Romance › Re: Did I Cheat On Him by Cuteobi(f): 10:59pm On May 08, 2012 |
Guilty as charged.NEXT!! |
Family › Re: Fathering Sunday Is Here Again, by Cuteobi(f): 3:48pm On May 06, 2012 |
chelseabmw: can someone please wish me Happy Fathers Day.......Or you think it's easy to become a father? Happy fathers day!!  |
Family › Re: Fathering Sunday Is Here Again, by Cuteobi(f): 1:34pm On May 06, 2012 |
Happy fathers day to all the fathers on NL |
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Celebrities › Re: Oops!chika Ike Was A Victim Of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE &its Why She Left Her Marriage by Cuteobi(f): 6:01pm On May 05, 2012 |
 I didn't know she was married |
Celebrities › Re: Do You Know Who This Is? by Cuteobi(f): 5:58pm On May 05, 2012 |
Isn't dis d crazy nigerian guy?wats his name now  Dis confirms it ... He's so g a y |
Food › Re: Nigerian Food One Can Eat To Add Weight by Cuteobi(f): 5:40pm On May 05, 2012 |
Just overload ur stomach with fufu and serious vegetable soup on a daily basis.don't forget to tank me wen u get d desired result |
Romance › Re: Do You Think You're Good Looking?" by Cuteobi(f): 5:00pm On May 05, 2012 |
190: well im a cutie  Faints!! |
Nairaland General › Re: Dear *NL* LETS Know Each Other Beta Via Other SOCIAL Network! by Cuteobi(f): 7:41pm On May 03, 2012 |
YIM-viviazihy |
Romance › Re: Nl Romance Section Babes Vs Offline Babes by Cuteobi(f): 6:48pm On May 03, 2012 |
Mtchewwww! Just passing |
Family › Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by Cuteobi(f): 6:00pm On May 03, 2012 |
chaircover: A lot of you are not being realistic and people are talking a lot of theory rather than practice.
How many of you guys will seriously be comfortable with your bride paying for your suit and all the food that your side of the family ate at the wedding. She paid for the photographer, video man and even your own side of the gifts that your family should have bought as gifts to her side such as Yams, drinks etc Even her bride price she has to pay abi? is that not what her 80% is doing?
I want a happily married man/woman to come out and be truthful and say that they trusted and felt more comfortable & secure with their partner more than what they do years later. What am I saying?; trust, feeling secured, understanding and even maturity etc comes with time.
Jenny's husband paid for all the wedding but I doubt that all these years down the line she will refuse to put in her last dime to assist her husband if he needed financial help today. You cant compare the understanding that a newly married couple have with one that has been married for a decade. We all know that the first year or marriage is almost always the toughest. Why? because both are still getting used to each other and their roles.
Like I said in my first post, if she can assist then surely she should, but within reason. Its better that they cut their coat according to their size and have a low key wedding that he feels comfortable with and he can afford, rather than borrowing or using her 80% to fund the wedding. I will never encourage my man to borrow.
All this has nothing to do with being a kept woman/housewife/doormat. Whether we like to accept it or not there are some predefined roles in a relationship and when you start crossing things up, thats when you start getting strange results. Tell them abegi!! Unrealistic pple!! |
Family › Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by Cuteobi(f): 10:50am On May 03, 2012 |
chinwe11: Nairalanders, i have some questions oh. I am getting married in August..............my fiance and i are both working, but the house where he is staying now is having some problems, and might fall soon, so the landlord told them all to evacuate so he can renovate. (The rent was expiring in September anyway) My fiance then decided to use part of the money for the wedding to rent a new house for us. The problem now is, after renting the house, he had to do renovations etc, and now the wedding for the money is almost finished to about 20% left. he is now saying shebi i also have money that i should make up the remaining 80%. Please nairalanders what do you think? Is a woman supposed to pay the bulk money for the wedding?
