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UndauntedYOCA:
Ridiculous reason! If she had told you that you had a big head wouldn't you have complained about being body shamed? What do we really want? If she's been really good to you then I don't see why you should end things because of this.

you can imagine the excuse/reason o... People Wey get big head no Dey get anything inside, and my head too is big o

Oh! OK, you broke up with your babe because she's not been telling you how big your head is, abi? It seems your head is "big for nothing"

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

It's obvious you don't know the meaning of "encouragementl

DenreleDave:
She has had sex once but she isn't a virgin... So u trust her.. She stays in Lagos, u stay in ph

prior 2d time u had sex, she has had sex just once and u can confirm that bcoz she is tight.. Keep deceiving urself sogbo..



I send upon u the spirit to receive sense..

Make God provide 4u so dt u can get money to borrow and continue taking ur injection in peace

all of you are just saying my mind

Hannae:
I have been following this thread long enough. I have some personal opinions about this employment. It’s not an attack on anyone plssss. Feel free to also correct me where necessary:
1. I dnt think any employment is currently happening reason being that this covid (real or not) has affected the economy. I dnt think it’s the govts priority to employ anyone at this moment. All the applications done before the covid might take a while Before they are being reviewed self and most staff have not even resumed office. Especially those that stay in the outskirts of abj and lagos hardly come to town. So if half the employees are at home, then how do we expect employment to take place? I feel we need to give it a few months before we start talking about this employment with full force because as of now, I dnt think anything is happening even with those claiming underground connection.
2. My friend is a senators niece and she tld me two months ago that her uncle gave her 2 letters. One for NCC and the other for NERC and both organizations rejected her. That they have too many letters from senators and it’s getting to much for them. I also remember that her uncle (the senator) once telling me that it’s easier to get a job under the committee they are heading rather than letters to any organization of your choice. So for now, I think he’s going to give her a job under his committee although Most organizations under it dnt really pay well. So let’s see that happens.
3. Lastly, before the lockdown, I got a letter from an influential senator but I got it a week before lockdown officially started and truth be tld I dnt know if the letter would mean anything after the lockdown. Before I got the letter, I was tld that do I know how many letters from senators and ministers that organization has rejected? that I would need another influential person to talk to the md on my behalf and let the letter just serve as an added advantage. so that means connection on top of connection! Smh. I was able to get the influential person who knows the md personally and was even willing to take me to the organization to meet the md before all this covid Wahala started. Like I said before, I dnt know if the letter would mean anything for now.
To sum up everything I said up there, this job thing is not abcd. Yes some people are lucky to get it easy but Those that aren’t have to be extra patient and prayerful. Not look at themselves as failures. It’s not really our fault but a product of a very corrupt system. that’s by the way. Let also let’s not allow ourselves to get duped all because of they are desperate. May God hlp us all

kai, aunty you get connect o, I envy you o

Dblock89:
The reason I said so is because,
1-You will need money for your transportation to work daily

2-You will need money for your feeding daily

3- You need money to buy good clothes for work
4-You need money to pay for your rent because if you were staying with someone when you start working everything changes nobody want to hear that you are not collecting salary and same goes to your girlfriend and family as well, so brother it is impossible to change this narrative perhaps sentiment.

I get you bro, if small small bonuses are coming in, I'm good!
PS remove that(@Bold) please, it's far from being a priority

Dblock89:
Oga this is almost impossible now because you can't be working for someone for a year without getting even 30% of your salary, why not just tell the person to be collecting some percentage of your salary monthly so that you can pay your bills monthly with the one left with you.

bro, with the situation of things, it's possible o, very very possible, if I see person to help me like that, I'm ready, I've been surviving, so I'll survive

kingRagnarr:
Fedral mortgage bank get paid twice a month they get 161k in the middle of the month nd 70k at the end of the month nd they get some allowances nd also have housing nd furnitures which is around 900k every December

chai! If I see who will give me a job here, I don't mind the person taking 80% of my salary for one year, infact, he should take all my salary for one year, I don't mind

Do what gives you happiness, no allow small pikin Dey control you like remote

ojun50:
Most girls are like this

Why not call her one on one talk some sense into her before thinking of ending the relationship.

bro, someone that's in her 20s, you still want to "talk sense into her", LOl, people, especially ADULTS, don't change. You can only change a kid, not an adult, always remember this!

chlowi:
had a breakup during this lockdown. its been so hard beixng indoors with a heartbreak

pele!

since April 19, story never complete?

Tebag:
My pple I greet happy new month just got a job at unizik as a technologist 11 contis07 but I heard the pay isn't good not even up to 100k. E no worth am o.. Please how true is this. Thanks.

congrats, use that one hold body first

Bigflamie:
Bro, there is nothing like being cynical here. I find this your post disturbing, I can't imagine a full grown adult checking on a child who is bathing outside. And you have to create a thread for it?

