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TheMadame: @Dante,
As much as I repect you sir, I have not seen one sjngle woman on this thread support this OP.
People should be criticised whether male or female if they have misbehaved and I am sure and hope this OP has retraced her steps before it is too late.

TheMadame: @OP,
As a woman and a mother of a teen aged girl I am highly disappointef in your total,complete and serial refusal to respect your marriage vows because of sex.
I hope and pray you will repent and retrace your foot steps before it is too late and you completely ruin your matrimony with a nice,caring lovely man.

elampiro: Mehn, see serious bank work...... I no fit even respond sef.

@Dantedasz, always come once in a while to discuss Man United, not only when things are bad.
To your question, we can beat Sunderland 4-0 if we get an early goal and with our major players around to compound their woes. Young defence four. Jones in the midfield, then Rooney, RVP fit. We will hold them to their own 3rd for most of the match with some quality in the final 3rd.

elampiro: It is normal to lose confidence once bad result start coming in succession. I just finished watching some highlights from our matches of last season. This team has been struggling for sometime. We were only luckier last season. The opponents would missed opportunities of punishing us with a two goal lead, then we came out victorious in those matches with one-nil or two-one. Those same teams are wiser and have better finishers now.

coogar: you are the one talking out of your arsë most times. you make dumb statements & when faced with superior arguments, you start dancing like hema malini.

fools who don't have the proper knowledge shouldn't comment on what they know nothing about. the divorce rate in america is alarming, only a fool would dispute it.

how can you know about fathers4justice when you are not aware of your immediate environment. european men don't fight feminism? what a stüpid thing to say!!


https://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00677/fathers-4-justice_677459n.jpg

the men above protesting on the rooftop of the women affair minister are from surulere local government. don't be fooled by their skin colour, they bleached their skins.



are you handicapped?
i stay in the country whose passport i carry. i pay taxes in my country of residence. i am doing a lot already. what are you doing got yours than to sit your arsë down on NL & talking crap known to serial drunkards?

elampiro: Ryan Giggs has warned Sunderland that Manchester United are due a change of fortune as they contemplate a League Cup semi-final fightback.

"We did not have that little bit of luck. I hit the crossbar and Adnan hit a shot against me when I was offside. On another day that, would have gone in or been given, but it just did not go for us.

"We will keep plugging away and we will look forward to the second leg. We are still in it and we look forward to it at Old Trafford."

"I thought both decisions were harsh. I thought the first one was a free-kick to us - but saying that, we still have got to defend the free-kick. We got punished for that, but we were getting back into the game with a great header from Nemanja, and it looked like there was only going to be one winner.

"We created enough chances, but unfortunately the decisions went against us. We were quite happy with our performance. We felt we did enough to at least get a draw, although I think we can work on the quality of our crosses and shots when we get into the final third.

"The only chances they really had were set-pieces. It was just one of those nights." [Source: Eurosport]

GustavoFring: I asked how YOU assess a good coach...not for a list of previous assistant managers.

Anyway's looking at your list...
Quieroz ending up being a flop at Madrid(sacked after a season) and Portugal

Steve McClaren flopped at England(England failed to qualify for Euro 2008 from a group that contained Russia,Andorra, and Croatia) and Wolfsburg(sacked halfway through his 1st season)

Rene Meulensteen's Fulham team lost 6-0 to newly promoted Hull city only a few weeks back.

So I ask you again, how do you assess and identify a good coach?

GustavoFring: Can you please tell me how you assess a good coach?

binhozie: Sorry, but this is how to grab @SS

Dantedasz: So man does good deeds in order to avoid punishment (hell) in order to gain a fat reward (eternal life/beautiful heaven.
Man does not do good because it is ethically right to do good but because he selfishly seeks to make it to heaven?
The point is that the omnipotent and omniscient God already knows the choice that man will make between good and evil so what is the point of anything, after all God already knows those to inhabit heaven and those to inhabit hell. If he does not know or is not sure then he can not be God, for one of the attributes of God is that he is all knowing.
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lanrexlan: I am a slave of the Most Gracious(Allah).He is my Lord and my purpose on earth is to worship Him and obey his orders and if I do so,he would not punish me.....Peace

lanrexlan: Yes,it's humane to do good because the breath of Allah was breathed into man when Allah created him[Surah As-Sajadah 32:9].So,by default man is created to do good deeds in order to attain high moral standards.
Our beloved prophet Muhammad(pbuh) was reported saying on the authority of Abdullah bin Amr(May Allah be pleased with him):Allah's Apostle(pbuh) neither talked in an insulting manner nor did he ever speak evil intentionally.He used to say:The most beloved to me amongst you is the one who has the best character and manners.[Sahih Al-Bukhari Book 57,Hadith Number 104]

Human beings should do good actions for moral and ethical reasons because these good actions are very beloved in the sight of Allah(swt) and it is also among the commandments of Allah(swt) laid down.
The recompense of doing good deeds as promised by Allah is paradise.
For example,someone is working because he wants to change his condition and the condition of people around him by the knowledge he possesses and also loves the Job.
But at the same time,he will expect something as salary at the end of the month as his recompense.

Similarly,human beings should do good actions because it will benefit mankind and also a commandment of the creator.He also expect a reward from Allah because he's doing good actions for the sake of Allah and also for ethical reasons(which is also a commandment of the creator).


Allah says in the glorious Quran in Surah Ad-Dhariyat 51:57 -I(Allah) seek not any provision from them (i.e. provision for themselves or for My creatures)nor do I ask that they should feed Me (i.e. feed themselves or My creatures).So if Allah is telling mankind to feed themselves and feed his creatures,do good to themselves and do good to others.Don't you think people that do so deserves a recompense from their creator?

I hope you get my explanations Madame.

paris10: Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.