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I'm missing my darling omo eko
I'm missing my cherie Neelsel
I'm missing my cous Naijacutee
I'm missing my one and only twin on nl luxoire
I'm missing my lil sis on nl chiogo
I'm missing my girl chiegemba (the reigning queen, she knows what i mean)
I'm missing sweet nikynike (but seems she's here, yippie)
I'm missing Damsol and Dime (been quite and age)
I'm missing . . you

ogbdcm:
@cute ass
ogb d c- criminal; m-mind
ogb is my name

thanks for the update, but which name does "ogb" represent?


@ topic
she's a fine young lady

moondust:
When i told u I was looking to win yesterday, u thot i was kidding?
I happen to have some village folk around me and I've been workin. lol

ROFLMCAO . . "village folk" indeed, just tell me the site, i promise your secret will be only both of us' to keep

moondust:

I'm very very Igbo, dear

Jokes apart, are you??

Ônye wulu ônye anu, gbolu ya ôya amafia
The person that refuses to give you meat, prevented you from "picking your teeth"

Ônye ala si na ya a pu go, ô wee na-afiô
The mad man said he had already left the scene, before it started happeneing

Ikomi:
Am sure most of u copy the atutu ilu u come and type here. Especially cute ass and youngies, if not your names should have shifted from Cute-ass to Oke nwanyi otele oma and Youngies to Ogbuefi Okei respectively. And be recognised by all Igbos.

I take the name already, Cos i've never copied - - all come naturally. _{Wish we could say the same for our Moondust}

@ moondust

Now i just got to ask - - "which proverbs site or text book do you have in front of you?"


Thats a disqualification

BTW are you igbo? I've been thinking you're yoruba - - but then a yoruba, can lightly copy from a book, right??

youngies:
LOL, no hun, these are mere proverbs. and every good proverb must have a deep meaning and not "the meaning kind of run deep"

Dearie if you say so!!

moondust:
Ewu ataa m igu n'isi
I have been insulted

youngies:
Cutie, you have some catching-up to do

Continue decieving your mind, you guys are the ones catching up, and like i said the lucky one might just be a happy no 2. Anything across that is out of the line, at least not when i still set my feet on this thread - - - a dighi eme ya eme (impossible)

@ moondust

I fear you oo But lets see how long you'll last. Nkita na agbô uja adighi ata alu - (a barking dog doesnt bite )
I've seen too much of your kind on this thread. The end justifies the means

Omo Eko:
see them

Calm down darling .

@ omo eko
a friend in need, and definitely one indeed

@ topic

I've been wondering what the initilas stand for

@ youngies: Ônye ara na uche ya yi right?
The mad man has his mind with him

whatever sha!!

Ônye nwere efi na-eli ewu mmadu
That someone has a cow doesn't mean he can't eat someone else's goat

Ututu ôkukô e nwee di
In the morning, the hen will surely get a husband (as long as there is life , you'll meet your destiny)

Guess i should go to bed now, Ka ô bôô!!

Islander:
@Cute ass

dependable
caring
sincere
trustworthy
beautiful
educated
ambitious
mature
and did I say beautiful

awwwwwww

@ islander

loving
focused
determined
pretty
a friend
assisting
industrious
entertaining
funny


Why the long details when i got a word to describe her - - the best, couldn't have asked for a better friend. love you girl

Omo Eko:
Na wa oooooo

Jealousy


@ topic

funny

[quote author=n-guage link=topic=38130.msg1215803#msg1215803 date=1182215544]i don't break rules, i stick to the topic, xcept i dey so temted by the pic on th pro. in this case, no pic on the pro[/quote]And you call that ^^^^ sticking to the topic? LMCAO . . the topic says "Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment"
Now did any of what you said have something to do with my profile?? But keep up the good toasting work lol


@ topic

He's repping naija

Like i said her name is Esther and she's denying the handiwork of toasting

Na wa ooh, everywhere you go, one person toasting the other


@ topic

He's 18 and lives in New-york

The last time I checked, there were racists everywhere across the african boarder

@ topic

Don't know what he's repping

The chatline has really expanded oo, 90 pages

Hei darling

ogbdcm:
yes oh your sweetie is in alms quietly sleeping with me
she's sleeping so calmly.
got to go cuddle her up
bye
c u latter

Keep dreaming sha, like i told you - - its for free

To each her own . . every victim of an abusive marriage/relationship has her own story to tell and reasons to give.

Some are there because they "think" they love the man, what nonsense love, right? but yes, love can be quite stupid and blind atimes.
Some do it for the sake of their kids, don't want them growing without a father, or thinking the kids will hate them when they grow up for leaving their dad
Some do it because they're scared of being alone, they can't imagine living without a man
Some do it because they lack the courage and self-will to walk away, afraid of the unknown
Some are there because they think he'll turn a new leaf the next minute and that if they continue hoping, just maybe he'll come around
Some can't do without the feeling of being Mrs., desperation to be seen as a married woman
Some do it because of morals, who hopes for a broken marriage anyway?
Some don't want to sit back and watch another woman take over their man, they feel its milder if he goes out to meet her than having her move out of the house and give liberty to the "other" woman

And then yes there are those who are scared of dissappointing the society, being a disgrace to family and not living up to other friends who of course are still married!! (But its not the only reason, Cos some whites find themselves in same situation, and believe me most of them don't treat it any better, I'm sure they're not out to please the society, the society couldn't care less)

its a sad story, but thats just how the cookie crumbles . . . .

So are you saying she isnt cheating on you afterall, that you assumed and jumped into conclussion that she was becasue she came to visit you and refused to sleep with you??

