It's actually very hurtful finding yourself in that situation but never a justification for cheating. But in true sense of it,a lot of men has resorted to this cus our wives refused being our wives and therefore resorting to this... I'm equally in that shoes but I've made up my mind to be diligent but how long can it last when I have needs too

Well,i used to have someone like that as a friend and the wife was equally worried but after much talking and talking and she's likewise extremely calm... 2 things she did was.... prayer and she was smart to tell him to invite the friends over to the house,buy the booze and make food for them and his friends saw she was a very good woman that doesn't it deserve what her husband does,they started talking to him likewise and gradually the keep late night only Friday till now... Different strokes for different folks anyways

NwaAmaikpe:




Okay what a tragedy for him to shoot himself on the preek with his own hands.

So he transported himself from Lagos to Benin,
Paid for a hotel,
Invited the girl over,
Spoilt her with food and drinks,
Gave her the valentine gift he came with and some cash.
She happily accepted.

Then he asked for kpekus but she refused out of fear that a boy who could be that stupid to incur such needless cost for kpekus certainly needed it for rituals because people who worked hard for their money would never part with it so unwisely in a Buhari's regime.

He then beat her up and made a video narrating his unfortunate ordeal hoping to attract pity from fellow pussy-worshipping simps and also blackmail the poor girl who won't give kitty to him on Valentine's day.

I don't blame the girl for insulting his mother because any mother that trained up her son to fall for the manipulation of a woman worths being insulted.
To think he could even tell his mom he was in a hotel room with a girl shows what a morally deficit upbringing he must have had from her.

The sad thing is that this guy will hop on the next bus to Lagos at Oluku bypass with his full tank of sperm and a broken heart.
But he won't be going back with his money, his dignity or the girl he laboured to impress.

He has also left us with a video that will haunt him for a lifetime because to me, the girl is the victim here and if this is not pure blackmail, why didn't he show his own face?
While he will spend the next few weeks having trouble sleeping, this girl will be awake all night looking for who to spread her leg for at Asotime.

And you tell me that women aren't scum.

I'm sure you didn't get to see many parts of the video which is on FB... There are 4 videos,showed himself in the previous 3 videos and besides they've been at the hotel for 5days... OP posted just 1 of the videos... Get your facts right before we succumb to your brilliance which I love anyways

What's even the essence when you can't even view the messages and be counting number of what na

FuckThaMod:
Hope that their road is good enough for the rolls royce

Oga that's not a Royce... Our Igbo brothers talents at work... Check the tyre and some other features, you go know say na ABA ROYCE

Lobbish ranking of the year... OP don dey madt nii

You are a phucking cheat looking for advice.... I don't know how gullible people are to want to give an advice to your rubbish.... Una want MONEY,he gave you now na not romantic... No man is perfect,if you can't deal with who your man is,you don't deserve him... Hanty you are greedy o... You want financial security and at same time want attention... Kuku marry both of them cus I imagine if I was in your BF's position and some cheat asking me for advice,what does that say?

I have a 43" LG TV I want to sell... Just the display board needs to be changed else everything is perfect

makydebbie:


I'll have to ask around sha, Irish potato is common here and when you see some, it's very expensive.
I don't have a buyer but I'll ask my mum and get back to you.

Not presently cus no import or export as the borders has been shut.

You are a rare kind,a different breed of ideology... Even with your husband jobless, you still respected his place in the family and worked together with him... May God bless you,keep your home and give your husband a good job to pay off for the house... Kudos

Meeyankee:
What is going on here??)

OP don dey mast nii o... Give us story no proof...eleyi don mad

constancefriday:
Everyone take note @Ladylite is one of the Criminals paid and contracted by HOTR to shoot down the Truth and promote lies (on Social media).
Avoid her...

It's a lie... You are only the dumbass on the loose... Get a life dickhead

[quote author=Ladylite post=86413837]

Sorry o man of curses, am not even based in your country, I only know your church HOTR because of The Experience program.

I don't attend the church and am not even a church goer, but you who claim you are a minister of yahweh simply just showed how cursed you already are.

A true believer does not talk this way, have you checked yourself I. A mental home recently?