Afterall what plans did he have for rent after the wedding? I told him to borrow money he said no. Pay for ur wedding and become his doormat tomoro.don't be surprised if he says he didn't want to marry u and u forced urself on him by takiing care of d weddin bills.nne go for wateva the 20% will get u guys and when u get the ring 'ur money can now become our money' BE WISE!! |
Romance › Re: How Will I Ever Survive This? by Cuteobi(f): 10:00am On May 03, 2012 |
190: No need, I believe the OP must have hung herself by now
ABEG NOR VEX - NA JOKE I DEY OOOH  Do u have to make a joke out of dis eh 190? Makky na u kill u yaself.u chose to settle with d wrong guy.ur a fine woman no doubt.just dust urself,pick up d pieces of wat is left of ur heart and move on.ur prince charming is waiting somewhere. Learn from ur mistake!!! |
Romance › Re: Which Nigerian Tribe Or State Has The Cutest Girls? by Cuteobi(f): 9:43am On May 03, 2012 |
abrahkyn: OP could you please define what you want? Is it that your want a good Holiday resort in Nigeria or you waant a girl/girls you would Bleep and leave behind when u are going back or the one u would carry along as you leave the shore of Nigeria? I wonder ooh!! |
Romance › Re: Which Nigerian Tribe Or State Has The Cutest Girls? by Cuteobi(f): 9:38am On May 03, 2012 |
luckgames: Your mouth like Ibo girl Havnt u heard??!! We are d finest!! |
Food › Re: When Do U Eat More; When U Are Happy Or Sad by Cuteobi(f): 4:07pm On May 02, 2012 |
Its really funny pple eat when they are sad.I can't but wonder if they enjoy watever they eat or they just shove it down their throat |
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Romance › Re: My Love For Igbo Girls - They're God's Gift to Nigeria (pics) by Cuteobi(f): 7:43pm On Apr 27, 2012 |
Beetwo: Op weldone o, but how am l sure dat dis are not girls from oda tribes wearin costume in a beauty pagent. Juz askin sir. Whether na other tribes wear d costume,my ibo sisters are hot!!! Maybe we should even start a thread on that if there's none  |
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Politics › Re: Bomb Blast At Thisday Office, Jabi, Abuja by Cuteobi(f): 1:07pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
The culprits will be brought to book!!! That's what GEJ will say |
Romance › Re: His Fiancee Has A 7 Year Old Son. Should He Cancel The Wedding? by Cuteobi(f): 7:29pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Dats a big deal oo! Its certain there are other things she's hiding |
Health › Re: Please I Av Small Swollen Growth On My Neck. I Was Told Its Lapoma. Plz D Cure! by Cuteobi(f): 6:25pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Hospital ASAP |
TV/Movies › Re: You Know It's A Nigerian Movie When... by Cuteobi(f): 3:03pm On Apr 24, 2012 |
 A dark and ugly baby grows up to be Van viker or Ramsey Noah |
Sports › Re: Taiye Taiwo Turns 25 Today & His Brother Is 39 (Hoax) by Cuteobi(f): 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2012 |
I am 16 and my twin sister is 44  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Ain't she babe Beautiful by Cuteobi(f): 10:27pm On Apr 22, 2012 |
born2fuck: I keep imagine how black the pussy will look like, she is okay and she iss at least better than 80 % nairaland babe from pics I have been seeing on profile U sure?? |
Nairaland General › Re: Picture Of The Most Beautiful Igbo Girl In Nigeria by Cuteobi(f): 10:22pm On Apr 22, 2012 |
Biafra4tharmy: Make haters go hug transformer . The girl is beautiful and she is an ibo girl! Lets appreciate that fact pals. Ndewo Pls tell d mods to close dis thread.stop embarrassing d Ibos here |
Nairaland General › Re: Picture Of The Most Beautiful Igbo Girl In Nigeria by Cuteobi(f): 10:19pm On Apr 22, 2012 |
Bia poster why u dey fall our hand like dis naa!!! |
Nairaland General › Re: I Need A Name For My Newly Born Baby Boy by Cuteobi(f): 11:47pm On Apr 21, 2012 |
hawtin: call him sexkillz and be sure to have a good boy who does not fu~ck Perfect!! |
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Romance › Re: What Keeps Your Relationship Going? by Cuteobi(f): 5:49pm On Apr 20, 2012 |
~Bluetooth: I'm surprised people especially ladies here are not mentioning money ?  $£¥€N |
Crime › Re: Obi Nwokeh, Christopher Omoregrie & Samson Odegbune Jailed For Murder In UK by Cuteobi(f): 5:34pm On Apr 20, 2012 |
beatrice webb: igbo pple with their killing habit when will they stop? Bloody tribalist!!! |