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Tobigab12:
They are on recess till ending of this month.

thanks!

Urgent! I want to visit NASS tomorrow but I don't know if they're on recess(break)... I don't want to waste my money. Who knows if they're around or not?

Olumyyde:
No think am like dat. Ur time will come too. GOD is able.

you no go understand bros, Amen! and thanks anyways

Abcdx:
Please I need sincere response which one is better in payment PTDF and FIRS??
please my people respond..

thank you all

CBNwords:
My brother, God no go shame us o.. e go click oneday. E fit no be today, e fit no be tomorrow or even next tomorrow, but oneday, e go click and that day, na testimonies go dey follow

amen brother!

I've been following this thread since it was still at page 90, I was hoping I'll share my testimony before it reaches 100-150, now it's 327, getting to 400, still, NOTHING...
PLEASE if anybody has any small job, not even federal job again, the person should have mercy on me please... No matter the pay, I'm in Abuja. God bless!

Heineken:
TammyAnybody boss morning. How's everything? I sent a pm.

Heineken baba, Abeg if anything update or link dey, I carry God Wey you Dey serve beg you, carry me along Abeg! God no go shame you o

PS: if you see this post and there's any way you can help me, PLEASE! HELP ME... because of God

Which kind fake story be this? Party was going on and you went outside without your colleague and the sister followed you, then you Fucck am and the brother no look for you or his sister... And some people already believed this rubbish

Farki:
My guy you are being taken for a ride, nothing she said is a consistent with being pregnant because it takes at least 2 weeks for after her first missed period to show signs.

How can you tell me that after 5 day she's pregnant with no tests to confirm?

Even the circumstances leading up to this make no sense, how will a girl open legs for you after few days of meeting, not use use BC or protection and you won't be a little bit suspicious?

Maybe she was pregnant before and wants to use you as a mugu.

Don't be a mugu, get proper sex education.

exactly my thought, the OP self Dey make me laugh

skymight:
I say she is shy cox she cover her face when I am bleeping her. She has bleep someone else before which is her first boyfriend then I am the second one. she did left the house after begging her. All the blame is on me I accepted all I need now is a way to get out as soon as I find out if truly she is pregnant or not then I will break up immediately cox I do not want complication on my life.

you have a very fragile brain, you can easily be deceived by people's pretence

skymight:
I have not taught about that. Funny enough this girl is a very shy person bro. I doubt if she Bleep someone else. she never leaves the house. If she is pregnant then I am definitely the owner but I am not ready now bro.

she's shy, you doubt if she has fuccked someone else, she never leaves the house but she's not shy to fucck you, she left the house to come and Bleep you... At early 20 you suppose Don get sense na, what happened to your sense at early 20?

XXLMANDIGO:
I trekked about 12 Miles to get some money from my benefactor.

bro, you know wetin be "miles" so?

In other words, from 4 am to 9pm corona will rest then resume from 10 to 4am... This country self, I just like the way everybody is living their normal lives without giving a Bleep about this corona virus.
PS: we're waiting for today's number o, let's see what we have today

Why is the process not working,or is it because its Facebook lite?

Is this the new way of writing on nairaland?

Millenniumlady:
Bobrisky and police station are like 5&6

I swear

charlesELIKIBA:
HELLP NAIRALANDERS

I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.

My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.

Aready they had 4 children, all boys.

The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.

Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).

It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.

I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.

In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.

Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.

I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.

Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.

I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.

PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.

Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.


YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.

I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.

Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.


YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer
please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.

So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).

Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.

NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.

WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?

After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.

It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.

i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow)
january this year i bought my 3rd car.
i travel round the world effortlessly.
YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.

I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.


So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.

Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.

At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station.
I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence.

concerning the topic, I don't have anything to say, I'm just happy with your success story

donephi:
Such a lame and unintelligent comment from a very docile person. This country is the way it is because of people like you.

LOL, accepted, so where's the country now since there are people like you?

OFFICIAL336:
.Ewedu thinking. Ndi Igbo help themselves more than any tribe

I've been staying in the east all my life bro, how I wish the girls named can be disclosed, e sure me say Na nyamiri

I'm 101% sure you're from the east; sorry to say, but I'll say, people from there maltreat their relatives as if it's thier culture, if you no come be their relative, ololoooo

DanseMacabre:
Lol.

My brother, I can fully assure you of one thing.


It will end in tears.

firat class tears bro... One thing I always tell my guys is that; people especially adults don't change

You're still thinking, continue thinking, when you finish thinking, we'll start our own thinking

The pant tear abi Na so e be?

"Corper blessing visited 3 days ago and something happened", so what happened?

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, I'm sure your cranium is in your head, lol. Anyways, na im sabi.

once he notices that he's an idiot and this his new girlfriend does not call him an idiot, he'll dump her for not calling him an idiot...

UndauntedYOCA:
Ridiculous reason! If she had told you that you had a big head wouldn't you have complained about being body shamed? What do we really want? If she's been really good to you then I don't see why you should end things because of this.

you can imagine the excuse/reason o... People Wey get big head no Dey get anything inside, and my head too is big o

Oh! OK, you broke up with your babe because she's not been telling you how big your head is, abi? It seems your head is "big for nothing"

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

It's obvious you don't know the meaning of "encouragementl

DenreleDave:
She has had sex once but she isn't a virgin... So u trust her.. She stays in Lagos, u stay in ph

prior 2d time u had sex, she has had sex just once and u can confirm that bcoz she is tight.. Keep deceiving urself sogbo..



I send upon u the spirit to receive sense..

Make God provide 4u so dt u can get money to borrow and continue taking ur injection in peace

all of you are just saying my mind

Hannae:
I have been following this thread long enough. I have some personal opinions about this employment. It’s not an attack on anyone plssss. Feel free to also correct me where necessary:
1. I dnt think any employment is currently happening reason being that this covid (real or not) has affected the economy. I dnt think it’s the govts priority to employ anyone at this moment. All the applications done before the covid might take a while Before they are being reviewed self and most staff have not even resumed office. Especially those that stay in the outskirts of abj and lagos hardly come to town. So if half the employees are at home, then how do we expect employment to take place? I feel we need to give it a few months before we start talking about this employment with full force because as of now, I dnt think anything is happening even with those claiming underground connection.
2. My friend is a senators niece and she tld me two months ago that her uncle gave her 2 letters. One for NCC and the other for NERC and both organizations rejected her. That they have too many letters from senators and it’s getting to much for them. I also remember that her uncle (the senator) once telling me that it’s easier to get a job under the committee they are heading rather than letters to any organization of your choice. So for now, I think he’s going to give her a job under his committee although Most organizations under it dnt really pay well. So let’s see that happens.
3. Lastly, before the lockdown, I got a letter from an influential senator but I got it a week before lockdown officially started and truth be tld I dnt know if the letter would mean anything after the lockdown. Before I got the letter, I was tld that do I know how many letters from senators and ministers that organization has rejected? that I would need another influential person to talk to the md on my behalf and let the letter just serve as an added advantage. so that means connection on top of connection! Smh. I was able to get the influential person who knows the md personally and was even willing to take me to the organization to meet the md before all this covid Wahala started. Like I said before, I dnt know if the letter would mean anything for now.
To sum up everything I said up there, this job thing is not abcd. Yes some people are lucky to get it easy but Those that aren’t have to be extra patient and prayerful. Not look at themselves as failures. It’s not really our fault but a product of a very corrupt system. that’s by the way. Let also let’s not allow ourselves to get duped all because of they are desperate. May God hlp us all

kai, aunty you get connect o, I envy you o