Check my posts am not a church fan. I know the Bible more than you or the so called pastor, so I know you have no power to curse. I have said nothing or done nothing to warrant it.

This is a free forum, you can not block me or do shiiit. Respect yourself and give simple explanations.

Is That too hard? Stop blabbing about curses, you scare no one. Why not curse the pastor whom you have issues with? Or his members. I loathe hypocrites like you[/quote


Thanks so much... This dude is mentally deranged and so disheartening that he has decided wallow in his foolishness that he claims to be a pastor but sounds like a ritualist seeking attention... If he is a pastor indeed,the word of God would have made him realise he is into.the path of destruction.... Waste not your time on irrelevant and inconsequential people cus if potrays their stupid mentality

constancefriday:
@Ladylite - You've not been to their backstage to see the maggots and crap they're recycling and dishing out to y'all in nice packages. All you do is sit behind the screen of your phone/gadget seeing me as hater. When you can't see what i see clearly. Enough said.
Well, I'm actually trying to protect you and everyone from them. If i don't expose this truth, God will frown at me. Thanks.

Please I have been... Maybe you need come out open so we can justify your claims or you are just uttering gibberish

constancefriday:
@ChoCho54 this isn't an outburst. It's a simple statement of Truth.

Statement of truth kee you there... We ain't gullible... We need proof and not statement...zuwo

What do we have to say again when she has said it all... Women can be trusted and CAN'T be trusted in no way

We like charade alot in this country.... Akpi making sense here.... When buhari's son had an accident with this power bike,the whole Nigeria yelled buying such an expensive bike owing to the fact that his father is the president of the country... Una mumu never do for this guy? We ain't talking politics here and fools will say poor thinking... Dem dey use your pikin future buy slingshot,RR, Ferrari etc... Please someone should tell me what this man does asides being a senator... Nigeria is a failed state.

Too worrying a situation... May their soul RIP

Too bad of such a media house doing reporting without proper check... Awon eyan fake nairaland bloggers... No investigation just conclusion....shioo

OP get your facts right... That ain't China... You sha like to dey post old and fake news...

Pray na.. Na by force to nack?

nairaman66:


What ratio? Have you done a field research to ascertain the calamity of your bogus assertions?

What field research are you looking for? It's just saying that married men cheat not all cus I don't on my wife but the ratio is large... If I look expressly you fit be one pussy boy now come dey find research...shioo

She said if I don’t call his Father and apologize to him that she will still go to her house even though we have settled our misunderstanding that she still have to go until I apologize to the father and reassure him that I still love her daughter.

Please don't....I'm newly married too...no one or relative will control my home... You made your mistakes but not at the mercy of her family... Unless you didn't marry her rightly... I had issues with mine the next day of my wedding and while I was walking away I mistakenly her to the wall and had a cut. The family wanted her back like beat her and I said OK... Na she carry herself come back after few hours without apologizing to anyone rather my woman... Man up and don't let anyone be using abroad to be abusing your integrity as a man.

JasonScoolari:
Next time start with the word "SOME" so that you won't sound stup*d.


Thanks!

If the ratio is high,I think it's permissive to use GUYS cus I don't myself but alot of guys do... Forming good man...shioo

Lamanii22:
Guys generally carry condoms around.. In case of necessity... Or for konji reasons...

Your know how it is.... correct geh

Came prepared for another supper.... Why not lunch? What's my own sef

If you need to ractify your papers on land on acquisition without committment in Lagos state,then you can contact me on 08106738399... Opportunity open to lucky people to buy land directly from the government. Genuine,Open and Fast.

Can it happen vice versa? Well, that makes sense and promoting God wherein fostering peace amongst religions... Commendable

This is whole trash... Infidelity has resigned over your life that you were having an affair in your marriage cus you are having issues with your marriage but not divorced neither did you pack out of his house... You are simply a promiscuous human being and let them be and get a life for yourself and try some decency and a lot of God cus that's the sincere advice any sensible will give you...well, that's if you are not writing a story

I'm on the mainland... Drop your digits so we can discuss

ojonugba2014:

Gbam.
if you are in Lagos I am interested too

Do you stay in Lagos? Can we work something out for a week face to face training?