₦airaland Forum

DeltaBachelor:
LOL. Your friend (YOU) is just insecure. There is temptation everywhere even in that supermarket he intends to open for her. When there is no trust in a relationship, it is better for both parties to quit

We know there's promiscuity in all jobs, teaching and health care rank towards the top.

You see that hotel work, enh? It's on another level. Some hotel ladies will even approach you as a guest with indecent proposals. Some begin harmlessly asking for tips.
Wetin eyes don see, mouth nor fit talk.

I ended up sitting one lady down to advise her to be patient. Her fiancé was doing his best, according to what I gathered from our conversation. He was working, in a top profession, but in early stages. She complained about having to shoulder too many family expenses, siblings and such. I was in shock and pitied her fiancé.

I am sure many other guests would have been happily obliging her there.

Sure, all ladies are not the same. But way too risky.

Peter Obi may become like Atiku.

Jumping from party to party makes you look unstable.

LP would have been the best for Obi. Remain and build it.

In fact Atiku/Obi in 2023 would have probably won the presidential election narrowly.
That was their chance gone.

Obi knows that 2031 will probably go to the North, hence his promise of single term. But people won't believe him, even if he might truly mean it.

Wordson:
My brother,I just pray that next season, we will be on fire again.
Liverpool will be Liverpool once again, a team that most teams will rather avoid to play against at any level.
With that monstrous never give up winning mentality.
I Pray we will be back

Isak, Wirtz, Ekatike and teenage Ngomoha will all really pick up big time.

Gravenberch, Sloboszlai and Kerkez will sync much better in MF and Defence.

Maybe Frimpong should become a proper wingback like Victor Moses at Chelsea. His defensive work is not good enough. Selling Jared Quansah was a bad idea. We need to correctly sort out the Centre halves. Konate and VvD have struggled a bit. I guess that's because our MF has been less effective and ball carriers like Diaz and Trent that allowed us to keep pressing in yesteryears are missing. Defence has come under more pressure in each game than usual. Errors have crept in.

I can't figure out what has happened to Macalister this season.

Wordson:
I no know wetin remain for this my team this season..
Liverpool has lost everything to play for this season.. we've bn reaped to our bones!! no flesh,muscles,tendons, ligaments only bones.. na carcass of Liverpool dey play now
Their MATCH DON TAYA ME TO WATCH!

I won't be surprised if the usual happens today.

Nor worry. LFC are come back kings.

The spirit of Milan lives on.

Next season will be great.

Cum4me:
Getting married is not a good thing for broke man in this Nigeria. We should stop deceiving ourselves. Marriage is another level of death trap for a broke man. It even worse if a broke man married a broke woman that is a low key Olosho. You go talk Waka

Where broke man wan see unbroke woman marry?

brain54:
It's fashion...


What were you thinking? Wash your mind with hypo!

Una ehn, Hypo can't do it. Too late. That guy name don delete for heaven list. Unless......

Wait o, what if that zip fail and she nor wear pant or na only that tiny one she wear?

wellmax:
Nobody wakes up to threaten you randomly.

Let’s hear the full gist and from the Alaafin.

Unfortunately, the alaafin may not be interested in engaging the media.

Abi o. A lot of people with no idea how monarchies work are saying nonsense on NL.

Can anyone just wake up and do documentaries on the Emperor of Japan, King of Saudi Arabia, Kings of England, Belgium, Netherlands, Sweden, Thailand, etc? By local filmmakers without collaboration?

Just because we loathe ourselves and feel inferior, consciously or subconsciously, due to colonial brainwash, doesn't mean we should rubbish our ancient institutions.

Well, how can such a documentary be made without the Palace of Alafin's involvement?

If it's a Nollywood film, that's different. But a documentary? It should be based on collabroation.

With any monarch anywhere, redaction of some information is expected. How did the relationship get so fractured that it led to threats?

sleek214:
Ooh wow. How are the mighty fallen. 1983, Nigeria chased out over one million immigrants, mostly Ghanaians. Fast forward to 2026, Ghana and other Africa Countries might kick out millions of nigerians.1983, Ghana Must Go. 2026, Nigeria Must Go

Ghana first chased out 500, 000 Nigerians in 1971, many were refugees from Biafra war that just ended the year before, others had lived there for decades with lots of properties. They lost everything they owned in Ghana.
By 1973, the Israeli-Arab war led to surge in oil price and 9ja was swimming in petrodollars.
Ghanaians flooded into 9ja.

