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spoilt:
@ cute-ass
goodluck waiting for the proposal on bended knee or otherwise.
what you'll hear on your traditional wedding day is " we came to pluck a beautiful flower"!)

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

only flower? what about plucking a ripe apple lol  but anyways sha he doesn't have to do it on a knee, it just has to be nothing short of a romantic one . it all depends with whom you're rolling with dearie

dear don't tell me you'll be doing the, "ehee when was it we were supposed to be coming to your place for the introduction?", when he hasnt even mention the "M" word lol?

well IBDat its a good thing you mentioned the vaseline cure ooh, because who knows? someone nearby might benefit from it too

and i get your point Red_Lips, because that something works for "Mr. A" doesn't mean it would work for "Mr. B" , but someone's just going to keep trying till they achieve their goal and come to the point where they find out which, exactly works.

So its a nice thing that everybody is listing the cure they have witnessed, which of them is the best is just something the victims will have to find out for themselves nothing good comes easy, so if they're willing to get rid of the marks then they just have to exercise patience.

And that goes for every other human-problem, you just have to try your way to the topps

this site has something too: http://www.stretchsmarks.info/

Everbright:
I will answer when it has happened
For now I reserve my comments

of course,just the answer i was about to give. When it happens, nairaland would be the first to know _{yea right}

spoilt:
fact is nigerian men don't propose. its wierd but somehow the couple just know they are getting married and start working towards it. its rare that he gets on bended knee and "pops the question" just like in the movies! but don't we just wish they could be more imaginative and romantic!

i agree with you, but only to a point
dear, just the same thing we're all against generalization

yea, some men in Naija are like that (the ones that score zero in romantic"101" but then we can't just measure all in the same spoon when we know that there are some of them that actually have buckled up. Some of them have the "untouched" behaviour because of where and how they were brought up. You'll find most of them in the remote villages and these city peeps that are just as un-modernized. And most of them are with ladies that don't even care whether its done right or not.

that has been the case, but lately and in these reent times, modernization has made it a whole lot different, some are stepping up to be as romantic as the white man. esp. peeps living outside the country and then there are some that are in the country but have a learnt a lot rom movies and stuff

and then we can't forget the few that were born with it Rome wasn't built in a day, but we're getting there. It wasnt our culture but who says we can't adapt??

I have not been proposed to yet, but i'm not following any guy home ooh if he doesn't officially do it. "just thinking" its ok, doesn't do it for me ooh

tega78:
I like you too, you rock!

I think you wuill find it's only men that would tend to think that way.  What is it with guys sometimes, they cannot understand female friendships, some of them starting getting pervy thought.

Abeg!!

Actually the mental thought of you shaking your thang on the desk has cheered me up, shake on, sis

i'm happy i could cheer you up, think its sad when someone i like is in a bad mood. So now i'm happy too
i think i'll sit now, my booty is huting from the dance lol

and i know what you mean, i've always been lovey lovey with girls, but some people tend to misundrerstand, so i like excusing myself before hand

_{*doing a victory dance on my desk shaking my booty like a three(3) year old lol*}


sorry for the bad weather _not lol . don't worry dear tomorrow might be a better weather day


and yes this place is dry, not only today ooh. It has been dry and boring for some time now if you ask me. But i've come to realise that like evreything in life it can't be all good. So sweetie just hang on in there, the next minute might be better

something nice to cheer you up?? darling you look absouletly gorgeous tonight, and you know what? i think i like you _{i'm no lesbo ooh before mouths will start wagging lol}

nkbaby:
kris, i don't mean to over trivialise this but are you christian?
do not be a partaker in this messy deal. she needs to keep that child, who knows what the child will be?
then you need to ask yourself if you will honestly do right by her and the child, should she keep it. why do you really love her? is she pretty or is it just because she was unattainable when you wanted her?
you need to look at this from an object view, weigh out the pros and cons, honestly and you will know what to do, God will tell you what to do.
hope it turns out well

one very very good post

tega78:
@ Balogun: Trying my very best to uphold naija's good name down here in the UK


@cute-ass, sorry about yesterday, i had work, work, and mroe work. Hope you are having a good day today

well dear, its ok. i thought so too

and yes my day is good, i'm less busy today so its a good one

How about you dearie, are you at work right now??

bovo:
after all i've read and written , i think what i've learnt 2day is to stay away from other people's pictures without their concent except of course the person is an animation like creamish cause i could use that pix as a screen saver or something

LOL you're a fast learner dear keep it up

bovo:
your baby brother really looks cool 

BTW thanks for the compliment. I'm blushing on his behalf

bovo:
hey cute ass really sorry thought  i was doing something nice  , i'll discard both pictures as soon as possible , your baby brother really looks cool   hope i'm 4given

bovo:
oooooooooooo. acid is your friend while the girl who says her pix was too large is cute ass's cousin , well , i'm realy sorry , offending two members at a time is the worst thing that have ever happened to me   no hard feelings , i'm really sorry if i said anything bad ,
the pictures are out ,  and if there's any other thing i could do to put things back in order let me know ,  

yes dear, you're totally forgiven . And thanks for heeding to my voice, it meant alot, we're cool now

there's nothing more you can do, just keep away from people's pic. unless you have their concent or else people will start thinking you were doing something else with the pics even though you weren't, ok dear??

take care hun

Creamish:
U see y i don't want to post my pix? someone will save it on their system and upload it anyhow----u see my point?---Acid what d'u have to say bout this?

my dear i second you on that ooh.

this has just proven my doubt about posting your pic. on a public forum. This guy is posting it back on the forum but then anybody could be doing many other things with the pic.(s) without your knowledge and consent.

