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No one

its impossible to crown one, and just one the hottest

Preferences differ, what you'll get here is a long list of different names, some names might be mentioned twice or more, but no girl will get all the votes.

Every eye sees differently

Lets say Salma Hayek, no Tyra Banks, wait its Halle, did i forget Genevieve, infact it should be . .

You see, the battle can never be won

I said dreaming was free right?? now don't let me give you an answer that might ruin it

@ maree7
thanks, you're a durling

@ topic

He's cool

ogbdcm:
@cut ass darl
lol

Now you made me proud

@ Maree7
girl please forgive him, for my sake, please

@ topic

He dreams of a car lol

ima1:
why don't u guys talk instead of breaking up.

My was "about to give" suggestion before the poster's second post.

@ poster

A relationship takes two willing, serious and determined souls and minds to work. If she wouldnt sit down and have a heart to heart talk with you on your concerns and thoughts about your relationship (yours and hers), then maybe she isnt to be held to heart afterall

I suggest you use the few minutes you get from her to tell her she has to change her attitude towards your relationship, that her behaviour isnt cutting the cake

I sincerely do not think taking "a break" is a good idea, might end up causing both of you what you didnt bargain for, and who do you blame then?? (its either you stick together or break up for good, taking a break doesn't give her the necessities she needs to be the loyal girlfriend you need, she needs to hear it and put it into action)

A talk would be much better, and if after a long while she doesn't oblige to a talk, then tell her to vamute

Can we stick to the topic please??


@ ogbdcm, i thought more of you than this nah, why are you dissappointing me so?

@ maree7

yu rock, dont mind'em

Ok then, if you say so!!

maree7:
@ cute-ass
girl i am so sorry i have not gotten on Nairaland for soo long because i go to summa school, so its study study study!!!!!!!,

how have u been though

Darling i've been fine oo, missed you terribly, but you're here now so i'm happy

@ topic

Her name is Maree, and she's da bomb

ThoniaSlim:
the replies i see here,for God's sake i don't know why people have a stupid way of thinking . i would always stand with the opinion, that physical beauty fades away. but that beauty inside is what should always be considered cause it does not fade.

That someone else doesn't agree with you does not in any way make their opinions stupid

We all love and want "inner beauty" but the fact remains that we're different . . and if you don't know, some relationships crumble because the couples suddenly start lusting for someone they find prettier, or because they feel the person they're with isnt good enough

Physical appearance isnt all that matters but to people in a relationship, it does to some extent . . and that shouldnt mean the girl is ugly, but to him she isn't good looking - - - one man's meat . . .

Another guy might come along and think she's the prettiest girl he's ever seen, so??
Personal preferneces, its not just about our poster here , but don't you as a girl, think and believe the girl in question deserves better?? Or she should be with someone that soemtimes will feel the ground should open and swallow her, maybe even embarrassed to show her to his friends - - now tell me who ends up hurt??

Why go through that when they could both path ways and find hapiness??

@ poster


My Advice?? Please sit her down and tell her you aren't feeling her . .it will hurt but she'll move on sooner or later. I like you for being honest, some won't.


I'm sure some other guy would come along, that'll think the whole world of her . . i agree with someone saying "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but its obvious, you're not beholding beauty in her, and its niether your fault nor hers

I guess both of you are yet to find your matches, just keep going . . don't settle for "management" either, though there are chances of improvements, chances of both of you or one party getting hurt down the road is more.

Now is early enough to save both of'ya from that predicament

I missed you too girl you just left me honey

@topic

she's so pweety

There's nothing to think jare . .sooner or later she'll get used to it.

Some girls consciously or sub-consciously feel or want to be the no 1 in their man's life and when told otherwise, they freak out.

Its not selfishness, its more of innocent, sweet jealousy . . she loves you and wants to be your first and foremost.

With time, she wouldn't take it to heart as such, if she does then make her understand that she should either accept it or forget it - - but that doesn't mean you'll neglect your wife oo or let your wife down, just love and be fair to both

Unique

lysaa:

What exactly is too much for you to comprehend *sighs*

@ topic


all good things come to an end in bed last night

She loves snickers

@ Babyo and the rest


I agree with all views that it might be time for her to give it up, afterall they both took their marriage vows and it doesnt seem the guy could care less, but like i stated in my previous post . . "you can take the horse to the stream, but you cannot force it to drink"


Her own mind has to be made up for her to leave, its impossible to drag her out of it Cos she's adult enough to take her own desicions (as clouded as they might seem), and if you force her out of it, she might still not get that hapiness you want for her.

From your latest post, it seems the problem has really gotten out of hand . . but her eyes has to see it. I have the feeling that with the right motivation and back-ups, sooner or later she'll realise that it just isnt working out, and that herself and her kids arent being given the right attention and care they deserve, that with time she herself sees what a disaster of a marriage and home she and the kids are subdued to . . infact that she sees the situation with your eyes and mine

But she got to see it herself, her story sounds so farmiliar to that of a lady i know, exactly the same story, and this lady prayed hands and feet, hoping for the best, but one bright morning she woke up and decided it was time to quit the game

Just pray for her strength, that she doesnt break down before she realises the right thing to do . . believe me even though it seems so, God never abandons his people and in the right time and place he'll manifest!!

aysometin:
Trust cute-ass to be very sensible in her opinions

Ka ô bôô @ moondust . . bye, later!!!

moondust:
@ cute-ass
gotta go!
been great havin u around
L8r!!

keep cool, nice talking to you too. Take care

moondust:
@ topic
hmmm, talk L8er

@ topic

nope

Have you ever wished to could turn back the hand of time/the clock??

moondust:
u're 2 much, girl( getting away wit stuff like this)

Its not my fault, its just me



hmmm, no, i'm not violent at all


you??

lilian777:
@ cute-ass

how come you write igbo so well when you are not here in Nigeria?! ko waa onwe gi

I kô kwana ihe i huru oo

But seriously sha, i did secondary in naija, my parents dragged my ass down there so i can be able to express myself in the midst of such lovely people, like the ones we have here

So guess it wasnt such a bad idea afterall!!

BTW you're pweety

Beyonce fan

hmmmmm, maybe you're right

No ooo, not at all!!



You??

moondust:
sorry, but it is in Enugu

So i'm really the only one left Its all good sha

moondust:
you both should be canpaigning for lolo before contenders come o

Oooh now i get ya, well i'm already a lolo, she's my assistant lol

moondust:
@ cuteass
I rest my case

lol, im too much, just accept it

@ topic

no, He couldnt have created me prettier (thank you Lord)

Have you ever wished you were more handsome?

moondust:
@ cute-ass
u know nah

Hmmm, i no know oo


@ topic

yes oo

you?

moondust:
We both know the answer cutie-pie

we do?

@ topic

Yea, i think so

Have you even been in love but feel helpless about it?

anger is a reflex act, you get angry first, then get even (its just the human nature, we can't help it)

moondust:
a gara m national grammar school nike for 1 yr in 1990

Is that one in Enugu too?? Dont tell me i'm the only one left out

moondust:
Mba unu ga abu umu lolo

Huh?? If you like don't go and fight for "third" position