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A friend is someone you give the right to hurt you, but trusting they won't!

@ druggie, the lie is that u wear weaves


i love nigeian movies
i hate the gym
i hate dance classes

somze:
Thinking CuteAss is correct, but take it easy and don't be downsome

thinking thanks for the words, will bear them in mind!

mukina2:
the belly ring is the lie cute-ass

wrong, you failed woefully jare

@ topic

the lie is you being a right-hander

im a school drop-out
i love my family so much
im not an only child

pink nah





can you do without your phone?

@ mopegirl

LOL, thats a big tongue twister . . it'll take a genius to take you up on that oo, i think i only got to the 6th lol

didnt know someone fell




whats your sex, male or female?

thinking life sucks sometime

thinking but again such is life

thinking  . ,  im short of words

@ mukina2, the lie is that you hate converse sneakers


i have a nose ring
i have a belly-ring
i have a madonna-ring

CuteAngel:
most times is good to ignore some she-goat who claim to be wise in their own eyez nevertheless tnx for your advice.

You couldnt be more right darling, i'll be doing that from this point (likewise, thanks for the advice ). . nice meeting you sha, nothing short of a pleasure and blast

Honey there's a fair difference between making a point and having a problem . . any serious mind will see which category my post falls into. And please try to insert quote, so someone doesnt attribute my post to you.

Now, guess we're done, have a splendid evening dear!

[quote author=G-money link=topic=78530.msg1488877#msg1488877 date=1189609747]@Rubbermaid ,

Well said!! I think present can become ex if care is not taken![/quote]Exactly why i advised that if for any reason, she considers going for the meet-up, her new boyfriend should be informed before-hand, not afterwards. And if after a long talk, he doesnt find it ok, then she should say a "polite no" to her ex . . simple as that, some things are more important than others.

jericho:
Pink tea,

My advice to you is that you let him come for the lunch and then stand him up. Just don't go for the lunch.

I bet he wont call u back ever.

There is no point in opening old wounds. If u say u hav a good relationship now stay  there and resist all forms of temptation.

Sorry to be crude but "na small s**t dey stain yansh"

A word is enough for the wise.

jericho

Fair analysis, but i prefer her saying "no" to the meeting than standing him up. The past has to pass for the present to be, they went their seperate ways 9months ago, she's happy where she's at now, now i see no reason why she should be cruel to him before making her stand known, taking revenge now will only seem as if she's still bitter whch she doesnt sound to be. A "no, i can't meet with you" should do.

@ BABEELOVE

What a childish discussion we're having, i and you.

Your personality?? lmcao . . did you say you were the grown up here?? I find it very difficult to believe, Cos your numerous posts prove otherwise. But hey, we all have different definitions to different words in our own dictionaries(minds) and "grown-up" might as well be one of those words.

If your personality was so topps as you claim, why the need of a break-up and consideration of come-back in the first place?? If he was so good in bed, why did you let him go at the first instance??

Girl be reaslistic, while at it, jump down your high horse, won't do you any specific good!

When i said outside the bed, i meant some people being seperated in terms of circumstances . . secondly, a guy hurting you doesnt necessarily have to mean he cheated . . and take my words for what they seem when i say i'm not in the category of those who
"let the genetic markings of the masculine gender still baffle them" as you put it . . my dignity and self-esteem comes first, but you wouldn't know what that means, would you now?

The barking dog doesn't always bite  . . so easy to say you won't take him back, but are you sure you really will not take him back?? I don't live with you, remember!

Now be so kind to keep your "grown-up" thoughts of what life is all about to yourself, i for one be assured am not interested Ha det så lenge.

esplendido:
My dear girl,
I've  been in exactly this position, so I know
What else would your ex want to talk to you about?? He believes he has a hold on you and is still banking on the fact that u have some residual feelings for him.
Do yourself a favor and ask him to talk via phone. What is new anyway??
If he says no, then call him and tell him you would have to ask your new boyfriend if that is ok by him and that you'll get back to him. If he backs off then, fine. If not, then make sure u actually tell your new guy about it. If he is ok with it, then good.
If he says no, then the answer is NO.
You'll be better off, trust me

Very wrong!! Two similar situations don't necessarily have to have same ending So until he spits out what he has to say, nobody could know, we can only assume!

