This thread will be 10 years since first post in few days and I still always find reasons to search it up and read the contents.
It was hot then. đĽ
For many who agree or disagree, what is your opinion 10 years after.
Thank you.
killjoy: readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.
1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.
2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.
3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.
4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.
5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...
6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.
7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.
disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.
nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.
When you tried to update the payment method using the Chipper Virtual Card issued to you, were you presented with any error(s)?
I must confess the error message from Starlink "payment declined" was vague it didnt help me in understanding what the exact issue was that moment. Nanso9 may be right, in the sense that for every payment request you made or sent that failed, the exact reason why it failed will only be seen by the bank or card issuer. To simplify this, it is encoded in an API request as additional level of protection, it is rarely made available to you reason why you need to make that call to your issuer if you haven't.
I started off with the "Regional Plan" but after that month, I switched to the "Standard Plan". I have attached the pricing for both in the attachment below.
Thanks for your responses sir. Account not yet activated, no subscription made yet. Still having issues.
Common, nobody was bashing him. In fact, in some forums e.g SO, Reddit etc, the comment would get downvoted or even deleted if it was a duplicate or if it required self-effort to solve. And there's a big warning to "search before posting". It can be quite cringe to answer the same questions over and over; for example, we've had to post numerous screenshots of speed test over. Someone else will still come and ask "please how fast is starlink i wanna buy" All in all, chill dude he is. Merci
Please I don't know if this has been answered before, permit me to ask.
I am having issues with payment and Nanso9 advised that Chipper cards works. He even provided calling support, I appreciate you sir.
But it is still saying payment declined. What could I be doing wrong?
Try Chipper, also ensure the name, service and delivery address match with what you have as your bank details. It was also difficult for me as well. To put it simply, I created another account on my starlink account then used the said account to make the payment.
Thanks for your response sir. Not gotten through yet but will keep trying.
If I ma ask how much is the subscription now. Maybe the amount in there is small to the actual fee ( Kuda, N50,000), hence the decline.
The issue is I don't have a moniepoint account and CBN has restricted opening new account. If sub be done by proxy, could you oblige to help make payment from your side. Or if there is another way to go about the moniepoint of a thing.
Zulum: i want to pay for my starlink monthly subscription, but i noticed that the amount was increased to N76,000 . pls is there any change in the price?
Dear sir, please how do you subscribe. Having issues with making payments. Kuda payment was not successful. Please kindly assist.
Again rather than say the certificate did not emanate from them, they could have said it did come from a third party they are in affiliation with and they can attest to that. But they outrightly disclaimer that the certificate was not from them.
I just think we need to look at the matter objectively.
Putinofrussia: Even the headless mobs now say that Tinubu Graduated from CSU but they still believe that he forged his certificate. Hurray! So President Tinubu really went to university? grin
The only snag with them or some of them like Mr Farotimi that I listened to on Arise Tv this morning is that the certificate he submitted did not emanate from CSU. Therefore,it is a forged certificate. CSU has also cleared this in the deposition that was held in the court when it was stated that a replacement certificate can be gotten from a third party,more like a vendor. There can be differences in the fonts etc of the certificates gotten from the third party because diplomas are merely
Facts before us now according to CSU registrar: Tinubu that entered CSU from the outset was a male.
Tinubu that graduated from CSU was also a male.
SSN number was traced to Tinubu.
Year book..Tinubu. Pictures..Tinubu. Signatures...Tinubu. Scripts..Tinubu. Scripts are the most important things in USA not certificates.In Nigeria,the certificates are Kings,reason a lot of people who didn't attend universities buy certificates especially the politicians. It is not easy to buy scripts.
Why Tinubu is free and clean: He doesn't have to have certificate that emanates from CSU because they have assigned that to a third party. CSU attested to the fact that its students could get replacement certificate not from them but from a third party with different fonts. So the certificate..replacement..will and can never emanate from them.
The CSU by the deposition,has totally cleared Tinubu legally.
Can I get a clean single room sef con: Budget 200-300k PA. Please A very neat and decent one. Thanks.
Island 1, somewhere close to Obalende.
Hamachi: Where on the island? Island 1 Obalende, Osborne, Ikoyi and VI Island 2 or Lekki, Ikate, Chevron, VGC Island 3 Ajah, Badore, Ologolo axis Island 4 Ibeju Lekki
I am looking for an apartment too, just same budget as your but around Gbagada , or Berger, Arepo axis. Rents are too high in Lagos. For a room set con they are calling 400k, 620k total package. Can I contact you if you don't mind.
remsonik: I am currently searching for a mini flat in ipaja and I got one for an exorbitant price cos it's the Yahoo Boys and rich persons that stays in the compound. It's 400k and the total package is 540k my budget is 250k /300k. I really wish I could get someone who's really nice and get from the landlord directly with no agent charges and wahala
Jadesua21: Please I am looking for a loan of 200k to pay back in 4 installments. I recently paid for rent and I am broke to the core. Salary no reach anywhere last month. Please and please anyone that can help me out please. Please ďż˝ Thank you
Where do you reside?
Post your number or contact details and display your photo. Be ready to do some verifications.
This is how u will be shouting scam scam before u know everybody will over take u. Go to Google and type mini camera that work with phone. Let me shock u, I bought that product with the sum of 5k with shipping price and I sold it for 20k each and I use N100k to buy it and sold it for N400k U better come let me teach u with small money and start making real money.
Dear sir, please come and teach me. I am willing to learn if you donât mind sir. Or perhaps what you want in exchange.
âThose who come closer to the truth may at first have to feel lonely which does not make them unhappy but brings great peaceâ Abdrushin.
The decent, as so called, donât want to be seen as soliciting for a relationship. More openness and humility will go a long way. If they still lack these two virtues then their acclaimed decency is in question. They will only be decent in hypocrisy.
If you are truly decent and willing to meet a likeminded friend, letâs meet.
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Jessie31: Does being good make one marry early? Are all the ladies who are married good? Ambitious women don't jump into marriage except they meet someone either shares the same idea with them or turned their head upside down with love. Or maybe she was to picky.
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Our comments reveal a little about the us. If you are open to having a friendly chat I'd like to meet you.
And you think the people that would replace them are better? Not the same human being we are, you and I? Begin from here on nairaland, your former classmates, how many are honest and objective in reasoning, character building? Lets think about it.
Congratulations bro, I would have offered to assist but I stayed with someone, too. However, if you dont mind to forgo comfort, manage yourself for 1 or 2 month, i have a newly constructed Pako house around Okun-Ajah, Abraham Adesanya. You can occupy it for the main time free before been sold out. Best of luck, sir.
Slimslimqq: yes its a good job for me Cus I don't have any before. I will try my best regarding d accommodation. I knew what is on ground before taking the offer. thanks though.
Hi damesilver, have you finally found a solution to this issue please? my battle has been people telling me to pour this and that on affected areas and I've searched and searched but I cant find where their harborage is. I wash and dry my linen weekly, vacuum and steam my floors and curtains weekly, I use pesticides but the problem still persists. If you do/have found a solution please share it with me
Apply only kereosene to the affected areas, beds and beddings, walls, furniture crevices, and other suspected areas. Do this consistently for weeks and be prayerful, too. You should be fine.
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