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Honeyking:
2 QS were taken, a female (Mimiko) and a male that looks like Hausa guy (Omuiyadun). both are Higher Executive Officers. One in works and one in Physical planning

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OK, sir. Thanks for your response. These two, I believe, may have been strongly connected with the corridors of power, for nothing spectacular happened at the interview session. Congratulations to them. May the Lord connect me too oo. Bye.

What is being tested is not comfrotability with poverty; I think the test is that of humility. Forgetting who you are, with all the allure of wealth, academic degrees and class of society whilst still maintaining touch with commonality is the deal. Humility and adaptability with situations, pleasant or unpleasant because life is subject to the law of impermanence.

Honeyking:
I wasn't called neither did I received a text but an insider hinted me so I came to make enquiries and luckily my letter was ready.

@Honeyking, I would appreciate if you could help me confirm the Qs taken. I don't have any insider there. Thanks for support.

merryossai:
a relationship with God is very relevant but we shouldn't be too spiritual by making heaven is our goal on earth. a life of purpose is the goal while heaven is a our home. as Christian we should work from home.

This is a very good point. Thanks for sharing this. I think the problem many of us have is one sidedness. In our effort to become spiritual, we neglect the material thinking we will more acceptable to God. Out of that desire we invent so many aberration that are variance with the natural laws. Examples include the oath of permanent celibacy, extended period of fasting, ascetism, renunciation, etc.

We are here on earth to experience. To cultivate the fruits of the spirit through interaction in the normal day to day life. It is the same deluded thinking that brought about the principle that earthly possessions is incompatible with striving for spiritual gain. The adherent shows apathy towards work. It is erroneous teaching.

Honeyking:
You are right sir.
Letters are been given out now.
Glory to God I got mine yesterday afternoon.
If you know or have insider it's better you ask them to check for your name on the list because they haven't called everyone and as the day goes by last minute politics can set in. (+1 -1)
God bless us all.

Congrats my dear brother. I celebrate with you. More blessings. I didn't receive any call from but All is well all. Enjoy your appointment.

This is exemplary. May the blessing of the lord rest upon your union.

Honeyking:
Well I don't know about that and I haven't heard about that.
I will update you but you don't have to give up like that, even if someone has resumed, it may be in batches.

You're right. Thank you, sir. Bless you.

Honeyking:
I like your spirit, you are still following the link and topic. I pray that we shall all have testimonies to share together on this.
it's like others have lost hope but I tell you that God is working for us.... I doggedly believe.

I have a friend whose friend claim to have resumed work at the poly. This is not a lie. With the news of reumption to work I guess the whole exercise may be have been completed. Good luck in our future endeavors. Thanks to everyone.

Honeyking:
House, he who laughs last laughs best according to an English quote.
work is ongoing on the recruitment underneath, there shall be good news soon.
Pls don't throw away your faith now, your prayers are working wonders underneath.
God bless us.
Very very sooooon......

Really? We shall hear good news. Amen. Please furnish us with more detailed info. I think It is uplifting.

How love operates in the mind

If love feels painful that’s because the mind infiltrates it with grief, fear or hatred. Love in its truest form is free of pain, the grief is always felt when your mind perceives a “loss” of love, and the neediness is always felt in an attempt to prevent the loss. The mind can’t help but grieve for loss, it’s part of the mind’s design (it’s also biological that the mind has to bring down a lot of neural pathways in response to the loss, and this “deconstruction” is felt physically as the sensation of pain). The grief of the mind can feel overwhelming to you if you already have a huge load of “pain” (negativity) within you from your past store-up, plus if your mind has a strong momentum it keeps recycling the thoughts of loss, at a fast pace, creating a sense of depression – there is no space of relief, and this can create a lot of resistance to the harmony of your body and external reality.

The mind, on its own, will always have a hard time with relationships. It either gets too clingy or it gets too cold, it either gets needy or it gets distant, it either gets over-excited (at the prospect of getting love) or gets into a depression (at the prospect of losing love). Unless you have a connection with your space of being you will always find yourself in a “shaky” ground, and this instability becomes highly pronounced when you end up in an intimate relationship.

A lot of us try to avoid “intimate relationships” for this reason, and try to go for “lukewarm” relationships (surface-level), in a bid to play it safe – the mind will do anything to keep itself from feeling hurt, even if it means sticking to a totally incompatible relationship if it gives some sense of pseudo-security. It’s only when you become grounded in your space of being that you find an inner stability that’s free of the influence of mind movement – this is when you become a free being. By “free” I don’t mean reckless or careless or irresponsible, but someone who is no longer a prisoner to the mind’s responses/reactions.

