₦airaland Forum

samuelson06:
Stop talking that nonsense. How do other states without oil generate money to fund their projects? Is Cross River the only state without oil? Let's stop defending bad governance with this rhetoric, please. Ayade was bad and that's the fact.

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

wunmi590:
Good evening nairaland,

I was just reminiscing about my job and the went through the thread that hit front page on May 1st, if people love their job....

So I've been on my job for 2years now, and my salary haven't entered into the new month before, even if pay day is on Sunday, I will get alert, the first place I enjoyed this constant salary, is when I was in FCMB, their pay day is 22nd of every month, once the 22nd enter weekend, it would be paid on Friday...

I need to know why employer delay staff salary, after so much of their time, they have invested on the job?

Skiborobo:
If you're a man and you can't buy this please don't come near me

Skiborobo:
If you're a man and you can't buy this please don't come near me

poshestmina:
A married woman's comment has "set Facebook on fire" but married men promiscuous, reckless and dick-distributing lifestyles hasn't set the world on fire.

Una doh!

okine4real:
when you won marry, marry enter family when get shame. If you come to my house, am to feed you, i cant come to your house and still be feeding you. its the wife's family that will feed ONLY the husbands guest, then all other guest invested by the husband, the husband will take care of his guest. eg John is marrying Susan, Susan's family is to take care of John's Family only. Then John invite about 50 friends, Its John's duty to take care of his friends. this is the Normal way before poverty come change everything. Till today, if i won cause wahala for house, i go remember the part her family play for our wedding, once i start, she go just change mood, me self go just shut up.

greatiyk4u:
That's a beautiful culture, in my culture (Nigeria)is the groom that Carrie's all the burden except in cases when the bride family is wealthy/ comfortable and not greedy

Justicemy8:
in our imo state its the man that pays for everything and it is mandatory u do so

jackie35:
I can not even stop laughing, oga go and do your responsibility. Who go dey help you help you massage your wife?

JJuanMiguel:
If the bride's parents are well to do, they would happily take care of that, instead of bothering the groom again

But we know someone from your kind of background, you won't be a able to do anything on your own
The whole purpose of you getting married in the first place is to rescue your family from generational poverty

foolbuster:
You have to host people coming to your house, it's common sense.

Jennyclay:
The man is expected to send the lady money to take care of the food & drinks before his people arrive.

Biko, you broke men should stay away from marriage & relationship if you don't have money!!

Sammy07:
How come?

Can someone check for another person's WAEC result with just scratch card?

IRuinUrDay:
Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.

Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.

I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.

Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.

Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.

Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?

Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.

Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.

Evestar200:
Na Everything una dey complain about Women for Nairaland

Women don suffer.

dannykares:
Can someone send mgs to FFK to comment @on going killing in benue, kogi, zamfara etc and leave chimamanda alone bikonu.
I hate wen idiot won't speak out on important thing affecting de massive rather speak out who challenge them

dannykares:
Can someone send mgs to FFK to comment @on going killing in benue, kogi, zamfara etc and leave chinamanda alone bikonu.
I hate wen idiot won't speak out on important thing affecting de massive rather speak out who challenge them

EmirGold:
https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/1644626593795526656

JohnBullMySon:
No. That's why it's either we all obey the constitution that gurantees the rights of all citizens to live anywhere

Or we call a national referendum to break Nigeria into smaller republics, so that those who are not wanted can go back to where they are wanted. Simple.

muhammaduyusufu:
Part 2

If you feel you are in a safe sanctuary in the USA and can throw or dart some dangerous goblin on Nigeria to breed hate, division, anarchy with fatal and cataclysmic consequences, remember, your people will also be affected too.

That election defied many odds. Many governors lost their states to the opposition. Even the President-elect lost his firm grip on Lagos. Mr Buhari lost his Katsina base while El Rufai's political wizardry could not win him Kaduna, yet you are busy pooh-poohing and sacrilegiously puncturing and discrediting the whole process as a sham or charade! How dare you! That election may not have been the best but in few places where there was violence, the people stood solidly to exercise their franchise. Did you have an inkling of what transpired in Obi's immediate enclave in the east? Many APC apologists were either killed or prevented from voting. Were you cerebrally on sabbatical break when the election that produced President Biden plunged America into a never-seen-before orgy of violence with fatalities recorded? With a whiff of hindsight, was the election annulled on that premise? Ironically, it is the product of that election that you are obsequiously kowtowing and genuflecting for with the sole aim of consigning Nigeria into a pariah state again.

Where Obi won in his precincts with some APC voters disenfranchised and some paid the supreme sacrifice, you never rationalized it as a heinous crime but in other places where he lost glaringly, you wanted the whole exercise cancelled. This is nothing but sheer ambivalence. Late Prof ( Eze) Chukwuemeka Ike wrote that only a foolish fly follows the dead into the grave. The ealier you extricate yourself from those inanities, jejune irrationalities and incongruous permutations and come to reality, the better for you.

No amount of writing will reverse the collective will of the people. As a fellow who wrote the account of the civil war that claimed millions of lives, built valleys on their cheeks, made them pot-bellied and a caricature of anything human, you should know better that writing effusively to cause chaos is a height of unpatriotism. If in the events you cause another civil unrest, it would be too late to plead self-exculpation and self-abnegation your ill-thought out writings would have caused. Obi lost that election glaringly and there is no way you can dress a vassal---festooning his ambience, adorning him with costly ornaments and apparel--- through malcontent depositions, he will remain a vassal and never a prince.

Dr Dele Afelumo is a practising physician.

https://twitter.com/KemPatriot/status/1644326256714850304?t=FijjSyiqPima0IQN9Lt0Ag&s=19[/quote]I knew very well Yoruba people will take this open letter seriously by responding , when Mc oluomo threat igbo none of them came out to speak out now chimamada has waken a lot up.
I spell trabialism all bcuz of 2023 election Nigeria should ready if not taken war will take place

frozen70:
She lost her home even before the arrival of the house maid

So if she is sure that she is in charge of her home and she has been contributing actively to support her home and family

Let her take that girl to the pack with all her belongings let me see if her husband will pack and follow her

Nonsense

hardbody:
Lock the maid inside house and beat her black and blue. She will pack and leave herself.

But if the maid beat your sister up, then too bad....