No be guy code again, na devil code
That your friend is pure evil, cut him off

nanauju:

He's right kid

I don't talk to people who suffer from low esteem.. cause I know u can't talk to me when you see me...

You did the right thing and never allow bad advisers deceive your uprightness.
They wI'll face their unprepared or prepared worst karma(their own devil code) especially with the creator after their deaths.

ihimiray:
U deserve to die by lethal injection

People like you that are giving humanity bad name. How can you sit and watch another human treat someone that badly and do nothing about it? May someone treat your sisters and daughters that way, amen.

guy, u don't need to worry abt that trash of a friend. u did well by helping the lady to know the reality. now let me tell u what will happen in the end. The so called student he went to marry will give him the greatest heart break that ever existed since creation. small boys will Bleep the hell out of that 23 yrs old girl that ur useless friend will cry blood and will not be able to see any to cry to. it will be so bad that the girl will Bleep in his house and the marriage will either end or he lives with the shame like that. mark my words, it shall come to pass just as i have said. we have seen many of such in the past. it always ends in thesame way.

LivingFree:

Wetin? why are you looking morose?

sharpwriter:


Wetin? why are you looking morose?

Na, I prefer more white wine

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

Your friend is evil sha, and I won't say you did wrong telling her....


But u seemed too interested in his gist about the girl, calling him always to ask about the girl....


More like you were investigating to gather enough evidence to tell her the truth...


Never in your small narrative did you mention that you tried to correct him, or chastised him

Lloydfolarin:



Don’t be fooled by people who are saying you have done the right thing.

What you did right there has cost a lot people their lives in recent years

Don’t do this again

You are very lucky to have got away with it

If you do this to a wrong guy, trust me, you are a dead man.

I know a closed family who did similar thing and got bathed with Acid

It might even be the lady that ll bath your friend with Acid and you ll regret your action for life.

Learn to keep your mouth shut and stay off people business.

If you carry on like this, you ll surely get killed in miserable way cos someone ll revenge in a bloodiest way.

I know it’s painful seeing someone being cheated but life has a reason for putting the victim at that spot at that point in time. It could be that God just want her or him to learn a lesson from that relationship before meeting the right person.

Finally, sooner or later, in business world, real world, you ll see a lot of things, keep quiet if you intend to live for a while on earth.

Shalom.

Yep, the sort of person who will drive past accident victims.

The sort of person who will not intervene if his neighbours are being robbed

The sort of person who will say people who are kidnapped are being punished


The sort of person who will blame rape victims.

That's you.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

My dear, you did well. God bless you

.

carlosthejackal the number one igbo basher and hateful tribalist on nairaland wants us to believe he has a bosom friend called "okey"?


okay!

LivingFree:

Na, I prefer more white wine

LivingFree:

Na, I prefer more white wine

CarlosTheJackal:
You are funny. I did right and will do it again

bros I support you. Your friend wicked no be small. Amadioha go bend him neck for deceiving that lady like that.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You did the right thing Bro, I really wish there were more like you out there... Thing is guys do not know when to use the Bro code and not to... The Bro Code is to keep our dignity and respect intact and not to take advantage of those who love us.

sharpwriter:

I'm done entertaining you... bye

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You are a fycking fooooool, God punish you.
Idiiot, do you know how many guys the 38 yr old rag has messed up before karma invuted okey to her life, you think it is normal for a lady who is fine to not marry from 19-38 yrs, what has she been doing.

So just like that you stab your bro for a girl.
Fuvk you, fuvk you life, fuvk you reasons fuvk everything you hold there.

This is Nigeria! (Drops mic)

Hypocritical numb nuts screaming "you did well, blah blah blah...
But this is what ladies do very well. String multiple men along and dump them for the one they feel is best without any ounce of remorse.

You all should get outta here with your hypocrisy.

My guy u try but u for try advice ur guy to stop these rubbish ... playing wit a girl's heart of that age nor make sense ....nextime if ur guy dey gist u tat kind talk try dey switch topic I dey talk from experience make u nor carry enemy from ur friend and his gf

The lady could actually sue him and claim damages . A promise of marriage is now actionable in our courts.. Most things we take for granted could put us in big trouble..

This is wickness in high places, why make her go through pains if he knows he is not going to end up with her.
I know God will not allow this end up this way. I will like to follow this story to the end. I know his student bride will soon leave him for a fresh guy or she will so suffer him. Watch and see I am not cursing him but that act of deception alone has brought about that curse on him.
Thank you for telling the girl the truth.

