PraisePiano:
Hello NL please this is a very critical situation that needs to be solved with the very bests of advise thank you!!
So I’ve been dating my fiance for the past 3years and we love each other deeply that we are inseparable. But there’s this problem bothering me in the relationship she smells down her honey pot all the time. She’s very clean and she take good care of her body but I can’t comprehend why she smell down there no matter how much she wash it sometimes the odor would make me discouraged.
Now the problem there is that....... I don’t even know how to tell her, because I don’t know how she’ll feel and I don’t want to loose my relationship cos I love her so much.
Please I need advise.
Matured minds please no insults.
Thanks!!

You are not alone on this Bro. if u love her as u claim, u will tell her. And please get used used to smell from time to time. if u are a real man, Smell should not scare u

[quote author=henritinecy post=72874578]So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came bahe country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me stareducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in schol in anousually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experNtaCt
Contact me on dantepet3000@gmail.com ur story is same as mine but i have word truth for u

Hit me up on dantepet3000@gmail.com. its an individual fight. So easy. Truth is break up is the order of the day. Life gets tough, you need to get stronger.. If you mis him or her after breakup after our session u will realise u mis the moments u once shared not the person in question...

everything is not just right about that election.

post=69448930:
May God console you Mercy. It's not easy to lose a mother. Mothers are GOLD.

fathers come be wetin? bronze abi?

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.
I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.
Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

to be honest I don't think anyone on nairaland can help u on this but my advice to u is weigh your option. put it on a scale. if your guts of leaving for good is heavier I will advice u bail....truth is no body is perfect.u are also bound to make same mistake.if u were God wount u forgive her? remember u are just human...men cheat on women n expect forgiveness so why not forgive her..for her to call people to beg on her behalf says a lot...but warn her that its the very last time. meanwhile tell her the new fixing of the relationship must come with new rules. don't ban her from social media but share same passward even with your own too. that's trust bro. if u watch out for her she has to watch out for u too...in fact go get bk your woman bro

MIKOLOWISKA:
what do you argue or debate for, to lose. I am giving you verifiable facts you are talking sentiment and you want me to agree that black is white. you funny

u won and u are still arguing..... NAwa oh...if u want me to beg u to allow this thing die. I beg u...no vex

helpforever:
I saw a post about a woman complaining that her sister married an impotent man. I smiled, the man probably knew he had an issue and still went ahead and married. I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual.

It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out.
Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast.

We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40.

I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left.

Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her.

We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth.

She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard.

Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money.

We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her.

At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life"

I got very scared and left for home immediately.

I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did.

Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot.

I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection

In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate.

Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started
masturbating right since I was 17.

He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition.

But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation.
Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them.

I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC

Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened

Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was flirting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurrences.

Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard.

Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again.

Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues.

Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause.

Is it spiritual, medical or psychological?

Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection?

Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain.

I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself.

I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't
subject any woman to emotional pain.

At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come on, transgenders are women who just have a joystick.

I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful

I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell.

I have been living in pains. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them.

I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this.

I hope my issue is resolved.

But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probably keep on masturbating and never get married.

It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows.

I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid.

truth is you are on a journey of permanent impotence. the more u masturbate the more the percentage of impotence increases... I am the only counselor that can help fix this issh for u. but u have a major role to play....let's say u are the actor n am the director. dantepet3000@gmail.com

MIKOLOWISKA:
why come to public forum if not to debate
if it's too hot get out
it's not by force
I never said your ideas were bad
I said they're not workable until we have better ppl inyou leadership

I went to Nigerian defence academy
and you can never know what is happening in next year until you get there so nobody cares about the quality of your father's farm until you compare it with other farms before you know if its good or bad.
but if you think all the grammar you spoke will solve problem
I'm here with my popcorn watching to see where the drone and soldiers will come out from
whether it's cowries you will use to fund it I will see
drone is good
more soldiers is good
where is the money
how will you pry it from stinking senators hands
Pls tell me
you haven't put horse you're arranging cart

I wish u never said u went to NDA...its clear u argue to win. if u call it debate. u have won....take care bro

MIKOLOWISKA:
you want truth or fake positive response
Oya Nigeria is the best country ever
has that solved the problem?