By “self love” I am not talking about the narcissistic love of a “bloated” mind, which is a highly egoic love for oneself created from a feeling of superiority over others – this is again something a mind is capable of. People who have such “bloated” minds never find the warmth of true love, what they always feel is a sense of hatred towards the outside, in some way, out of a feeling of superiority – of course, the sense of superiority is always rooted in a fear of inferiority, so they are never at ease with the world.

By “self love” I mean knowing the love inherent to your space of being/self or your source nature outside the mind, and bringing this love to the mind by resting in this space of being – this love is what inevitably starts shining through in your expression in the form of creativity or connection.

It’s not about becoming “all loving”, neither is it about trying to make yourself loving – all of this becomes a mind strategy, and it will just make you a “fake” person. When you truly find a grounding in your space of being, you bring a total alignment/acceptance to your mind without resistance of judgment, and this allows your mind to express itself, as per its natural make-up, in full freedom – it will not make your mind all-loving, if your mind is dark natured it will not become light natured, if your natural makeup is to be introverted you will not become extroverted; what will happen is that you will express your natural makeup in an aligned manner, thus becoming fully true to your natural expression.

As you can see, unconditional love comes from your space of being towards your physical aspect (the mind/body) and this allows an alignment with yourself. This alignment is what attracts an aligned relationship(s) on the outside, which just becomes a mirror reflecting your inner congruence and thus a source of joy for you.


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Posted on April 26, 2012 by Sen.

THE SEARCH FOR LOVE ENDS WITH FINDING YOURSELF


Humans seek love, from the outside, in various forms, such as

– Seeking love from an intimate partner

– Seeking love from parents, friends and relatives

– Seeking love from a “divine” image/presence (in the form of a external God)

– Seeking love from a hobby/career, or body of work

– Seeking love from the society/community

The basic reason why most humans never find the love they desire is because they try to find it by “renouncing” themselves in some way, or by trying to “change” themselves in some way. You’ve heard the protagonist lover, in the movies, make a solemn commitment stating – “I promise I will change myself for you, to get your love”, and such a relationship may have a happy ending in the movies but in reality it spells an inevitable break-up, or a stressful relationship.

If your motivation to change yourself is to get someone’s love, you are already a prisoner to their approval of you and such a mindset always ends in a desperate neediness. Another way of “renouncing” yourself is by placing yourself at an inferior level to your object of love – it’s called placing your beloved on a pedestal, here you basically act more like a slave than as a lover. People in spiritual circles are no different in that they try to renounce their mind/body (its desires) for the sake of communing (finding love) with the divine, if you ever meet such people, and have some awareness, you can sense an energy of suppression, in them, which is repelling.

If you have to suppress your natural make-up in order to seek someone’s love, it’s already doomed to failure. Your suppression by itself creates an energy of negativity in you which can manifest as neediness, over-sensitivity, over-possessiveness, desperation and even hatred towards your object of love for making you feel so enslaved. Secondly, if you are “trying” to be in love with someone out of a need for security, or for the fear of being lonely (fear of being single), this again leads to a loveless relationship because your motivation for the relationship is for all the wrong reasons.

Also, when you have a lack-based mindset, you learn to “compromise” on what you really desire in your partner and try to “adjust” to, somehow, make it work and soon end up burying your feelings/desires, thus living an empty life – you even console yourself by believing that this is the “reality” of life, that you can’t always find what your heart desires.

When you are out to find love you are already working on a wrong premise, because you can’t find what you lack. A lot of spiritual teachings talk of finding love within, this is again misinterpreted by the mind and it starts seeking some “feeling” of love through spiritual practices, meditations or mystical experiences.

But the pointer of “find love within” is not for you to find a temporary feeling/experience of love within you, but about bringing love to yourself, to your mind by letting go into your space of being. Who you are, as life-energy, is already unconditional love and when you allow your mind to rest in your space of being it’s touched by this love. So instead of finding love outside you fall into the love of your own being.

To put it in simple words, just let go of trying to find love, also let go of trying to love yourself as an efforted practice (because all of it becomes a mind strategy), and just allow yourself to relax in this space of silence outside the mind (the practice of relaxed awareness connects you with this space), this space automatically brings a permanent feeling of inner wholeness/love.

