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Family › Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Daeylar(f): 1:01pm On Aug 04, 2017
Jman06:
Yeah, there are those in between{I belong here} who don't want partners who are doormats and are easily pushed around, who take whatever is thrown at them. It disgusts me when a lady is like that. That doesn't mean she should be unreasonably troublesome or heartless, but should know when to stand her ground and correct me when i am going astray.

There are also guys who would be submissive if they were born in liberal societies, but because ours is one where men are EXPECTED to be lords, they had to pretend to be dominant in order to gain acceptance.
True, also at your first paragraph few men may think the woman is going out of bounds trying to correct them, they feel what it means to be the head is to have the final say, sad. Then when the woman tries to speak, they say she is not submissive enough

@the bolded, Exactly, I agree, you see a situation where people are always saying be submissive, be submissive to be a good wife, a good wife is always submissive, and all that and when they have or when they see a woman who isn't what their idea of submissive is, instead if trying to find their types or minding their own business they try and break the woman down and keep harping on a woman needs to be submissive to be a good wife.

It's tiring because the fact that you feel that a woman isn't good enough to be your wife because she isn't submissive doesn't mean someone else won't like her the way she is


this can also go for people who mock men who are not as authoritative as they feel men should be and they call them weak instead of leaving them alone and moving on

It's doesn't seem like we are tolerant people in this country at all.

It's really sad because if someone is not what you want in a life partner you need to let them go and move on. Trying to force people to become what you want is wrong and doesn't work,
Family › Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by Daeylar(f): 11:16am On Aug 04, 2017
Jman06:
Lol...That's the truth! You can't have two captains in a ship, and i am enlightened enough to know that no gender has the monopoly of wanting to be in control. I also know that there are guys who desire dominant ladies.

Life is full of varieties and everybody has a match. Problem arises because people go for those who don't match them
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@ the bolded THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH,

Some guys like dominant ladies and some ladies like dominant men, I guess there maybe some who are in between don't need dominant partners and do not want to be dominated,
Exactly everyone has a match and instead of them searching for people that match and complement them they go after people or settle with people who don't, then start complaining, I don't get it
Romance › Re: The Gay Queens Of Jamaica Living In Drainage Systems(Photos) by Daeylar(f): 11:11am On Aug 04, 2017
Mightyraw:
They all are disturbing
Found yiu here today
Lol wink
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 11:10am On Aug 04, 2017
Elcuba:
Good morning daey tongue
Goof morning cheesy
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 9:42am On Aug 04, 2017
Marshalxv:
Lol,u still want to so this ?

OK ,go down to where u stressed out things like if a man claims he owes his wife no fidelity then the woman owes the man non as well
since its right for a man to cheat wen he's out of town ,if its also right for the woman to cheat too?

don't forget women are moved by what they read or hear,that's y I used the little child and burning flame as an illustration for u.
We all know the man was wrong in all respect but must me dwell in his wrong deed?
Thank u once again.
The 1st, 2nd & 3rd paragraph was a response to the comment I quoted where the man tried to excuse the ridiculous and outright insulting behaviour of the op's husband(which you also agree was wrong in all aspects) as normal so I told him that since he sees his behaviour as normal, I hoped he will also see his wife's behaviour as normal if she decides to follow in his footsteps.
That part of the comment was directed to the poster I quoted, and you can see how he tried to backtrack when he responded to my mention,

I responded to the op in my last paragraph and I made it clear that she was the one I was referring to

why didn't you just ask if you didn't understand my post instead if going straight to attack mehuh
Properties › Re: Dubai's 1,100ft Marina Torch Tower Full Of Expats Bursts Into Flame(Photos) by Daeylar(f): 7:20am On Aug 04, 2017
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Family › Re: Marriage Of Zimbabwean Woman Who Had Unprotected Sex With A Bizman Crashes by Daeylar(f): 9:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
Family › Re: Marriage Of Zimbabwean Woman Who Had Unprotected Sex With A Bizman Crashes by Daeylar(f): 9:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
"Marriage gives women dignity, it separates women from whores and it adds value to women."

I wanted to make a comment but after reading this trash,
No need
Christianity Etc › Re: Elderly Witch Returning From Meeting Stuck On Roof Of Building - Facebook User by Daeylar(f): 7:56pm On Aug 03, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Chai...so sad.
That's why its' best to leave the coven around 2:45am so that before 5:00am you'd be safely back in your skin.

May such disappointments not happen to our grandmothers.
May they not be stranded on their way back from the coven.
grin grin grin grin
SMH

you ehh grin
Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Daeylar(f):
Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Daeylar(f):
Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Daeylar(f):
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 4:14pm On Aug 03, 2017
Elcuba I don't understandhuh
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 2:40pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marshalxv:
Lol,you didn't do anything my dear, let's just advice the woman on how to overcome this phase of her marriage. No offense
you said I gave her more reasons to hate the man so what did I say exactly?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 2:09pm On Aug 03, 2017
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2017
Marshalxv:
U put a burning flame in front of a crawling baby and u think the baby won't put his hands in the fire .
It's bad enough that the husband cheat and wasn't remorseful about it and the only thing u can do for the already hurting lady is to give her more reasons to hate her husband the more .
Thank u ,u can come back to comment wen some1 needs advice on how to divorce her cheating husband. Take care
where did I do so? where did I ask her to hate her husband?
I'm sorry what did I do?
Romance › Re: Reasons Why SA Women Are The Best!!! by Daeylar(f): 9:36am On Aug 03, 2017
MsRoe:
Is this true? Are SA women really preferred by WA men, or is this just an ad?

