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me1234:location? ?? |
First bank should emulate this, no be only to bill me any how. |
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aimelebon:thanks Bro. I will do as you said, and contact you also |
oluebubeneo:welcome |
lalastica |
A wise man once said to a young lad who intended to check is level of bravery, ” the answers is in your hand he said.” And truly, was the answer in the young lad hands to whatever way he tend to trick the wise man if he has solution to every problem. In reality, the ability to overcome is truly in our hands. But fear mix with ignorance kill dreams! For when courage is loss, and hopes are dead; people have no greater course to live than to take to suicide. And in spite of awareness, people live in ignorance. What define Fear? According to personal excellence: Fear is “ a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger , evil , pain, etc. , whether the threat is real or imagined“ . In other words, fear is the state whereby you feel frightened or afraid, regardless of whether you should be afraid or not. I learnt a nice story from a book tittle: “Kill Fear Before it kills You,” the author J.P Vaswani talked about two frogs who fell into a bucket of cream. At first they were bemused, but unafraid. They valiantly tried their best to get out of the sticky fluid by climbing up the side of the slippery bucket. But it was (impossible!) When they climb eight inches, they slipped back ten inches as a result of failing while panicked, one of the frog said, “they will never make it out alive,” It sobbed ” and gave up! Couldn’t take it anymore, in fear and frustration he drown in cream. The second frog fell back on every try but never gave up until it kick out alive. If you want to appreciate the life you live, you must have to understand nothing worth happy celebration comes without triumphant steps. Fear is only important, when one has “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 1:7). For anything outside the fear of God, is a torment to one’s soul that can fill the heart with depression to nervous breakdown, sleeplessness leading to suicide. For if you’re battling with fear, or attempting suicide by any current circumstance opposing your life in the state you are, or you want to understand how to take a step beyond what has been holding you back? Here are 5 Best Ways To Overcome Fear & Avoid Suicide. 1. Have a strong will The difference between perseverance and obstinacy is a strong will, and a strong won’t. Fear kills! Even the mighty are drown by little force because of the strong won’t. Have the will to conquer fear at all cost places you in a position to stand for what is appropriate. “People do not lack strength to accomplish their purpose, they only lack will power to see ahead of their fears.” 2. Conquer Fear With a solution The more reason people commit suicide is because they fear they cannot conquer the challenges. You cannot conquer temporal problems by making drastic decision that would therefore harm your life, leaving your love ones permanently wounded and sorry. There is a better solution to temporal changes. But if overwhelming by problems, talk to me here or someone who can help counsel you positively to avoid depression. Above all, understand that “for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes. 3. Take courageous Fear will always overshadow those who are afraid of growth. So, be determined to take a step irrespective of an un-notified mistakes ahead leading to your dreams and purpose. If your goals and dreams are only favourable in good times, you have no will to purpose, so is your fear defeating you, and deflecting your courage. Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.(Ephesians 6:10) 4. Have a strong commitment The last time you failed, did you stop trying because you failed and has developed fear. If you’re not committed, failure or temporal challenge will cause you fear leading to suicide. Commitment allows you to overcome fear in achieving goals. 5. And lastly be willing to Change the state of your action and idea about things to gain flexibility in overcoming fears. Today, anyone can easily be conquer by fear with question of ” how can life be totally different, how you can overcome to meet expectation, what you are doing or not doing right?” . But I encourage you to keep a positive imagination. Understand life is a series of process that comes with values. I understand you have questions, but why things are happening to you despite your inputs for growth. Today I sincerely encourage you to take it to the Lord God in prayers. For they that wait upon the Lord shall not only renew their strength, but are light to others in a dark world. Today, I see you overcoming that which has defeated you. You shall succeed. www.hkitnob.com/5-best-ways-to-overcome-fear-avoid-suicide/ Other topic: [Motivate Yourself From Depression] |
Shiifi:Thanks Bro |
Can anyone assist me with the information of any Nigeria Federal university that accepts 2.58 for direct entry? Thanks, I will be grateful. |
Rest in peace. But will he use the military uniform to enter into heaven? Because even God knows Nigeria police has symptoms of D e vi l |
hostkobo:Yes. But still do not show front page pictures. when I was using "woow theme " it doesn't show front page pictures on opera. Then what I did was to use "Theme enhancement" on jetpack setting and it became mobile friendly on opera device. But during October I noticed it deactivated on it own, several efforts to make it work became futile, then I had to pay someone I contacted here to sell me newspaper theme, but that didn't solve it. I later realized the theme is not activated I later paid someone to activate it, but did not work. I recently installed newspaper 8.5 but still desame. So I had to post it here to know if anyone may have similar problem. |
