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Abeg gattat!
You no even get issue...stop looking at girls on social media with all filters and makeup, some of them skin bad pass your own, you no even get skin issue.

siofra:
You too who are you?

I know who I am, I also know what I'm not, and I'm not an attention seeking troll

MediMedi:
You be SIMP

As long as you've chosen ignorance, may knowledge forever be far from you. Amen

siofra:
Czar czarr or whatever you call yourself. Shebi this is a woman seeking for attention

Shebi

I don't know why men like to think they are better than women when they are in fact worse. Men on this forum seek attention more than women. Pathetic!!!!

who the hell are you?
I don't engage with your likes.

Felimax:
They desire both attention and respect.

okay

Attention means everything to most women, most women would choose negative attention over respect any day anytime twice on a Tuesday.

When I hear guys telling girls things like dress decently and guys would respect you more, I laugh because they have no clue that women don't care all that about respect as much as they care about attention , they are looking at women from the lens of a man, because to a man respect is everything.

A man feels loved by a woman when she respects him, a woman feels loved by a man that gives her attention, that is the major difference between men and women. Most women would prefer to be called an attention seeking slvt! than not be noticed at all.

As long as woman has an audience, she is capable of doing the most shameful stuff, if it would keep their attention glued to her... Attention is addictive to women, more addictive than mkpurumiri.

I truly believe that most simps have not experienced what it feels like for a girl to be 100% into you, they don't have what to compare the way girls that are not that into them treat them to, so they think it's normal and all guys experience what they are experiencing.

They don't know that some guys have girls that call them like 20missed calls a day, If you tell them they'll think you are lying or that you are paying her bills or maybe she needs something from you....because that has been their experience.

If you tell them that girls buy you card and even send money for you when you have a need they'll say you are lying or call you broke boy begging women for money.

If you tell them that some girls even go as far as paying the hotel bills and call you over for sex, they won't believe you, they'll think you used juju on the girls.

A guy who experiences this gestures from girls would have little tolerance for the girls who want to manipulate him or who doesn't like him in that way because he knows the difference and he wants nothing less.... he'll cut off a biich not putting in effort.

My prayer for simps is that they get to meet women in their lives who are so into them, they realise that it's not normal for a girl to not be putting in effort.

I can't believe that with all the information around there are still jonzing guys like this.

You have to be under 20

mployer:
I will rather have a lady bill me than she getting emotionally attached to me.

A girl can be physically attracted to you and still bill you when she notices you are not emotionally available and there is no hope of long term deal.

If a girl is not billing you, she is definitely targeting something bigger and the story might not end well if you don't live up to that expectation.

Your third paragraph, you have a point but sometimes she is only targeting sexx with you, and as long as you make no promises and let her know you are not looking for anything serious she can't hold it against you, sometimes girls just want to have sexx too with a guy they find physically attractive , while they look for someone to marry them.

Date multiple girls that "appear" decent and structured, with both her parents together and involved in her life.

Now of course we know that just because a girl appears decent and structured doesn't mean she is really decent, she could be pretending that's why you date multiple of those type of girls and vet them properly, don't fall in love or be emotionally invested in any of them,it could impair your judgement.

Also above all look out for shame, hoes have no shame, hoes have no shame even when they are not doing hoe activity they are shameless and like to draw attention to themselves watch out for that too, there is a reason ashawwoo no get issues embarrassing a guy in public if he doesn't pay it's lack of shame, the more a girl is deep in to hoe activity the less shame and the more i don't give a fvck attitude.

Also don't date extroverted girls,especially the one who has male friends, i know introvert girls can be hoes to but the chances are higher with extroverted girls, they can actively create more opportunities for cheating and have less shame.

Just a tip guys.

No genuine attraction for you that's why.
There's no way around it, she's not scared of loosing you, she no care if you vex loose guard her because she doesn't like you like that in the first place....some will even use their hands to block you if you don't meet their demands.

But as she is billing you the guy she has genuine attraction for no dey pressured to spend shi shi. Your money only serves as a compensation for your not being their type. They have to look at something to make them feel better about hanging around or probably fvcking someone they have little to no attraction for. They say you cannot negotiate genuine attraction, yes but you can negotiate attraction with money(not genuine attraction) when the money stops flowing the attraction stops.