Funny enough, Dr Kofi Busia, their PM then, one of Africa's most educated politicians back then, was the architect of Nigerian expulsion in 1971.

b0rn2fuck:
Na the best way to pay bride price be that , that's is called payment after delivered product have been tested ,used and trusted .. not the one you don't know the value of what you are paying

If you check well, na their daughter planning to get married force them to marry.

Because he can't collect bride price on his daughter otherwise. That's usually the reason.

Most times, the parents-in-law will already be dead. Na some uncles who didn't know how the lady was raised that will collect the bride price.

Not very wise.

b0rn2fuck:
Na the best way to pay bride price be that , that's is called payment after delivered product have been tested ,used and trusted .. not the one you don't know the value of what you are paying

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sonssyo:
I made this pot of soup onto Sapa level, make the bashing no plenty abeg,nah naija we dey like this.

The outcome be this...

Come and join me..

Bia, Madam, so which kind soup you dey eat during GEJ presidency if you are eating loaded Oha soup in this economy?
I never see executive red garri eba laidis since IBB's SAP sapped 9ja.

Are you sure are not one of those benefitting from Abacha loot?

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

You need to test her. Fake being in debt and cannot go ahead with marriage at this time.

Or you can afford only a very low key one. Not more than 15 guests. See her reaction. That will let you know her better.
A good lady will want to work with you to clear the debt. Or at least be genuinely interested in how you accrued the debt.

nairalanda1:
On the topic, writing now

Pain in the leg plus breathlessness may mean pulmonary embolism

Also the heart condition is a strong possibility. Remember Marc Vivien foe.

But when all is said and done, AUTOPSY and Investigation.

Very likely to be PE. I wanted to see that he was immediately given oxygen as he gasped for breath. The field being opposite the clinic.

Did an autopsy already reveal that he had an undisclosed heart condition so soon? I can't imagine the full report, including toxicology being ready so soon.

RIP to the dude.

Excellent93:
Wahala
This country na from one wahala to the other
Person no marry ...your getting old
If you marry ..... infidelity and DNA wahala
After this one make no body born me again oooo

Na lie o. 99 times more to come. No less.

That DNA test sha, no man should miss it,

nobaga:
Chai, you fall my hand, no be small. This girl is probably younger than your own daughter, less educated and less exposed.

Yet, you are not defending her country's right to reject nuisance to her country! Nigeria was the place to be; well informed South Africans, Ghanaians and Blacks in Diaspora would tell you during Western Nigeria's First In Africa.

Yes, Nigerians traveled out then but could not wait to get back home. You are comparing Nigerians to Asians that came to Nigeria to make a living when famine was devastating their countries. You rested on laurels worked for by Nigeria's Activists, bragging all over the world until you overstayed your welcome mats, establishing where you do not belong. Even worse, equating it to being civilized.

If we have enough Nigerians or Africans like this girl to talk sense into our heads, Nigeria would have been a better place today. These are the same African countries that drove whites out bragging there are Nigerian professionals, Peace Keeping Force and Police to train their people. A few warned then that Nigerian exploiters are worse than whites.

An educated man like you is defending failures, greed, aggrandization and foolish pride that became resentful at home and abroad. Shame!

One guy told me, if you ran away and left Vagabonds In Power, we have lost the right to criticize. Money is not the only goal in life, Teachers made little money and they were the most respected. You remember?

This girl should be praised and declared a hero for talking senses into our heads. I will not be surprised if she turns out to be a Nigerian sef.

OK in your view, the Boers who made SA their permanent home have the right to do so. But Nigerians have no right to go abroad and do things.
Kemi Badenoch will become PM (even if she self-loathes) and many other people of 9ja descent will thrive and prosper wherever they find themselves. Nothing xenophobes and self-haters can do about it. They can only bleat. True. She might be another self-hating Nigerian. Their self-worth is so diminished that they love to be hated by others.

TempleHouse:
This is the result of taking 40 years old Whiskey by an addict ‼️

You mean impurities dey the whiskey? Maybe na pesticide enter from the wooden cask.

nairalandankrah:
Envelope will exchange hands..there will be no apology

Dem nor born dem. Can they refuse Wike's brown envelops?