Lemme advice guys wey get sisters here. If you hear say ur sister get one IBO bf that grew up in the east and spent most of his life dere, tell your sister not to waste tym with such guy cos they usually go back to the east to marry their gals. They ll bleep ur sister kitten dry sotie all the oil wey dey dere go finish and they ll leave her to go marry one smalie from their town. I have seen it happen over and over again. One of my female friends almost killed herself over one stupid IBO boy. I like IBO boys business sense but not their relationship style, it irritates me.

Big shame on those blaming you , well that's their opinion , but in my own opinion here bro, you did the right thing..... your friend is a wolve in a man skin, trust me you don't deserve him as friend cox he can do more to you.

This is so wrong...do you know that whatever the lady say with her mouth or do will happen to him let me share this story...I have an uncle that did same to a lady,the lady did something that he will never hear the cry of baby in his home he married the younger one a virgin & so it happened for good 18yrs in marriage no fruit of the womb went to the hospital they are both okay,they separated after the lady can't take it anymore.

Lo & behold on a faithful day a friend of my uncle went to IMO state for a wedding *boom* saw the said lady with her children all grown up he recognised her & start pleading with her that my uncle is childless she said he will never hear cry of a baby till he dies,after much pleading she showed him where she stays, that was how my uncle travelled to IMO state to plead with her & her hubby bought gifts the lady now told him that she tied the thing & throw into river that the river have carried it but he should go & bear fruits that was how my uncle married another lady & she became pregnant.

Moral of my story don't promise a woman or man marriage & dump him/her after u have promised him/her because whatever he/she says or do will happen to you.

mudiana:
Lemme advice guys wey get sisters here. If you hear say ur sister get one IBO bf that grew up in the east and spent most of his life dere, tell your sister not to waste tym with such guy cos they usually go back to the east to marry their gals. They ll bleep ur sister kitten dry sotie all the oil wey dey dere go finish and they ll leave her to go marry one smalie from their town. I have seen it happen over and over again. One of my female friends almost killed herself over one stupid IBO boy. I like IBO boys business sense but not their relationship style, it irritates me.

Bitter truth .

[quote author=CarlosTheJackal post=67938017] You are funny. I di you no wise oh aproko like you

samyfreshsmooth:
so in summary you saying "you chose a lady (you barely know) over your friend (you've known since highschool) right?


this here is the reason why i always warn my friends that before they tell me any secret, they should be sure it shouldn't be one revealing "how they hurt someone", "have hurt someone", or "intend to hurt someone" cos i cant be put on a tight corner where i'd choose between saving someone and betraying my friend's trust


you knew you couldn't handle the pressure of choosing to save the ladxw (nearing menopause) from disgrace and hurt or covering for your friend yet you happily remained and continued to act as the middle man cos you were getting some juicy news from both parties



now that you already made a choice, what do you want us to do?



anyways wyou my frrend are a ______


and your friend (okey) is a beast in man form..................such men dont usually end up well in life....
#spits


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Youre evil what kind of useless secret is that that can break some one mentally for life. My friend shut your dirty mouth

CarlosTheJackal:
I don't do friends chic which is my policy and i don't have emotional feelings for her which means i can't get an erection watching her naked. So that's the koko

this kind matter dey kill person nest time no put your hand for this kind case u dey hear me so, because u realy mess up for breaking the guy code of solidarity

CarlosTheJackal:
You are funny. I did right and will do it again

You did the right thing brother, you are a good man

CarlosTheJackal:
He later paid half but the guy is ready to shoot me if he meets me in a dark alley. Thanks though

Guy you fuckwd up, simple,bros code covers all, even if my guy killed someone and told me, its done, I protect simple, best you should have done was talk him out of using the girl to that level and coming clean or he shouldn't tell you anymore.

Do you think the girl is a saint? You think its only okey playing around, he was the best on her list hence why she stayed in a relationship with him, see the speed that she used in getting another guy, she may have been the one tohave given him the std,(or you think girls take responsibility for their actions)
No bro you were seen by the predatory babe ad the weaklink hence y she used you.

Facts- the lady used you.
You are a bad friend, you can't keep secrets, you are not trust worthy, you want the world to help rase your conscience on this , well the world is bais in favour of women.

All you said women do worse every day(Read Romeo diary) and see real life in Lagos.

You are the worst kind of friend a fair-weather friend.
No wonder she used you, your just weak.

CarlosTheJackal:
My fear for the lady sanity was when she was inflected by STD from the guy and she still stayed put. I told her she should tell the guy to use condom but she said the guy refuses.


I was also very angry with the girl when she terminated the pregnancy. She should have used it to know the guy real intentions because i didn't want to tell her what the guy planned to do because i wanted her to read between the lines and figure it out on her own

With pregnancy if the guy don't want to marry her,he won't marry her