It can take sometime before you can really start feeling the “love” present in this space outside the mind, the space your life-stream/being (usually a few months of connecting with your space of being). And, it takes time for this space to feel permanent. The reason it takes time is because initially the mind has such a strong cloud of negativity that it does not allow you to “sense” the vibration of love inherent to your being.

However, when you become connected with this source of love you inherently realize that you are no longer needy of an outside love (this realization is not a passing thought but a permanent knowing) and this is when you really start looking at relationships in a new light, you understand that it was never supposed to be about “seeking” but about “sharing” yourself – also, you realize that an intimate relationship was never about seeking love or possessing someone, it’s about sharing your experience of life with someone who can feel what you feel, who can meet you deeply enough to understand the way you experience life, and you can’t live such a relationship until you first understand yourself in the light of the unconditional love of your own being.

FINDING LOVE


For a lot of us feeling “unloved” is probably one of the biggest sadness generating factor, it can even lead to stark depression or imbalanced behaviors of frustration. Also, there some of people who don’t really feel “unloved”, in fact they may get a lot attention from the outside, but feel a lack of that real connection that they long for.

Life by itself is a relationship between the physical and the non-physical aspects of this one conscious energy, the non-physical life-energy knows itself through the mirror of physicality – the physical is the beloved of the non-physical energy (its love child). I am not being poetic here, it’s such an obvious truth of life that it’s totally in love with itself, it’s an innocent selfishness, because life is all there is so it has only itself to love and all its physical expressions are ultimately in service to its own self-realization and self-appreciation, though the mind’s limited thinking cannot, sometimes, see this evident truth especially when it’s agitated about the perceived negativity of life. (You can read this post – The value of negativity, to get a sense of life’s perspective in creating a mind that’s capable of negativity).

Since you are the same life-energy you have the characteristics of this energy, and one of them is the desire for a “relationship” that allows for self-appreciation and self-realization. The problem is that most of us go after “outside” relationships first, before starting a love relationship with ourselves – the relationship of self-realization/appreciation that you seek has to first happen within you, with your “self” by yourself.

The non-physical aspect of you (the space of being or space of awareness) has to bring love to the physical aspect of you (the mind/body), and this love is what you deeply desire more than anything else, and in the absence of this self-love you can keep trying to find “love”, outside, as much as you want but you can’t really find it – it’s just a scientific deal that you can’t find outside what you lack inside.

Honeyking:
This is typical of what the cabal wants to do as per this recruitment process but God will not allow them.
God is involved, we must laugh at last on this. (Amen)

Hmm, this is serious o. Thanks for sharing this. Is there any background info from fedploy? Or what's happening, sir?

lonikit:
As for me, poverty is more potent to influence sin but bible talk more on wealth as being capable to make u sin.


So what is your opinion?

I think wealth is more potent to falling into sin if the possessor's inner life is not firmly anchored in the laws of God. Nothing is wrong with wealth. It merely provides the opportunity to reveal who we really are. You cannot claim to be strong when the opportunity to commit without anyone's knowlege is not present.

A man thinks more of his creator when he is poor, because he needs help from Him. If he is comfortable he feels no need to be closer to his creator and much liberty to satiate the dictates of his sensous desires.

Honeyking:
Pls house is anybody having info on the latest as per the recruitment?
I haven't been able to get info/establish link with my source since last week.
July is running out gradually....

Dear mister, July is almost out. Please what is the update?

I want to commend the blood donor for his kind gesture. Medically, too, it is healthy too donate blood. It is unhealthy to have too much blood volume in the body. Whilst one renders a humane service once also gets back in a way of maintaining a healthy physical body.

[quote author=Honeyking post=58432445][/color]Excuse me sirs, are these jobs on equal measure with those of oil coys and CBN? Why the so much drama, hype, tension and suspense?



Hmmmmmm it's not that it is of equal measure, the truth is that the cabals want to have a say and input concerning the recruitment and we all know what that means......A, B & C were invited for interview and following due process the governing council approves of ABC but cabal says no, C, D & E that didn't do interview MUST be given letters.
So what do you think the leadership of the school will do..... sit and watch till God intervenes.
Let's intensify efforts in prayers, evil MUST stop in Nigeria. The youths are entitled to good life and good offices, it's time we wake up. We can't confront them but we have a God who can deal with them. Let's pray more.
God bless us all. [color=#990000]Excuse me sirs, are these jobs on equal measure with those of oil coys and CBN? Why the so much drama, hype, tension and suspense?