He will call Seun to say "Seun my friend, na joke I dey. Your late uncle in Kwara was my good friend/lecturer, etc. We are like family."

sukkot:
but bros you are resident in ikotun

be calming down

Wait o, why are there so much orisirisi things happening at Ikotun? Their local law court don suffer.
court.
Too many cases of "married woman died during marathon sex with local married businessman", an Ikotun hotel owner died on top of married employee's wife", court approves man's petition for divorce from his wife after she was caught in bed with family mechanic, etc.

Always very salacious and colourful headlines emanate from the area.

Vixlot:
So if a party Chieftain mistakenly killed another party member at party campaign rally, it should be party affairs?

May God deliver us from enemy within
God Bless President Bola Tinubu
God Bless Federal Republic of Nigeria

Werey.
Homicide is a capital offence wherever it happens.

Even if it ends up being manslaughter, it's still no party matter, it's a criminal act.

Lol. As long as he retains the gravel and granite, no problem.

nobaga:
As a Nigerian, I am ashamed that a fellow African whose parents and grandparents fought and died for their country is here to tell Nigerians the truth.

Whatever some South African told you had been said by Mandela and many times by their present radical leader. Nkrumah, Zik and Awolowo did not fight for South Africa so that Nigerians, Ghanaians or even Zimbabwens can go there and reap rewards while looting their own country blind or resting on the laurel of their Independence Activists. Then worship conspicuous money spenders aggrandizing themselves until the laurels of past Activists ran dry.

Instead of you guys to stay in your community and make it livable, you call it a Zoo and run out to other parts of the same country or outside looking for greener pastures.

Stay home.

I congratulate my South African sista for setting your brains right.

Rubbish. Even the Boers who claim SA today left the Netherlands and with other Europeans annexed SA land. Europeans did same in the Americas. People have always moved and will always do.

The same SA has Nigerian scholars and professionals paying taxes. My course mates in Europe were Asians, Americans and from all the continents. By nature of the course, all stayed for at least a few years for post-grad professional training. Majority still work here today.
Many of them came from elite families in USA, Asia and elsewhere and were able to easily pay for the most expensive course. Others were on National Govt scholarships, especially the Asians.

Going abroad is not all about poverty or seeking greener Pasteur. When Columbus left Europe to "discover" America, Venice, Florence, Rome, Paris, London, Lisbon, Madrid and others were thriving. He could have lived in any of them comfortably.

If Nigeria were like Singapore today, Nigerians would still travel.

Do not let self-loathing drive you to support someone who promotes xenophobia against other Africans. It's a very poor form of wokism.

Tell me another story.

Tell me one "GENUINE" sign that a lady loves a man. Hardly any.

But there are many "symptoms" a woman will show to secure the bag if she feels you are a catch.

Meanwhile, a guy can be totally fake, but if she believes you are the real deal, she will display all the "symptoms" that will make you believe she is God-sent.

All na format.

That gender are good actors.

Lioness5280:
You say you have “no feelings toward South Africa whatsoever,” yet you keep writing essays about South Africa in every comment.

Then you introduce a “great South African” who supposedly agreed with you .... but can’t be named. That’s not evidence, that’s storytelling.

Respectfully, apartheid-era memories and private conversations from the 1960s don’t decide immigration policy in 2026. Countries today run on institutions and law, not nostalgia.

And if your connection with South Africa “died years ago,” it’s strange that South Africa is still the country you’re most invested in discussing.

That contradiction says more than the speech.
Papa, South Africa isn't the problem the failure of your generation to get things in order for your shortcut -loving and uncultured kids and grandkids is why you're wailing today. Do better in fixing that and we will do our best to fix our own side ....deal ?

Lol. No contradiction whatsoever. All I see in your write-up is a person piggy-backing on Boer development and using it to taunt other Africans. I remember what some Boers I worked with in diaspora about 20 years ago said. They said they left SA as the country was going to the dogs due to affirmative action. That SA will become just another corrupt African country under black rule. Back then, I used to argue with them that their Apartheid policies denied blacks the opportunity to be educated and gain competencies. That it was Boers' fault.

You should know that many Nigerians out there are far better exposed and have mingled with all sorts of people than your lots and dudula goons. If the matter does not involve maltreatment of other Africans, I am not interested.
I know stories have no meaning to those who have no meaningful stories of their own to tell.

My lack of interest does not mean I should look away when SA people indulge in xenophobia.

Your "whataboutism" won't cut it. Lobby SA government to block other Africans from coming to SA. Not to say SA is open for business, and then expose them to xenphobia.

