few weeks he seemed bored and uninterested in normal sex, and begged me to go back to the rough stuff because that's the only thing he likes.
I know he loves me because he takes good care of me and is even friendly with my parents and siblings. But this extreme sex thing is really making me uncomfortable.
I can't imagine going through this sort of sex every day when we eventually get married and live under the same roof.
I need serious advice on the next steps to take. |
Crime › Re: Video, Sad How Thieves Removed Everything In A Man's Parked Car, Video by Curious345: 6:29am On Jun 02, 2023 |
The southwest encourage these thugs and criminals |
Crime › Re: Evil People: Nigerian Prostitutes Arrested In Accra Ghana by Curious345: 6:20am On Jun 02, 2023 |
Sad |
Crime › Re: Four Nigerian Policemen Arrested For Extorting N20m From ‘yahoo Boys’ In Bayelsa by Curious345: 6:08am On Jun 02, 2023 |
Suck |
Politics › Re: NLC Rejects New Petrol Pump Price by Curious345: 6:34pm On May 31, 2023 |
Nlc no get level |
Politics › Re: NNPCL CEO, Mele Kyari And EFCC Boss, Bawa At The Villa Today by Curious345: 6:21pm On May 31, 2023 |
Sick corrupt fuulish men |
Politics › Re: NNPCL CEO, Mele Kyari And EFCC Boss, Bawa At The Villa Today by Curious345: 6:20pm On May 31, 2023 |
Sick men |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Congratulates Chinonso Eche And Victor Kipo On Guinness World Records by Curious345: 12:31pm On May 31, 2023 |
But half dressed olosho jikda baci got all the accolades..
The problem is actually Nigerian men who are perverts |
Politics › Re: Aminu Dantata Came Out For Asiwaju Tinubu (Pictures) by Curious345: 9:38am On May 30, 2023 |
It's about Nigeria ..not about idiots |
Crime › Re: Photos: Cable Thief Caught And Tied To Transformer In Maiduguri by Curious345: 8:25pm On May 29, 2023 |
Set him free |
Crime › Re: Father Got Home From Work And Caught His Daughter With 2 Guys In His House by Curious345: 6:16pm On May 29, 2023 |
Niaja women are useless |
Politics › Re: Obidients' Boo Lamidi Apapa Outside The Court of Appeal by Curious345: 12:16pm On May 17, 2023 |
Lol |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Joins Hilda Baci’s IG Live To Give Her Words Of Encouragement (Pictures) by Curious345: 11:41am On May 14, 2023 |
Not him watching .. it's the handler .
Bat is holed up in an ICU |
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Crime › Re: "Couple Arrested" Update On Little Girl Rescued From Her "Madam" (pics/video) by Curious345: 6:17am On May 14, 2023 |
The wickedness of the current govt infects the entire national fabric |
Crime › Re: "Couple Arrested" Update On Little Girl Rescued From Her "Madam" (pics/video) by Curious345: 6:16am On May 14, 2023 |
Sad |
Culture › Re: I Found This Ancient Ruin In Nigeria No One Knows About by Curious345: 6:11am On May 14, 2023 |
Fulani terrorists have prevented us from exploring our hinterlands .
Can't wait for state police to become a reality |
Politics › Re: North Roars: Grant Us Leadership Of NASS Or We’ll Withdraw Support For APC, Govt by Curious345: 3:18pm On May 13, 2023 |
Lol..
Gettat |
Politics › Re: Court Invalidates NBC's powers to Impose Sanctions, Fines On Broadcast Stations by Curious345: 1:29pm On May 10, 2023 |
You waited until now . Useless judges |
Career › Re: My Secretary's Resignation Without Notice Is Crumbling My Company by Curious345: 1:09pm On May 10, 2023 |
I feel like slarpping and head booting you concho: When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar
Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .
Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .
I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .
We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .
On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .
On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago
I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .
She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .
I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .
This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one
If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .
How do I start nailing her please ?? |
Politics › Re: Opposition Swells Against Tinubu's Choice Of Akpabio As Senate President by Curious345: 7:24pm On May 07, 2023 |
Off the mic |
Politics › Re: I Read That Foreign Lawyers Are In Nigeria To Stop Tinubu Inauguration – Keyamo by Curious345: 2:41pm On May 06, 2023 |
Keyamo the drunk |
Politics › Re: APC, Tinubu Favour Akpabio As Senate President by Curious345: 1:51pm On May 06, 2023 |
Good.. but Tinubu will be booted out soon. He is illegitimate |
Food › Re: How Many Of These Fruits Have You Eaten? (photos) by Curious345: 9:39am On May 06, 2023 |
Eaten all except the RED MONKEY COLA |
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Politics › Re: Pregnant Woman, Husband, Son Allegedly Killed By Herdsmen In Osun by Curious345: 2:40am On May 05, 2023 |
Holy lord . What the hell is this?
Atimes I find it hard to imagine why elements in the army are sympathetic to these cannibals |
Health › Re: How Do I Boost My Immune System? by Curious345: 8:30pm On May 04, 2023 |
The 2nd picture Bigcowhorn: Hello,
I'm trying to buy this online on jumia but it appears that there are different kinds of it all within 8k to 10k. There is one even 14k (last image Immunace Extra)
Which of them are you recommending? I want to get it for my aunt who seems to have a failing Immunity issue like this op.
cc: ItisWell22 Your imput is welcome |