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FXKing2012: You dont make a change just for the sake of making a change, u make a change for the better and the reaction and input of the people/customers MUST be considered cos the customer is always right!

This is a business advice coming from a business guru, if not taken I dont see myself staying on Nairaland for long cos I no fit come spoil my eyes for here.[/color]

beylinko: During our discusions she told me she is in a relationship and she also said wat i know abt her is all i should know 4 now. . .
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Finally,2days ago we saw again in her shop and i told her we should move our friendship 2 anoda level that i don't hv much time 2 waste dat i really like her(blah blah)

when i tell her 2 hv a swt nite rest, she responded amen"

Idowuogbo: It depends on ur swaggs and confidence,I don't see d big deal if a guy walks up to toast a friend in our midst.

BUT! Don't try to be cocky wiv it.

IRAPADA: watin concern u AMEBO

Amyr: Ridiculous! I believe in God's will myself and defy this' pastor believing nonsense! No pastor or prophet has climbed to the highest top of personal purity enough to assume such a lordly role over the personal affairs of the church members. He is supposed only to share in personal victory and fight in mutual battle. This pastor's role is as much as a gossip. It is just unethical. Are we sure this pastor is not jealous of the lady's happiness, maybe her joy will bleak his joy with his wife? Forgive me if you need to but pastors are not gods, but treasures in clay

penelope9: Hi nairalanders, i have a friend who is married but she can,t really say how is even got herself involve with her husband which she said have no VISIONS and PLANS for the FUTURE,her marriage is just 2years old she said ever since she married her husband he has being running his own business and the business is less successfull because of his bad habits,and when she confront him about how bad he is running the business,he would tell her HE WAS BORN THAT WAY and now the business has finally crumbled during the period the husband was running the business with borrowed money she doesn,t even know the financial stand of the man and the business for when he wanted to marry her the LIEING HUSBAND painted himself as a millionaire who have what it takes to run a successful business aside all this the man is very lazy in the sense that he hardly read his books and make plan for himself,he have no good sense of judgement and at this moment he stays at home from FROM MORNING TILL DAWN,GIVING THE WIFE COMMAND AT ALL TIMES AS HE HARDLY DO ANYTHING FOR HIMSELF EVEN TO CLEAN HIS SHOE HE CANNOT.Aside all this that she is tolerating,he TELLS LIES LIKE THE DEVIL HIMSELF,when he spoil or misplace things in the house he will put the blame on HER CHILDREN.My friend is considering living him for good and have nothing to loose.What is your opinions nairaland should she leave or stay.

::Andrew:::
I swear if u see akwa-ibom list you wish to have this your ibo list.

Ejiné: Okay. . . I need to be honest.
My girl and I have been dating since the late '05. I've introduced her to my older siblings, not as a "future wife" or anything, but as a girlfriend at the time (you know what I mean).
In our relationship though, I've been a bit conservative with 'questions' regarding her past, because I'm too careful (to a fault) in order to avoid making the people around me feel 'uncomfortable'. All the things she's told me about herself have been out of her own free will; because in our relationship, she's the extrovert (while I'm the opposite). She's adventurous (sexxually), but also emotionally fragile.

But my real problems began this January.
There's this mounting pressure on me to get married; both from parents, siblings, cousins, and even the girl herself (She hasn't been blunt per se, but I can tell from her recent talks about all her friends, roommates and colleagues getting hitched up). And even taking into consideration some sacrifices she's made for me, I'd find it difficult to forgive myself if I didn't make our union official.
However, I still have my doubts about her checkered past. Stories from my female cousin who went to the same Igbinedion Secondary School boarding house with her in her hometown back at Benin, tell me about her very loose sexxual past; about her evening sneak-outs, her 'tag-team' blah blah blah and the rest of that craap. You know, all those freakishly nasty things some people would rather forget about themselves. I wouldn't have given a damn, really, if my cousin hadn't finished it up with one final disturbing question . . . "How sure are you she hasn't even washed some out?"
Now, I'm not one to punish or treat people badly about things they long did when our paths hadn't crossed, but mehn! I was raised in a staunch Catholic family, and our views regarding the marriage institution are rather extreme - "If you can't do it in one take, don't even try at all."
I don't want to ask her these nasty questions, but it would suck if such a hideous secret only starts to gain visibility after we've wed. I could care less about how many men she's slept with (cuz I wasn't exactly Mr. Squeaky-Clean myself in my 'dorm dayz'); but it's this abortion thing that really bothers me.

What if she's lost her ability to have a child? How would I know? I don't want to ask her these troubling questions, but I also don't want to live without this vital info.
Please, ladies and enlightened peeps, are there any 'physical signs' through which I can find out?
Abeg, I no wan chop disgrace 

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Chimezie198: They just conclude your trying to woo d lady.
Why?

Inked_Nerd: @OP: I personally don't expect a call all time. As long as I know you're alive and I can see you now and then, then that's fine by me. Whatever method the guy chooses to make it known that he's alive is fine by me. Whether na smoke signal, talking drum, or cell phone

~Bluetooth:
Something is wrong with seun.whoever told him to adopt this nonsense should be stoned.nl now looks like that becomrich site .Finding posts is stressful,no display of recent post when replying.does anyone know seun mobile number so i can talk with him ?

kelz88: There's more to a person than their height.

~Killz~:
A lot of lies have been told on this forum about Nigerian girls. . . A lot of guys believe the stereotypical lies until they experience the positivity firsthand. . . When someone tries to refute the allegation as false, he becomes a woman wrapper. . . Shows you why i'm quick to use "dumb" on such ones. . .