If they are preferred, then that must be tough on our WA men. Because Nigerian girls don't wait around to get picked. They choose the men they want.
she's back, ......again cheesy
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 8:40am On Aug 03, 2017
Sexina851:
Hell no! Women should always play the dummy because dey are women. They have water flowing in them rather than blood.
Don't mind them
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 8:37am On Aug 03, 2017
Elcuba:
I believe you smiley

But..
But.....huh
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 8:19am On Aug 03, 2017
[quote author=Elcuba post=59100033][/quote]lol, believe me
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 7:56am On Aug 03, 2017
Elcuba I know, it's not personal
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 7:46am On Aug 03, 2017
grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Daeylar(f): 7:43am On Aug 03, 2017
Elcuba:
Hey daey..
I want you to ask you something.
All right
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 7:39am On Aug 03, 2017
Elcuba:
Don't cheat on me tongue
LMAO, cheesy
Good morning kiss
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 7:22am On Aug 03, 2017
ApostleJSuleman:
keep quiet my friend, what do u knowhuh Why should a woman cheat?? Is she mad?? Don't you know it is a man's world?? U better stop this stupid feminist idea of yours for your own good... Rubbish.
People are talking something reasonable you are talking of a woman cheating
Cheat ko, cheater ni
LMAO grin
why is the first part of my comment paining you guys like this? grin
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f): 2:51am On Aug 03, 2017
bamisho:
Always making excuses for the man! If it was a man who came here to say that about his wife would you have said it's men that cause it and asked the husband what he's doing wrong?!!!

The hypocrisy is disgusting!!!
Thank you, please tell them,
we all know how it would go if it was the wife that was cheating,
Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Daeylar(f):
Marshalxv:
The problem with some Nigerians is lack of understanding especially this so called feminist.
where in the post did he suggest that he supports the husband cheating on his wife?

The lady asked for help on how to resolve the problem she's having in her young marriage and you're here with you're feminist trash .
So what's your advice to her now? to also go out and cheat or what?
People like you are the reason why we have so many broken marriages today .
Two wrongs can't make right. op if you truly love your man and want to build a strong family with him then you have to put more than ordinary effort

Funny enough majority of our so called feminist are either single or divorced
Rubbish,
Did you even read my comment at all?
LMAO,
where did I ever say the wife should go out and cheat on him?
LMAO, I'm not your problem, please go and look for the cause of your anger grin

people like me are the reason we have broken marriages,huhhuh
not the useless men and women that cheat on their partners,
not the op's husband who looks at his wife and. says to her face that he doesn't owe her any faithfulness,
not some men like the one I quoted who opens his mouth to say that all men are like the op's husband and that it's normal
it's people like me that are the reason we have broken marriages, LMAO

nonsense,
next time don't quote me with trash,
Read and understand before coming here to type trash

rubbish
Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Daeylar(f):
Romance › Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Misconception Of Feminism : Miss Cokie by Daeylar(f):
Savagery shocked cheesy grin grin
Mynd44:
From top to finish, crap.

All crap

1. Not everyone is Christian. Dont project your religion on others. So your arguement based on Adam amd Eve is not universal

2. Same as 1. Some people will simply say you are listening to fairy tales.

3. Women did not introduce lesbianism to punish men. Women are lesbian because they like women more. Same way some guys dont like plus sized women and some guys dont like skinny women. It is a persona preference not a punishment. Same thing with being gay.

4. You just blasted women who get pregnant out of wedlock but left the men that get them pregnant. What kind of thing is this?

Germany has a female leader. They have not died and the joysticks of the men there have not fallen off so calm down. Dont get your titties in a bunch.

Your personal estimations dont count for crap ma'am

As for the whole Bola and Chidinma rant, ask Tayo and Ikenna to stop spending their life savings jumping from one beer parlor to another too.

Smh
VargasVee:
Your argument is kinda baseless

1. Not everyone is a Christian, every religion has their own stories, and your talk about 28 ribs and taking one out is clueless, the ribs given to women were like a context, it doesn't mean it's the human ribs.

2. Do not blame them on this one, they never introduced corruption. What about the fallen angel that started the mutiny?

3. Humans are wired differently. What you like, another might dislike. Don't we have gays in the male version? I believe they're both the same.

4. The idea of feminism is nice and it's true some usually take it out of context cause some women don't even know what's it all about. There were times women were not allowed to vote, to even pick their own partner. Everything is slowly changing.
LMAO, op posted this trash in the hope of male attention and ass licking only to be shot down immediately by 2 males, grin grin grin grin grin, I can't stop laughing,

RaggedyAnn:
People are just exhibiting stupidity without caution because nobody is going to jail for it. Continue.
WTF grin grin grin grin LMAO,
savages all over this thread

Op sorry, better luck with your next attention seeking thread, lol, you could have simply googled what feminism is about before coming to write trash here but nooooo... You just had to seek for attention
Better luck next time

This is what useless threads like that nothing like gender equality thread causes
Romance › Re: The Gay Queens Of Jamaica Living In Drainage Systems(Photos) by Daeylar(f): 6:56pm On Aug 02, 2017
oh my gosh,
few of these pictures are funny,
but most are disturbing
Crime › Re: Money Fell From Sky As Robbers Blew Up Cash Van In South Africa(Photos) by Daeylar(f): 5:54pm On Aug 02, 2017
Blowing up money
Romance › Re: What Is The Normal Age For A Lady To Marry? by Daeylar(f): 4:03pm On Aug 02, 2017
Davidgrey:
[color=#000050] Societal ignorance; Marriage isn't supposed to be a "socially forced" relationship. [/color]
Truth

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