Lioness5280:
So you’re old enough to remember donating lunch money during apartheid, but still online in 2026 sounding like an angry teenager blaming another country for everything.

If South Africa is that terrible, why not focus that same energy on building Nigeria into a place Nigerians don’t feel the need to leave in large numbers?

At some point Nigerians must start loving Nigeria more than they obsess over South Africa.

Complaining about another country for decades is not strategy. It’s avoidance.
Show all this love you claim to have over them to yourselves first. Your own country is bleeding week after week in extreme hate and violence but that one no concern and old hypocrite like yourself ,na South African matter they enter your heart shap shap

Well, you feel older folks should not be current. Very weird and biased. Or tolerate xenophia. Lol.

Focus on the matter at hand.

I have no feelings towards SA whatsoever. The same I have none towards Iran, Papua New Guinea or Afghanistan. But open hatred towards other Africans is condemnable.

My link with SA died with a great South African who died a few years back. He openly admitted in a private discussion his disappointment with South African's feeling towards other Africans. Yes, he expressed his disappointment with Nigeria too, considering how Nigeria inspired him back in 1960s each time he was in Nigeria, as Mandela was facing treason charges in SA. For confidentiality sake, I won't mention his name.

He was a thoroughly decent man and merited all the global awards he got. Nothing like the uncouth dudula goons or whatever they call them. No doubt, he would be turning in his grave. Pity that each country always has riff-raffs,

jogsman01:
Drank mumuric acid as usual

H2MuO4 abi. Very concentrated one for that matter. PH of 1.

Mercury12:
Why travel to a place where they dont like you.
They repeatedly told you Nigerians that they dont like or want you why travel to their country.
Nawa o

I wonder o. I travel to places like North Africa, various parts of Europe and beyond. In my school days, while donating lunch money to ANC and seeing South African students on Nigerian scholarship at our local University, I yearned to visit SA one day when they become free of Apartheid. Now, I won't go if given a private jet. I wish them good luck.

Nigeria should issue regular travel warnings on South Africa. If it's not burning down shops of other Africans, killing Lucky Dube believing he was Nigerian, stopping people from accessing hospitals and vital services, wanton killings, it's scapegoating other Africans.

They learned hate, Apartheid tactics and xenophobia from their Boer masters very well.

oglalasioux:
Even if black Angels from heaven get elected in any black nation as leaders, so far they are black, expect mediocrity. The black man has no mental capacity to handle public resources. Black Africa must be recolonized.

Wrong. Our black ancestors built civilisations using resources available. And early Europeans who came were incredulous.

Africans are now conquered people. They want to enjoy, believe having money is everything and no need to build for the future. Also, African Kingdoms were true nations of same people, and the empires among them respected local cultures of those under their imperial umbrella. Now we have people lumped together who don't belong.

Let's be honest, what do Igbos and Hausas have in common? What do Igbos truly have in common with the Yorubas? Or the Edos with the Kanuri people? Nothing aside all being human beings.
Yet, all these ethnicities once built great kingdoms as more homogeneous peoples.

Today, what is an average Nigerian's (if such exists) national identity that connects him with his past, present, future, ethnicity and the Nigerian vision? None! How can you be loyal to something that does not inherently speak to your identity, aspirations, sense of belonging and security?

It can still work. But there must be reforms to allow people grow at their own pace.

It should not be a taboo to imagine that Nigeria may not be able to continue as one. At least not a forced unity. At the rate of current banditry and herdsmen killings, in 15 years, Nigeria may become a failed state. A peaceful reform and devolution is far better than a disorderly schism and balkanisation.

Ok. Maybe $300m to rescue a pilot shot down by Iran.

What Iran wants is for the war to be as costly to USA/Israel as possible.

The war was unnecessary in the first place.

No dignity in life and none in death.

And they call it the giant of Africa. Nobody should insult Africa.

We4all:
I used to think no man will ever accept to take back a cheating wife. But I can count up to three women that cheated whose husbands took them back.

Whilst some people may label the men as fools, I believe the men are just being understanding, the same way we have understanding wives.

Fact is finding a wife who has not cheated one way or another is very rare. No matter how nice, caring and "dedicated" she appears. They can hide it very well. The next wife may be far worse and the man knows it.
Just do DNA test on your kids. Unless you want to open an orphanage in your household.

Sell the land and leave.

Otherwise, you will also pay before fencing, sinking borehole, etc.