You said she confessed to cheating on you on two different occassions?? Or you're changing your mind??

No, i still don't understand . . please help me to!!

diamondd:
cute ass, your baby's brother

not my baby's brother, my baby brother!!

@topic

Her name is Esther

Dearie, nothing spoil, i trust you nah

I was only joking, ok?

nnenneigbo:
its not fair oooo, i never even saw it anywhere else, now i'm being accused of expo. its not fair hohaa

Darling you're far from the truth, i'm not accusing you of expo, how can? how dare I?

Mba nu, its not possible, i meant a repitition, definitely not an expo or copying. Thats beyond you

Not bad looking at all

nnenneigbo:
so cute, muwa ka i na asi copri eh? i didn't coppy it ooo, my mum used to use that one, infact whoever wrote it copied it from me.

Abi oo, i copied it from your mind (or is it brain, wherever you had it stored) lol - - - I always knew i had supernatural powers in me

nnenneigbo:
i guess i have to come up withone is one, that none of you have said before

LOL, maybe you should But we love you regardless, whether with an "original" one or "copied"

Nice pic, i like the spirit

moondust:
@ cuteass
Howdy!
I'm lookin to win this contest now

Hmmm, wait right there. If you're lucky enough, you might (i said might) contest with youngies, BabyO and Hawdy (and nnenneigbo ofcourse lol) for the second position, but as for wnning, forget it . . the crown is mine and there are no two ways about it


Ndi igbo si na ogologo okwu adighi n'uka mgbede
No need for long sermons at evening church/service

ann marien:
both r good. the first movie i saw muna in was across d border n it was hot i was like wow . i fell in love with him rite there. i like van too so i guess i can't choose between them

My dear thanks for wakingme up

You're absolutely right, the first movie i saw of Muna was "across the boarder" too, and i was like "men, this guy is drop daed hot", he was so cool and captivating in that movie, i felt like breaking the screen and drawing him out lol

But honestly he's not bad, just that put with Van, the choice becomes something else, and that's maybe because the rest movies Muna has acted, he hasnt been half as hot as he was in that one, but Van on the other hand is always a "charmer"

wales7479:
. . . because its more like we guys that once we have f**ked a babe we always believe we ca n always f**k her as long as she enter our roof,

What exactly were you trying to say, couldnt make a sentence out of it . . what does "sleeping with a girl when she enters your roof", have to do with her cheating on you over and over again??

Or there's something you're not telling us??

Some can, some can't. I honestly do not know if i could, i'll have to be in the situation to know (was almost there, it was a yr difference though, but it didnt happen) So can't say for sure.
Not my wish or ideal thing but . . love does make us do the unimagineable things, right??


But its a known fact that girls are more practically matured than guys atimes, so it all depends on level of maturity of both parties since to every stereptype, there's a level of exception!!

I'm tired in bed last night

rachiwise:
u have said the whole truth.i had the same problems with my former boyfriend we had to move on,now i'm with someone who respects my views and will not keep tempting me.Men want their wives and sisters to be virgins but want their girlfriends to bend to their urge without marriage na wa o.my choice of being a virgin seriously is not for respect or anything from any man but for the love i have for God.

And now i'm happy to have someone back up my "humble opinion"

A human/woman heart can only harbor to an extent, endurance has its boundaries, and perseverance would give up at some point, and then there's that point where even love quits. She could only take it to some length

But the truth remains that its her sole cross to carry, no one should take the decision for her. What you can do as a friend is be there for her, lend her your shoulder to cry on, help her weigh the good and bad, comfort her, give her your ears and wipe her tears

I'm sure she's still there Cos she "loves" him, the thought of their kids and to preserve their marriage and home. What you have to do for her apart from being there for her is pray, pray and pray.

If its in her destiny to live with this guy, then God sooner or later will give him a "round-about turn", and if the marriage wasn't meant to last "till death did them path", then in no due time, the courage will arouse in her.

Thats what she needs to leave, courage, self-will and determination, being talked into something like this by someone else doesn't give that "i did the right thing" feeling, and at the long run she might regret heeding to your voice. So yes, your husband is right, there's a limit to what you can/should do.

Like i said its her cross to carry, its hers and her kids future, be her escort through the journey but let her carry the cross alone, it makes any decision she takes the right one for her

I know what you yourself is going through couldn't be easy, i pray God to be your strength and give you required grace and knowledge to be the helping hand you were designed to be!!!!!!


I've witnessed such situations and learnt that it only feels right, when they decide its time to call it a day by themselves for themselves, at least if there should be any regrets (hope not), then its better to regret a decision she made by herself than one made by someone else.

How many times would we have to answer that particular question sef??


@ topic

Gettolove:
I need to know what a girl really need from a guy, Is it sex / love / care/ recharge cards/ phone calls/ gifts/ every thing
GIRLS WETIN UNA WANT SEF

All girls are different, so to each her own. And the truth remains that you'll find some who fit into each and every category, there's no general stereotype here. Depends on what you are ready to give, determines whether you'll be together or not.

I can only speak for myself and no one else, and what i want and need is of no consequence to you, since we aren't dating, so whats the point in listing it, right?

@ PEOPLE IN DA HOUSE

Try reading all comments before posting, the guy's third post says she confessed again to repeating the act . . what actually is there to forgive??

The guy hasnt recovered from the first trauma, he's still insecured of what went on, then she throws him on a second missionary journey


Will you wave it by and forgive?? Please be realsitic . . the girl made her bed, and now has to lie on it. We all deserve second chances, no one is perfect and all that but she on the other hand is being INHUMAN

I love "pretty woman" too

But how can we forget "coming to America", isnt it what we call "romantic comedy"?