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freecocoa: Walk up to her and say

Excuse me shawty
I've been seeing you for sometime now
and i like almost everything about you except
the fact that you hardly notice me,anyway
i forgive you for that,I'm the one you've been
waiting for all your life so let's get it started.
I have so much money,inshort bebe ayam made
just come and chop money with me.

If she doesn't agree after you tell her this know that my name is not [color=#419419]Natasha.[/color]

Now I know why it didn't work.

If I were the op, I would have woken up. This is undiluted nightmare. @op, please change that dream of yours. It's not good for you

Hardunnii: Why not embrace your culture and stop looking up to the white for approval

in our culture, we do not kneel down to propose to a girl. We walk straght to your father and his YES is final. In our culture, the more male children you have, the more respect you are given. In our culture, you wouldn't ever dream of attempting gender equality. . . You girls derive pleasure from using argument(s) to satisfy your greedy selves. If you want to be an African, be 100% African!

I was reading this post but I just had to stop when I got to the emphasized part below : [quote author=gree-die]Good question, awaitin replies...
op, its not african to propose to a lady( i tink), its sometin we learnt from d whites, more like a borrowed tradition. [color=#419419]I tink d idea is to remind d lady dt though d guy is undeservin of her love, he is ready to try to meet up to expectation[/color], always love nd cherish ha d way she deserves nd to always remember dt she was sent from God to put color in d life of d guy. Bottomline, it mks d lady feel lyk her love is not bein taken for granted, plus she feels powerful, lol, wen a guy kneels.

its as important as d couple makes it, it shouldnt be overrated though...jst my opinion[/quote]

ifihearam: @dabrake
So you rush 3 rounds on your first day and na 300l you disvirgin?omo you nor quick spoil sha




@ ayosmiles

I dunno what these so called Aunties they find for small boys prick,I can tell they never enjoyed it,but mine was steady bleeping for her until she moved out of our hood.

na the disappointment wey been dey the girl face na him cause am. I been wan redeem my image. I been spoil tey tey but I been too shy. Na something just make me go violent from my 300L. Again, considering the fact say I no go marry virgin, . . .

BodyKiss: Op na total overhauling you need. First you need to work on your self confidence, then how to approach women. The skill of approaching women is not a fix quick thingy. #startreading

exactly. There is no permanent move in approaching a girl 'cause what one girl may like, another might not. My own style is to get her like me. I have a way of doing that. With that done, my job will be 97% complete

maclatunji: Parents, I hope you are reading. Get your kids away from family and neighbours who show more than a passing interest in your kids. These things happen all the time and it gets worse with all the highly sexed-up world we live in.

oga, lock up jare.

That was march last year. I was a 300L student then. I just installed 2go app on my phone and I got started. Things happened then one day, I was in one of the rooms where one girl needed help. Finally, I found 'favour' in her eyes. . . We got talking and I told her I wanted to see her but she told me she was cashless. Due to this, I had to send her mtn N1,500 so that she'ld sell it and visit me(she's based at Ikot Ekpene while I was in Uyo). . . We later met and we got down to business. Omo, I no last reach 8secs before i c.o.m.e. The girl vex die. I come go another 2 rounds. Omo, na so my colleagues call me say we get impromptu test oh. Me wey don weak begin dey drag myself go class. Despite say I been wan form my 'military' footsteps, na from far many guys begin dey ask me whether I just Zap. . .

Alright. Like I posted earlier, it's no big deal. I can also do same.

@goodGirl, i had to check if you were the originator of this thread. I do not get it. Are you seeking our opinions or you are just trying to defend why it is wrong for a woman to kneel down to beg her bf/hubby? If you knew the answer, why ask us? @topic, I can kneel down to beg her even if I ain't at fault. 2 wrongs will never make a right. At least, let it be in the records that I, to my very best, tried not to let her leave despite her being rigid. At least, kneeling down to beg her is no recipe for lassa fever

Seun: Quiet, shy, but ambitious and intelligent and kind.

Na who say make you add your own or abi them ask that one here?

Good Girl: God bless you! Am actually not talking about being submissive and all that shebang. I just want to know why some women must PLEAD with the men who want to leave them, other than just walking out of the relationship with dignity. Pleading isn't necessarily an act of submitting. I believe a woman can submit to a man without losing her dignity.

what chu saying? I hope you will never eat your words.

seal777: even before i read the piece, i guess right that those in charge of the stolen foods re females......cos a guy woudnt mind getting to the venue before coming back to dress up but females will be pre occupied with dressing up for the occasion. it a nasty experience for the young couple.

Guy, if you wana bash, do it with sense or STFU. I just wasted 10secs of my life reading your post so I deemed it fit to quote you this way so you won't think you exhibited wisdom in your post.

lastpage: Let me relate a "situation" where "kneeling to beg" can change a man's mind, even if it was already made-up and where it did not change naada (just laugh over it and move-on)

1.)This elderly man with grey hairs was driving dangerously by my side and l rolled down and informed him to be careful but he answered with a torrent of insults. He kept on aggressively (the typical Lagos Driver ) but l kept my cool, knowing my position is lawful and sound. Eventually, he pulled down my front bumper, broke one head lamp and bruised the paint work as he overtook me dangerously! Even at that, his "shakara" was up to the heavens! Traffic Police came and though it was very obvious, he was told he was in the wrong and has to bear the cost. At the station, I called-in my mechanic for a "cost of repair estimate" (the old man's vehicle no even get comprehensive insurance!). When he saw the Bill, he suddenly fell flat on his face, begging me! he started this story of how he was just hustling to make a living for his family.
I refused to b e moved knowing how recalcitrant he has been and how much l warned him.
But he would not stop holding my feet (with him prostrating in front of all in the Police Station!
At this point, all l could do was look down on him from my standing position.
All of a sudden, something inside me "clicked" and l shook my head and asked him to stand up.
It was like okay, he appears wretched and what would l do to him now? The Police were willing to seize his vehicle until he could come-up with the money (about 45K plus labor). A lot was going thru my mind and eventually, l succumbed to the "kneeling and begging" even though l was very furious initially.

