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Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

smart1204:
sincerely, pls someone who once experienced this should help me out. I don't want to shamed in public because of an erect penis on a woman's buttocks.

sapphiere:
Anointing is like alcohol. Anyone under anointing is just like someone under the influence of alcohol. They don't intentionally do what they do.

GAZZUZZ:
Check this device on the engine, ensure the harness is installed properly, if it is installed properly and still giving issues, then you can replace it. Also check the wire to be sure it is fine

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

GAZZUZZ:
No code or description resembling this exists for the 1999 Camry.

GAZZUZZ:
Coolant temp sensor and fuel pressure.

Two main culprits.

cmoney22222:
yes, sensor was changed, thanks, enjoying the car now with F1 driving skills... am so happy

seanfer:
Good day Sir
I'm back with my wahala.. My car 2006 Camry i4 is still doing hard start early in the morning whenever i have below quarter tank of fuel... I've changed the complete fuel pump assy as you advised... Please what can i do to solve this issue it's so embarrassing in the morning.

Cc: Kingreign

punisha:
Cc
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Rule 2.

Danielstainz:
Please can you upload a pic of the fixed obd port and how much was spent.... thinking of replacing mine but on a different car model....thanks

Kingdemu:
Fix the OBDII port

Lexusgs430:
Me negativity....... No No No.......

Kingdemu:
Fix the OBDII port

Lexusgs430:
You don buy market, walahi.........

An orthopedic patient, with a suspected fractured NOF, that cannot have xray..... Wahala dey o.......


A patient that had a fall, with suspected internal bleeding...... But cannot have an MRI scan.......... Another wahala.........

Nah experiment to fail remain...........

tobiuseful:
For your timing belt, you can change your water pump and also check for wears on the pulley teeth. The belt tensioner could also be the culprit. just ask a professional to check these stuffs for you. I use a 99 Camry and changing the water pump stopped the frequent timing belt snapping for me.

AutoMoTech:
Yes na same. Sometimes no be same I used "engine belt" because na him street techs sabi pass.
There are different places oil can leak from. Chec the one you are suffering from. Ours was from a faulty crankshaft oil seal.
If na plugs own you get, e fit be valve cover oil seal. Do you have oil leak?

AutoMoTech:
ok. i used the type of vehicle for years. sold it just 2 months ago. asides regular servicing and oil leak, the major problem I had was the engine belt cutting several times like ones in 3 -4 months. I guess its a major problem with those vehicles.
find an experienced tech to help you check the cause of the frequent belt cutting. make this thing no go fail you for middle of night o.

AutoMoTech:
MY OPINION
What engine is it? 4 cylinder or 6 cylinder?
also what have you noticed so far haven driven the vehicle? what's the current state of the engine?

Samfloxin:
Tell her to cover her hair when she is in the church pls.

anonimi:
I bet you didn't read any of the right up.
Lazy people



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