₦airaland Forum

Aboki man like to waste.

Blinkingbae:
probably we have been friends before years back in my other monicker…

lmao..

Samantha123:
Lol.. whenever a woman comes with facts, they say she's being emotional.

The only emotional person I see here it's you, you try to provoke me and when it doesn't work, you get emotional..

Go ahead and cry baby, mommy is gonna buy you biscuits.. lol..

ok. You win. I agree with you. If that is what will make you have sweetdreams tonight.

Samantha123:
Really? Lol.. go ahead and ignore me because you never have answers to my questions anyway..

because you respond based on emotions and not logical reasoning.

Samantha123:
Since when does engaging in a discussion a fight?

In fact, you're the one who's always trying to provoke me, but it never works because I'm not here to fight or insult anyone..

how will i try to provoke you when you are the one who is first to comment on my posts. I think i should ignore your mentions like the rest of them.

brain54:
Yam planting maybe…



With the right knowledge.

But fish business I have always thought to be unprofitable although never really practiced just watched from afar. But I think it’s not as profitable as people make it seem.

I think hatching of the fish is a little better in terms of profitability…

Just an opinion from the outside though!

lol.. My brother.

You reason this way because of the set backs of people. In that same fish business, people have cashed out massively because they followed simple instructions as well as God factor protecting their investments.


Whether its poultry, fish, cow, yam, tomato, cucumber, groundnut or melon planting,

As long as you pray, do the right thing, insure your investments, avoid pennywise poundfoolish habits, get trained before delving, seeking consultations from experts, agriculture will be profitable for you.

But if you want to go into agriculture with a get rich quick mentality, you will loose everything.

Samantha123:
What about those ladies that work from 7am till 5pm but still manage to come home after work

This is the 21st century and it's not only you men working, so don't use that as an excuse.

samantha123 there is no need fighting everybody on this forum.

You are a woman and I wont blame you for the way you reason.

Everybody should go back to farm and be exporting so that our naira can rise again.

We need forex.

Ok good.. Poultry isnt my thing.


I'd prefer fish business, yam planting.

gokesoye:
I lost my bank job last year.

Things have been so hard.

I am presently coping with a teaching job of 30k

sorry about that. I'm in the banking sector too and i already have it at the back of my mind that my job is not permanent.

This makes me to improve on personal development by taking up courses that will boost my cv and as well, setting up other profitable side hustles.


The problem with many nigerians is that we get too comfortable in our paid jobs and think everywhere will be stew without contingency plans for the future.

kay29000:
Hahahaha! I was wondering too. So he trekked through those forest I always see on the sides of the road when I'm going to Ikorodu. I weak.

as in eh.

Babydaddymateri:
You dey mind the dude ? Rather than say he no fit help or read and Waka pass..... My brokest moment in 2014; I had only #40 on me, bus to convey me to my destination na #60... I coulda begged someone for the remaining #20 for top up or form money lost inside bus on motion but shame no gree me. I had to trek 40mins bus drive with legs - now Cutehector calculate the number of hours I used with my leggedis.

loook young man.

That i do not come online to beg on this forum doesn't mean i am rich/boastful, its all about standards as a person.

You can never see me on nairaland begging because i have resolved never to do so. If ever i am short of cash, i have were to borrow money and as a person with principle, i do jobs and pay back my creditors on/before the stipulated time.

Many nigerians do not have good credit score because they are not honest to themselves in terms of borrowing.


Its all about character.

Blinkingbae:
exactly…. Op should be wise

good you are wise. You seem like someone i should be friends with

Farfalla:
The archetypal emotional kidnap.

She should marry the pastor out of fear of having her heart broken by other men? And what makes you think the pastor would not be the one to break her heart?

That pastor is just a predator taking advantage of a lonely, vulnerable woman. He's in fact colluded with his "spiritual father" to brainwash the OP into believing that there will be spiritual consequences should she reject his proposal.

Nothing will happen to her, same way nothing has happened to all the men who rejected girls they never connected with.

ok you have made your point. My comment still stands

detectivejones:
If that man tell you the truckload of things in his head you'd be shocked. Please do not nag about his late nights, try to encourage and lift him with your words, also show interest in his work, be that person he can talk to about his job and challenges because most times Nigerian wives seem not to be interested in this thing and that is where the problem is.

its because we men give them this false sense of entitlement that they are not meant to understand our struggles. Many fake ladies run away from me because they cannot keep up.

To better understand what a man faces out there, i make these ladies get a job and pay bills. Yes you must pay bills, so that when you come back home looking so tired and worn out, only then you can come to my table and we can gist.

Sue the hospital, that way you get money.

Samantha123:
I never liked men with beard.

I somehow find it unhygienic and I can't even imagine myself kissing a man with a beard.

who would even want to kiss you though

Better to live in a desert with a beast than with a nagging wife.

Adekaka12345:
It's so possible bro....

ok

Atarakpa:
that's reason why we go for more mature now. In Nigeria today once you employ a person less than 40 be assure in less than 2 yrs he or she will japa.

isnt it better to create a time stay contract deal with a younger person..that way you have more millenials to drive productivity and then they cant japa because of the legal binding. Access bank is doing it.

zrealjaheal:
Did you say menial jobs
Trying to look for a list of jobs I haven't done.
From car wash to washing clothes to parking gutters. .

if yu got a Lil time kindly go through my siggy

Most times we are termed lazy just frustration actually got the best of us.

My vehicle got damaged on Sunday tried fixing but the mechanic said it was fuel the Lil change on me I used it to get fuel only for the vehicle to form I WON'T START

Called Rewire the next day he checked and said the problem of the vehicle is coil and fuel pump. No money nothing someone on here had to send me 5k sent 4 to the mechanic I no hear say unforseen rubbish happened and the while funds got spent

Used the remaining 1k to maintain..

Recharged and ate. On Tuesday was hoping to run a conductor job.. only for me to trek from ikorodu to ojota. . I had to beg my way back home. (All this story Is not to gain your pity. Most times we just need someone to talk to).

My siggy(diary) is always update to date I would love for you to follow it.

Bro I have tried but I will keep trying. But to keep trying man must eat.

(Hope this epistle ain't too much)

trek from ikorodu to ojota..bros abeg easy with the lies

zrealjaheal:
You think... Most times we tend to reminiscence on the past and wished we had done it the other way




Chief hunger can turn a man to philosopher
I respect you too




Chief show some love to a brother
things hard we just pushing it till eventually we break through but then again we go need strength to push that obstacle

whatever is not small

bros.. Begging wont do good to you. Start from menial jobs. You wont die. I have done them. I did ogbuaja work, digging of suckaway pit, mason work..name it. If you think its too low for you then i am sorry i cant help you

Nope.... God has been increasing me. Staying humble is key to growth.

Atarakpa:
If only you know the emotions we the employers goes through when our expert hands resign.

didnt HR foresee this happening?

Organizations are setting up training academies to train young people just incase expert hands japa. Mgt should think long term

ahnie:
Your locale dey very far from mine nau smallie.

even if e far.. Man fit one day touch down ur side. E no bad to drop by so you go host me.

ahnie:
Smallie na moimoi n fayrouz,you wanchow?

yes.. Dm location.

That new employer doesn't have a good culture.

ahnie:
Hey smallie,how you dey?

hi sugar momma.. Your boy is loyal. I want to eat rice.. Should i come?

shortIGBOman:
True. It is worst in all EASTERN States.

lmao.. And why arent they protesting? Zombie of emi lokan

shortIGBOman:
This is worst in Anambra.

likewise other states.