I really don't think she should pretend she knows what he wants to discuss . . Cos there's that slightest chance that what we're all thinking aint what the dude has in mind.

McDoe:
Are these not too much!

It looks too much, dunnit?

But practically it isnt . .because all those things are one in hand.

Take for example, if someone should ask what it takes to be a mother, the list would seem unending but for an up and doing mum, she does them all without having to think about it

I believe if a couple is up and doing, they complete each other, which makes each person's task easy flowing and feels undemanding . .you do those things without even thinking, because the person beside you deserves your "all"

Its kind of difficult to put to words jare, just think about your dream couple, you'll see what i'm talking about

If they both love each other unconditionally and genuinely, every other thing on the list follows suit authomatically!!

druggie233:
Sorry sweetie you know i love my sleep and nothing can come between it . don't worry no lectures today, so am are all yours . missing you too

druggie233:
@cute-ass Hey chicken voice missing you now , i can't sleep jare. talk to u tomm

Thank your stars you called last night, hell woulda broken loose lol . . thanks for the sweet convo, (FF), love you girl and missing you right now

I think its very childish when someone is in serious need for a good advice, depends her problem in your hands, and all we can come up with is stupid jokes, its saddening.

The game section isnt far from here, if you don't have something useful and helpful to contribute, take a ride there and amuse yourself!!

@ topic

I agree with crazykid, if you don't want to re-unite with him, and you're very happy where you are . . .though we're not evven so sure of what he has to say, i suggest you call him up and request you guys settle it over the phone.

And if he insists to meet with you in person, you could oblige. Tell your new boyfriend about it, and with all security that you love this new boyfriend too much, go for the meet-up.

Give him your honest answer to whatever it is he wants to talk about, if he ends up dissappointed, well too bad . . in games of love and war, one party must end up hurt . . he decided to come over, so he should definitely expect two sides to the possible outcome to his intention.

But remember, we don't even know what he wants to discuss

mishooo:
Do you know i don't want you to go nowhere??

How sweet, kind of tired sitting in front of the system, gotta go do something useful with myself so i don't end up repeating the course lol. See ya some other time sha.

@ topic


nope, but really? @ moondust, i swear you're silly take care lollipop



u?

CuteAngel:
The great question, which I have not been able to answer, is,

'What does a woman want?
CAN ANYONE TELL ME?

CuteAngel:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmn Its kindda hard to know what one really wants, well i was waiting to hear from ya before saying ma mind.

well what i want is , I WANT TO LEARN MORE! SO THAT I CAN DO MORE!!

Weired!

Anyways next time, specify your questions so we don't waste our precious minutes typing contrary! thankyou.

yea, or kind of family dog





you mind bidding me good bye and a lovely evening?

That God knows best and wish his will be done in my life and lives of my loved ones.

dont know what it means, but i'll go for a NO




like travelling by sea?

from a job? yes



like doing the dishes?

Digital:
, everything

LOL, too much of anything is bad oo

[quote author=Dr. Dre link=topic=78320.msg1484524#msg1484524 date=1189518093]_{*wondering which prison that's best for him*} [/quote]I highly commend the "all for love" prison

no, not yet lol





u?

yes





u?

Girlfriend, are you writing a project on love,relationships and family, or you're just having a bored afternoon?? _{just asking sha}

@ topic

both!! @ different hrs of the day.


for more details, :https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1363.0.html Seun already created similar topic

^^^ You're hereby arrested, found guilty of love and sentenced to double life-imprisonment. No bail would be granted

_{*subscribing extra to thread and waiting to see the head that led to the sewing of the cap*}

jkpretty:
well, i believe they always come with these i'm sorry, when they'v tested d waters & realise u are still the best thing that ever happened to them. No going back we could be friends though.

I get where you're coming from, really. I can't give a concrete "no" or "yes", Cos i feel this is one of those circumstances i would need to be in to be able to know what i will and will not do.

But if they tested the waters and came back, it doesnt have to be all negative, . . atleast you'll be somewhat assured they wont be messing up with you next time

But no matter who and what the person decides to do, i'll support them, Cos this is one place where everybody has a right to choose!

thinking . . ok ok yes





are you at work