I don't just know what's wrong with people this period.

stop being a hypocrite, howany secs does it take you to know that a girl is developing breast?

baldman:
Dear OP, Please keep moving on, and I advice you move on really fast. You should thank God that you got to know about her promiscuity early enough. You should never look past any act of cheating in a committed relationship ( meaning a relationship where both of you have professed love for one another, and are both looking for something that will be long term) . It is a huge red flag, and any kind of feeling that will make one want to continue with someone who has cheated is not a healthy one. I dare say it comes from the confusion caused by the unhealthy bonding which sex before marriage brings about ( Sorry, I digressed). The reason why cheating should not be condoned is that a successful marriage is built on trust. It is hard to trust someone who has once betrayed one's trust. You do not want to spend your whole life monitoring your wife. Moreover, cheaters are bound to lie, and there is nothing worse than marrying an irredeemable liar ( she cried even though she knew it was a lie). Again, you don't want to spend the rest of your life doing fact check every time you wife tells you something. It is even more terrible if you marry into a family where they have low moral standard. The girl's mother's reaction shows that cheating is acceptable in their world. Would she beg her son to marry such a girl? She is also highly manipulative ( the girl probably got that from her mum) the begging and cursing are way of trying to manipulate you. Her prayers and curses has no weight, just delete her number and her daughters and move on. There are seven lessons that I think you should learn from this, and I will outline them for other single guys to note as well.

1. Do not marry any girl who does not regard you as a bestie or maintains an opposite sex as a bestie even after meeting you. If you find that you are not able to overthrow her previous besties( not by force but by charm, conscious show of affection and commitment), work towards establishing friendship first. Under normal circumstances, the besties should gradually fade away as your friendship deepens. You know you have won when you are the one that has to remind her to check up on her friends or they have to befriend you to maintain her attention.
2. Do not marry a lady that is manipulative. She cried to manipulate him, she introduced the boyfriend in order to manipulate both of them. She got the Mum involved to manipulate him.
3. Do not marry someone that can lie convincingly over any matter whether having to do with infidelity or not. Liars should be avoided unless you want to be a life-long investigative journalist. Lying should be a deal breaker. If you discover one lie, you bet there are a thousand others still hidden.
4. Watch the family you want to marry into, speak to those who are married to their children, ask questions around their neighborhood or community. If they do not have values that aligns with yours, do not marry their daughter. Every girl you marry comes with a baggage - her family. Choose your wife having regard to the quality of her baggage. They will determine if you marriage will work or not. If a man report such a thing to some mothers, the mother will be too ashamed to call the boyfriend.
5. If you got her to sleep with you cheaply, if she does not think sex is something special that should be reserved, be careful about going on with her. If all of her exes got her just because they were dating, and you got her too because you guys are dating (no indication of something serious) be careful. I feel when young well raised men experience sex before marriage, they tend to bond with the partner to soon, and the judgment gets clouded. I will say, follow the word of God, but if you can't I will say, keep sex off the table until you are sure you know this person well enough to make a clear headed decision, and you are committed to them.
6. Always look out for loyalty and compassion in any girl you want to be with. The urge to misbehave will be there for every couple, both male and female, but people who have sense of loyalty will be hard to be swayed, and those who will just remember there partner and think, he does not deserve to be treated like this, may likely try to resist tempting situation.
7. Never marry a girl that does not respect the sanctity of marriage. Any girl that is quick to suggest divorce, any girl that thinks it is ok to date several men at a time, any girl that will selfishly date a married man should be a No-No.

perfect!

99.9% of all the comments(advise) are all the same, you should be thanking God that you caught her and not asking for advise... As for her mother, she's a bad influence whose daughter is leaving her (past or even present) life

Roma10:
I Wanted asking same question¿
Madam are u normal

i don't think HE is, that's a guy behind that moniker

JasonJidenna:
Very easy to identify TROLLS...


The guy's giving the Op advise are just wasting their time.

OP is a guy looking for attention...

Their:




Please, I need word of encouragement now. He is not strong enough financially to have a family.

madam! Are you OK?

LMFAO, oloshos will always be oloshos
Don't worry, we already know you're that your friend

Dominatrix:
I'd rather keep this info to myself.... Lol. Its funny but not funny

na you sabi

How many people have started making the money from here?

mrofficial042:
i won't advice you to deposit though

What are the other options they gave you to to remove the captcha

bros, I've been trying to login with the bitbot app all to no avail, how do I enable the 2 factor authentication?

Folsbal:
hello nairaland folks
I have been following this trend lately it has been very interesting congratulations to our friends that have gotten jobs from here and to those of us still striving to get God will do ours
I have an issue to discuss here
sometimes around February I got a slot from one of our politician in my local government which he offered for 450k he has done it for people and it's legit but due to funds I was unable to secured
I tried asking him which of the agencies or ministries
he state FAAN,FIRS and ministry of transportation that there vacancies in those places
but my issue now is my mum called him recently and he said the slot is still on we even had to go see him personally
he explained so many things that things are going underground and they are just waiting for these pandemic to be over then they finalize the list and am to wait to 60-90days before APL comes out .down payment 250k first then after APL you balance
please house I need your advise house

a politician wants to collect 450k before giving you a job, your own senator, God go punish am