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soccerquee:
what has she done to you or is it a crime for giving reasonable advice.

you are the best

Free:
Lubiom

ahahaha leave cute-ass alone

she talk too much n' u talkless

LuUmBiOn2:
@cute-ass

you talk too much. Damn!

i'm sorry dear, i understand where you're coming from?? but don't be mad at me because i gave you the lecture of your life on your thread, you caused it all by yourself. I was just being as honest as possible like always. The truth hurts sha, but don't you think its better to face it once and for all.
it shall be well but that doesn't mean you shouldhate my mouth for saying it as it is ooh lol

LuUmBiOn2:
@topic

just dump the bitch.

and why am i not surprised that you'll be giving such a heartless advice . .

davidylan:
First point: long distance relationships work ONLY when the two parties are 100% commited to stick by each other through thick and thin. Dont waste your time.

that is so true, i don't believe the fact that all distant relationships are bound to fail sooner or later, cos like everything in life, i believe that with the right attitude, mind and mutual love, understanding and oneness nothing is impossible

davidylan:
Women are more likely to stick with someone they can see, touch and hang out with.

please get rid of the generalization i refuse to be served with the same spoon as all when i know what i'm made of

whatever happened to "some" in your dictionary?? what is a close guy to me when my heart is all the way with the other guy regardless the distance

Free:
@ cute-ass

i've been hiddin from U
n' your long speeches

how ungrateful, after you learnt the act, you now condemn it?? human beings and their ungratefulness sef

Free:
for real oooo

dearie, where have you been?? i've missed you, honestly

@ Mantee

i love the way you reason and you make a lot of sense.

But have you ever thought of the fact that even the person in the relationship is confused, two heads they say is better than one hence people ask one another for advice.

Now we're all different and that's why we make different suggestions, and the chances of the one each of us said being the solution to the particular problem, is 50/50

i always say in my opinion, i think or i hope, i try to withold myself from saying do this, or do that esp. when its a matter that could go both ways.
At the end of the day, what is left for the person is to summarize all answers and choose that which he thinks serves him best and the one he knows he'll be able to do damning the consequences

I never stand for evil to reign so i point out to each his or her mistakes and then give what i think might be possible a solution

have you ever thought of the fact that even if the person doesn't ask us for advice, their decision might still end up to be the wrong one??

something you said made me remeber what i had once said while trying to make a sunmmary reply to a poster concerning all the advice that had been given: and i quote myself, here's a clip from my post to the girl:

[quote author=cute-ass link=topic=46198.msg997905#msg997905 date=1175038429][color=#000099]
Always remember, to look at other people's instances but let those instances not be your solid rock of decision, just an insight of what might be  

because the same situation narrated by A could still be similar to the situation of B, and yet at the end of the day, they both had different outcomes, experience and results

Hence i like saying, in my own opinion or giving the person the possible advantages and disadvantages to the situation because only a fortune-teller should give you a concrete answer since we never know what will happen. Another person's worst nightmare might be the best dream of your life [/quote]cheers

manntee:
@ cuteass


the relationship expert has spoken!!!

LOL

siizzy:
Please, how do I go about posting new vacancy/topic on this site?

Darling this link will teach you how Always remember to post on the right section:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-17637.0.html

take care

@ highveld

Thats the thing about matters of the heart, sometimes you wish you could take a journey into the person's heart and back, to see what they really felt

but i guess thats one of those things that defines the word "impossible"

we always take decisions and actions based on what we feel, what we see and what we believe, the rest we leave to God.

Dearie, you have tried, i mean as in tried well well. Any girl will be lucky to have a guy like you, but guess its either not the time for you two yet, or she's absolutely not meant for you.

Love is a good feeling but atimes it sucks, situations when i feel like that are when one party loves someone and the love is not returned. Remember you can't force love.

You have done everything possible to win back the love of this girl and all to no avail, i really think its time you stepped back a bit just like Adeboo said. Yea you're supposed to fight for love, but they also say that too much of everything is bad
You have done everything human, going further will no longer be called "love" but disclaiming your "human right to dignity"

sweetheart, what is yours (the water meant for you) will not pass you by, but till then you now have to lie low. You've shown her in every way possible that you love, so please let her show she wants it and appreciates it

if you go into marriage with her based on these circumstances, mark my words: you'll be a slave in your marriage and you'll only end up regretting. Now is that the kind of picture you wish on yourself?? i guess not

Her refusal to see all the love you have for her, do you think it owes to the fact that she's not the girl for you?? and that your own girl is still out there waiting for you to sweep her off her feet?? well that is something time will tell

If this girl is meant for you, come rain, come sunshine, she will definitely come back to you without you having to kill yourself.

I've always loved this saying that goes: God holds the heart of a king in his hand, so if she is yours, not even she herself can stop it from being or happening

and now say after me: LET THE PERFECT WILL OF GOD BE DONE _amen

ikamefa:
kiss the phone!

