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girls that if by 30 you don't marry them they begin to panic...naim go come dey gimme rules of keeping surname. oya go and marry yourself den and keep your surname.

all these weak men talking trash, how about allowing her keep her surname and wear only wedding ring, since name changing isn't important.

charliboy654:
The point is not to save her father's name, after all she has brothers answering her father's name, the point is to still identify with her family members, like when someone here her maiden name the people will know she's from this family married to this family, you guys should use ur sense at times

smh identify with her family?? seriously?? kuku allow her keep her surname na

Earthbound:
It has nothing to do with weakness. I'm sure if you married the daughter of a popular billionaire and she chooses to keep her father's name in public domain, you'd do absolutely nothing. You legally married her and you belong to one another.

whatever will make me marry a billionaire dota will mean I myself ain't a nobody. why didnt dangote mom keep bearing dantata when she married a dangote? oga your point is invalid men dat allow that nonsense have low self-esteem and are weak men

pocohantas:
He will also bow to give me a head.

Like he will bow for a pussy.

Can you beat that?

only when you marry a weak man, girls like you kukuma prefer weak men u can control.

BlaqCoffee109:
that was some sarcasm in relation to @op...they need one to drop their maiden name and take up their name exclusively...but will also need you to actively contribute 50% or more financially for the family... talking about double standard. Whether feminist or not, I am team chop their money...Iranu Abasha... mtcheew

keep choping their money...till they chop your destiny buy Benz.

no be only compound name, na yard name. na loan I take marry you? will now need to be explaining to the kids why there mom has two surnames....nobody shuld vex me today biko

pocohantas:
Happy Sunday,

Product of trade by barter.

After all, if two families didn't sit and exchange one innocent girl for palmwine and kola-nut...you wouldn't be born.

same for u also, and so will u also be exchanged... you can only be mad at it but it won't change the fact. and after paying the bride price, you're still gonna kneel to suck his device or kneel to take his device from behind... so stop forming hard girl upandan.

Earthbound:
I think this has to be the most insecure thing I've ever read from a guy. Women who have built a name for themselves in their Careers and whatnot have every right to keep their names after marriage. It only seems rational. As long as her names come before my name, no wahala.

I thing changing to her surname will be better cos of her career. weak men everywhere

Quality20:
Oga na favour dem do Una by opening their legs for una wey de fornicate. We all know how many can't concentrate on anything until they penetrate a particular woman's genitals. Many even travel hundreds of kilos just to be laid. Many have lost promising jobs, and positions just because they need d favor of a woman's genitals. So pls keep quiet!
All these sexaholic n nymphomaniac ladies around ,who turned them that way? Bad guys using their evil desires to spoil our innocent ladies and later calling them golddiggers or ashwo

speak for yourself nigger, if pvssy still controls you, you need help and you should seek one fast. Sex is easily obtainable these days, so seeing it as a favour only shows how low your self-esteem is.

pocohantas:
My dear, you don't want to know how much I hate people who think paying bride price is equal to owning a woman.

Is that guy mad??!!!
How much bride price did he pay?

Such a man needs more than growing up, he needs a total overhaul of his mental system!!

hate how much you want that doesn't change the fact that you would be exchanged for money and other valuables to be allowed to officially become a wife... so fork off object of trade by barter.

pocohantas:
This is one reason I can't stand over religious people, especially the men among them. Very manipulative creatures.

After fornicating, backbiting, lying... and all sorts. They wake up one day and select the part of the bible they want their wives to follow. When they were knacking her before marriage, they didn't remember bible verses o. I can only listen to the one that obeys the commandments to the letter, all others are total trash...

what do you mean by "knacking her" isn't sex a two way thing? didn't she also enjoy the sex or was she just laying there while the guy was knacking her? no be their two commit the fornication? I hate people that see sex as a favour to men from women...you need to grow up.

after paying brideprice one woman will now say lemme add my maiden name, is like you're madding and sicking.

Lomprico2:
They shld goan look for work or do something. Stop promoting criminality!!

fool they are already doing something abi you have something better for them?

hidhrhis:
Once u become mad their will always be traces of madness in the blood
It pains me a lot she can never be normal again

spoken like a true mad man bro....youre healed totally IJN

Vicdayz:



"Create Heaven For Your Woman Before She Can Be An Angel" - Stephanie Linus

See: https://www.gistvic.com/2018/11/create-heaven-for-your-woman-before-she.html

her papa, I be God wey go create heaven for woman?

good one, they voted and supported the monster

GavelSlam:
And if you had a brain you would realise my analogy was to make you understand it can never be overnight.

stop been stupid

Immaculatesnow:
burner boy or what ever you call yourself leave this business woman to come and do her business in this God forsaken country we need more investors in Nigeria

I want to buy a verified Nigerian Adsense

idiot does her visa permit her to do business in the country or can u just travel to American on a visiting visa to do business? you just can't think

from my experience as an HIV ngo worker for fhi, 80% of those innocent looking girls, those normal street girls, average gfs are breeding grounds for all kinds of veneral illness and HIV. oloshos and prostitutes are safer to bang without CD than these innocent hoes.

datgidiboy:
A Nigerian lady has ran to the Lagos state government after her husband's continual battery and rape even after she underwent C-section!


