₦airaland Forum

This one loud gan ooo... How manage na?
Perhaps someone messed with a beehive around that place...

drehdinho:
A lady was introduced to me by a street sister after I mentioned that I was in search of a serious relationship. I gave a clear list of my requirements, among which were that she must be gainfully employed and of good character.

Two days ago, the sister finally shared the contact of the lady she found for me. I was hopeful, thinking she would at least meet 80% of my criteria.

When I initiated a conversation with the lady, I asked about her educational background. She told me she was a secondary school drop-out. I didn’t judge her immediately, I wanted to hear more and not jump to conclusions.

So, I asked what steps she had in mind to upgrade herself. She said she wanted to go into business and gave a rough estimate of ₦3.5 million as startup capital.

Still, I wasn’t discouraged. I told her that if I were to invest in the business, I would hold 60% of the company while she holds 40%. My reason was simple: I wanted her to be accountable and run the business with a sense of ownership.

To my surprise, she rejected the idea. She said she wanted 100% ownership because she is “trustworthy” and that I could observe her for one year to see if she wouldn’t mismanage the business.

I let that conversation slide.

Then, a few days later, during another conversation, I asked her what she was bringing to the table in the relationship. Her response? Just “prayer.” 😂

At this point, I started enjoying the conversation ,not because I was impressed, but because her responses were becoming increasingly ridiculous.

I asked her another question: How much do you think we would need per month to live as husband and wife?
Her answer: ₦1 million.

I asked her to break it down. She couldn’t. She just kept rambling and listing irrelevant things with no clarity or structure.

This morning, she called me via WhatsApp video. While we were talking, the call ended. I tried calling her back, but the video didn’t connect. I noticed she was typing, so I waited.

Next thing I saw was: “My data got exhausted.”

From the very beginning, I knew I was way above her standard , intellectually, financially, and in life exposure. But I decided to subject her brain to an intelligent conversation to prove a point: most of these broke ladies have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer.

To my fellow hustling men who have sacrificed and worked hard to become something in life , please don’t settle for women like this. Look out for women who have built themselves to a meaningful stage in life.

I have two degrees. I’m a lawyer. And here is a lady, a secondary school drop-out , who thinks, in her oblivion, that she can hook a man of my calibre.

I called the sister who introduced her and clearly told her never to bring such people my way again.

I know how this kind of story ends: you help them build a life, and the moment they start seeing a little change, you’ll see their true colours. Many of them think the only thing they need to offer in life is their body.

I’ve cut off communication with her already, and I’m planning to block her on WhatsApp.

Her unreasonable thought process completely turned me off. So many ridiculous ideas. It’s just mentally exhausting.

Planning to block her on Whatsapp? You should have blocked her long before you came here to inform us! You try sef... 😂😂😂

The article didn't mention India. India is the major headquarters of scam call centers in the world. Countries like Myanmar and Cambodia are still learning and West African countries aren't as technically sophisticated as Asian countries.

India is the leader when it comes to global scam centers! Article lacks depth and credibility.

Then Israel should get an automatic win and the other team needs to be disqualified.

Your political views shouldn't be used to destroy an entire tournament.

And this is a country where Islam is the majority religion with about 70% Muslims and just about 30% Christians. They were still able to overlook religious sentiments and take a decision for the safety of their society because they know it's a safety risk and terrorists can easily use it to cause mayhems like suicide bombings, killings etc.

I hope western countries will also begin banning garments that cover the face entirely, for security reasons. We're no longer living in the past where there were no bombs and guns. Humanity is faced with real threats and terrorists are hiding under religion to disrupt societies.

Solid friendship... these 2 have an undeniable and profitable bond.

RIP to Dantata!

I thought they said he went there for medical treatment in disguise? 🤔

Anyways, I no dey put mouth for politician matter, all of them be the same!

See MOPOL officers lying dead on the floor! 😢

This is broad daylight terrorism. We've been calling these people the wrong name, it's time to call them what they actually are. Anyone who can do this can also face the army and run them down!

I suspect a lot of these people hiding under the herdsmen profession are actually Boko Haram and ISWAP terrorists.

