₦airaland Forum

Metrofox:
I really feel for them when it comes to this. Must be psychologically traumatizing for them to be made fun of during arguments

I can't imagine wearing fake beard and dealing with people whose real beard I'm wearing and they KNOW it!!

diamond68:
it’s the foremost thing . All these demons seeking whom to devour. Gotta pray 🙏

Easiest most empowering thing to do yet easiest to forget to do

diamond68:
ok dem done add small jara on top 😄😄

diamond68:
Absolutely 🙏🙏

Very easy to forget that part
Always pray. Costs u nothing

diamond68:
nooo they are raving about our men because Nigerian guys have taken over global popular culture so all these women think we are all burna boy and whizkid and davido and rema. It’s like how in the nineties African American men were the most sought after because their men were killing the global music scene. Tupac and biggie etc etc. most of these chicken heads are only using popular culture to determine which men are hot. So I wouldn’t take it serious

This is NOT true AT ALL. It is out of their own personal experiences. Example, see video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhSZEGgc8AM?si=36wPGzXvalxZIP9o

004gist:
Going home straight to rest today....most times like this i feel pain in d head until i sleep

Never forget to enjoy life as you go along. Tomorrow is not guaranteed

Kenn55:
You guys are blowing this out of proportion. There is nothing new here, it happens all the time.

On one sunny Sunday afternoon years back, one of my older cousins who grew up in Houston Texas sent a message that he is returning to Nigeria finally. Reason? He is fed up with life in the US and feels at home in Nigeria.

He carried his load back to Nigeria and started working with Chevron. I don't know if he got that job from the US or he got it in Nigeria. He lived and worked in Nigeria for 2 years 8 months and on one faithful day, he resigned his job and relocated back to the US till today. Even his wedding was done in the US. In fact, his case was one of the main motivating factors for me to chase dual citizenship cos the idea that you can easily switch around between countries was appealing to me.

Let me tell you, it is easier to love Nigeria and be patriotic when you have a citizenship of a first world country. The reason is simple. You begin to feel that the nonsense in Nigeria does not limit you and you are not stuck. That alone makes you feel better than someone in Nigeria who does not have any other country to call his own. When he queues and fight to buy fuel for his generator, he is more angry and bitter as there is no where else to run to and his is stuck, he becomes less patriotic and start hating the country out of frustration.

Since I became a dual citizen, I am happier to travel to Nigeria than before. So to take people like this serious, let them denounce their foreign citizenship and have Nigeria as their one and only country so that they cannot escape when their mind changes like my cousin did. Otherwise, all they are doing is to make you guys feel good that Nigeria is the best thing after slice bread and you guys are falling for it

Some truth in what u saying. But why always UK. There must be something that can't be put in words
Also some black Americans who relocated to Ghana are deliriously happy there despite hardship and never want to go back to US

Mindlog:

I mean psychologists are not medical doctors

Metrofox:
There's nothing chasing her, na man she dey come find. What are the prospects for a single black woman in Nigeria and abroad especially when you have a foreign passport

Maybe part of it. Maybe facing people everyday whose real hair you're wearing as fake. Maybe racism. But her stated reasons are weather and expensive-ness

Calitoscassius:
I don't think so, It is all about clout chasing, people come on social media to say it but no evidence that they did what they said or are doing what they say on social media. Give Me 2 examples.


If you gonna do something, just do it! Don't tell social media first.

Check out YouTube, Google. Check out threads by guy with moniker sukkot. UK citizen rlocated back to Naija for years. You'd see others there

004gist:
Honestly not easy but we keep pushing small small

Burn out bound to occure

Calitoscassius:
How many of them are they?

Quite a few. Check youtu.be, google

Emeskhalifa:
You sef reason am na, why would any sane person jump from frying pan straight into the fire?

Seems she Don reason am for years b4 deciding Nigeria is better

Sonfethopia:
Na lazy person go run come Nigeria. I know a small 22 years old. He works in a care home in the UK.hes a millionaire in naira. U can only come here for retirement. Not.for better than life quality. There's no way Nigeria have that over UK.

Well, many people who have lived both sides say you're wrong

Mindlog:
When Nigerian parents in Nigeria, have children with Autism, ADHD, Intellectual disability, conduct disorders etc....which professional is trained to provide clinical support for those children?