Girls are attracted to money.
So it's either they like you for you or for what you can offer them(money)

Any time a girl bills me i just take it as her own way of telling me that she doesn't like me like that and move on, i don't take it as she is materialistic.

Some people get mind o
Nairaland of all places naim you post this thing, nairaland wey all the roasters for the world dey.

They are coming.

What is cute about abiola?
Maybe MONEY?

Bluntdude:
Yes we did video calls.
As for the travelling issue the transport sef no be my issue just that I'm not interested in her as a lover.

still be careful, some guys dey use girls they scam other guys, if the girls know what's up? I smell a rat. as long as she is willing to pay for herself if she wants to come see you . If she really likes you she for no snub you because you no tell her wetin she was hear, she done see say you be bad market.

Hope you guys talked in the phone or did video call, if not you could be talking to slawomirr and his likes.

She wants to travel and see you, is it with her money?

Two things are involved.

1. It's either he recorded it without her consent or 2. She knew she was being recorded.

If it happened without her consent then she should go to the police, of she is reluctant, it's either she still cares about the guy or she agreed to the recording.

Either way if I were you I'll japa, reputation is everything, imagine your reputation in the streets when guys start to dey laff you say your babe na osho free, even other girls go even dey avoid you as fuckup man wey love done blind.

And if you want to somehow prove to her that you got her back in this trying times, just know women are not built to appreciate this kind of gesture of solidarity, in the back of their mind they'll conclude that you are weak and she is the best that you can do that's why you don't have the balls to leave.

If you stay she'll respect you less, and I no go lie you, she fit still go sleep with that guy again....

Girls don't respect guys who push for their commitment first, they see you as not having enough options, girls know guys who other girls find attractive are not eager to commit or make things exclusive, because they still want access to other women( women know this because they have tried to get commitment from men they were attracted to and didn't succeed).

Only you dey push for sex, only you still dey push for commitment, making her the prize, and giving you no power or leverage in the relationship.

Be patient if she truly likes you she would ask you the famous line "what are we?" "where is this going" "what do I tell my friends, they are asking who you are to me". If she doesn't push to be exclusive don't bring it up or you go suffer am, no say I no tell you.

I created this thread for that guy who said he has been asking girls out and they keep saying no. Women want men that other women want and they know from experience that only men who lack biitches push for exclusivity.

Go act skits
Do music....
Sell a under 21 a Dream and have her steal her father's money so you can start a business.

30 years old man.

MadamVanessa:
The way and manner you lots here draw conclusion on things makes me wonder the type of people I am sharing Nairaland with.

So you went from house to house of people to know that they are not watching gulder ultimate hence you came with this ?

I know you don't have sense, but pretend as if you have it small, the organizers are complaining that nobody is watching because no nudity, even on nairaland there is no publicity by the "bring back GUS crew "

You guys had nothing good to say about bbnaija, and you called for gulder ultimate search, now that gulder ultimate search is here you guys are not watching it.

Is that not witch craft?

Senior men I dey market loud, abeg if you get connect I dey enter anywhere for PH if the price is right, hotel, hostels, cribs etc

Weda house party o, birthday o, i let game.

Pm me abeg

Bola146:
What happened? I was referring to Op .

then look well, before you quote

Bola146:
alawada kerikeri. I know your type already time waster and Oniranu

hope you have big yansh, if not don't quote me again.

Fables from the era of merlin

Example of mothers prettier than their daughters:

Bianca ojukwu
Genevieve Nnaji

Plus one case in my street like that, the daughter took the fathers oshiomole looks.

Is it fair?
Make suitor no leave daughter dey chase mama o

Please i need to know those men married to or datingcircumcised women what has been your experience sexually?

How are you coping?

What if you meet guy man wey bring ashawoo to pretend as him gf, while you go bring your real gf make him straff.

She is now our gf

She may have cheated.

When she prepares your favorite meal out of the blues and it's not your birthday, she never buys you anything, suddenly she buys you an T-shirt and a wrist watch out the blues and you are smiling like a goat.

Sometimes women do these things as an indirect apology to make themselves feel better about cheating on you.

Note: I am not saying if she does something nice for you she is cheating o, what I'm saying is you should check well if it's not something she usually does.

Hayee:
toor
It doesn't stop the truth

what is the truth?