[qoute]
1. u can get a brand new chopper for about $200,000 the price could be less if it's gona be supplied in much quantity.
Pls send me link
cos choppers not cheap

[qoute] discount. bro u have no idea what other countries spend on security...
when they have publicly reported budget abi you think is Nigeria
it is you that don't know how broke naija is

[qoute]
people like u only respond to argue.
so it is you that is correct without proof
just cos you said it nobody should challenge you.
is it my fault you ppl always talking nonsense
we should just leave you to mislead ppl Ko?
[qoute]

with due respect do u know how much politicians children spend in Dubai....
how much
how many chudren
what have you done about it

[qoute]pls don't go there.
why not
what will you do if I go there
bury your head in the sand if you want
I refuse to

[qoute]
2. security is our major concern now

no it isn't
laziness is our biggest problem

[qoute]
so therefore we should make NTSC more yusful to the country n maintain same salary to them therefore keeping them busy
again I ask where will you get the money to Pay them
also facing death is not something you can force ppl. it will die on arrival. wetin even soldier no fit do na in you wan send alakowe, you funny

[qoute]. most of our corpers are busier in naijabet offices more than any other place.

their life
if you like security job
go apply form Rambo Mowu see d result
[qoute]
3. salary in Nigeria is a problem no doubt but wen u put your plan in order of priority,Alhaji there is no qualms.
Oga mi
now that politicians refuse to put priority in order nko

[qoute]
4.issue of drones that's why I said we have to be proactive. it takes a first step. it doesn't matter how long. its a journey n time to start is now.
OK
I think you de talk now now now now

[qoute]
5. its a fact that it is humans that would crest data base. our problems in Nigeria is linked to lack of data base n that is where our solution lies...
BROS our prolem is not data it's laziness

[qoute]
am sure u have seen nothing close to what I have seen or recovered dead bodies of friends like I have in jos.
our job is to make the dead bodies
pm stop thinking na your papa farm big pass
we wen de face Boko for part 3 years nko
wetin you Don see
you've just started

[qoute]u will not sit there in your comfort zone and just be negative...let's just see how this country gets better. thanks for your concern. it will only get better when you lot participate in politics and leadership not Nairaland criticism and grammar blowing

u only read to argue....if u know so much,ur responses are of a lazy inclination.... what is it in book haram u have seen that I have not seen in Jo's...bro abi babe don't go there....my papa farm may not be bigger but I know the quality of crops in it....I have lived and worked in borno plus I have traveled,schooled,worked n played in 33 states of this country so no amount of your argument will change fact....my reasons may be dumb to u but its a step towards the right direction. its not a memo nor a research project just pure opinion .as a bsc holder in sociology a MSC holder in peace n conflict resolution ibknow exactly what am saying but if it doesn't go down with u just because your own solution is better,I suggest u give me your own 7 ways that doesn't have a disadvantaged side.people will always complain no matter what n its why I understand your stand in the matter. I have also learnt from one or two of your replys coz am a learner n I enjoy growing. nice to meet u tho

helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

its easy bro. let's chart on dantepet3000@gmail.com...u will get results only if u are ready.thank Goodness u are still young. its not too late.

MIKOLOWISKA:


chopper costs about d billion times 774
2.1 trillion
out of 9 trillion budget
we never pay police salary o
think before you type



where's the bandwidth
how many satellites do you have
or you think drone will fly on 2g network

[qoute]
3. create data base for every Nigerian inoder for the government to know who be who.

is it not humans that will create it



4. triple the number of military and paramilitary by over 2000%.
you will pay them with cowries abi
it's sad that you will soon be in position of authority

[qoute]
5.integrate or change Nysc into military programs so that after tertiary institution by students, whomever will serve in the army should continue while those who don't want may find regular jobs.

salary ish
[qoute]
6. state police might come with disadvantages but human lives is more important so we need it.
salary who will pay them

[qoute]
7.be proactive rather than reactive. our government should take rural areas more serious and stop taking indomie and blanket to idp camps instead of averting the reason the idp camp is created in the first place... its so bad that normal people who aren't affected by violence just because of hunger, go to idp camp just to go and eat food and come back.
these people need homes not camps in their country for Christ sake.
a word is enof for the wise. there is no time.dreamer
the idp don't care about themselves
why should the politicians

thank u for your intelligent but not so positive minded response.
1. u can get a brand new chopper for about $200,000 the price could be less if it's gona be supplied in much quantity. discount. bro u have no idea what other countries spend on security...people like u only respond to argue. with due respect do u know how much politicians children spend in Dubai....pls don't go there.
2. security is our major concern now so therefore we should make NTSC more yusful to the country n maintain same salary to them therefore keeping them busy. most of our corpers are busier in naijabet offices more than any other place.
3. salary in Nigeria is a problem no doubt but wen u put your plan in order of priority,Alhaji there is no qualms.
4.issue of drones that's why I said we have to be proactive. it takes a first step. it doesn't matter how long. its a journey n time to start is now.
5. its a fact that it is humans that would crest data base. our problems in Nigeria is linked to lack of data base n that is where our solution lies...
am sure u have seen nothing close to what I have seen or recovered dead bodies of friends like I have in jos. u will not sit there in your comfort zone and just be negative...let's just see how this country gets better. thanks for your concern.

