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iamDrRhymes:
A big prove that sex is not an ordinary exercise.

Truly, it is not ordinary. May we be granted the strength to live a life of purity.

Every pleasure has its own place and time, as well as their limitations. None can replace the other.

temi4fash:
Boss any luck with this.

Just noticed some in my house

Yes, With prayer, it's better now. Apply kerosene to where they are consistently. Keep applying it. Let me know how far in a month's time.

OLAADEGBU:
(11) If it is necessary for human beings to evolve to perfection through numerous incarnations, then both the resurrection of Jesus and the promised future resurrection of all believers, are stripped of validity, value and purpose.

Jesus’ physical body went through an agonising death on the cross. The same body was resurrected three days later. This literal conquering of mortality is something no other religious leader ever accomplished (though Sikhs claim something similar for their founder, Guru Nanak). After Jesus ascended into heaven, he was glorified, receiving a “glorious body,” a celestial form that shines like the sun in the kingdom of God. (Philippians 3:21)

When the biblical patriarch Job faced imminent death, he confessed to God, “All the days of my appointed time will I wait till my change come.” (Job 14:14 KJV) The Psalmist David also foretold, “I shall be satisfied when I awake in Your likeness.” (Psalm 17:15) In other words, the ultimate hope for God’s people is a final, physical change into the likeness of the Lord himself.

While on earth, Jesus promised, “This is the will of him who sent me, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have everlasting life; and I will raise him up at the last day.” (John 6:40) The Scripture also promises that he is able to “transform our lowly body that it may be conformed to his glorious body.” (Philippians 3:21) This will happen at the Second Coming of Christ, when the resurrection of the dead takes place.

Jesus explained that after that great event, in the future “kingdom of heaven,” God’s people will sit down and commune with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob (the patriarchs of Judaism). (See Matthew 8:11, Luke 13:28.) If these men will be identifiable eternally as the singular personalities from around four thousand years ago, then what happened to their multiple personalities up to that point? Or what happened to any subsequent personalities they bore later? No, the implication is clear—they only lived one life and that is their identity forever!

If reincarnation is true, then the doctrine of the resurrection becomes totally confused. If we wear numerous physical bodies during many earthly sojourns, which one is resurrected? Furthermore, if the soul ultimately evolves, through the reincarnation process, into formless union with Brahman, then resurrection is unnecessary. Yet resurrection was the pattern set forth in the prototype of all sons of God.

If Jesus, the firstborn Son of God, was literally resurrected from the dead, he went through this experience to set a precedent and to give his followers hope—hope that we, too, will eventually be resurrected from the dead, in a literal sense. If Jesus was really an Avatar, and if he really studied under Far Eastern masters, why did he teach such a doctrine that is so contradictory to what they would profess. Considering these things, it must be concluded that these two doctrines—reincarnation and resurrection—are completely incompatible. Therefore, only one belief can be retained, at the expense of the other being discarded.

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I want to encourage you to examine the work “In the Light of Truth, The Grail Message”. You might find clarity if you seek with a pure and humble heart.

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Horoscope is good but has its limitations, too. There are many factors that come into play in making decisions in life, part of which is whom to marry. Such factors include the conditions of past earth-lifes, karma, present maturity and even the freewill. The stellar radiations alone in which astrologers make calculations and base their findings may not be adequate to make such right decisions. Sometimes, people marrry the ‘wrong’ person in order to settle former debt dating from past incarnations.

I think with personal deepening, intuitive sensing and fervently heartfelt prayers, answers will come which astrological calculations might be incapable of giving.

judedwriter:
Naturally romantic love tends to wane in marriage as it gets older.

When a couple can't keep the romantic spark in their marriage, it becomes routine and boring. It takes a lot to keep the romance in marriage.

Marriages that last longer are often built around solid friendships than romantic love. Of course, it will take a lot of sacrifice and forgiveness, not just friendship for any marriage to last so long.

But when a spiritually mature couple love each other equally with God's love, with no conditions attached, it's going to be 100% successful.

This is good.

Omoluabi16:
lol. na nollywood those kind things dey happen, and the one you cited is very rare. I think it won't be ideal trying to come off as broke or simple as means of testing. Neither flasing wealth, using it as a trump card in getting who you want. Best thing is to be yourself.

Dear sir, because of this comment, I logged in to respond. I give you multiple likes for this response. Being oneself is the key. Being simple. I also once thought about It that it would be better to appear to have less and know true love but something said to me that it’s unnecessary. There are some abilities we need to develop. The ability to perceive intuitively. This lack of intuition is major cause of all our troubles, disappointment and failures.

Thanks once again for reminding us to be at ease with ourselves.