I have a friend on this forum who said she wouldn't post her pic because enemies and haters could use them for "juju", i laughed at it as a joke, but now i'm really beginning to wonder ooh

bovo:
who's your cousin, acidrop ir the other girl who says her pix was too large

the other girl, thankyou very much

bovo:
hey viie , no discriminating here , acidrop is the first wile the second girl is just oe girl who says her pix was to large

@ bovo

please, please and please dear i'm begging eeh, do you mind discarding my cousin's pic from there. I don't really think she'll appreciate that gesture so please if you don't mind.

And before you start asking why i'm talking for her, its because she's on vacc. and might not be on Nairaland for a while so please

bigboi1999:
and simply tell me when i said that, damn u freaking me out, but u know what NEVA MIND , keep the ball rolling

bigboi1999:
u not specific, abi u can't read what u posted?

there dearie, enjoy the typing of your fingers.

And please don't let me freak you out love, we're all here to have fun. Now i'll feel extremely bad to think i was standing in the way of someone else. So please lets just say we didnt see each other this morning

take care

bigboi1999:
but u don't need to be hostile, u tell me am blind?, and regardless i don't its necessary to reply post indicating to urs,

hostile?? you asked if i couldn't read what i posted

Who was hostile now?? you started it sweetie

bigboi1999:
u not specific, abi u can't read what u posted?

_{*sees that this dude is either blind or just pulling my legs and moves on to next thread*}

my post says, "looks like all at the same time, or can choose one of the named whenever" so what exactly is it you don't understand??

dear if you still don't understand, honestly its not a big deal afterall its not because of me that we're here, the topic says, "do i look like beyonce?"
and not "who does cute-ass look like?"

bigboi1999:
and who are in comparison with, lets feel your pain too

if you move upwards a bit, you'll get it

_{*throwing ssome love towards our newbie lol*}

dear do you feel the love from there, hope so ooh

well just want to say welcome to the land of naira and hope you catch fun as much as the rest of us. On a very good day, this place rockkkkks

so dearie eeeeeennnnjjjjjooooooooyyyyyyy

iice:
number 1 or 2.

ofcourse dear.

she's coming out of a "fast-food reastaurant", duuh what is so unnatural about that then

Well thanks iice and Red_Lips for the definition and the possible cause respectively
Stretch-marks might not be the best sight ever, but i don't understand why people make so much noise about it considering the fact that they don't wish it upon themselves, the thing is just there.

I have this friend and she's like "model-skinny", i was so surprised the day we went swimming, and as she was getting off her clothes, i noticed some stretch-marks. I was so so shocked, because i had always thought it was a "fat people"thing. After that day i got scared ooh, because i then knew it could happen to anybody.

its common with pregnant women, theirs is understandable because the body expands to accomodate the baby they're carrying

jbuoy:
Girls and guys what do u think about this and is there any cure for such?

And yes dear, thanks to modernization there are cures for it
There are now many products in the market, mostly cream-like or gel-like products that can be use to get rid of the "unwanted" marks. So i guess all hope is not lost for "she" who is dating a guy that sees it as a no no and has it.

And i'm sure very soon, those that are more cashy than others will be introduced to a lazer(quicker) method of getting rid of it. Then you won't have to wait for weeks to months (depending on your skin type) to see results

aysometin:
Thanks all for your encouragement especially cute-ass, girl you rock. We have both made up our minds to stand by each other and see how it goes with my parents. I know if God wants it to be he will see us through. I am yet to tell them though but i know it will come to that soon. He is really supportive on all this and keeps reassuring me that he is ready to fight the tribe battle and win.That gives me strength and makes me want to forge ahead

thanks dear and you're welcome. If this guy is your only chance tolove, happiness and dream-marriage, then you'll absolutely not give him up without a fight. Noone ever said good things came easily

good luck hun

zigbo:
@sofine5 yea u look like beyonce wow,i'd like to see another of your pic.that is not beyonce

i think cuteass nd I ve the same prob. 2day i'm walking in a mall nd i hear people scream one celebs name or the other nd what do i know paparazzis are all over taking pictures.

some say i look like whoopi some busta,lil jon, lauryn hill,one of the ying yangers etc.u know?the most ironic thing,is that i am nt a guy nd i don't where dreads .so wats there prob. they should stop mistaking us for celebs

my dear, see us see trouble ooo i'm so happy someone else shares my $1 million problem of looking like different celebs at the same time

@ highveld

i think everybody deserves a second chance and the benefit of the doubt but honestly i'm getting dissppointed and i'm beginning to loose faith in you ooh

For now, i just have to take sides with Davidylan

How could you go drinking again when you know what mood you get in afterwards, i know Rome wasn't built in a day but dearie determination like i said is the key to success and comm'on where's your self-control??