Bintabisiriyu:
What is this post doing in Romance section.

because of people like you ma!!!

Of all human rights,the right to life is the most important because without life,the rest of the rights are useless. this is my reason for suggesting ways through which the impending genocide in this country might be curbed.
they are as follow-
1. buy helicopters for all local governments round the country- this helicopters must fly round the local governments daily to ensure that their is no breach of law and order. pilots will be on shifts in order to ensure consistency.if we must protect lives an properties we spend money especially recovered loot to start this journey.
fueling and maintenance should not be a problem. Nigeria has the money.
2. hire drone experts to scatter drone s across targeted areas in order for investigation and follow up be easy.
3. create data base for every Nigerian inoder for the government to know who be who.
4. triple the number of military and paramilitary by over 2000%.
5.integrate or change Nysc into military programs so that after tertiary institution by students, whomever will serve in the army should continue while those who don't want may find regular jobs.
6. state police might come with disadvantages but human lives is more important so we need it.
7.be proactive rather than reactive. our government should take rural areas more serious and stop taking indomie and blanket to idp camps instead of averting the reason the idp camp is created in the first place... its so bad that normal people who aren't affected by violence just because of hunger, go to idp camp just to go and eat food and come back.
these people need homes not camps in their country for Christ sake.
a word is enof for the wise. there is no time.

of all human rights,the right to life is the most important because without life,the rest of the rights are useless. this is my reason for suggesting ways through which the impending genocide in this country might be curbed.
they are as follow-
1. buy helicopters for all local governments round the country- this helicopters must fly round the local governments daily to ensure that their is no breach of law and order. pilots will be on shifts in order to ensure consistency.if we must protect lives an properties we spend money especially recovered loot to start this journey.
fueling and maintenance should not be a problem. Nigeria has the money.
2. hire drone experts to scatter drone s across targeted areas in order for investigation and follow up be easy.
3. create data base for every Nigerian inoder for the government to know who be who.
4. triple the number of military and paramilitary by over 2000%.
5.integrate or change Nysc into military programs so that after tertiary institution by students, whomever will serve in the army should continue while those who don't want may find regular jobs.
6. state police might come with disadvantages but human lives is more important so we need it.
7.be proactive rather than reactive. our government should take rural areas more serious and stop taking indomie and blanket to idp camps instead of averting the reason the idp camp is created in the first place... its so bad that normal people who aren't affected by violence just because of hunger, go to idp camp just to go and eat food and come back.
these people need homes not camps in their country for Christ sake.
a word is enof for the wise. there is no time.

with the growing security concern in the country,I am not insinuating u get/buy a gun just go to YouTube and learn how to operate a weapon especially kalashnikov....its that simple

if u be womaniser. just find a general name n call all ur women so u don't repeat this treasonable offence again... use names like mamma, baby or sweetm

IamD18:
Zicoraads, I just don't want to believe that this writeup came from you. Even a demented and dimwitted slowpoke cannot stoop so low to scribble such rubbish.

>Relationship shouldn't be a financial means of a woman. It's should be relationship, not a job for a lady.

>The only set of ladies allowed to form class should be a lady who is rich and can afford her needs without depending on any man, which means classy ladies are not suppose to depend on men because they are rich and can fend for themselves.

Simply put: Hungry ladies who asks men for money in a bid to form classy are nothing but riffraffs and poor ladies.

Question is; Why should a poor lady live a level of life she can't maintain without depending on a man?

u go school my brother... ur parent spend thier money well. jabless

I have been an adent subscriber of race against time

in the olden days,demand by women was moderate but in recent times, modernism has increased the hunger and greed of the Nigerian woman. both old and young....my mums retirement monthly pension is twice higher than my salary but she still taxes me n my sibling just because na we turn to to take care if her....let me give u a clue as ti cure your problem.
first and foremost, u have been the cause of ur problem all these while. u have been the one spoiling these women n luring them with cash and by the time they get used to cash,u become second in the equation. money has taken over. therefore u have put yourself and the same miney you give to her in competition....
am sure u are just an average guy eho complement your looks and swagg with money and by so doing it tends to become part if u and also a way of life.
truth is mire than 95% of women u meet will be welcomed by this habbit of your. so the solution starts with u.
let me give u my little brothers fomulae to women that are fund of such demands.
1. before they complain. u start the complain
2. always let them know u are been owed salary for months but promise to give them wen it arrives even though u kniw u are jobbing them.
3.if u potray yourself as rich they will always deoend on u.
4. if u finally find the one u like to marry yiu have to be hinest with her about her bin independent. no hide am. if nashi,shevgo stay,if no beshi,allow her flee.
mire tips dey bro but manage this few I cant give u all for free.

