₦airaland Forum

Nairaland! Thanks for the contributions

Since LadyT wants me to spill, spill I will.
The girl's 18,just got out of High Sch, she has a fine phone (how did she get it,knowing that her family's, ),she speaks good English (must confess that's a plus though), she kept smiling (wouldn't say sexily, mayb something close to it) throughout our conversation, she's not so beautiful but on a whole, she can pass for 'fine', her confidence is another matter completely (even in my presence), I'm a guy, abeg I no want that girl.

Well, didn't mean it like that, but the truth be told, is there any man born of woman that can boast of having a perfect control of his AP? Learning to control ur circumstance, not putting urself in very tempting environment/situation is the best way to control the AP, which is what I do and I'm doing in this situation.

@Romeo
Your contribution at some point is highly uncalled for. I am faithful to my wife. If I sleep around or anything of such do u think I'll bother abt my maid?! The atmosphere in my office is completely different. At home, it's just me and the maid when my wife goes to work, particularly on days that I'm off. I am a very proactive fellow.

Chaircover, thanks.
My problem's not telling her how I really feel abt the maid, my problem's the future and her perception of me. I don't want her getting worried, and start imagining what I'll be doing with the secretary in the office or my female colleagues etc I want my wife to be able to read btw the lines. Is that too much to ask?

chaircover:
Sit your wife down and tell her exactly what you have said here; that should do the trick because no sane wife will want to share their hubby with their maid.

You're saying I should tell the maid is too well spoken and cute for the job or that I don't trust my libido? Why can't she just make do with a simple ' I don't want this maid' statement?

These past three days have been full of drama. My wife brought a maid to the house for me to interview and decide whether to take her or not. After the interview, I told her without mincing words that I didn't want the maid. For the past three days she hasn't said a word to me. Will I see temptation right in front of me and embrace it? Pls, do I backdown or stand my ground. Advice pls

@Alaper
What a wonderful research. Lol die!

Just moved into my house from a rented apartment, no exaggerations, the truck moved once to load the settee,kitchen wares etc but twice to load just my wife's things, including her massive wardrobe! I really wonder wetin them dey carry o

At poster, you sound stubborn too. I'm married, and my wife thinks I'm stubborn, but that's not true, when there's a major decision to be made, I bring to the family table, she contributes in the bossiest way I've ever known, she alwys want to have it her way, when I ask her to put her reasons on the table and let's weigh it with mine, it becomes another issue. To be brief, how do u correct ur partner, have u tried not arguing with him at all on some matters, do you give him the respect that's due to him, besides, u don't know what's going through his mind. Pro 12:25.

@Defender 1,
God made all, he also gave us the freedom to choose. I have chosen long ago to be free, and yes I am free. The question is what will happen to this country in the next twenty years if we continue like this? We have to stand up to get some semblance of peace and good governance!

Fellow angry Nigerians, the problem is not just with National Assembly. Have really asked ourselves why the Governors are vehemently against the Electoral ammendment? 90 percent of Governors come back 4 second time,has anyone asked what happens to our state members after their first terms? What about the Presidency, the CBN Gov, lambasting NASS because they want to checkmate how he spends over 300billion. The fight should not just be against Senators and Members, it should be against bad leardership generally!

Considering d short time of notice, I really think we should have it in Lagos and Abuja simultaneously.

Hello Doc, don't know if it's something I should worry about, I stool at the taste of sugar, I can't take tea with sugar, oats, drinks without stooling. Complained to a Doctor about it and he prescribed Tetracyclin. It stopped but resurfaces every time I take anything sugary. I'm scared I might not be taking enough sugar requirement for my system. I go everywhere now with the tetra. I take it anytime I start stooling. Scared the tetra could have an adverse effect. Pls advice. Thanks

Hello Doc, don't know if it's anything to worry about, I stool at the taste of sugar as. I can't drink tea with sugar, soft drinks, oats, inshort anything containing sugar. My Doc prescribed tetra, I took it but the stooling's resurfaces when I take sugar. Now I go everywhere with Tetra. What can I do to stop it, I'm scared the tetracyclin might have an adverse effect.

I agree that a Christian is not a sinner, what about the context of backsliding? what happens if a christian falls, sins and remains in it?

congratulations!