She probably wants enough freedom to engage in her own shady lifestyle. 😏

Haliimmaa:
I got the visa guys. Thanks for all the help. What do you mean by legalization? Also, is there a certified website i can take german classes? Is there anyone(preferably) female moving to Germany in August and want to get a place together?

Congrats!! 🎉🎈

galantjoe:
Nysc is not compulsory
Let him collect his degree certificate and get job

Abi... Since the university is not denying his admission, I feel like NYSC isn't such a big deal, he can even leave Nigeria and continue his life abroad.

The only issue now is that his name is already on the internet and this has to be resolved, otherwise it could cause some form of doubt on his qualification. Either ways, may God help him.

RIP to the departed officers and may God comfort the families they left behind.

beerfraud:
blame your brothers developing India with white powders

My brothers ke? What makes you think I am Igbo?
I laugh in Ijebu dialect 😂😂😂

Just being a patriotic Nigerian. Trust me, I call them out too when they're wrong, but we can't encourage the abuse of Nigerians' rights abroad. This is just a visa issue, they didn't have to publish their names for overstaying, especially when their own citizens are far more in our own country.

Na drug and crime I no support. Love and light.

I can understand arresting and displaying their names for drug crimes, but releasing someone's name for overstaying their visas is an infringement on their privacy. 😠

I am sure there are many illegal Indians working in Nigeria, especially in places like Ikeja and Ilupeju. Maybe we need to engage in reciprocity so they can understand.

Henceforth when an Indian national overstays their visa in Nigeria, arrest them, display their name and picture, let everyone have some sense!

Warrior99:
Absolutely.

They know what they are doing.

A STATE OF EMERGENCY WILL NOT BE DECLARED IN THE NORTH.

LET NORTHERNERS SOLVE NORTHERN PROBLEMS.

But if not, make dem dey blow their sef dey go...

I wonder why they didn't tell Buhari to declare a state of emergency in the north when he was president... LOL

Na when southern president enter dem dey sabi yeye advice. 😂

Commentor:
Why would they want to do that?

So, now Nigerians are saints and it's other nations trying to damage our image?

Bruh!

Naah bro, it's for real. I'm not saying the majority aren't Nigerians just that I've seen foreigners with our passport. I personally know of a Cameroonian guy with our passport. Niger, Togo, Chad even Uganda & Zimbabwe citizens plenty with our passport bro.

Commentor:
That face no resemble Oyinye for your eye?

E clear me well.

LOL... But no be by face na. 😂

I observe say some other African countries don get our passport for hand and if they commit crimes, they automatically tag them Nigerians.

Kumama? That no be Nigerian name na!

Be like dem don dey impersonate Naija oo

ZUBY77:
You don't get it.
Your hatred won't let you see the message in my post.

Don't make it an Igbo thing.
LAGOS is a Nigerian Project, not a Yoruba Project.
If Yorubas are too good at development and IGR, they can replicate Lagos in Ekiti.
Lagos was the capital of this country for goodness sake.

Whenever they tell you guys the truth, it is hatred, nobody is more irresponsible than anyone who hates the truth. They hate you but voted for you...

I don't even need to engage you anymore. Keep spreading your ignorance to your type.

ZUBY77:
The correct question should be,
Why was Tinubu defeated in Lagos?
If you can be able to answer this question fairly, you will know your answer. You can also push the same topic on people's faces every morning, you will be getting same answers.

Are you insinuating that Igbo votes alone made Peter Obi win in Lagos? You're ignoring the vast amounts of YORUBAS that voted for Peter Obi and wanted him to win.

This 'I can do it alone' attitude is why the South East cannot produce a president for now.

I remember those years when he co-anchored NTA AM Express, I was in secondary school in Lagos back then. Such lovely memories... 🥺

May his soul continually rest in perfect peace 🕊️

VeryWickedMan:
Owl

A very tasty delicacy especially when cooked with effirin leaves

VWM Very wicked man himself...

