Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 4:44pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
teekay22: Okay cool How many years experience do u have 0, I think those people that have experience will go for the "experience hire" |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
kachii77: after filling all the required stuff how do you now apply for the particular role you want?? after you've logged in, click on the button that's on the top-left hand of your screen/phone, you'll see graduate trainee and experience hire under "jobs", select the one you want to apply for, after then, you'll see; science, social science etc, click on one of them(depending on your course), then you will see "APPLY NOW", that's all bro! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 2:24pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
teekay22: Same challenge I had It won’t show but it’s there i think so, because I tried downloading my CV and I downloaded it; meaning, it's there |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 2:22pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Graduate trainee |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 10:21am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Has anybody applied for oil and gas job that was posted here yesterday?, I just finished with the registration and I was not sent a confirmation email |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 4:41pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Tobigab12: They are on recess till ending of this month. thanks! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 4:17pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Urgent! I want to visit NASS tomorrow but I don't know if they're on recess(break)... I don't want to waste my money. Who knows if they're around or not? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 7:01am On Jun 22, 2020 |
Olumyyde: No think am like dat. Ur time will come too. GOD is able. you no go understand bros, Amen! and thanks anyways |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 9:44pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
Abcdx: Please I need sincere response which one is better in payment PTDF and FIRS?? please my people respond..
thank you all  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 8:58pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
CBNwords: My brother, God no go shame us o.. e go click oneday. E fit no be today, e fit no be tomorrow or even next tomorrow, but oneday, e go click and that day, na testimonies go dey follow amen brother! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 3:55pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 9:30pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Heineken: TammyAnybody boss morning. How's everything? I sent a pm. Heineken baba, Abeg if anything update or link dey, I carry God Wey you Dey serve beg you, carry me along Abeg! God no go shame you o PS: if you see this post and there's any way you can help me, PLEASE! HELP ME... because of God |
Romance › Re: My Friends Busty Sister by daben1(m): 9:06am On Jun 14, 2020 |
Which kind fake story be this? Party was going on and you went outside without your colleague and the sister followed you, then you Fucck am and the brother no look for you or his sister... And some people already believed this rubbish |
Romance › Re: Help Ooo. My Girlfriend Of One Week Is Pregnant. by daben1(m): 1:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Farki: My guy you are being taken for a ride, nothing she said is a consistent with being pregnant because it takes at least 2 weeks for after her first missed period to show signs.
How can you tell me that after 5 day she's pregnant with no tests to confirm?
Even the circumstances leading up to this make no sense, how will a girl open legs for you after few days of meeting, not use use BC or protection and you won't be a little bit suspicious?
Maybe she was pregnant before and wants to use you as a mugu.
Don't be a mugu, get proper sex education. exactly my thought, the OP self Dey make me laugh |
Romance › Re: Help Ooo. My Girlfriend Of One Week Is Pregnant. by daben1(m): 1:17pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
skymight: I say she is shy cox she cover her face when I am bleeping her. She has bleep someone else before which is her first boyfriend then I am the second one. she did left the house after begging her. All the blame is on me I accepted all I need now is a way to get out as soon as I find out if truly she is pregnant or not then I will break up immediately cox I do not want complication on my life. you have a very fragile brain, you can easily be deceived by people's pretence |
Romance › Re: Help Ooo. My Girlfriend Of One Week Is Pregnant. by daben1(m): 12:03pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
skymight: I have not taught about that. Funny enough this girl is a very shy person bro. I doubt if she Bleep someone else. she never leaves the house. If she is pregnant then I am definitely the owner but I am not ready now bro. she's shy, you doubt if she has fuccked someone else, she never leaves the house but she's not shy to fucck you, she left the house to come and Bleep you... At early 20 you suppose Don get sense na, what happened to your sense at early 20? |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Weirdest Thing You Have Done To Survive? by daben1(m): 9:16am On Jun 05, 2020 |
XXLMANDIGO: I trekked about 12 Miles to get some money from my benefactor. bro, you know wetin be "miles" so? |
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Politics › Re: Nationwide Curfew Now 10pm To 4am – FG by daben1(m): 7:00pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
In other words, from 4 am to 9pm corona will rest then resume from 10 to 4am... This country self, I just like the way everybody is living their normal lives without giving a Bleep about this corona virus. PS: we're waiting for today's number o, let's see what we have today |
Romance › Re: Hack Any Facebook Account Without Phone Number PHOTOS by daben1(m): 3:40pm On May 29, 2020 |
Why is the process not working,or is it because its Facebook lite? |
Properties › Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by daben1(m): 3:05pm On May 29, 2020 |
Is this the new way of writing on nairaland? |
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Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Arrested By Police In Lekki (video) by daben1(m): 2:54pm On May 28, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by daben1(m): 8:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
charlesELIKIBA: HELLP NAIRALANDERS
I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.
My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.
Aready they had 4 children, all boys.
The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.
Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).
It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.
I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.
In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.
Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.
I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.
Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.
I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.
PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.
Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.
YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.
I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.
Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.
YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.
So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).
Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.
NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.
WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?
After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.
It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.
i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow) january this year i bought my 3rd car. i travel round the world effortlessly. YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.
I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.
So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.
Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.
At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station. I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence. concerning the topic, I don't have anything to say, I'm just happy with your success story |
Romance › Re: My Choleric Sister's Action Pushed Me To Start Sleeping With Her Husband. by daben1(m): 6:23pm On May 27, 2020 |
donephi: Such a lame and unintelligent comment from a very docile person. This country is the way it is because of people like you. LOL, accepted, so where's the country now since there are people like you? |
Romance › Re: My Choleric Sister's Action Pushed Me To Start Sleeping With Her Husband. by daben1(m): 1:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
OFFICIAL336: .Ewedu thinking. Ndi Igbo help themselves more than any tribe I've been staying in the east all my life bro, how I wish the girls named can be disclosed, e sure me say Na nyamiri |
Romance › Re: My Choleric Sister's Action Pushed Me To Start Sleeping With Her Husband. by daben1(m): 6:53am On May 27, 2020 |
I'm 101% sure you're from the east; sorry to say, but I'll say, people from there maltreat their relatives as if it's thier culture, if you no come be their relative, ololoooo |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by daben1(m): 10:22am On May 25, 2020 |
DanseMacabre: Lol.
My brother, I can fully assure you of one thing.
It will end in tears. firat class tears bro... One thing I always tell my guys is that; people especially adults don't change |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by daben1(m): 10:21am On May 25, 2020 |
You're still thinking, continue thinking, when you finish thinking, we'll start our own thinking |
Romance › Re: Toni Braxton, 52, Show Her Nude Picture To Show Off Her Incredible Body(photo) by daben1(m): 10:14am On May 25, 2020 |
The pant tear abi Na so e be? |
Romance › Re: Corper Blessing Visited 3 Days Ago And Something Happened [Picture] by daben1(m): 1:49pm On May 24, 2020 |
"Corper blessing visited 3 days ago and something happened", so what happened? |
Romance › Re: See Why I Broke Up With Her. Women Are Not Honest. by daben1(m): 11:04am On May 24, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA: Lol, I'm sure your cranium is in your head, lol. Anyways, na im sabi. once he notices that he's an idiot and this his new girlfriend does not call him an idiot, he'll dump her for not calling him an idiot... |