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Please help a Young Mum of 3 feed her children in these hard times.
I'm in dire need of something doing cos the situation of this country is nothing to write home about.
I'm a graduate of Unizik Awka and I studied psychology. I stay in Awka and I just need any job opportunity that will help me feed and care for my kids.
I pray I get help from here.
Thanks and God bless.

Zaheertyler:

My bad ma'am my instincts got the best of me
How are you? And I hope you have forgiven the woman it'll do you more good

I'm doing fine, thank you.
And yes,I have forgiven her.
Thanks for your advice. I truly appreciate.

Makaveli217:
Don't confront the woman again, just avoid her, you can still greet her if you want, that is if she'll answer.
If you have some money to spare, go to market, buy 2 or 3 kettles of different size, and give it to her, make sure her whole family is present while doing so, then forget about it.
After your rent expires, move out.

Thank you.

Foodqueen:
Some has given you the best reply. Chart his son up to clear yourself.

Thank you

Tempulated:


See i have figured out the whole thing now. My advice for you is you and your husband should strive and start looking for financial means to go rent your personal house where you will have rest of mind. It's not easy to stay with house owners in nigeria most especially Lagos on rent free except for some few landlords who are God sent. I also believe If you had come through the mom herself, believe me you won't have one single with her because you women usually like to decide who stays and who leave.

You can try to be friendly with the mom and helping her with chores. I understand you know all these things as a woman but the decision is left with you. If you do this and she is still somehow hostile to your family. You know what your final decision should be. I wish you and your family all the best.

We paid hugely for the house we are staying. It's not rent free .
I guess she wants to bring people that she wants to stay ín the house so she is doing everything to discredit us Infront of her son so we can leave .
Thanks for your advice. I truly appreciate.
I have already made up mind to leave even before our rent expires

Zonefree:

Just stay very far away from her.

Lolz,that's not possible cos we stay in same compound but I will try. Thanks

Zonefree:

You don't have to do that.

The woman has been sick like you said, maybe the sickness don enter her head. The son is aware of this, the reason he replaced the kettle without making noise about it.

Just let it go.

She is not that old so I DNT think it's the sickness.
She has had issues with people in the past that has led to her swearing Infront of a deity. Pple say that's why she got sick.
She even offered to swear that the kettle is hers

Tempulated:


Yes very important because false accusation can tarnish one's image to extent someone wouldn't imagine. Bad news fly faster. Who knows if his mom have relayed the news to her daughters and other people apart from his son. And you know how most of you women behave by believing and supporting your fellow women.

The son is a very matured man as someone as said up there, probably he knows the kind of person his mum is or perhap the sickness is what is still affecting her reason why he didn't bother you. But you might be wondering why he didn't bring the matter to your notice, most families despite their inner challenges, they will never paint themselves bad to outside people. I hope you get it now.

Yes he said it to my husband that his mom behaves somehow that he always disagrees with his mom.

Tempulated:


Okay i get you now.

Proceed to politely chat up the first son by telling him you just want to check on him how he is faring. When he replies and doesn't talk about the matter, Then politely and stylishly tell him there is a matter bothering you and you would like to bring it to his consent and put a light to it. Humbly explain yourself and don't sound like you are accusing his mum. Tell him you are not accusing his mom but God bear your witness you didn't took her kettle.

To live with you Women is not easy. I have been wrongly accused before and i handled it with wisdom.

I will do that politely.
All I want to do is to clear my name cos she has already tarnished my image .

Tempulated:
You moved in with your husband and children?

Yes. It was my husband she told that his wife collected her kettle and my hubby told her I can't do such.

Zaheertyler:

Yes sir from your explanation I hope you understand my reason

I'm a lady ...
I understand your reason .

Zaheertyler:
The son is a mature guy
Die the case

Thank you

My story is long but will make it short Abit.

I moved into a house April this year and the house was given to us by the first Son of the house of which he told us that his mum(whom i have never met) lives in the compound too but she was not around then cos she has been sick so she went to her grown up daughters house to stay for a while.

1month after she came back . That period when she came back, we were not done packing our things inside cos we are still arranging stuffs inside.
She saw me with a kettle that I just brought out of a bag and asked if its mine, I answered yes and she still collected the kettle and checked it out even after I told her it's mine,I just let it slide although It got me angry.

