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bameyi:
@grimripper bros, make you vex oh you say omo eko is jaybabe and that her sister cute-ass be wetin her name be. recently i post a topic for nairaland and if you see how them both attack me like say i steal central bank money you go pitte me. now you come open my face see say this two girls na big liars and hypo, hypo weytin again abe if i see them reply my posting again na sango i go take follow them yeye liars .

for those of you ineterested in the post i posted this is the like check it out and what i have done wrong. na this kind of girls dey spoil their son home na una women dey call yeye mother inlaw.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48744.0.html#bot

well well well. . look who we have here, if it isn't the one and only bayemi lol

dear, you see why i tell people to always quote, but i'm sure you're one of those that make noise, or eat during classes because you didn't get the message with you.

You see anybody that walks in here and sees no signs of the "grimripper" that you're talking to, will think you're nuts lol. the person you're talking to and giving all the kudos is obviously out of the show and see where you stand all alone doing "@" to a non-exisient user-name. ewwwww

secondly, did i forget to tell you that i hate hypocrites?? well i guess so because anybody that visits that lame-excuse-of-a-thread you put up there will see and even believe that we were all on the same page, your reply to us, seemed as if it was all joke joke, until this your partner in crime came along, and you had to acquire some pity.

well look where it laded you, is it my fault that while others are making geniuine threads, all you can come up with is that "thing", and we even tried to be nice by pretending to be laughing "with" you and not "at" you and that's the thanks i and omo eko get. you thought we were sisters and decidedt ot make brothers with "grimripper" buhahahahah

you're not even ashamed to be posting up the link of your thread sef lol, well lets see how many visited it . . oops none, that should be enough explanantion of how time-wasting people find it . . human beings and their ungratefulness lol

@ tascoray

lets give this a shot . .

its either one of three things, either the friend said some nasty things about you, your character and likes, or dissed your looks in an untrue manner, or dissed your looks as true as it is

but either way, you just got to find out for yourself, we can't tell you what's going on in her mind, we arn't mind readers, but we can give you an advice to each of what the prolem might be. So you have to try and see her face to face, which is somehing you should have done all this while. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder his/herself

The only clue this girl has of your looks are the pictures you sent, and the decription she has from her friend (both clues can be deceptive big time, a camera can make you look prettier or uglier, the way someone describes another might make you seem prettier or uglier)

If she sees you, and decides she was misled, then you guys can have the stage to yourself but if she sees you and don't find you physically attractive enough then that's her loss, not yours. and if she actually makes her mind on what her friend says, you might be happy to be getting rid of her, because she's as shallow as it gets

But still you can't blame her, we all get attracted to people for different reasons, the girl you find attractive might not be your friend's choice of a lady and the girl you find drop-dead ugly might be a damsel to your neighbour

that she doesn't find you attractive enough shouldn't bother you, i know it would be difficult to get over her if you're in love with her but there's little or nothing you can do about it esp. if she's all for the looks

some fall in love with the personality first, and damn the looks. For some its the other way round. No matter what, anybody that doesn't think you cut the cake, doesn't deserve you, in such situation i advice you look for someone that'll appreciate you more

we all deserve the best dear, and so do you

and yes like omo eko said, girls can be so unsteady and shaky, always going by what friends say, but that's what most girls do and we all condemn and judge it till we're in the same mess ourselves. What she did was bad, i'm not trying to excuse her but girls will always be girls and if you know what girls are like, it will help you in future

tega78:
Wel-------i'll be waiting ----plssss be nice

_{* with hand across chest*} cross my heart, i'll be nice

and you too darling take care of you, its been a blast knowing you

hope this won't be good-bye

Well dear lets take it right from the beginning of course the girls's parents would say "no", what was he expecting??
"to hell with someone that has been there for their daughter for a whole 8 years. for someone who doesn't mind taking what isn't his regardless of who gets hurt in the process?"[/b] well that just proves how much of a dreamer he is, and i advice he wakes up ooh

people sef lol never cease to amuse, lol again

[b]First of all the lady's boss (the pastor) should be ashamed of himself, i feel so sorry for the millions of people he might have ruined their lives how could he? a man appointed by God and loved by people, entrusted with people's lives and faith and oh lawd name itpeople, and all he can do is lead them astray. That's a no no. Infact he should be asking God for forgiveness, because he just acted unworthy of the trust