Twitter user, Morris, took to the social media platform to share the story, he wrote:


Read More: https://www.legitgossip.com/2018/11/lady-runs-to-lagos-state-government.html


Source: Twitter

team we must get married, plz get the faq out

DealPickers:
Oh my God! So if I tell you about my item, I'm by that alone a marketer? I see.
And this conversation is over, I can't continue speaking with uncultured kids that use the n-word so liberally. Lol.
So, yes, bye.

ode

person wey go dey one South American country dey chill naim una say is dead... una papa.

DealPickers:
Guy, your problems are multiple o. How is it doing you?
Did I tell you I'm a marketter? And, who told you that jobless people can't afford land? And what makes you think an employed person won't read the topic?
You are truly jobless and broke, so tell your father about the land. I'll give u a cut.

you're not a marketer but you said you were just marketing your product in your last mention to me...yoy need to get your stories straight nigger. So if a person who doesn't have a job approaches you to buy you will sell?? smh you're probably even a scammer..no worry you go soon scam people wey go pour you acid. no go find work do. idiot

DealPickers:
That's serious. If you didn't notice, I was just marketing my product. Didn't know you will take it so personally. Are you jobless and broke? Then the advert was not meant for you.
But you can tell your uncle about the land. It's a good deal actually

if you're a marketer you're probably a failed one, who are u marketing a landed property to on a topic about jobless people? couldn't you post it on the business or property area?? or they never tot u about target sales group? why not market it to a primary school then ode

it's actually fun having multiple girl confess their love for you to you...makes a guy feel like a king...cheating isn't really for sex, it's the sport and thrill in it that's a great feeling.

atikulated2019:
jubril would be angry and Oshothief would be probbed soon
Jubril self

give me any number and I will use Osho baba nose to find square root and give you correct answers

it's funny how you think these bastards politicians are actually enemies? lolzzz people dat dine and drink and share money and come out to act film for us

I'd rada enter bike of 500 to cms from the ikoyi to and fro to buy pencil 50/for 10 and come bk to the exam hall...intelligence really is a rare thing in our generation. he's a fool for doing that.

DealPickers:
True. Also, while waiting for the dream job, investing in real estate.

E.g the Standard Plot of Dry Land in Garden of Eden Estate, Simawa (Phase 1) for urgent sale.
Verifiable title documents.
1m (negotiable).
Call the owner Samuel 09055138965.

Owner bought from Estate some years ago, now current value of the land is 3m.

you're very stupid, where will someone who doesn't have job get 1m to buy land and wait some years to resell. you're too stupid for the word stupid to describe how stupid you actually are.

they feel they are the only violent ones cos we are told God fights for us while they fight for theirs...well me I'm not religious, if isi agree to use hijab that school should be burnt down... let everybody not go to school.

CookieLaVee:
I almost didn't wan to reply but after seeing some immature replies I think I should reply you.
First of all, if she is actually dating a married man, then she is so wrong on every level. Then again, who is perfect? I myself do not condone cheating for anything but hey! Everybody is different and to some extent has a level of wrongs he/she can condone. Besides, who said there is a manual for relationship?
I noticed you said you were squatting somewhere before you moved yo your own apartment. I want to believe that you were having some problems with finance and as such, you were not helping her with some finance. A man must not carry all the responsibilities of his woman but to some extent, you should be able to help. Seeing that you were/are still lacking in that department, some things has got to give. I am a woman, a hard working woman at that but to be honest, every woman needs some sort of financial assistant especially from her man. It might not necessarily be for materialistic things, I for one isn't a fan of those but one has responsibilities especially if you are the first child and have lots of siblings looking up to you. Again, that is not an excuse to cheat...
Someone once said that if all married men should be faithful then most single ladies will have to starve. That is unfortunately, the sad reality. Please notice the word "most", this doesn't apply to all single ladies though...

Again, during my service year, I was opportune to meet a big politician who gave me my first #100k at his office after telling me he found me interesting. I knew he could have wanted to go to the next level with me if I wanted but alas, my future is too valuable to play into the hands of these diabolical politicians. I ran home with the money and never looked back. Even though there wasnt any need to share this with my bf, I told him out of trust and joy of getting some big money I never worked for or imagined to get at that time, but until after two years, I didn't know he never believed me. He told everybody that cared to know that I slept with a politician and he gave me money....
What am I driving at? Where there is love, there must be trust. If you do love her, trust her to tell you what is actually going on. Don't just deduce your conclusion from what you aren't sure about. I heard you say she has been going to hotels with the married man, confront her and trust her to tell you the real truth. I know the world has stereotyped most women as whores and what not but you have to find out the real truth.
From the truth, you can make your decisions as it fits you.

100k cos you're a Nigerian? wow that's a touching story.

Purplelover:
Please I need a job, read banking and Finance, one year experience in customer service, also less than 26. Thank you

send me your cv, there's an opening at Coca-Cola where I work