Hmmmmmm it's not that it is of equal measure, the truth is that the cabals want to have a say and input concerning the recruitment and we all know what that means......A, B & C were invited for interview and following due process the governing council approves of ABC but cabal says no, C, D & E that didn't do interview MUST be given letters.
So what do you think the leadership of the school will do..... sit and watch till God intervenes.
Let's intensify efforts in prayers, evil MUST stop in Nigeria. The youths are entitled to good life and good offices, it's time we wake up. We can't confront them but we have a God who can deal with them. Let's pray more.
God bless us all. Excuse me sirs, are these jobs on equal measure with those of oil coys and CBN? Why the so much drama, hype, tension and suspense?



Hmmmmmm it's not that it is of equal measure, the truth is that the cabals want to have a say and input concerning the recruitment and we all know what that means......A, B & C were invited for interview and following due process the governing council approves of ABC but cabal says no, C, D & E that didn't do interview MUST be given letters.
So what do you think the leadership of the school will do..... sit and watch till God intervenes.
Let's intensify efforts in prayers, evil MUST stop in Nigeria. The youths are entitled to good life and good offices, it's time we wake up. We can't confront them but we have a God who can deal with them. Let's pray more.

Thank you, sir

yommeey:
I don't mind. I need friends.

Really? you know anything about VIRGO? I will rather you know them well before making friends. May I have your number? Or whichever contact your comfortable with.

yommeey:
I am Capricorn, Melphleg, Sapiosexual, intelligent, witty and an anti-social introvert. Seem like we have a lot in common.

Not trying to 'toast' you though: D

I logged in because of this madam. I'm VIRGO, melphleg, drawn to women with class, gravitas, elegance and creativity. Above all spiritual. Me, I want to toast you o. Lol. Just because of the fact that you're a Capricorn. I have read so much about them. I would like to be a friend to one. would you mind?

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dec04:
Gud a.m guyz
The thing is anoda set of applicants will b invited 4 an interview by august, so its afta den d successful once will b call 4 appointment letter and start work 4 next acadrmic session.
source: an insider

Honeyking:
Do you know about Cabals in Nigeria?
They are the ones delaying our appointment letters.

Read this to get a clue.

https://www.nairaland.com/3914274/massive-jubilation-aso-rock-presidency

Excuse me sirs, are these jobs on equal measure with those of oil coys and CBN? Why the so much drama, hype, tension and suspense?

Benita27:
Lol, Sure.

I am VIRGO, may I ask what's your star sign?

Instead of preaching hell-fire, sins etc, we should focus more on the commandment to love thy neighbour, and purity of thoughts. When we do this, the sins we dread will drop of their own accord. Some people think themselves already going to heaven because they do not commit lust of flesh. What about gossips and harmless lies?

The work of a true Christian does not end at "abstaining" from sin. Some even create identity for themselves for not having cheated or stole or lusted; but they have not shown love to their neighbors by helping them in prayers and goodwill in all genuineness. They want to bask in the euphoria of being a moralist

Benita27:
Introvert. I love my space, hate crowd, dislike outings, dislike meaningless talks, talk less and listen more.

I think I can gel well with this madam. I will still make out time to read more of your post. The words we write and speak are windows to portals of our soul. Dear madam, permit me the latitude to extend an invitation of sane friendship to you.

Honeyking:
Pls house is anybody having info on the latest as per the recruitment?
I haven't been able to get info/establish link with my source since last week.
July is running out gradually....

I don't think anyone here has info to share. But We are relying on you. Now that your source has gone AWOL, nothing much we can do.

ConcernedNL:
Bro, thank God you are alive and recovering. May you live long to fulfil Gods best for you. TK care

Thank you, sir.

ConcernedNL:
Hi,any updates? How are u doing now?

I am on admission. Now, I feel better. Hopefully I will be discharged today. Thanks for concern.

In fairness to them they are really trying. They have raft of seasoned and experienced nurses and doctors. There are doctors who are having their national service here, too. With these team of organised professionals it is strange that there is no provision for at least a doctor on night duty.

Ayomidetony:
[/quote][quote author=engrMikemd post=57830445]well if u did the interview keep on praying. you still have hope

Hello house, any update? Please share with what happening behind the scenes.

Honeyking:
Classified information...
Brothers and Sisters let's be prayerful on the outcome. God must take all the glory.
I learnt that the appointment letters are ready but the big guns of Nigeria are on the neck of the Rector. I can't say more than that.
God will favour us.

Hello house, any update? Please share with what happening behind the scenes.

