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This woman is from the Pit of Hell

Why do i have this strong feeling this story is not true

Alot of highly skilled scammers are right here with us in this Nairaland, sometimes I think here is their Headquarters

Why's this Chidimma trying so hard to convince us that God ordained her conversion to Christian Music.

If it's Christian music she wants to be doing, she should do it and stop explaining because some people don't care one bit.

What should I do with this news

To go and do what in france

federal9:
You have to forgive him because the bible teaches us about forgiveness.

The person you're giving this your advice is not on Nairaland, Oga can't you see the link the story was copied from

If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding

Even the Bible says it,
"The Heart is Deceitful and desperately wicked, who can search the Heart"

Ologundudu2020:
Why refusing to pull her trouser and changing to something comfortable before coming to bed?? Bro beware oooo they come in different package. Those clingy social media girls littered all around can do anything to trend ooooo. If you ain’t coming to the bed naked, I ain’t making a move else we both induce on something.

Dem bitches can screen and scene record anything to trend. You make a move now start shouting you forcing yourself on her. Before you know it she done run to Twitter for advise that same night

In your story up there, I laughed when you Said and I quote,
"I have a good rapport with him and he sometimes gives me free money",

Do you have a good rapport with him because he gives you free money

[quote author=adeayo1603 post=101672477][/quote]My position on this is,

I'm very sure that she was exhibiting these same behaviors that you hate when you guys were dating but you probably thought to yourself that
"If I marry her, she will change", thats where your regrets and Lamentations started, she will only get worse with her behaviors that's why people are always adviced to always be on the lookout for "Red Flags" that you know you will never tolerate during the "dating process"...do not hesitate to walk away from "Red Flag" behaviors you notice in your partner during the "dating process"

If you had walked away when you noticed this her "Red Flag" behaviors when you guys were still dating before marriage, you would have saved yourself from weeping and gnashing your teeth in your marriage.

The Lord is your Strength.

I'm sure that when you were toasting her in the beginning you were telling her words like
"Baby you're the Angel of my Life", "baby I can't breathe without you in my Life", "if you're not in my Life, my Life is not Complete"

Kpekus will soon put this one In trouble, then his eyes go clear

What happened to their shoes

yanabasee1:
Wetin him the sing weh e go get throat cancer....


Even davido weh him frog voice the give us nanger every time never get throat cancer, na gap teeth Sound sultan come get...

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

Violence.... I feel her pain

Is that the picture of the thief on fire, that thief must be strong to be standing while his body is on fire.... Hope he has learnt his lesson

All this "drama" Because of "Pumping Water"

What should I do with this news

This is as a result of "See Finish"

Foolish man.

Hmfathom:
You said right but I wasn't a mama's boy..
I started living my life alone when I was 19..

In all,please if there is anything I can do for her to respect my decision. What can this be please..tell me,I want to know..
My dad respects my decision but for mom she doesn't at all

I will be Point Blank Honest with you, at this point, there's very little you can do.

You said your father Respects your decision, you'll have to relate more with your father, I don't know about you and your father's Relationship, if the Relationship between the two of you is good, channel all your attention to your father....you said that you're certain of your decision to go ahead with that woman you intend to settle down with and you also said that you're ready to also bear the consequences too, so if your father Truely supports your decision, Go ahead with it.... You also said in your write-up that your mom is stubborn and when you don't call her, she won't call you too, you can decide to be calling only your father anytime you want to check up on your mother (I know this is a very hard decision and action to take).

From where I am, I can smell that you have no set boundaries between you and your mother, having boundaries that should not be crossed earns Respect especially when whosoever Crosses your set boundaries and you don't hesitate or waste time in making that person know that he/she just crossed a boundary with a clear and "stern" warning never to try such again next time.the person will get the message and Respect himself/herself next time because he/she knows that you will not tolerate it at all.