Like the other guy said, CANE. We simply don't play psychologist

MrBrownJay1:
no wonder... i guess we should live today like back in the 1920s, right?

the reality is that SOCIAL NORMS REGARDING MARRIAGE have greatly changed in the last 100years. let us not pretend that we should look at what was done 100years ago and foolishly believe that it will remotely work today. that was a different era, a different world, a different set of people and a different environment. did women even have the right to vote back then OR even have a voice in who they were getting married to?!

Well my grandpa lived about same time and has married 4 times

diamond68:
hehe take am easy on our women bro. I do have to admit many of them don’t look good in the uk but that’s only because in the uk people do not sweat because it is always cold and as a woman if your vajayjay is not sweating out and breathing it get putrid and very smelly so I have to admit black vajayjay smells very bad in the uk. Am speaking from experience. And our women don’t like drinking water. In a country where you do not sweat you have to drink excess water to flush out your stagnated system but our ladies hate water so the stagnation and putridity makes uk womens vajayjay very toxic. Also their skin does not shine like it does under naija sun. Black women don’t look good in the uk but they look great in naija. E get why God create you black and drop you for naija because he know that’s the correct temperature for your skin type buttttt no you think sayyyy you sabi pass God come go japa go cold country where you no fit sweat lailai your vajayjay come Dey smell like garbage can. God no Dey make mistake oooo. Black vajayjay must be in tropical weather 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

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But how come same don't apply to Nigerian MEN? In every country women are raving about Nigerian men. Our men that japa earlier must have really done a good job on women besides being scammers

Calitoscassius:
Don't mind people who believes her lies, i ve noticed that if anyone wants to draw attentions to themselves or wants to chase clouts on social media they record and post themselves yapping about Naigeria.

But too many of them saying same thing. Must be something there

Calitoscassius:
Maybe, maybe they have been eating too many macarel fish and are always cooking fish. even though i love eating fish myself and also cook fish regularly, So what are their excuses for overweightness, bald head and wig wearing?


Even Naigerian young men do not show any interests in Naigerian women or girls. Because Naigerian men/boys are after fat, ugeelee or old oyibo women..

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Lwkmd

jonnyjustcome22:
I can bet it with you that she is not happy saying that sentences. She only want more traffic on her social media.
Don't trust everything you hear on social media do your research.

But it's not only her. Lots doing same thing

greypencils:
When you have economic freedom, (stay in the best neighborhoods, have standard investments e.g real estate, good money in your pocket), and another country's passport, Nigeria is still the best place to stay. At least, it is the best place to raise children.

100%

dorothykarenira:
obwyi

Scam

Calitoscassius:
Even single Naigerian women are finding it hard to find relationships, most oyibo men are not interested in overweight, food gulping, dark skinned, bald headed wig wearing african women smelling of fish this is how oyibo brits describe african/Naigerian women. No be me talk am oo!

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zumbigbo:
Hope she has saved up for a kidnapping bond on family and friends.

Vast majority of Nigerians don't get kidnapped

Calitoscassius:
Aaa! I no belief say na becos of racism, no be wetin she talk oo! You no read wetin she talk?

She said weather, weather, weather, plus cost of living

AngelicBeing:
Apostle says, to live is Christ and to die is GAIN

Meaning what exactly

diamond68:
life is nothing bro. Eat drink and make merry 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

And remember your Maker

AngelicBeing:
Check Auto section, he died few days ago as a result of injuries sustained in an accident

Wow! RIP

MT:
I repeat, you are not regarded as highly skilled or paid in the world.

I have attached to my message a job in your career for a "specialist" currently advertised in the UK.

Yes, someone earning 500 USD will ball than you and have more savings that you because he does not need to pay 600 GBP per months for rent , cut throat taxes and pay for all the endless bills.

You seem you are better off, but you are not. They pay you that amount in the western world for wages to cover the cost of the inflation, at the end of the day, what remains? Your own career does not pay much neither in Nigeria or abroad.

Have a little pity on the guy na😆

Ten06:
I will take this information as a display of ignorant until you live in Nigeria for 5 years and still stand by this conviction

Many have and still say same. Check out Nairalander named Sukkot

AngelicBeing:
A popular Nairaland called GAZZUZ in the Auto section is dead , are you aware, check Auto section

Dead from what?

courage9:
Dey dere dey deceive una selves......
Na hell u dey advice people to come so.....

Your mumu never do

She's not advising anybody. She decided Nigeria is better FOR HER