Now if your friend wants to get mad or blame someone, then it should be the pasto, who didn't tell him that its not right taking another man's possession, something that doesn't belong to you?? sooner or later, you're bound to loose it. That's just life dear, and the sooner he started facing the fact that no one reaps where they did not sow, the sooner he might find the person meant for him.

ask him this: if he was in this UK guy's shoes and someone rapped his girl from behind, just because he was in another country making a better living for himself, how would he feel??

well everyone knows its a fact, that live overseas doesn't have to be all smooth all the way, so if this guy's only crime was that he got caught up from time to time (which he already apologised for), then God being a merciful and faithful one would make the girl find her way back to him very soon

Your friend just has to let go, its so funny when you say that he doesn't want to leave her lol. how funny? he won't leave someone 8yrs of stuggle relationship?? that's not ideal at all

His girl is out there, and if he continues being selfish, then he might end up getting a taste of his own medicine when finally he finds hapiness. What goes around, comes around. Yes today it seems the uk guy is helpless, but tomorrow might be his turn.

He should walk out before he causes more damage that might take a life-time repairing

tega78:
For all the them misunderstanding peoples, make them do siddown ojare e.

I don get nickname for you-----------------cutie-tushie

lol, thats the best name ever. cutie tushie, i love that lol

well watch out, i'll be getting you one very soon

@ ade.f
i salute ooh. Welcome to the forum of fun-lovers (nairaland). enjoy

@ stanchi

you're the 4th newbie i'm saying hi to today, how nice

well like i told the rest, have fun till there's no fun left. And yes you're in the right place, this is where it is happening

so hope to see you around

wwwweeelllllcccccccoooooooommmmmmeeeeeee 2 nairaland!

well you better get on the train quick quick, i'm sure you wouldn't want to miss out on the fun

well have a splendid ride, just don't forget to fasten your seat fun belt lol

eeennnnnnjjjjjjooooooooyyyyyyyy dearie

Whatever floats your boat dear _{i don't like the idea but who am i to decide over your life??}


if you can cope with them, and you find someone that appreciates you the same, why the hell not??

your hapiness counts, and if you find it with them , then do your show.

But always have the future at heart, don't you have a dream of creating a family?? whatever happened togrowing old together with your spouse??
are you ready to face your friends, family and well-wishers?? are you ready to bring kids to an unstable family?? what would you have told your son if he were to be in the same situation??

if after considering all that, you're still willing to damn the consequences, then the sky should be your limit everything in life comes with sacrifices, some bigger than others, its a survival of the strongest

Well dear, the thing is being at the right place, at the right place and doing the right thing


For some, the slightest appearance publicly turns them into something big oer-night, like the girl that won Miss Norway in 2003, ooh lawd, gosh, she has achieved a lot now. She is as popular as it gets here, She has started a top-model program
she features in almost all norwegian cosmetical commercials, she's a judge on some shows

the girl is just popular, short and simple. But then there are others before and after her, who we dn't even remember their names at least everybody knows Agbani and what she once represented

BTW i thought she had a contract with some agency some time back??

Helloooooooo to you too dearie

you sound so cheerful, kind of people we need around here lol

i can promise you fun ooh, here is the happeneing spot, so buckle your fun-belt and be ready for a blast

just eeeeeeennnnnnnnjjjjjjoooooyyyyyyyyy

just "notify" on the sections you find interesting

davidylan:

Or we came chasing one she-goat in your compound.

LOL

well that is for sure, but shouldn't that come after the proposal, i mean after i've said "yes, i want to marry him"?
or do they just come plucking and chasing without my consent, well if that's the case then they might want to stop at the market to pick up the item, cos they'll be leaving my compound empty-handed ooh lol

NO DEARIE, YOU SHOULDN'T

of course not, your di ck has no meter, but your consience does and believe me, it will flog you for a loooooooooong time

this sex thing is a pleasure that only lasts for a moment, so what happens the next time your privates is thirsty?? have you thought about that?? i guess not. Why?? because the hunger of sex doesn't think about tomorrow

Now you said you've been clean since 2004, don't you think that going astray would ruin the whole 3yrs you've waited and make you hungry for more.