LMAO

@topic
How weired, girls sef. They never cease to amaze but anyways sha, thats what makes us girls lol.

she doesn't want to kiss you face to face but always says it on phone? what does she say on phone? does she say "i kiss you" or something like "kiss kiss"?

well its either she is extremely shy in your presence or she finds it hobby-wise wasting your time. Either way, sweetheart you have to find out where you going ooh, because they say that he who doesn't know where the rain starts beating him will not know where it stopped either

It might help if you find out if she's been in a relationship before, if no then there you got your answer. Then you just have to slowly make her feel comfortable, safe and relaxed when around you. Believe me sooner or later, you guys will be doing the "french kiss"

if she has been in a relationship, then something is wrong. Its either she wants to take her time, get to know you better and avoid feeling cheap. Yea some girls actually find kissing an important thing (which it is too), so they don't just go about kissing every tom, di ck and harry that comes their way.

You might want to give it another try, slowly walk to her, look into her eyes, draw closer and closer gently and see her reaction, she will either relax or pull away, if she does Then i think its time you asked her outrightly what the hell is going on could it be something you're not doing right??, your manner of approach??, that she ain't ready yet??, she doesn't feel comfortable??

HER ANSWERS TO THAT QUESTION IS THE ANSWER TO YOUR PROBLEM, but she's the only one that knows what is holding her back, we're not mind readers you know

_{keep us posted when it happens ooh}

And we're glad to have you around

welcome to the land and have loads and loads of fun cos that's what its all about.

hope to bump into you here or there so don't be a stranger dearie

wwwweeeeelllllllllccccccccccooooooooommmmmeeeeee

Shuashi:
Hey guys am new here sum 1 plz wel kum me

dear, you're most welcome

but i think you'll attract more welcome and "newbie attention" by creating a "new member" thread.

here's a link to where you can learn how to make yourself a thread

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1062.0.html

needeeg:
Well, moi wish to hv nice time with ma love, go to swimm bla bla!

with katie??

how nice, you guys should take some pics ooh

ooh thank God, i'm so happy

y'all are back, so tell us everybody what are your plans for the wekend, or today at least. Any partying??

well as for me i'll be going home in an hour's time. I'll sleep, eat and go to the movies. Get back home , sign on on nairaland, and then go to bed cos i'll be starting work tomorrow at 7.00am.

Now spill out yours

@needeeg

well seems we're stuck here alone. Even 9ja4eva decided to sign off, well one day it will be my turn lol

anyways what are you up to? you home?

nothing ooh

its just so dry and boring on nairaland today

guess they're all waiting for it to be dark, before they'll jump out from their den

dblock:
that is good to know

just keep by that rule and you'll never be banned from this thread infact maybe i could include you on my pay-role. what do you think?

@ 9ja4eva
how are you doing?? have you gotten the chance to watch sunita??

yea that's right

I'M THE PRINCESS OF THE THREAD

dblock:
What crown

go to the previous page and find out

@ fekuti

i have to say you're a brainy one ooh

can someone answer Osegwu's riddle so we can get on with the game


i'll leave if you guys have decided to play a whole new game

needeeg:
Cute girl, don't worry it will be yours okay?

thankyou i know i can always count on you

katie, did you hear that, the crown is all mine

iight

riddle this:

Johnny's mother had four children. The first was April, the second was May, and the third was June. What was the name of her fourth child?

i'm just fine, i'm at work

how are you? what are you up to?

@ needeeg

i'm just chilling. How are you dearie??

about the crown issue, well its on who will be the princess of "the last person to post here" and your girlfriend katie wouldn't let me have my cown ooh. Well i had to use my judge lalaboi and lawyer tafari, well lets just say katie gave up the fight

muyeskin:
Well i quite blive we have intellectuals and cool ladies here. u are really making it up over here. But i think am d only male here. Well need a private riddle chat? Am online from any source. my name is Emmanuel. u can click on me or send me an instant msg to yahoomessenger. u are looking beautiful. Take care.

who is looking beautiful?
dearie, are you sure you're on the right thread, who exactly are you talking to? seems to me you missed your way lol

maree7:
^{Since i want to stay with the thread, i will ignore all this}

you're right girl

give me a minute, let me try and figure it out

My darling kate, i'm fine ooh

seems you've drooped the battle of struggling for the crown with me. I told you i was the crowned princess but you wouldn't listen

[quote author=Jay_Baby link=topic=47717.msg1020060#msg1020060 date=1175850820]ok - he has removed the post.[/quote]don't think he removed it himself, if you notice, all his posts have been deleted. seems he's been banned

[quote author=Jay_Baby link=topic=47717.msg1020057#msg1020057 date=1175850751]Smart? With that Kobe24 guy?

Read this and you will know he is dumb.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=47715.msg1019852#msg1019852[/quote]i've already read it, and even though he might have lost the point there doesn't mean another thread won't go on.

Now dearie i'm inviting you to come and join us, believe me it would be fun

NO, THAT IS NOT TRUE, THAT WAS THE RIDDLE I HAD IN MIND TO DROP THE NEXT TIME IT WAS MY TURN

guess i just have to give the answer then,

NOTHING