My problem here is that I just found out yesterday morning that this woman told all her children that I took her kettle and all this while I didn't know I was accused of stealing something as little as kettle that I can afford to buy. She even told her son about it and the son had to replace the kettle and nobody told me about it.

I was so hurt and disappointed that all these while this woman has harbored hatred for me when All I have ever shown her is love and respect.
I expected the son to at least ask me about it cos he has my number and it's on WhatsApp but he never did.
I met with the woman and showed her the 2kettle that I own,she still insisted that I took her kettle. That's she patched it somewhere and yet she didn't see any patch in any of the kettle. But she was still convinced that it's her kettle. I had to leave after explaining myself to her.
My problem now is that I feel hurt and insulted and I want to confront her son about it cos I DNT know why she will accuse me of taking something as little as that.
All these while,I stay on my own and mind my business cos I DNT want trouble so I try my best to avoid people and their wahala.

Should I confront the Son or let it slide??

Moderators please move to front page if possible. Thanks

cynthyarella:

Were you able to solve this?

Yes.go to a pharmacy and ask of spleen herbal mixture .they will direct you on how to give the child

Anyone that wants to get their transcript from unizik and get it verified on time should send me a d.m

Please anyone that has successfully treated ama afo (enlarged spleen)in children should please help me out with the remedy
Note: visiting native doctors is not in the picture.
I just suggestions on medication or herbs to give to the child.
Thanks and God bless.

This is better delicacy... Kudos to you.

novia22:
B.A! B.A!! B.A!!!
I welcomed my second Princess on 13th August via VD weighing 3.4kg with tear.
Edd was 13TH too.
My BS will come later.....It wasn't easy but it was all Worth it.
August Cappo...I hail oo

Congratulations Mama. Welcome little princess.

Michelle70:
next time read

Next time,have sense.
I know what I wrote

He does not bathe abi,
But at least he cleans his body with water.
There is a difference.

Gloriagee:
Never heard of the uziza approach too..

I'm sure she made it up herself.

AdaNri1:
I was shocked o
What happened to ogili?
We don’t even use Achi, we use ede (coco yam)

Exactly.only a true anambra person knows this.
What's bitter leaf without ede and ogili?

AdaNri1:
I was shocked o
What happened to ogili?
We don’t even use Achi, we use ede (coco yam)

Exactly.only a true anambra person knows this.
What's bitter leaf without ede and ogili?

judgementyard:


Me too,am from nnewi and we don't add uziza to our bitter leaf soup also.

Op.....THUMBS UP!

I'm from Nnewi too.

We the people of anambra DNT add uziza to our bitter leaf soup at least my own side of anambra. looks yummy tho.

zinny20:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

Thank you Lord! My Foreign Pinky Girl has landed ooo
God is faithful! 39weeks +1 day, Vaginal delivery with little tear,
27-07!
BS! Loading
July Cappo, BA submitted

Congratulations Mama. Welcome princess

Nmamez:
BA
Edd: 27/7/2022
Dob: 27/7/2022

My cute boy has been handed over to me by God. Safe and smooth delivery to the rest of July mamas and other mamas. BS will come up soon.

Cappo ladyrachy , you're indeed a good leader.

Congratulations Mama. Welcome little one

Congratulations to all my July teamies...
Our good Lord is too faithful to fail.
At the beginning of July,it looked like we were dulling but our faithful God has given us back to back B.A and B.S.
To the rest of July Mamas that are yet to put to bed. Swift delivery is yours.

shiller:
BA BA BA!!

My Pink jet has finally landed today by 2pm..
@40 weeks 2days via Vagina Delivery..

BS will come later..

July Cappo BA submitted oo

Congratulations teamie.
Welcome little princess.

mirob:


This your BS just gave me hope, I missed my period last two weeks and still tested negative with PT strip, even 6 days after I still tested negative and I stopped testing, tomorrow will be 14 days since I missed my period. Maybe I will go for scan at 7 week.

May the good Lord grant your wish. Amen

omotolanibaby:
congratulations,what a fast delivery.so sorry about your loss.may her soul rest in peace

Amen. Thanks alot Mama.