You go fit chop vulture peppersoup as I dey see you so oo 😁😄

Truvelisback:
An offence of expensive joke. Why would you stalk someone's car on a busy road and start using your phone to video him? Someone who barely knows you. It is embarassing. Can he try that with a soldier and get away with it? The Pastor mistook him for a thief or an arm robber. We should call a spade a spade. Or is it because he is a pastor? Common!

Don't mind them. It's easy to judge online when they are not the ones involved. When it concerns a pastor, he must be crucified for reacting like a normal human being. 😒

Aseju wedding, Asete wedding ahahahaha

Una no go kee person se.

Really learning a lot from here about the entire stuff

bdon123:
I own one and investigated before purchasing becos it's not mentioned as fire arm or prohibited by Nigerian law

Thank you! Some of these people believe everything the police says is correct, whereas NPF officers, even the high ranking ones are quite ignorant of the law. Same police claiming it's illegal can even decide to arrest you for buying a knife or a cutlass from the market, just to extort you.

American police, as enlightened as they are, still get schooled by people who know the law when they try to bully people.

Pastor Paul Adefarasin committed NO crime, he's just being attacked by social media vultures because he's a pastor.

rinzaugustine:
Facts without evidence? No evidence of Yoruba civilization anywhere in the world except the fictional story that oduduwa climbed down from heaven which no historian takes seriously but go to British museum and see Igbo artifacts dating back to more than a thousand years fetching them millions of pounds in revenue . 👇 Igbo woman in 1913 👇 one of the numerous Igbo artefacts in British museum today

Oga, this is not a Yoruba vs Igbo issue, I even mentioned Benin Kingdom, Fulani etc, these are well known developed tribes and they had traditional attires without western influence.

If you cannot understand the above, that's on you bro. Nobody is competing with you ✌🏽

rinzaugustine:
According to radio carbon dating by the British professor of archeology Thurstan Shaw in 1958 of ancient relics discovered at the compound of Isaiah Anozie in present day Igboukwu, Anambra state , Igbos had been living in present location and same culture since 7th century AD. At that time there was no British empire but Roman , Vikings and few other empires . British came into existence around 12th century AD so between Igbos and British who copied themselves?

The post you brought up only shows he has nothing against Igbos, since he recognises their business prowess. This is about culture and he even mentioned his own tribe (Itshekiri) alongside Igbos.

Look at Niger Delta people wearing bowler hats, does that even make any sense? You can tell that colonialists and slavers were the ones who gave them those clothes.

Only Benin Kingdom, Yoruba, Hausa/Fulani have original traditional attire without any origin or link to Europeans. The rest ethnic groups were undeveloped and most of their people used to be unclothed. In fact ancient Igbo pictures are mostly naked people who barely had any clothing on them.

Facts don't care about feelings bro.

Truvelisback:
If i was Pastor Paul, i will make sure i arrest that content creator and lock him behind bars.

If he does that, the same social media judges would accuse him of harboring hatred and unforgiveness against such a little boy. Before you know you go dey hear justice for so so so, every content creator would jump on it for views and attention.

Shey no be the same humans wey crucify Jesus despite him being perfect? Dey play oo. 😐

Beautiful. Na this kind news we need to make our country beta, no be Hushpuppi today, drug pusher tomorrow, abeg make una do beta thing with una brain.

God bless Nigeria.

9japride:
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It boils down to greed. Too much oil money. I just feel the politicians down here are just extremely wicked.
The money spent on any proposed state can make the country more productive.

You've said it all bro. When there's free money to spend, nobody will engage their brains to look for solutions to pending issues.

Just imagine there is no more oil money, all the political greed and do or die mentality would end.

bolaayenimo:
Warn the person with an illegal item? Is your head correct at all?

Illegal by who? There is no where in the Nigerian constitution where it states that owning a taser is a crime, you're just an illiterate.

Section 33 of the Nigerian Constitution guarantees the right to life and self-defense. A Fulani man can carry a cutlass and walk about, but a law abiding citizen cannot own a taser which is non lethal?

This issue has been clarified before, but the NPF will claim it's illegal, whereas only the court can determine that. The police has NO right to tell you you can't own a taser, but most of you are ignorant of the law.

I won't argue further with you, most of you are one eyed people thinking you see well.