₦airaland Forum

Candora:
So says a bachelor.

mostHandsome01:
I will be brutally honest with you and summarise as much as I can.

Believe me, it is better to marry who you love and loves you back than to marry someone because they are AA and after marriage, your life becomes miserable. Many ignorant people will tell you, don't marry your fiancee, you will suffer if you do, etc. But the truth is, knowing you and your fiancee are AS doesn't mean you will both go ahead to have children with SS. You can marry your fiancee that is also AS if you are properly informed. Many will tell you it is not worth it. Yes, it is not worth it to give birth to SS children and let them suffer, but it is worth it to get married to who will give you peace and then you both go through other well known, well proven means of giving birth to children without SS.

Some will tell you, it's too expensive to do as though the money is coming out of their pockets. This mostly happens in Nigeria due to the so many uneducated and uninformed people we have . Some are even educated but still uninformed. Technology has changed the scope of many things. To cut the long story short. If you must marry someone who is AS like you. Do not make the mistake of having a child without doing one of the 2 options below...

1) Prenatal testing: fertility clinics in Nigeria do this. When a woman is pregnant, they check the genotype of the fetus, if the featus is AA or AS (75% chance) they leave the fetus. But if the fetus is SS(25% chance) they safely remove the fetus. Now this isn't for everyone as some people may feel it's against their morals to remove a fetus even if it's SS. So for people like this, you can go for the second option

2) PGD : this is a process where a woman's egg is fertilized with a man's sperm. Several specimen will be carried out, the couple can then choose the one with either AA or AS, that way they stand no risk of having an SS child. Some people use this process to choose the gender of a child. And this process can also lead to twin and even more as many celebrities or people looking for children do this and that's why you see them giving birth to twins at once.

Now listen to me, some people will still discourage you. They will say the stress is not worth it because they are already lucky to find a partner that's AA. Some will say the money is too much even though the money isn't coming out from their pocket. The decision is yours and yours alone. If you want to marry for love and peace and the person giving you this is AS. Go for any of the options above. It's all your choice to make. So there you go. You either marry AA, or do any of the options above. Just make sure you do not have SS children.

Kobojunkie:
So, because I pointed out what appeared to be flawed reasoning on your part, I become a feminazi?

Kobojunkie:
Is to be vulnerable? You are kidding, right?,

temitope28:
Honestly first bank is really trying this period

onebaniblog:
First Bank On Fire As Bankers Jump High Fence And Run For Their Life In Benin Delta State


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbDZvFaPMrg

chigoziri2403:
Why do the physically active collapse
I thought exercises are good for the health

Jennyclay:
Another animalistic behavior from these nonsense men. If they like let them kill themselves, that's their own cup of agbo.

There's this lounge a guy took me to this evening, some men that sat close to our table started fighting, I don't even know what transpired one of them just carried wine bottle and break on the other one's head.. If you see fight, it was bouncers that came to separate them. I was just looking at them oo, in my mind I was just saying let them kill themselves, that's their own cup of agbo.

Shameless men!

Scamburster:
People that are called urchins for a reason.

eezor:
I just started the process of closing the account. And who told you I have not complained and no results? Stop defending what u don't know. They made me loss a good opportunity.

mariahAngel:
Do you want to be pitied in life?
I definitely do not want that.

Aim to be appreciated instead.

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jara:
I agree. But do not sell off the land. Cash has no value in time. Build anything, even boys quarters on it and rent it out or live there when your family home becomes intolerable.

Enny2013:
Pls, I beg u, stop dragging me on a National Forum lyk dis. I am married, wt 2 lovely kids.my husband won't like to see dis. Have I ever trolled u bfr?
I am so concious of my personality fah.

naijapikin2:
I can only speak about what I've heard the men say:
Some women just tend to lower their guard after marriage. They now begin to tie wrapper Instead of putting on bum shorts for your man. Just generally leave themselves unkempt. Hair undone, teeth not brushed, hey ladies your men also like to see you do make up.

I'll be back with more...

Samantha123:
Is there a way I can get someone to unfollow me on this forum?

How can I remove the person from the list of my followers?