Strech:
That's the same problem I am facing with my wife now.and I think divorce is the only option for me now. She wants me to continue the nonsense government job I am doing, while I am saving enough money to start up what IAM good at and derive much pleasure in doing. She likes to see me wear nice long sleeve and tie every morning to work. While on the other hand I love to get my hands dirty.

Bros, please, don’t disappoint madam Tina oh... work things out amicably sir. Let the love that made you to set her conspicuously on social media page not wane. Stay strong , sir.

merahki:
I feel some panic on behalf of the OP’s boyfriend . OP you are kinda scary, with all that “drive”. In my picturing of you versus your boyfriend, from your post, I deduce:
.Choleric versus phlegmatic
.Control freak versus easy/mellow/happy-go-lucky
.Domineering versus ??
.Someone who lives for the future and planning for it versus one that more or less takes each day as it comes.
.Fear of poverty versus ease around money.
Please leave the guy alone, as in, jilt him please, for his own sake mostly, there is little or no fit here. Cut and join won’t work because control freaks don’t (cannot) even manage joinwork.
I also see some ?grandiosity/egocentrism.
You need something I don’t know now- some weed, a heart break, some “flaky”, fun girlfriends (that party might just be it), to loosen you up some. You are wound so tight darling. And for one so young. (Maybe the order and organisation in Canada would do it for you).

Google desert cube ladder horse test, and do it for fun. Your boyfriend should do it too. It is a very fun (often and variously and I daresay rightfully disparaged) psychological assessment. You may like it, or not. But at least you guys can see if you are on the same page in a loopy psychological assessment. And it is fun, trust me. Maybe show this thread to your boyfriend too? It might wake him up or chase him further inside his cocoon.

This was hard especially as I am more on your boyfriend’s side here. I also acknowledge I might be wrong with my assessment.
Either way, good luck.

This is not phlegmatic of a thing. My perception is that the guy is not willing to improve on himself even when there is someone to help him. This habit is common anyway. The best path is the middle way, not too fast and furious , and not too slow and sluggish.

Acmepreneur:
Lol, I finished my masters 1year, 8months ago at age 22.
I have many skills that I have a business plan on. Currently, I'm planning to launch my business very soon but I have no money to do that. I'm planning my travelling to Canada, I'm applying for scholarships because I made a an excellent grade in both Msc & Bsc and was the best student in my class in both. I can start a business with my little skills, but that would be too low of me since I have siblings who are on my neck for me to travel out to Canada, just that the process is too slow. My life plan is set, which means once God answer my prayers, I would rise in a very high speed. I want to marry him before travelling so I would just process his own easily

Many serious guys here on Nairaland would like to marry your kind of person because of your purpose-driven progressive propensity. I wanted to request for your mail, but’s it’s ok, I’ll comment here, too.

The word says iron sharpens iron. You are trying to save your union at the same desiring fundamental change. I would say be gentle in your approach to make him change his attitude towards desiring material and psychic progress. Better still, be patient to find someone who is compatible with you. This is very important.

The number one condition for harmonious union is compatibility, then genuine love, so keep to that. It is also important that the two should strive to work shoulder to shoulder. Most people connect only at the physical, baser level, I.e the sexual instinct level, few connect on emotional level, fewer still connect on intellectual level, very rare are those Vibrating on the same astral and spiritual frequency. I can’t say all here.

I guess you are born around September though.

Acmepreneur:
I'm through with the research proposal and I have submitted. Thanks for the encouragement, I'm highly grateful. What I did there is not what I would do normally but I'm glad I at least tried and not just give up like that. I used my Masters thesis to do it, more like editing and imputing the new topic on wherever my thesis topic is. Thanks a lot, may God bless you in return. My sadness is going little by little, I'm a bit relieved

Thumbs, you did well. I wanted to suggest this to you before reading this comment. Usually your research proposal may change when you get there. So, it’s not what you submitted that would be used. It’s just to get something at least, not necessarily what you’ll be working on.

maasoap:
If he waits too long, too late, it will get worse and he won't find the right person to marry. Imagine a broke man of 45 to 50 looking for a single woman to marry! What type of single woman would be interested in marrying him? May be single mummies of 35 and above.

The guy is already 41 and not yet rich enough, still you failed to see problem in front of him!
The only way a man can marry the woman of his choice is either he marries at a young age with or without enough money or he marries late but have enough money to entice single woman of his choice.

But a man who doesn't have age on his side and doesn't have more than enough money in his pocket will have problem settling down with his choice of woman or the right woman as you put it.

Nothing stop a serious man from getting marry latest at 35, whether he has enough at the time or not. All he needs is how to plan and manage his family according to his means. Just one kid for a start until things start getting better for him

But not everyone have it lucky to find even a girlfriend at 35, sir. It's by grace oh.

Victoria25:
Alright

previous post

Victoria25:
What are you putting on your fb profile pic?

white top, blue cap.