You have to set boundaries between you and your mother, an example of such boundaries could be
"she should not talk bad/ill about your woman", anytime your mother should talk bad about your woman, you correct her with a serious face and a serious tone in your voice that you will not tolerate such behavior from her and walk away if you want to..... If you do this repeatedly, slowly your mother will begin to get the message and she'll be very careful when talking about your woman because she knows that if she should talk about your woman in an unpleasant manner, you will not tolerate such behavior from her.

Like I said earlier, Respect is EARNED.
If you want Respect, you have to Behave in a manner worthy of getting Respect.

Where are the pictures of the Bastards

This is where your problem started,

When you were younger, you were probably "mummy's boy", and alot of mummy's boy" dont seem to understand this till it's too late and the start to feel suffocated by their mom like the way you're feeling now,

I can swear that when you were younger, you were probably doing the "Good boy", doing everything she says, never checking her nasty attitude whenever she displayed it to you, you probably thought you were playing it safe, but little did you know that when you were doing those things, in your mother's mind,
"You are still that little boy in her eyes that will be lost without her, you are still that little boy in her eyes that always does what she always wants and wishes without thinking twice".

Alot of "mummy's boy" don't also seem to get this until it's too late, by being a "Mummy's boy", your mother will have very minimum Respect for you, why?, Because you haven't showed her a reason to Respect you, even if you like have all the money in the world, her Respect for you will still be minimum.

If you doubt what I just wrote above, if you have brothers, or male Relations, those ones that are not in the category of "mummy's boy", watch them very closely and their interaction with their mothers and if you're honest to yourself, you'll notice that their mothers gives them maximum respect, why?, Because those ones showed right from when the were younger that they are capable and the are also not afraid to "Implement their own personal decisions".

Respect is EARNED, if you think a mother will just start Respecting her son because she gave birth to him, then you're joking. You must earn her Respect before she gives you your maximum Respect.

Even Father's, no father ever Respects his Son just because he is his son, a Son has to behave and act in certain ways that are worthy of Earning the Father's maximum Respect And the Father never hesitates to give that his son maximum Respect once he notices the behavior and actions of his son that is worthy of Respect ... and I say this without Remorse.

I shake my head in Disgust and absolute displeasure when Nigerians display their ignorance and stupidity when it comes to "drinking good amounts of WATER" for their body, and yes you heard me very well.

Alot of you Nigerians underestimate the Power of "Drinking lots of Water" for your body system.

The other day, behind me, I heard one guy telling the other guy and I quote,
"The Doctor said that my blood is too thick, and he told me to be drinking enough water and I told the doctor that I no too like to dey drink water like that"

Those were his exact words,.... From this guy's response, you can see the level of unbelievable ignorance displayed by that guy. If tomorrow, that foolish guy's kidney begin to fail him because of the lack of WATER in his system, he'll start blaming village people and start looking for the "Imaginary" person that is after his Life , not knowing that he's the one to blame.

Always consume alot of WATER, Water is Very Powerful but people don't seem to know this. You will be doing yourself and your health a HUGE FAVOUR by increasing your intake of water on a daily basis.

If you doubt me, go and ask your personal doctor that you trust that will not lie to you,
Ask that your Doctor to tell you the magic water performs in your body and pay good attention to him when he speaks.

I can assure you of one thing, you will NEVER experience Anything Kidney problem as long as you drink a good quantity of water on a daily basis and yes I Said so, Quote me anywhere.

McEphiks:
I can afford it Maybe that will be better but my babe does not even want me to help him at all cos she knew about it all.

You can help him without telling your babe, she doesn't need to know everything.
You said you weren't raised to repay "Evil" with "Evil", so follow your moral upbringing and let your Conscience rest. It's very simple.

From the story, I read where she said and I quote,
"The sexual harassment I face come only From Ladies".

Ladies that "sexually harass" a fellow lady do so out of Envy because the person the are harassing has what she has been fasting and praying to God for

vibbb:
No big deal you are not weak. Though it's painful to recall yesterday gesture but not withstanding just give him a time frame of staying and be precise about it, if you want him to stay for 4 weeks or Months just make sure you define it b4 he moves in.

Op if you're smart, follow this advice

Born2winnx:
Better style... she's one mother I like to fûck (milf)

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

Bastards