A CALL FOR IMPROVEMENT IN HEALTH CARE FACILITY IN FUTA.

On the 30th of June 2017, I was down with a serious illness which necessitated my repeated visits to the school health center. This is not the first of my visits to the center for medical attention but this time around my ailing condition is debilitating. The reception there was however fair; but some crucial areas need to be strengthened with utmost urgency due to a general decline in the economy of the nation which has a strong link with the health status of the citizens.

I am a student of the school in the faculty of environmental studies. I visited the center at around 2:00 pm on Friday the 30th June, this year. I was given some tablet which proved later to be inadequate for the containment of my ailment. On getting back to the class, I sensed an aggravation of the symptoms. I visited the center again at around 4:45pm. I met some students there, too, who were waiting to see the doctor. It was discomforting that after about 30 minutes we were still waiting; so I enquired as to the cause of the delay. We were told that the doctor was attending to an emergency.

I made it known to a nurse there that amongst we students waiting, there could be an emergency, too. That a student is standing upright doesn’t mean he/she still has modicum of strength at his/her disposal to wait a little longer. It is not too good that only one doctor is made to attend to patients at that time, especially in a campus health facility. What if there more cases of emergency at that time?.

Fortunately a little while, the doctor on duty came to attend to us. I laid my complaint and she recommended that I take injection which I quickly nodded to in acceptance. During my session with her I apologized for my impatience as to the demand for her attention. She responded that only one doctor would be on duty at evening period till the following morning.

On getting home at night, I made effort to sleep but sleep proved to be impossible. I was always waking up at every passing hour. The ailing condition was getting fatal, that all sort of thoughts raced through my mind. I set out to go to the medical center around 4:20 am. Everywhere was dark but I braved up myself. I trekked a long distance before getting to the health center. I got to the center at 5: 00am. I requested to see a doctor but I was told the doctor would not be around until 9:00am. This is shocking.

I explained my condition to the nurse responding to me, but she reaffirm that until 9:00 am I could not be attended to because that is the the time doctors and lab scientist would be around. I couldn’t take emergency injection because I was an ulcer patient according to the nurse. . Now I am sitting waiting under this painful condition until the time comes when the doctor will come around. I hope I still make it till then.

My point of emphasis is that there are more doctors during the day but not so during the night. A lot of our best brains and future scholars are dying due lack of attention these matters. It should not be. With a bleeding heart I write this address because I'm going through this excruciating experience. This is a very serious situation which should worry our administrators.

I learnt that the new vice chancellor, Prof. Joseph Fuwape, is an honourable man with a listening ear. I hope the paramount issue raised in this article would not be treated as tissues of lexical labyrinth but rather gain his attention and that of all stakeholders in connection with the medical Facility in FUTA.
It is my earnest prayer that I receive strength from above enough to scale me through this. It is my turn today, the son of an unpopular peasant trader. It could be anyone’s turn tomorrow or that of those we love and care so deeply about, wherever they may be and however tastefully furnished the facility they have is, to which they look up in unwavering trust.

This article is not written with a base intent to unsettle the peace in FUTA campus. It is an appeal to authorities. It should therefore be seen as a sober reminder, a humble plea for a redirection of official attention to salient but nevertheless important issue in our community.

We need not wait until we get knocked by the painfully lessons of experience before we live up to standards and best practices in all things. It is a marvelous thing that I can still type this address while writhing in pain. As I roll my eyes, I feel pain, pain in the lower waist, and legs.

We wonder when someone known to be gentle strangely goes berserk and insanely irate, getting mad at human and material resources. But we should not be too quick to blame him/her. People like that might have been stretched to the limit of their patience. However, violence should not be our last resort to registering our displeasure. There is no justification for that.

I regret to be pessimistic as whether I will make it or not. But let our dear scholars, parents who have children in schools, law makers and the researchers in the academic world see this.



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Men Also Have a Biological Clock


Our men therefore now need to consider the dreaded biological clock. Gone are those days of "I can marry at any time" ladies what do you think?

Honeyking:
Are you Oye.... Ay.....? You called me today? You can call tomorrow I will pick.

Yes, I am. It's OK. Thanks.

Honeyking:
SMS your whatsapp no and name to this contact and I will get back to you. If you call I may not pick. 08152413419. Don't mind that no.... it's a special 1.

I'm sorry I don't have whatsapp enabled phone now, that's why I request to call. I'm sorry for the inconvenience. It's alright, thanks.