You said you loved this girl, right?? well love is all about sacrifices, let this be the one you sacrifice for her. I'm sure she's not asking you for more than that.

Let this girl be your pride, say to yourself, "if she would be clean for me, forsaking all other men, then why can't i do the same?"
Now picture you find out she's been doing another guy behind your back, how  hurt, dissappointed and devastated would you feel?? well that's exactly how heart-broken she would feel if she found out. You might say she wouldn't but, but dear where is your guarantee to that??

i really think you should talk to your girl about it, a problem shared, is a problem half solved you guys should be able to talk about anything, a relationship needs all the communication in the world to survive

comm'on you can do this?? the hunger comes, but for sure when the day breaks, it goes away
if the ones practising distant relationships can do it, then of corse you that get to see her can. And if you do love her, then it should be her or no one else in your bed

the real test of your love is now, be sure to pull through

lol . .Nairalanders, you'll not kill me with laughter ooh. I refuse to that LMAO

so if a Nairalander decides tomorrow to use "all human beings are goats" as his/her signature, we'll be discussing it too lol

well dear, goodluck in your reasearch

DIODE?? lol

My dear, God buttered your breads, what else is there to do than both of you walking out on the useless-excuse-of-a-human-being. He obviously wanted to play both of you but was beaten at his game big time

Please honey tell your friend not to let me catch her there crying ooh, what would she have done if the guy had managed to trick both of you into believing you were his all in all repectively. I guess she would be doing a long-jump-weeping by now lol

if she's crying because the guy tricked her into falling for him, then tell her she's has nothing to cry for. Everyday, we all hope love will come and there's nothing wrong in believeing, we just all hope it doesn't have a sad ending, tell her to wipe her eyes and cout henrself lucky, some girls don't get to realize they've been used, until its late and they're dumped

and if she's crying because she lost the guy then i'm sorry to say this but then she is a disgrace to all women why on earth would she be crying over a guy that obviously thinks nothing more of women that meats, that he can eat two at the same time??

noone is worth your tears, and those who are will not make you cry, this guy obviously does not worth any girl's garbbage not to mention her tears

@ topic

the way some people talk sometimes makes me wonder if they've ever been in love before, or they just have stone-hearts or they're just talking because its nairaland

@ poster

nothing is abnormal about what your friiend is going through. Everyday we fall in love, we risk our hearts and selves, some end up with the "lived happily ever after" and some sadly don't.

well this is not the time for critics, it won't bring back the one year he already lost, neither will it make things better, and rock2 is right, that's how some players are born. They recover from the heart-break and set out to hurt any girl that comes their way just like they had been hurt by a fellow girl

there 's actually no one way cure to a broken-heart, time is all he needs and yes his own healing time is getting out of hand but some are not as lucky as others. Healing from a heart-break is just like healing from a sickness. And though it might take someone a week to heal, another someone might have to wait for a month.

He should try and get out more, mix up with people and have an open mind. He needs a realization that this girl might not be his afterall
He should have an open mind and know that this is not the end of the world, believe me when the right person comes along, he would have no say in refusing it he just has to give love a second chance. He's waited fir this other girl for a year, and she's not forth-coming.

He should answer this: is that really someone he would like to spend his life with, someone that cares more or less of his hapiness?
love should be a mutual feeling, if she doesnt love him enough to be there for and with him, doesn't he think he deserves more than another guys's remnants?
BTW how long more is he going to wait for her, his whole life time?

everyman is the architect of his own destiny/misfortune, he should rise to his feet and make hay while the sun shines

its not the downfall of a man that determines his fall, but whether he rises up from the fall. Your friend has reached the depth but who says its impossible for him to rise again

@ lalaboi, hope that isn't a yoruba nor hausa word, is it??

welcome to nairaland dear, enjoy your stay here

SUBMIT dear



RABED

education and enlightenment from or with a 17yr old. Yes i can tell you're very serious

jbuoy:
yeah thanx all, i get the gist now, but glad i dnt hav it though.

are you sure you don't have it ?? lol

youngies:
Osondu agwu ike

I am still in-cahrge, anyone in doubt?