Victoria25:
What are you putting on your fb profile pic?

oh..sorry dear. i forgot i recently changed by dp. My pic is there, flanged by 2 kids.

Victoria25:
What are you putting on your fb profile pic?

kindly edit your post to clear my name

[quote author=Victoria25 post=89483796].

Victoria25:
Fb,let me have your Fb name

hope you got it

Victoria25:
private

ok, which platform?

Victoria25:
� yeah

That's nice. Would like to know you. Shall we converse here or private? Whichever you are OK with, kindly share a brief info about you, where you are coming from, where you are and your future aspirisations. Nice to meet you. I am Dave

Koboko444:
And you want people to tell you what? that you are young? To make you feel happy. To tell you that everybody has thier own time. At 41 you still have time to post such a depraved topic. You didn't post an article called mistakes i made in youth. You are here posting a question at 41 am i getting married late. No you are getting married early . Please wait 10 more years to marry. Very deranged and depraved question.

Let me first laugh small at this your post. I couldn't hide it.. But Bros, you wicked. You suppose take it easy on him na. Sometimes we do not get what we want.in life. But let us be grateful for the gift of life to be useful in creation. There are great respected men and women who never married. Let's live a responsible live and be pleasant. The guy might have his request repeatedly rejected by ladies he desired. It does occur real. It occurred to me so it's possible it occurred to anyone. It may not be our luck to live a partnered life. It is still good nevertheless to be grateful.

Victoria25:
So many things to say but you said three:


1. must have a great heart as you said.
2. Must be a neat guy both inside/outside house.
3. Must be intelligent.

I like this, ma'am. May I meet you then?

excel1960:
Just a date with a responsible and mature guy

Mind coming with me then?

Embodying spiritual values

Paragon of social elegance/beautiful

Simplicity /modesty.

OJURONGBE1:
Go to DuFranc (Quantity surveyors and valuers) office at igbosere , Lagos island and submit your CV. They work hand in hand with ACCL (An architectural firm handling some of the biggest building projects in Lagos).

Thanks sir. The problem common in Lagos is accommodation. And no one appears to be willing to help. It has always been an impediment.

Salmom:
Is forex rocket science?

Is rocket science the acme of cerebral altitude?

Jarus:
Lecturing is not one of the jobs I was referring to pls. The guys I’m talking about earn at entry level what professors earn after 25 years of lecturing.

Then or now, I wont take up lecturing job.

That said, I agree the job market was better when we entered labour market (2008 - after NYSC).

Hmm

Sixfeetbelle:
I don't know why most men on this platform think they're all that. On a whole, women know better than to engage you in real life when they can decode from a mile away you're there for the sex.

When you come for friendship alone, you'll meet a woman who will converse with you on the level that you should operate, not all these rants and shouts you lots display at viewing centres and call it football analysis.

Women oftentimes got it wrong. When men of noble intentions approach, naively, they make base assumptions which turn these men to other directions. Sadly these noble men do not have time or gravitas for persistence to convince you, and you think they are not serious.

If ladies were that good with their perceptive antenna to smell erotic miasma miles away, why do they end up with men who pummel their body and spirit to the ground and make a gross abuses of their sublime womanhood. Is it injustice that what they get is deserving?

I am not referring to the OP, just a rejoinder to your statement. Think about it.

The idea to have a child without the mother seems modern, fascinating but rather self-serving. Such ideas do not spring from true love. We usually habour so many crazy ideas while we are young many of which look laughable when we grow older. We are to strive after the ideal, to be examplary bofore our fellow men, to be of desirable attributes.

Ilekokonit:
These creatures are melodramatic and emotional about EVERTHING and not putting them in their place or correcting them when they are wrong or have crossed the line is setting a bad precedence which ALL of them will exploit repeatedly as women naturally take the piss especially with men who are too soft with them.

This is why I'm an advocate for men being polygamous especially if the first wife no dey hear word.

All we need is to seek wisdom from above. Every other thing will fall in place. Both at home and work place, you will have peace. I have learnt that to live through this journey of life unscathed requires deep wisdom; erudition of the intellectual brain cannot do it. It is grossly incapable no matter your degree of scholarship. Just when you think youve grasped an aspect of life, shortly after you again discover some twist which will make a fool of you, and places you low.

Some men have 'gone too soon' just becuase they thought it wise to bring in another woman. Some who 'escaped' will admonish others to never dare the thought of even 2 women. It might work for others though. Nothing is stable in the realm of power.

These unpleasant experiences are a wake up call for us to awaken our intuitive perception. It is useful in order to make right decisions at the right time bringing balance and harmony in everything we do. I think majority of us are lacking this respect, that is why we lament and feel sad. We depend too much on the frontal brain.