this boy must be a head of state....and his dad Sabi call davido frog voice......nawa oh

the damage done is eternal. forget that 0.5 sec

tommyken:
Here is my email: tommyken6789@gmail.com

I tried sending you the email but it says that the email does not exist

OK send me ur email address rather. lets do it this way for odivacy concern. send me your email then I will send you my questions. then u answer them. then I will send back your result

I shall ask u 10 questions and if 7 is correct then I will give u answer to your problem. send your whatsapp num to dantepet3000@gmail.com. lets get started youngblood

its no doubt but a fact that there are countries facing a declining population and this is as a result of thier citizens not getting married in time or never at all. these particular countries have now resorted to allowing immigrants to replace the decline by encauraging the influx of peoples especially Africans.
now over to Nigeria we must have noticed that the rate of breakup and divorce keeps increasing. it is either the women are too demanding,the culture too demanding,no jobs etc to enable the two people settle down and have children to train.
in the core north the religion permits marrying upto four wives while I the rest part of the country,just to keep a relationship or marriage between twoo people is a big issue. this statement does not mean there is no divorce in the north but when there is one,a replacement is done immediately. we have also witnessed situation where government from the northern part of the country organise mass wedding/ marriage of over a hundred couples.... all the south east and west ever think of is baby mama syndrome and in the end polluting nigerias cultural/traditional history with bastards...
while the north keep bringing in kids whom at some point end up as almajiris, the importance of this writeup is that it helps in the increasing population of the country because at some point they know thier parents and have identity even though they are less privileged.
four couple I attended thier wedding in the last 1year have all ended the union and no children except for just one...
sex have become so easy these days that people get it so cheaply and care less about marrying first.
there are men and women who say marriage is not for everybody but this same people engage in sex where as both the Quran and Bible clearly states that fornication is a sin. so if marriage is not for everybody so is sex. so if you must engage in sex u must first if all get married.
this writeup is no way trying to discrimination or attack any group or people but rather a notice as to pin point certain issues left unattended.
illiterates seem to be smarter these days and our educational system is just a fraud....graduates just sit at home and browse all day. I recently questioned a 35 years old single lady who just finished her MSc but could not even define the core of her primary subject(sociology) . what a waste. this same lady isnt even thinking of marriage at her age but rather prefers to have a child and remain a single mum.
in the core north. women respect thier men to a reasonable extent therefore encauraging longer coexistence unlike in the rest part of the country,you cannot ask your wife to wake up at 1am to prepare food instead she will ask the husband to do it himself. also men dont know there olace anylonger especially in the area of provision of food,shelter and general upkeeo of the family. women are now the breadwinners and ladies and gents,this is sad....
inconclusion,permit my typo errors,my fingers are too big fir my cheap phone key pads and I am sorry if I have offended anyone. insult is allowed by the way,we are all here to learn....am out peeps....messss tight n shiiiit big

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illitrate:
I kept a pack of condom in my cupboard, a few had been used but I can't remember how many. I am very sure my girlfriend has counted it. I stupidly used from it again and I dont remember how many I used on two occasions. How do I replace them without been caught or what do I tell her?

How do I brainwash her to tell me how many she counted?

dispose all and tell her u want to go on a week fasting n u dont want the availability of condom to tempt u....

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

she made the best decision to have left you.... if you have the natural instinct of going spiritual what you should be concerned about now is how u left jesus not how nyash left you.

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I wish you were in my shoes, i have had all kind of girlfriends but she has got me hooked.[/quote
hmm bro sorry to break this news to you...truth is you have been sleeping with a high ranking jezebel...they are usually beautiful,clean pussy yes do u know why? u not the only one banging her...she keeps it clean for your other team mates...they always form excuses to avoid marriages...they love exotic things,good food,movies and nice sleeping time...plus they initiate sex more than thier prey....if all i have said is correct....u need the four strongest pastors in nigeria to deliver u from this legendary bondage....all the best

its no doubt but a fact that glo network had been the best network providers especially the data packages for sometime now but towards the end of 2017 i have witnessed a demonic decline in its general network provision. its not only sickening but negatively enigmatic.,especially in the northern part of nigeria like kaduna,plateau and bauchi... i just wonder what the job description of the zonal mangers are. the network this days is no different from nepa... they take the network at will and bring it back as they deem fit...i live in all the 3states i mentioned and the network is really repulsive....if this continues i will mobilize everyone i know for mass defection to mtn just like apc and pdp dey carry us play ball...thank you

who ask am to baff u? coz in my dictionary it contradicts consent... e don see everything already. plus he cannot baff u without touching the toucheablez....understand wah am saying....anyway...truth is some men cant penetrate and so they derive satisfaction by touching or rubbing....mamma that guy don squeez u die....sha Ja knows best