What l am pointing out here is that YES, some act of sincere remorse like"kneeling and begging when you're wrong, can actually melt a spouse heart in a situation where your mind was already made-up, after-all, no one is perfect. You will forgive and eventually with time, you will overcome the grief (assuming the other party is sincere/ honestly remorseful and not "just scheming" ) after which, with time, you will "forget" the incident.

To the other part of the question: Any one (man/woman) who is hell-bent on leaving, will leave, no mater the amount of rolling on the floor. The difference between this "state" and the first is that, in the first, your decision to leave was based on "anger for what the other party did" and as such, "kind words and sincere remorse" is the "antidote" you are actually expecting. It is adequate.

The second state is such that you have actually "considered" your decision and how the other party will respond (begging) and you have actually zeroed your mind that you will "block your mind and spirit" to its effect (to calm you down) because your "initial goal" was to leave, what happened was just an excuse to actualize your intention in a "justifiable manner". But the begging party does not know your actual intention!

In final analysis, if you wrong your spouse, (of it they claim so), be humble for the sake of the relationship, the past good times, the kids if any, and the future; beg seriously, if need be, kneel/prostrate (depending on the severity of the offense) just to bring things back to normalcy. (I have seen where wife was begging husband for a serious offense and husband burst into tears, begging wife also.....and they lived happily thereafter again! )...asked later why he was crying at that moment when he was supposed to be "blowing hot", he said "he realized that his marriage was just "seconds away from crashing beyond repair" and that he appreciated what his wife did to save the marriage at that moment

Whether they accept the plea or not, is their prerogative, their choice! But l know that "Love overcomes all mistakes".
Except if the love is dead ab-initio

Lastpage!

God bless you jooh. Wetin people dey suffer dey find, e go easy for you like sey you dey inhale air. Something wey go take person 1yr to get, you go get am just at the snap of your fingers.

aboyaji: It depends on who owns the house. If a lady happens to own the house, there is not gonna be any reason for her to kneel before his man to talk of begging him not to leave. But since the house belongs to the man, she can do the kneelling and begging. If you can't , GO HOME IS YOUR NAME.

a very daft reply

I for beat the girl like say she thief phone

Bisjosh: Wђat cld he have done to warrant such rubbish!!!!! [size=60pt]And y cldnt he exhibit self-defense?[color=#419419] ℓ̊ can't ve a slow husband abegggii[/color][/size]

but na your type dey talk say ". . .a real wan should never hit a woman no matter what." or are you eating your own words? Women, . . .

[quote author=Inked_Nerd]1. What will be your response?
Honestly, I'm not sure. Such a proposal would probably seem totally out of left field so I'd be taken aback by it.

2. Will a promise to make you moderator be a boost?
No. I never had a desire to be a moderator so it wouldn't even matter to me.

3. Will a ban threat scare you to say yes?
LMAO, hells no!!! Why would it scare me? I'd just open a new account.
[/quote]and to think a sane person like you will give a sane reply to an insane question from an insane guy, . . .

moHot: 1. what will be your response?

YES OR NO


2. will a promise to make you moderator be a boost?

OH I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WILL BE PART OF THE DEAL IN THAT CASE QUESTION(1) WILL BE A YES ESPECIALLY IF I WON'T JUST BE A MOD BUT A SUPER MOD

3. will a ban threat scare you to say yes?

BAN THREAT? ***shivering*** I WOULD JUST SAY YES , YES AND YES WITHOUT BLINKING AN EYE...GETTING BANNED COULD LEAD TO UNTIMELY DEATH RIGHT?

ladies only.

WITH THESE FEW POINTS OF MINE I HOPW I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO CONVINCE YOU AND NOT TO CONFUSE YOU THAT THIS POST OF YOURS IS.....IDK SHA

the bolded part are the words of my pastor.

NRI PRIEST: A whole Oba did a thing like this ? I swear to almighty God if you do such thing to my blood sister I will end the existence of your manhood!

MODERATOR, WE NEED THIS ON THE FRONT PAGE ASAP! JUST LIKE YOU GUYS HAD THE ABSU INCIDENT ON FRONT PAGE!

bros, if it were your sister, this thread would have been created by you with an additional "what should i do" that will be added to the title. Stop displaying your imaginary strength here. Act!

Sure, I can. And I will even iron them for her

kelz88: How can it even be to anyone's taste? Eurrghh! This is just a no no. And then on one hand all the nails are short and then the other long. Not a good look. It's as bad as back in the day when some women only painted their left hand and not the right, for when they eat eba. Pointless.

is your own trimmed? Lock your fingers up!

@op, cut off your pe[b]n[/b]is and your eyes. It will kill your lust.

rayblue: i have a different opinion from everyone else. Your wife is a suspect. How could she not tell you for two years of ur bad breath? And why did she not tell u before she married you? what sort of a person is she? what kind of a wife is that? How has she been coping all this years when she has not been comfortable having sex with u? My dear u need to really be careful and sort everything out as quickly as possible.

you actually beat me to that.

cynthiafred67: Lie lie i no fit! na charm? i see no reason why i need to kneel down and beg someone that has already made up his mind to leave.

And what if you were at fault? People brag a lot, especially when such scenario have never played itself in their lives. Except you do not love him, . . .

this Killz tori sef go be blockbuster. Oya, I don occupy front sit grab port wine/cherry.