lol again

dont worry dear, you're going down very soon

BTW i just came to think of something that made me remember that what you're going through is in no way abnormal nor unnatural

there was this episode on "oprah show" on people seeing something else when they look in the mirror.

the girl and guy that appeared on the show especially the guy were as fine as fine gets. You would even cry on the fact that people like that would ever look at themselves as not-good-enough

but ay the end of the day, we just got to know it was a mental thing, their upstairs was making them see something that wasn't, blinding their eyes to their beautifully made features

take all these anorexias and bulinmis for example, looking in the mirror, as skinny as they are, they still think they're fat.

In this case your friends and others on the list have made you almost forget how beautiful you are, donr let them

ultrafem:
una never still hear say somebodi hack him/her computer? so una dey reply to false story lol hehehe

i was just about to say the same ooh lol.

but anyway, someone out there going through similar situation might benefit so it might not be a bad idea dropping some 2cents. the story doesn't sound unnatural

youngies:
Alas!

My sweet cutie is here

i told you i'm going nowhere, well here i come ooh.

mma ekwu abuô di be ônye ubiam, nke nwere isi adighi nkô, nke di nkô enweghi isi
two matchets at the hous of the unfortunate, one with a handle is not sharp, and the sharp one has no handle

ozubelu ôgalu ya, siri ndi ôgbô ya ha anô eme gini??
the person that gets his goals achieved, asks his agemates what they've been waiting for lol

youngies:
Cutie dear your translation is perfect. I hereby declare you as the "Lolo ndi Igbo na Nairaland

LOL
i told you it would happen

let me help you dear,

youngies:
O bughi nani ashawo ma na ikpu bu ego

Please someone help me translate this one

its not only the "prostitute" that knows that "down there(need i mention)" is money

youngies:
Cutie,

Motion seconded!

lol. Wait for me on that proverb thread, i'm headed that direction right now

i'm coming to finish you.

kellofish:
who r those bad belles? u look stunning,

my dear, you took those words right out of my mouth. Her friends are dying of jealousy, and she's letting them get to her.
no way you're letting them have the upperhand ooh

Dearie, i just have to laugh out loud lololol because you don't have the slighteset idea, absolutely no idea how gorgeous you look. It is not how skinny or heavy you look that determines your beauty, but how you carry yourself Your self-esteem dear counts a lot. Sometimes the world sees you through you, now if you go about thinking you don't look good enough, the the world might just start seeing you that way.

infact i'm short of words. I wished you could see yourself through my eyes, darling you're fine, i mean you're drop-dead attractive and i'm saying it because i mean it. When i saw your profile pic, i was like WTH_eck. How on earth, in this wide world could this damsel let anyone convince her into thinking she was anything short of good-looking.

Most men would find you breath-taking, because dear you are, and the sooner you started believeing it, the sooner you bring up your self-confidence to where it belongs. And wih your self conidence in the right place, you'll walking head-high, and yes you should

PS: if it helps any, then you should know that we blacks have a  heavier muscle build/structure than any other race and that makes us atimes, weigh more than we look. You'll be surprised to see/find out that a skinny black weighs the same as a white who looks triple his/her size. That's just nature, has always been like that and i guess it would continue tobe like that.
M friends always guess i weigh between 45kg and 50kg, only those that see with their eyes believe that i weigh 58kg, weired ha?? but then i come across a white that deserves a place in the tv show "big looser" and the person weighs 65kg. Before, i got startled but not anymore.

What i'm trying to say, is yes you should look out for your health, and take control of what goes in and out of your mouth when regards edibles, go to the gym and tone your muscles and look fit but don't let any soul make you feel inferior in your own skin just because you look a lil bit plumper than the girl next door.

A plump girl can look as cute, attractive, sweet, sexy, breath-taking and all that as a slim girl. What charm you carry the body in is what makes the difference. Some slim girls, when they pass by, no heads turn. Now what will you say is their problem??

Girl you look good and no soul should make you believe otherwise. And incase you don't know, some plump ones loose weight and loose their beauty as well. Don't get to the point where you'll be countered as one

Thanks for being your brother's keeper. That was very kind of you