brain54: I dated this beautiful yellow sisi nurse girl one time...
The day I visited her I was shocked. Never imagined anyone so dirty.
Cooking pots were literally on her bed. Her room was so dirty with everything out of place and order.
Scattered items everywhere I am sure she hadn't cleaned her room for like a year.
She was just shoving dirty laundry away from everywhere so I could find somewhere comfortable to sit.
Her room was a huge contrast to her looks.
In her defense though I never asked her...she was working two shifts at two different hospitals and still schooling (one of those medical course upgrade they do) at a private university in ogun state at the same time.
I don't know how she was able to combine all of that. But girl was always so tired she was always yawning and falling asleep during conversations.
That alone made me overlook her dirty habits.
But the straw that broke the camels back was falling asleep while kissing with her. As in falling into a trance(that's not sleep abeg) and even letting out loud groaning sounds that could pass as snoring.
At that point....!
I don't condone dirtiness, but in the lady's case, everything you said points to the fact that she was physically exhausted.
binary123: if you think the 20k daily profit for 500k investment is much.what will you have to say with some people with zero capital investment yet take home more than 20k daily for daily mineal jobs ?
You're basically asking for 4% of your investment on a daily basis, which amounts to 120% per month.
So you want to invest N500k and make N1.1m (600k profit) within a month, which amounts to 7.2m in a year... That must be a super business.
Jaylord12: Let him not only visit let him saddle the security chiefs with onus of doing their duty delligently ... We are tired of the senseless killings in the country..
Well said... 💯
It's not just about visiting, we must see results.
EleventhWeirdo: You do realize that accounting is a professional discipline, right? Anyone could learn the accounting craft and be called an accountant but you do need a recognised charter to be a professional accountant. So, an economist without such charter cannot be a professional accountant. That said, economics does not cover accounting. Maybe the financial parts of it, but not the whole field. I admire economists though
Nobody is trying to disrespect accounting here, but just like IT, it's one of those fields where you don't actually need a degree to be called a professional.
All things being equal, there is no field outside of accounting/finance that's closer to accounting than economics. It's just a versatile field and equips you to function in various career fields.
mrrandomguy: Remove Economics from that list. Most economics graduate end up in other disciplines/careers such as accounting, sales, marketing, business development and teaching.
You don't know what economics entails, that's why you find it weird that they work in business and accounting fields. Economics covers all those professions you listed, it's a super discipline that cuts across various sectors...
An economist by virtue of the content of his degree can work as an accountant, business analyst, salesman and various fields in finance they're all related to the degree...
Check a typical economics degree curriculum and see the courses they take, apart from micro/macroeconomics, most of their courses are statistics, business management, finance and accounting.
I hope he puts a structure in place for the disbursement and implementation of the funds for projects in Africa cos there are many useless politicians that would readily steal the funds...
Rapmoney: My candid advice for men who are 35+ is to avoid Genz girls by all means. These category of girls do not actually think the way you think, neither do they see what you see. Their mentality and yours is so wide apart like Africa and Australia. Your plans and vision don't matter to these people. They are only concerned about the present; what they can collect and move ahead with alacrity.
Make you no go use your 7 months salary take sponsor holiday trip for one girl wey go leave you within a twinkling of an eye.
Not all Gen Z cos current Gen Z age is up to 28 years, so are you saying a 28 year old lady isn't ready for marriage? Some of them are already fasting and praying for a serious man sef.
I have seen some 23 year old girls more mature than some 35 year old women, so it's not always by age, but your advice is partially valid.
My own take is that a 35+ guy should focus more on a lady's mental maturity, age could be deceiving.
olawaleatanda: can you highlight about the process I'm interested
If you have a specific question, I'd be glad to answer. Meanwhile you can also go through the thread from the beginning as most questions have been answered.
englishmart: I met this babe last month. I managed to get her number, and we've been in contact since then. I was planning to propose to her next month, but won't dare anymore after this clip from our recent conversation
Where you fumbled was continuing the conversation after she said she wasn't fine... You for just remain silent cos na so dem dey behave when they wan bill man.
I've personally decided not to date any girl who has an entitlement mentality. I don't mind spending, but I'd rather spend on a girl who is hardworking than one who believes she's entitled to my money cos we're dating.
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Chram: That grandpa will never listen to me. He knows I'm mad at him and my mum right now
As I mentioned earlier, being mad isn't the solution. Your mum is probably lonely and she's too young to remain unmarried for the rest of her life...
Your mom has intimate and emotional needs and you won't understand.
Let her try out the new man's house and if God says that's not her position, it will eventually end in a break up, but she's too young to remain lonely...
Chram: Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic terms, I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.
I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background? Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.
Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.
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If your grandpa is the one advising your mother to get married again, don't you think it's because he wants his daughter to be happy again?
How old are you by the way? If you're 21 and above, you shouldn't be insisting on your mother remaining single in her 40s, you don't know the loneliness she's battling and her father might know other things you don't know. 6 years is a long time to mourn someone and I think your mom tried in that regard.
My advice for you is to not judge your mom. Talk to your grandpa and ask why he wants his daughter to get married and learn from his wisdom.