₦airaland Forum

Damson22:
But I heard that it was Yoruba ( oranmiyan) king that rule them.

Damson22:
Pls guys, is benin part of Yoruba land, because of the title "oba"

demolinka:
You mean say oba sef dey...you understand...?

Racoon:
The truth will continue to self expose.So Buba Galadima was an '"Abacha Boy"? While he continue to masquerade as democratic champion? I was deceived.

So after associating with Abacha & the sanctimonious "Abacha never stole a dime" crook they parted ways because he was not invited to dine on the table again?

So in whose name where all these foreign deposits done ? Abeg Abacha was a morbid kleptomanic.Dont justify nonsense.Politicians are all the same.

Bria234:
No job anywhere again oo... Na online they pay na.. invest in Bitcoin and also join Alliance in motion Global today and make cool cash

Kosiso12:
That one na Governor?

Ningen:
You call physical abuse & wrongful accusations techniques by AFRICAN MOTHERS to ostracize laziness??

Guy, don't try to normalize and generalize abuse with your toxic view against women. Just stfu.

BigJoe19:
Donate your mother as Covid-19 relieve fund, any woman that cannot believe her child is a nuisance to the society.

With your explanation your mum is single, she and your dad don't stay together anymore, I hope you have noticed that since your dad left your mum his life has been better, I advise you do same. A man that dwells with a toxic and bitter woman would never become great.

Find a group of trusted friends and stay with, hustle day and night, make your family proud.

Good luck.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

panmunium:
I repeat girls have nothing sensible to offer..

kollinz1234:
My brother,u didn't grow up in a difficult environment, Ajebo runs through your veins. If to say u be PAKO wey no de see chicken chop, to kill all those things go be your work every Christmas, Easther etc

Yustash001:
Why is that when some women suddenly become richer than their husband...
They start to develop wings..

lalasticlala:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/medicalxpress.com/news/2020-05-clusters-emerge-virus.amp

abbatoir:
Only in different form..even so called house wife is not exemption


If you know.. you know..

gbemishile:
I think am about to fall into the same trap
I know in my heart that if u should knack the girl penren,I don enter am be that.i never knack her she don dey ask for so many big things I should get for her I tried to propose knacking,but she said she is an advocate if no sex before marriage.na so me sef lock up.she still wants to come around,but I know in my heart that if I should succeed in convincing her to have sex with me,then am done for in terms of way too much expenses.

tbaby4u:
See frustration o���
Pls, go n hustle hard ok. When it's time, d right woman will contribute her own little quota but do not expect her to shoulder much because it's not her responsibility. She is not a man. She can only help u a little, she is not your mugu

Nairalandmonika:
Shut up jor, u are not even making sense

Derrinclay:
Well good luck ,you only mentioned what you do for her and not what she does for you especially in the night.some men eh,we also need the side of her story

Bola146:
See the mumu people are talking about

Ejiod:
But you agree with me statistically this is what’s going on in this era especially Nigeria

adeowo84:
That's how I meta girl on Instagram last week monday, she will be the one to chat me early morning...my church mind kuku informed me where the thing dey go...fast forward to last week Friday(5 days o),got a massage that I should assist her with 5k, I block her straight up.

emusmithyy:
You are not intelligent.

Myer:
Apparently you never planned to marry her.

Ejiod:
Nigerian women. Run from them. 98% of them are parasites. Out of 10 ladies hardly can you see just 2 that will be independent. 80% of them advertising their body through WhatsApp and Facebook. They always see you as ATM to cash out.Guys be careful of these gals. Very hard seeing decent gals these days. Any girl that demands money from you because she’s your girlfriend is an ADVANCED OLOSHO!!!
I won’t blame them sha. It’s the economy

pansophist:
Finally a simp has rescued himself, kudos

My barber sef broke up with his naija babe three weeks ago, and is currently dating a German/Egyptian chick, the babe fine finish scatter. Surprisingly, she love this guy to the core (he is her hairdresser) even after my guy was still drunk under the illusion of not wanting to date outside his race, and not taking her serious for eight months. It was after the naija babe called police for him because of a tiny argument, that broke the camels back, and he jilted her immediately.

I cant for the life of me understand men that put their gf under monthly expense, like seriously, you de mad ? Where does this impression comes from? I'll rather be called a greedy slowpoke than a mugu/maga. My money, my choice. The only woman worthy of your money should be your mother, wife and your sisters, not girlfriends. Of course I'm not discounting the periodical little expenses thats not killing to the pocket, but not big bills.

Also, dont prove Your love by being a big spender, but prove your love by being a valuable man. Davido will easily pick up a chick even if he didn't spend on her a month, because his value speaks for himself, not the money he spends. Women know this, and the average man will never understand the mathematics and calculations that goes in a womans head when you ask her out. Infact the female are biologically equipped with the instinct to determine with precise accuracy if you're a quality man, and that determine if they will unleash their parasitic tendency on you, at least that the only value that man can offer. The more quality of a dude you are, the less spending you have to make. Just as the more stronger and big muscles you have, the less likely you'll go into fight because people are shit scared of you.

Also, when you put up with a woman's leech, deep down, she will see you as low, because she knows that your money is your only route to women, which you dont even have anyway, hence your complains. Baba leave women and go and be a stronger and better man, and na them go de rush you.

Walkingkilo:
Brudda, you've said it all.
very apt and succintly put.
May wisdom never depart from your cerebral cortex.