If you fell in love with a prostitute, she promised you that she'll change, and yet she still goes out at night, gets tempted and says it will come gradually?? why go out at nigght in the first place.

Dear if this girl can't make you change now that you'll give anything to win her back, is it when she get's married to you and both of you know it will take a whole lot more than just that for her to walk out.

Don't get to the point where the camel's back would be broken, because you'll ever regret. This girl loves you, yes/maybe but now you have to show you love her too.

God is capable of changing yourworst behaviour, but you have to show willingness, love is able to turn you but remember that the distance between love and hate is shorter that we can imagine. Do not put any of those mentioned above on trial because you might loose something special. Don't get to that

I advice, you sign into a rehabilitation centre, work seriously with your problem. We all want your best, but we also have to have the girl's best interest at heart

adeboo:
Oh ma goodness don't get my wrong.
I was just asking a question and trying to understand the reaoning behind what u said, and i have.

so everything is all good and kushti.

ok then we're cool. its just that when you said "i see where you are going with this" i got confused cos that statement canm mean a lot of things. But i'm glad we understand each other

take care

adeboo:
I understand girl.

I see where you are going with this.

darling, we're just having a discussion. Every man making their own suggestions. we're all trying to help so don't get me wrong ooh.

well my dear, i like the way you think
and i'm also trying to call a shovel a shovel. We're all saying the same thing here but at the end of the day, he calls the shot

if you go through the whole thread, everybody has been trying to talk him into forgetting the girl, and believeing she'll come back to him if she's truly he'sbut to no avail. I've made it clear that what would be, would be so he should give himself and the girl a break. And that if she came back based on these circumstances, then he might end up being a slave in his marriage, which i was sure he wouldnt want.

nobody, absolutely nobody is encouraging his behaviour, hell no. I adviced earlier that he should cut down the calling and other things that might have caused the break up.

i think that if he stopped his turn-off behaviour he'll have a chance to make it whether with this girl or with someone else.

What i came to realise was that none of us making these suggestions has a key to the future to concretelytell him what is going to happen.
that's just something he has to find out for himself, or else he might never be able to let go.

God and Love can make us change our worst habits, if this would be his case, i honestly do not know, but who am i to oppose??

adeboo:
Is it that there are no moregirls on this earth?

Make her come begging and not the other way - MY GUY HAVE SOME DIGNITY.

you said he should make the girl come begging and i was just pointing out that if he was actually the cause as he claims then why would the girl be the one to come begging??
and nobody talked about other girls, you were the one that asked if there no more girls on earth

@ adeboo

adeboo:
Oh ma goodness ma man whats wrong with ya?

Please listen to Sweet T- you are really disgracing yourself.

Make her come begging and not the other way - MY GUY HAVE SOME DIGNITY.

dear, your advice is a good one but

remeber the saying that you can force a horse to the stream but you cannot force it to drink out of the stream

he has made up his mind on fighting to get her love back, after all said and done he's bent on it . . now i've taken out time to wonder why?

can it be that his gutts won't let him let go because they're meant to be?? or because love is just blind??

well if we can't talk him out of it, then he just has to try. With time he will know if he took a good one or not.

adeboo:
Is it that there are no moregirls on this earth?

Mark my words - if she comes back to you or even marry you, she will make your life a living hell and then you will loose your temper and start hitting her cause she will fraustrate you.

Make her come begging and not the other way - MY GUY HAVE SOME DIGNITY.

he means he's lost 4girls for this behaviour of his, if that is the case, then i don't think he should go after another girl. What girl will want to be with a possessive, alcoholic, extremely jealous guy?? i wouldn't

so if that really is the case, then his best option would be to change those habits we havent heard from the girl, if he really is like that, then maybe the girl has every right to be upset.

Remember dearie, every girl wants the best for herself. Those habits are not of an ideal man

i know some girls that would do anything to cross the boarder, so if she's in Naija and yet knows she'a worth more than what he's bringing to the table despite the fact that he's abroad, then she might not be such a bad one afterall

candylips:
my babe beside me will be just fine

ewwwwwww . . so sweet (your babe should read this)

tega78:
Do you have a lot of Naijas in Norway

well dear, it depends on where in Norway you're located at. If you go to the capital which is Oslo, then there are thousands of them but here in Hammerfest, we're very few.

i almost got envious of your weather but when you mentioned rain, rain, rain lol dearie i decided to pass ooh

so what are you up to?

school? work? if its ok for me to ask ooh