Dmayor7:Thanks Bro. Happy New year in Advance! I am grateful. |
This lady just castrated this dude. Sex gone bad |
Cameleon72:Merry Christmas! Why de impediment in speech? |
hostkobo:Several theme I have install are not mobile friendly on Opera mobile. Because jetpack on my site is refusing to enhance theme . Even after delete and innstall.. If you visit my site with opera on your phone, you cannot see the pictures on front page. Do you have solution? ?? |
Hello fellow Blogger good evening. Please I need solution to solve this problem my "jetpack theme enhancement" refuses to work. And that has made any theme I install not to show front page or inside post pictures on opera. It was working before, but suddenly stopped for few months back. I have deleted it, reinstalled but remain desame. I have contacted my host service to ask if it was deactivate from my host account with them, but they insist it was not from their end. Anyone with idea about this should help. Thanks |
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Thanks so informative. |
Only Broke and evil men 'Divorce' a woman and the children become ex Children too. A good Father know relationships has nothing to do with blood, so nothing can come in between father and children |
Transparent:www.hkitnob.com Ajulawrence@gmail.com |
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You already know what to do! Tell your husband, and stop seeking public approval to sin and destroy your union. If you quit the job, will that take your life? Be a person of integrity! And that will help you nurture your home as a wife. Please don't take it personal, if my way of addressing the matter at hand sound hurtful. However pick the details necessary. Season Greetings... |
Reject slavery of any kind! Strive here than to die with no legacy. |
That is so true. blogging is not a child play! For those who blog to buy mansion in bananas highland, the truth is that; you may not even get a duplex at plantain highland. But be consistent! Determined, focus and leverage on the tougher experience ahead to never give up! Tenacity is what matter in blogging. In conclusion, don't go into blogging because someone did. Do because it your little way of adding values to someone in need of information, then comes your rewards. |
This is just a short episode and a wake-up call why Nigeria police should be serious about the role they play in her nation (Nigeria). I remember while growing up in the late 90’s, most children would want to become among (NPF) Nigeria Police Force; that gallant Police officer who saw truth and would allow justice to prevail by the power of his role to the society, irrespective of the who and who is you is involved. I believe then was due to the courage they displayed to the society in tackling crime not taking part of the oppressor, the role our past leaders had shown by example. The police was the hope of Justice. I also remembered those days without knowing my dad occupation as a child, I would say he was a police man if asked by a friend, in other to add to my ego, to receive the respect and glory as the son of a man who is serving his nation. Why? Because the police was told to be our friends. The police was a body to instill true justice. They were courageous, friendly in relating with the society, service ready in duty with the mindset of one Nigeria dreams as: ” we all need to build one Nigeria.” Years down the line, the Nigeria Police Force is more as a body who are not concerned about the Nigeria dreams but politically driven and inspired to act it primary role it was established for. True justice is only seen in the amount of currency you can pay! The weak man sees the police as his last hope to run to for installment of peace and his hope for justice. Because definitely he might become the victim's to what information he has if he lacks the financial competence. I have read several news and illicit act of most Nigeria police men from the media. In as much we love to be their friends, they don’t give citizens the right business relationship culture to be their friends. Simply because you can’t tell the police you saw or being a witness without being put to prison or detain to pay some ransom for bailout . Could it be related to society disfunction of leadership role the Nigerian government has not look into? I can not answer these questions, but I feel they can put their force to align with the Nigeria purpose and what we desire to see from their capabilities to serve our father’s land as the national anthem. The Nigeria government has always made us to see NPF as our friends. But most to who I am included see The EFCC has been so friendly in the current administration of President to true justice in fighting corruption, just that money being recovered from looters by EFCC can not be accounted for, and it fight against corruption is a selective business. We have seen EFCC as our friends than the Nigeria police force. This is rather a wake up call for NPF to create a much better and relatable systems to pass fair judgment and restore the ‘Hope’ of peace and justices in Nigeria to many who has given up trust to the police . And to achieve this, The Nigeria Police Force has bigger role to play, and be what it was like in the early 90’s and do away from politics but to protect lives and property. Source: www.hkitnob.com/efcc-our-friends-than-the-nigeria-police-you-know/ |
lastempero:thanks |
beeznitfizo:Thanks for the information |